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Chapter 1333 The tenderness in this life comes here first
The media also gave a lot of high praise.

""I Love You" shows the true meaning of love, the most immature is goodbye at dawn, and the brightest is each other at dusk!

It turns out that the happiness of the elderly is also so simple.After Jun Feng called his children home when his wife was seriously ill, he said to his wife, "You gave birth to them with pain in your stomach. Are there really many of them? Wife, you have worked hard." The expression on his face and the care he takes for his wife are really touching. Such old love is worthy of praise and reflection.

When the children grow up, they all form their own families and then leave the home that raised them, slowly ignoring the warmth of their parents.Because he loves his wife, he sees the impatience of his children, and he becomes less courageous, too small to stay in this world alone to face long-term loneliness, so he chooses to end the lives of the two, and they will meet again in the next life .

I love you, it's not so difficult to say three words, but it's that simple to truly love you.If you are tired, I will help you pat your shoulders; if you are sick, I will take care of you; if you are gone, I will see you in the next life. "—"Movie Weekly"

"There is no sentence "I love you" in the whole film, but it tells the whole of love. Their love is not lost in the regret of being married, but in the boredom of getting married. I still understand that love is not a moment Impulse is not a feeling, it is a process, a responsibility, and the weight of a lifetime is on it. Even if it has thousands of shapes, it will be nothing more than a sentence of "I love you" when it comes to death. At that time, we will not The love for each other should be weakened because the end of life is approaching, but it should be used as a reminder that time is limited, and we should cherish each other even more, even if the beauty is fleeting and the hair is turning into snow." - "Southern Weekend"

And the headline on the front page of Penguin Entertainment's movie section is the review of "I Love You".

"Song Weiyi, who is used to collecting tatters at night, has no identity and no children, and lives alone. Her soul flickering like a candle dare not long to be "loved". He and the old man Jin Wanzhe are both lonely people. After suffering all kinds of hardships, they came to the second half of life, but in the not so good years, the two began to be greedy for this secular relationship. And our younger generation watched them begin at the end of life with tears in our eyes The love of each other seems to have seen the reality, "together with each other".

The old man Jin said: People say that everything that passes by can be fate.

This is a love story in which two couples of nearly 80-year-olds show their romantic and sad, plain and touching evening love through the way of giving and receiving love.In the movie, the old milkman Jin Wanxi and the old woman Song Shi who collect the rags meet each other on the same uphill road every day in the early hours of the morning.Gradually, the old man fell in love with this lonely and nameless old woman.But this love came too late. Living alone, they have not yet attached enough to be loved, and it seems that their life is about to be over.

Jin Wanzhe, who has been stubborn for most of his life, failed to treat his living wife tenderly, lacked respect for love, and left a big guilt in his heart for the rest of his life.And in the dark, he always meets Song, as if it is his wife looking back, Jin seems to believe in fate, he will surprise her like a young man buying a hairpin for a girl, and take her to dinner like a date, showing off Song Shi gave him a pair of gloves, and he always looks forward to seeing Song Shi before the time agreed with each other. Maybe he is repenting for what he has done, or it may be that he still has the ability to love in the second half of his life.And I choose to believe the latter without hesitation.

These every move seem ordinary but extravagant for the rest of their lives.If you love someone, you dare not ask the length of the years. I am afraid that if you ask, you will dislike that the time you have been with you in this life is not long enough.Later, he named the Song family, "Song Weiyi". "The only one", the old man interpreted it as: Song is his only one.So even the name became the lovesickness of the old man Jin for the rest of his life.

Facing illness and death is something that every generation of aging people has fully realized.But their ability to love will never be lost because of life and death. I think it's like in the movie: Song Weiyi is uneducated, nameless, old and poor, but hard-spoken and soft-hearted old man Jin, who has been expressing love in the way she is familiar with In order to express his intentions to Song Weiyi, he used painting instead of writing.When Song Weiyi approached him, he began to enjoy "love" like a child.

