tearjerker director

"This is a narrative song, which is what we often say, a song that sings a story, but the difference is that this time it is about my father and his whole life.

It can be seen that the part of the song that begins in [-] is actually the content of the diary written by my father.

From the first section, I explained the family background in this story and the time when the story happened, the summer of [-]!

At this time point, I believe there will be more resonance for many post-[-]s and post-[-]s generations.

Because people who have lived in that era understand that in [-], when the reform was still in its early stages, even a working family in the city at that time had a monthly salary of only [-] to [-] yuan.

What's more, a rural family whose crops have not been harvested is almost bound to be in financial difficulties.

In other words, at that time, this kind of situation was actually common in rural families. At that time, the cultural life was still very poor, there were few movie theaters, and TV sets were even more luxuries, so open-air movies can be said to be a rare and important entertainment. item up.

I believe that those born in the [-]s and [-]s all had memories of watching outdoor movies when they were young. It is worth mentioning that to watch outdoor movies, you must occupy a seat early, otherwise, you will have to watch a "mirror" movie on the opposite side of the screen.However, the father who has been busy all day has no time to spare, there is still work at home!
What live?Repair the pedal of the sewing machine.At that time, sewing machines, radios, bicycles, and watches were the four major pieces of marriage at that time, also known as three turns and one ring.Why do you repair it yourself? One is because the service industry is underdeveloped, and the other is to save money by doing it yourself.If you don’t watch the movie, just tinker with the pedals of the sewing machine.

Therefore, this first short paragraph is full of the breath of life. The traditional Chinese rural families where the men farm and the women weave, the trivial things, such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea may already occupy the whole of life.

There is a vague picture in my mind, the father is sitting there holding the sleeping daughter, the mother is doing needlework, chatting with the father, the pedal of the sewing machine is broken, and I have time to repair it.

Many people who have not experienced that era will not understand the child crying for biscuits mentioned in the lyrics.

In that era of material poverty, biscuits were a kind of "luxury" for many children. How much was the price of biscuits at that time? In my impression, it was 7 cents a tael, and there were twelve or three.

But for rural families who can only dig in the soil, not to mention seven cents, even one cent is hard for a hero!
So I pulled my face and decided to borrow some more money.A "again" shows that borrowing money is not an accidental event, but a regular behavior.

It is said that girls need to be rich, but the father is so helpless and blames himself, squatting by the pond, burrowing into his heart in pain, and punching himself twice.I hate myself for being incompetent, and I don't even have money to buy some snacks for my children.

The embarrassment of the father who wants to satisfy the little wish of the child but is helpless, and the deep fatherly love under the pressure of livelihood, just like this, pulls a soft string in people's hearts, and can't help feeling sorry for the parents at that time.

My father is getting old in a trivial life, and ten years have passed in a blink of an eye. In [-], it has been a few years since the re-opening, but my father is still harvesting crops on this land, and has not gone to work in the city, and has not changed. Life.

...

Father's old mother passed away.

Through the tear-stained paper in the lens, it is the tears of a son who lost his mother.

The old ones are gone, and the young ones have grown up.

My daughter went to school, and she wore a ponytail, which was a popular hairstyle at the time. It was easy to manage, and it was quickly tied with a rubber band.If the family conditions are good, girls who love beauty can also use fancy headbands or bows.

It's hard for you to guess what a girl thinks, and dad is no exception.

Seeing that my daughter is a bit lonely, did something happen at school?Also lost a lot of weight, lose weight?In love?Will it affect learning?I can't stop worrying!

Well, a daughter is the father's greatest pride. Of course, he doesn't worry about marrying, because she is so beautiful, and he will definitely find a man who loves her. Even at that time, the father is already old, and is as dull, dull, and useless as old paper money.

In fact, which father would be willing to let his daughter marry?The caring little padded jacket I used to love, the daughter who used to ride on her father's neck and laugh loudly, she no longer belongs to her father, but has a more important partner in life, every parent hopes to be able to accompany their children For a lifetime, time is ruthless. When a daughter gets married, it means that her parents are old.

When the age comes, I hope my daughter can find a good home, but at the same time I don't want my daughter to marry off too early. This kind of conflicting psychology fills every father's heart.

The marriage of a son and a daughter are both great events, the moment that parents long to see, but when that day comes, no matter whether it is a son or a daughter, they are no longer just their sons and daughters, and they are already someone else's husband wife.

They have their own small family, and they have someone they care about more. The once stalwart figure suddenly becomes awkward the moment you turn around.

No matter how strong a father is, at that moment, it is as if he has been sucked out of that breath, but a father is always a father, no matter how much pain and discomfort there is in his heart, he does not want his daughter to see it, maybe this is the only thing a father can do. What can be done is to leave a forever stalwart figure for her daughter.

My father's whole life was like this, ordinary and mediocre, like all living beings, who worked hard to manage the family and worked hard all their lives.

In the short film, the father fell ill. Perhaps at that time, the daughter suddenly realized that the stalwart father, the omnipotent father in the daughter's heart, the superhuman father, was already old!

Father, he is old, old, as old as old newspapers, full of yellowing and brittle staleness.

The father who was able to carry a weight of several tens of kilograms on his shoulders and ride a big horse, now he can't even walk, he can't even speak, his hair has changed since White, the wrinkles on his face are getting deeper and deeper.

Finally, the father, who was always unwilling to show his weak side in front of his daughter, showed his most helpless side in front of his daughter.

However, even if it is old, it is still full of ink, silently recording father's past events.

Those simple and unpretentious words are the father's life, and the emotions between the lines are the father's deep love for his daughter.

Father's love is always belated, when that kind of belated love comes, it will overwhelm our hearts, we will burst into tears, we will burst into tears, we will fall into silence, we will recall the past, we will To torture ourselves, we will never be able to say that sorry to our old father, but we have said it countless times in our hearts.

While there is still a chance, take a good look at your father and spend time with him! "