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"Pounding Heart" has a high evaluation in the circle of film critics, and many film critics have given it a high evaluation.

However, the results of Dianying were not so ideal.

Of course, this also has a lot to do with the style of this movie. It is a literary and fresh movie. This kind of movie does not mean that there is no market, but it is definitely not as explosive as those popcorn movie blockbusters.

The explosive power is definitely not as good as those movies.

However, what's interesting is that the evaluation of "Pounding Heart" on the online film review website in North America is quite high.

Although it is not exaggerated to the point of being hailed as a classic, the overall rating exceeds 8.5 points, which still shows some problems.

Good word of mouth may not bring good box office, but good word of mouth still has a strong influence.

Especially those online self-media film critics who have certain influence on social platforms, such as Lonnie, such as Stephen Lee.

Because they specialize in interpreting videos of some niche-themed movies, most of their fans are also lovers of movies with this theme, so don't look at their influence as if they are not as good as those popular Internet celebrity film critics, but they What film reviews can affect is the potential audience for such films.

Lonnie gave "Thumping Heart" a high rating.

According to his words, that is: "Pounding Heart" is a treasure movie, which is worth watching many times.

This is a movie under the banner of love, which expresses many true meanings of life in a simple way, and uses the bright thread of emotion to penetrate many aspects of growth and life.

"This is a treasure movie that you will think about after watching the movie once, and then go to some film critics and some interpretations, and then you can't help but go back and want to watch it again.

The story of the movie "Pounding Heartbeat" is actually very simple, or in other words, it is a story about the budding love of children of an age group that is rarely mentioned.

The film tells the story of the little girl Julie and the little boy Bryce meeting and growing up. This story, at first glance, is not so attractive, and even makes people feel a bit stereotyped, even bloody!

The first time Julie met Bryce when she was a child, she fell in love with him because of his star-like eyes. She thought that Bryce had the same affection for her, but she didn't act because of shyness. ", she made a lot of efforts, and the boy's "shyness" was just because of disgust and avoidance, until the boy's grandfather guided him, the boy began to discover the preciousness of the girl, and gradually fell in love with the story of the girl.

Judging from the context of such a story, does it feel like this is it?Don't worry, the reason why treasures are treasures is that people need to dig them.

The film takes a new approach to explain the common experience from the first perspective of girls and boys, and intuitively expounds the inner thoughts of two people going through this series of growth. And intriguing.

The same thing, viewed from different angles, the result is completely different. After I went back, I tried it. I asked different parties about the same thing. The result is like in the movie. Everyone has their own ideas and their own ideas. Therefore, the same thing is often viewed by different people and different perspectives, and the result will definitely exceed your expectations.

This is a very interesting movie, why do you say that?

If you think it's just a romance movie, then maybe you have a reason to dislike such movies, but what I want to say is that the reason this movie is interesting is that it's not just about love.

I like it very much, and I am very envious of the family education method of the girls in the film.

The girl has always liked the boy since she saw him as a child, but the boy has always been tired of avoiding her.When she begged the boy to help her protect the fig tree from being cut down, the boy turned around and got on the school bus and left. The fig tree was finally cut down, which made the girl very sad.One day, my father was painting in the courtyard, chatting with the girl, and told her that the whole is greater than the parts. She began to understand his father's words slowly, and began to examine whether the boy's whole is greater than the superposition of the parts.

The father's way of talking may be the ideal parent and ideal friend that every child dreams of: equal, relaxed, without preaching and judgment, fully respecting the girl's feelings, and guiding in a way that the child accepts.

This is absolutely admirable in the United States where the relationship between father and son is generally bad.

Believe that every girl might want a father like that, right?He may not be so rich, or not so powerful, but he is wise enough!
I remember that conversation deeply.

Father asked: How about others?
Julie: What?
Father: You have to look at the whole thing.

Julie: What does overall mean?
Father: A painting is not just the superposition of various components. The cow itself is just a cow. The meadow is just grass and flowers. The sun shining through the trees is just a ray of light. But put these things together, you will Make magic.

The beauty of a painting comes from all the elements that make up the painting. Whether the individual elements are brilliant or not does not determine the beauty of the whole painting. It depends on the comprehensive expressiveness of the overall composition.

My father's words "you have to look at the whole" gave me a lot of inspiration and thinking: first of all, know people!
When we were in adolescence, or when we were younger, we naturally judged people by their appearance.

Most people will not have such a father to teach you how to know people.

A beautiful appearance or talent is only one dimension of a person. If you want to know what kind of person the other person is, you also need to look at the various dimensions that make up this person: such as character, character, three views, self, behavior, thinking and cognition, Mental maturity, etc., can be combined to objectively see what kind of person the other party is.At the same time, it is also impossible to define a person simply by good or bad. There is no absolute good person or absolute bad person.The basic disk of human nature is the dynamic change of the confrontation between good and evil. The so-called "good people" are good people who have the upper hand, and the so-called "bad people" are evil people who have the upper hand.

Not only knowing people, the father is actually teaching his daughter how to do things.

The underlying problem with his words is: Is it necessary to pursue the perfection of details?
One thing, the details are perfect, the whole is not good, it is difficult to work; the whole is good, the details are flawed, and it works normally.This detail itself only accounts for 10% of the whole, even with 200% effort, its effect is at most 10%.Human energy is limited, and it is difficult to cover everything. If you pursue the perfection of details too much, not only will it be difficult to achieve, but you may miss 80% of the key decision!