Compared with Jin Song, Zhang Junfeng's wife's name does not appear in the film. I have thought about it before, is there any deep meaning?Now that I think about it, it is true.

Because she actually represents a group, the Alzheimer's group!
Before the lonely Song met Jin, he was humbled into the dust, and never thought about when the flowers would bloom.

But another pair of lovers, Zhang Junfeng, the parking lot manager, has been guarding his wife with dementia, but in the end his wife was terminally ill and in constant pain.Zhang Junfeng's heart feels like a knife is being twisted. Seeing you hurt, my whole heart is about to break.He chose to light the coals in his room, and wait for the dawn to end their lives.

But this pair of people who should not be alone, they raised children, and the children moved away from home one after another when they grew up, and started their own lives. They all vowed, "I will come back to see us often in the future", and they People in middle age still ask for their parents' savings and fail to fulfill their obligation of support. This big family still looks silent and desolate in the end.Sure enough, the movie is not only expressing love at dusk, it also wants our younger generation to see our own shadow through the love of our parents.

Therefore, Zhang Junfeng's wife does not have a name in the film, because she may represent a group.

Parents go, life is only home.I read a lot of people's comments on this film, and found that the purpose of making everyone cry is to be "forgotten", which is reflected in the dementia wife: although she loves her husband, she often recognizes the wrong husband, slips out accidentally and forgets the way home , But I clearly remember the memories of going home with my husband, holding a windmill and drawing a whole starry sky on the wall.

I remember the background at home, remember to take off your shoes when you enter the door. It is said that old children, old children, but I did not expect that people always use the way of illness to return to innocence.Loneliness, staying together, and illness are all the status quo that Twilight Love has to face. The lovers have finished their life and are greedy for the next life.Zhang Junfeng said that he has been cowardly in front of his wife all his life, he is a coward, he is afraid to leave him alone in this world, this movie captures the greatest weakness of human nature - love.We grow in love and we leave in love.

When we are 70 years old and recall what love will look like, I think it may be that I am gray-haired, wrinkled, and the two of us can't chase each other, and then stop and go, and make do with it for a lifetime.

After 10 minutes of the film, I couldn't stop crying. The old man Jin Wanzhe was also recalling the love, the milk that his wife hadn't had time to drink, but he poured milk on his wife's grave, hoping that he would use the tenderness of the rest of his life to get her forgiveness.Song Weiyi had an unfortunate marriage, and since then she lost her son and was unmarried. She is also a coward, and she will be afraid of suffering from love even if she is alone for most of her life.

Zhang Junfeng’s love in the yellow marriage, told his wife not to pee his pants, not to sneak to strange places, carry his lost wife home, hold his wife’s hand and ask her, “Old woman, will you still be with me in the next life? "

For a gentle life, they have no time to continue, and they have no time to share the stories about each other's first half of life. For them, these regrets: this life is enough.At the end of the movie, the distant place is outlined in the form of a dream. Lao Jin rides a motorcycle and carries his only child across the wheat field, over the valley, to the sky, and secretly goes to heaven under the stars.

As the saying goes: Young couples stay together when they grow old.This film is dedicated to all parents in the world. Our generation spends very little time with their parents. Regarding the love of parents, these two elderly couples spent the rest of their lives explaining that love is not a whim, not a passion , It's bravery, it's responsibility, it's spending most of the life, and it's holding each other's hands tightly when dying.The so-called fate just means that you and him have been looking at each other's backs in this life and in this life, drifting away, but he uses time to tell you: some love, needless to say. "——Penguin Entertainment (Movie Version)
There are many people who like this movie, but they like it for different reasons.

However, there is one thing in common, that is, it is all because of being moved.

Some people may think it is too sensational, but this is an excessive request.

If you click to the end, some people will say that it is not touching at all.

This is the movie!It has never been difficult to say.

No matter how good a movie is, it is never possible to have zero negative reviews.

The so-called zero bad review is only relative.

However, a good movie can often spark discussions and topics.

"I Love You" is certainly the case.

Some netizens wrote: ""I Love You" is a very special film, if you say it is realistic, in fact, many places and details in the film are not so real.

There have always been very few characters in the film, which is obviously not real enough.

Of course, perhaps because of this, the story of this film has become extraordinarily clear, and there are not so many complicated and trivial things in life.

At the same time, it makes people feel real, because the structure of the story is very small, it is the love story of four ordinary old people, and their daily life;

The scenes described are also very small, so small that there are only a few sparse streets, and a few corners of aggrieved rooms;
At first glance, you may feel that the circle of life is too narrow?But looking back on our reality, our parents, grandparents, when they reach that age, their circle is actually very small, very narrow, or very lonely.

In fact, the storytelling method of the film is also very small, as small as a pair of leather gloves, as small as a date sheet with a picture as a letter.

But it is this kind of smallness that makes me feel the truth, and makes my eyes turn red from crying, just because the warmth they gave me through this movie is enough to support me through any lonely cold, but still believe in the power of love.

This is a story about the twilight love of the elderly, but it happens to be a story for us.

There are two love stories told in the film, one is ongoing and the other is present perfect.

However, the stories of these two elderly couples depict the love ideal of all young people: "hold the hand of the son, and grow old together with the son". "

In fact, as the netizen above said, this is a love story about the elderly, but it is also a story about people from the past.

Because everyone gets old!
There are many inexplicably tearful lines in the movie, such as what Song Weiyi said when he saw Zhang Junfeng staggering away with his wife on his back. "I want to grow old like this too!"

Some netizens wrote: "When you get married, you swear that no matter whether you are rich or poor, regardless of health or disease, no matter whether life is good or bad, when the other party needs you most, will you never leave and never leave forever?
All the newlyweds at the time answered yes!

But how many people can really do it?

In this way, the story of Zhang Junfeng and his wife is so moving, because he did it!

The so-called no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, is it not the case for a husband or wife?

Because at that time, she forgot the road she walked together and the promise she made together with the sea she saw together, and she would become like a child of 5 or 6 years old.It is so difficult not to button up buttons, not to eat, and even to go to the bathroom.

There is a happy family portrait with a smile on the table.

At that time, we were not too old, and the children were completely innocent.The little girl is still snuggling in her arms and acting like a baby, saying that she will never leave us for the rest of her life.

At that time, you on the other side laughed so hard that you almost lost your eyes.

Actually, why don't we understand?
Why don't we understand how long a lifetime is?
After all, the children moved out of our small hut one by one with various reasons that were not the same but generally had the same reason.

The dining hall, which has always been crowded, is now empty and lonely.

It may be that people are more likely to be lonely when they are old.

You gradually become unable to remember and do nothing, just scribbling on the wall with crayons foolishly.I think it's okay if you can't remember.

When you were young, you suffered too much and had too many troubles and felt too much guilt for you.Now you forget everything, but you still remember me.

Then, let's spend the rest of our lives clinging to each other.
Honey, I'm really a coward.Without you, I'm afraid I won't be able to live.

You leaned on my back and opened your arms to embrace the smiling face of the cherry blossoms like a spring breeze. I can still see it when I close my eyes.Until now, I can't imagine that one day you will not be here.

I'm really sorry that I didn't treat you well when I was young.

So, old woman, the tenderness in this life comes here first, and we will see you in the next life.

I don't know why, but suddenly it's easy to be substituted into the role of Zhang Junfeng. In fact, I have always felt that there is no tragedy in this film. It is really a very complete and beautiful story.

The reason why I was moved to tears was not because of sadness, but because it was love!

Zhang Junfeng and his wife fulfilled their vows when they got married. Old man Jin and old lady Song, but that was another beautiful fantasy. "

(End of this chapter)