The boy is also lucky. Although he has a very annoying father, he also has a wise grandfather. The boy's grandfather was the first to discover the girl's bravery, kindness and independence. Said to him, "Some people are as beautiful as gold and jade, but sometimes, you will meet a person who is as gorgeous as a rainbow. When you meet this person, you will feel extremely happy."

When I saw this scene, I was deeply hit by the words of my grandfather. It made me reflect on whether I missed some people because of their appearance in the past years. It also reminded me of some people. They may not have a gorgeous appearance. , but has an interesting and beautiful, intelligent, assertive, and rainbow-like soul, which makes my eyes light up when I think of them at this end of time.

I think, for this sentence, many people will think of some people, some people who may even stay in life for a short time, but they will definitely make you remember deeply!
The outside is very deceptive, it may be a false appearance or it may be the truth.The inner is the absolute truth to express the outer Vientiane.When we were young, we were often attracted by beautiful things, no matter whether it was real or not or not so good in itself, we learned the inner preciousness through experience, and began to learn to look through the outside to see the real inside.

Whether it is making friends or meeting people, if you let go of the outside at the beginning, will you be able to see the essence of a person better, and objectively judge whether this person is worth dating.

For example, Bryce's good friend Gary, friends, many times, are more convincing to you than parents and elders.

Bryce often asks him about things that he doesn't understand. I believe that many of us have friends like Gary in our lives.

Maybe you have also experienced a breakup in the same way, often not because of what he said, or any changes in your behavior. What really changes may be that you start to know how to think.

And what we hear most often, and happen most often: Pride and Prejudice!
At first I only saw prejudice, but when I read it again, I realized that arrogance existed from the very beginning!
The beginning of the movie, Bryce's father, has always been full of arrogance.

He didn't like Julie, even if it was the first time he saw her, even if she looked so cute at that time, but he just didn't like her, and the disgust was hidden under the fake smile.

Bryce had reasons to dislike it, but as an adult, he had no reason to treat a seven-year-old girl with arrogance, and the girl was his neighbor.

With arrogance, there is naturally prejudice, which is a twin.

The boy's father easily made all kinds of conclusions and prejudices against the girl's family without knowing the facts. This is very unfair and respectful to the person involved, and it also makes him narrower.

For example, in the movie: the father of the boy looked at the father of the girl who was painting and said, "This bricklayer thinks he is a painter, isn't your truck ugly enough? Do you want to draw another uglier one?" "Listen to me , if he tidies up their garden, the world will be more beautiful." As the movie unfolds, I learn about the situation of the girl's home, and find that these are the prejudices of the male lead's father, because of these prejudices, the boy's father will Quarantine up.

So how can we look at people and things objectively?The behavior of the boy’s grandfather in the movie is a good reference.

One night the boy's father and grandfather had an unpleasant dispute over the girl's father's insistence on sending the mentally handicapped brother to a nursing home.After the boy and grandpa went for a walk, the boy asked grandpa.

Boy: What will they do to me if I am disabled?
Grandpa: Bryce who can't assume what didn't happen?
Boy: Dad just said that, I think he's going to throw me in a mental hospital.

Grandpa: No, no, that's not fair, you can't blame him for something he didn't do.

Really, what a blessing it is to have a wise elder by your side who guides you all the time, keeps you objective, and walks the right path!
In many cases, things are not a plane, but a cube with 6 sides, and each side is the thing itself. Only when you see one side and understand the other 5 sides, do you know that it is a cube.If you let your mind's imagination easily make conclusions without fully understanding it, you will have all kinds of prejudices that deviate from the truth. Prejudice not only isolates the truth, but also isolates yourself from others, just like the father in the movie , indifferent and selfish.

Imagining what might happen in his head is not equal to the fact. Bryce inferred what his father said to him, and believed that this inference would become a fact in that situation. Personal opinion itself has a strong subjective Sexuality and limitations, there are too many influencing factors, causing people to have different psychology and take different actions in different scenarios.The truth is the objectiveness that has already happened. Using one's own wishes to speculate on others is unfair to others and deviates from objectivity, and it will cause unnecessary misunderstandings and hurt each other's feelings.

Quarrels, parents' quarrels, can be seen everywhere in America.

I believe that the vast majority of people have seen their parents quarrel, of course there may be exceptions.

During dinner with the girl’s family, because the boy said her yard was too messy and raising chickens was unhygienic, she proposed to tidy up the yard, and the parents had a quarrel because of their differences of opinion.After the quarrel, father and mother went to the girl separately, told her it was not her fault, apologized to her respectively, father explained to him why he did this, and mother said that he loved his father very much because he loved his strength and strength. Kind.She sympathizes with her parents and feels lucky to have such parents.

Before watching the movie, I thought that quarreling between parents would damage the family and parent-child relationship, but in reality, quarrels and conflicts are inevitable in every family.After watching the movie, I found that what really damages the parent-child relationship is not the parents' quarrel itself, but how the parents deal with it after the quarrel and how they explain it to their children.

If the quarrel is not handled properly, it will not only bring a great shadow to the child, but also make it easy for the child to think that it is his own fault that caused the quarrel between the parents, and bear huge psychological pressure and fear.If the parents in the movie directly tell the girl that it is not her fault after the quarrel, and comfort her and tell the parents to love each other, it will not only resolve the quarrel, but also enhance the child's understanding of the parents.

In fact, everyone may understand the truth, but when it comes to actually doing it, how many people can be like Julie's parents?

At least as a father, I feel very ashamed. The movie has ended, and my heart is full of joy and inspiration. I want to take my daughter to watch this movie. Watching such a movie is definitely a thing for parents. right thing! "