The Northern Stories of Chef Lao Tan

Chapter 101 Love and Marriage
If he hadn't heard Zhang Li say that Hu Jing and Wang Gang had an affair, Lao Tan had a good impression of Hu Jing, otherwise he wouldn't have told Mr. Xu to bring her out.But after knowing this, I felt a little awkward.

If others are okay, pretend they didn't see it, and pretend they don't know.But Zhou Xiaomei can't do it, she has been doing it with herself, and she is still a relative, so she can't pass the test in her heart.

Of course, he was aware of Hu Jing's situation. Leaving aside the messy affair between her and Wang Gang, he still sympathized with this woman alone.

Many times, a man and a woman chatting together start with the weather.

"Chengdu is hotter than our provincial capital, and people here still wear half-sleeves." Hu Jing said.

"Well, it's more than ten degrees hotter than the provincial capital." Old Tan said.

"Sister Zhang told me to wear half-sleeves when I came here. I still didn't believe it, so I wore two half-sleeves."

Old Tan smiled and lit a cigarette.

"Master Tan's children only go to school?" Hu Jing asked.

"En." Old Tan nodded.

"You are getting married late."

"Marriage at thirty is late."

"Your sister-in-law is in logistics?"

"Well, cold chain logistics."

"That's pretty busy, too."

"It's not too busy, it's about the same as me."

"Who cares about that child?"

"Mostly your sister-in-law takes care of it, but I --- people in our line of work can't take care of children. There's nothing I can do."

Speaking of these two people, they were silent for a while, and they couldn't help looking across the road.

After a while Hu Jing said: "I admire your Master Tan."

Old Tan turned his head and glanced at her, and said, "It's all the same if you admire her."

"I really admire you, you are doing business every day." Hu Jing said sincerely.

Old Tan laughed, and said, "Look, whoever has nothing to do, everyone has something to do, don't you also have--something to do?"

Lao Tan paused because he couldn't help but think of the relationship between Hu Jing and Wang Gang, and Hu Jing also thought of it,
"I'm far behind you." Hu Jing smiled, then put away her smile and asked, "Did Master Tan hear about me and Wang Gang?"

"A little bit." Old Tan didn't deny it.

"——That's not the case——" Hu Jing said calmly.

Lao Tan said: "That's the best. People will do a few ridiculous things in this life, especially in terms of relationships. It is inevitable. But an extramarital affair is a double-edged sword. It hurts not only yourself, but also the other party, as well as the families of both parties. .

If the marriage cannot be maintained, divorce is possible, but it is better to avoid extramarital affairs.It is normal to have several pink and blue faces in a lifetime, how can a person have no friends?But don't touch feelings, don't go too far, once you touch it, you will lose not only your personality, but also your dignity. "

"Don't worry, Master Tan, he won't have any relationship with Wang Gang anymore, that kind of relationship." Hu Jing said.

"It's good to be friends and colleagues. It's not awkward, it's natural."

"That's the thing."

"People who are dedicated to work generally cannot run a family well. This is a defect. Family is a responsibility and responsibility, which needs to be understood and tolerated. Home is a warm place, not a place where anyone pays much, nor is it reasonable.

The old men work hard outside, but when they come home, they want to be cared for tenderly and considerately.A man is just like a child, who is like a child when he is outside, but he is honest when he comes home, and his wife forgets everything when she is gentle and energetic. Only the wife is the best in the world, and no other woman can do it.

If you don't take your husband seriously, that husband can run faster than anyone else.Let me tell you, 90.00% of men cheat because they are oppressed to the extreme at home.If you don't get tenderness and attention, you can only look outside.If you don't believe me, take a look, many men are not as beautiful as their wives, and they are not as capable as their wives. Why do they still look for them?Because he can regain the dignity of a man there and get the warmth of home. "

Hu Jing listened, and felt that what Old Tan said made sense.But when I think of my home and my husband, my heart is still full of hatred.

"I hate him." Hu Jing said.

"Hate is right. If there is talent in the heart, who will hate? If there is no hatred in the heart, who will go? Living in this world is a practice, and marriage and family account for the most. You can't avoid it, you have to face it. If you hate too much, you will suffer and torture yourself. It's also me. People often can't think of changing because of hatred, and the further they go, the deeper they get trapped, and finally suffer.

People's unhappiness is not because the other party has done something wrong, but because they have blocked happiness.It's not that people who look away are magnanimous, but that magnanimity makes people look away.It's all like this, one's own advantages are liked and accepted by the other party, and often because of too many demands and self-righteousness, one loses oneself from the other party's world.

What you want is also what the other party wants. If you don’t give it to him, you won’t get it, and if he doesn’t give it to you, you won’t get it.People all make this mistake, always thinking about themselves and ignoring the other person.When you wake up, the other party has already got what you need elsewhere, and the marriage will be lost.Everything is lost by oneself, there are no such emotional robbers in the world--"

Lao Tan stopped talking and couldn't help sighing when he thought of his marriage.

As the night deepened, a car passed by on the road for half a day, and quickly disappeared from sight——
The world is still that world, not exaggerated, what is exaggerated is the human heart.The marital ethics we abide by still exist in this world, it just becomes easy to lose.

The fast-paced life has brought pressure to people, worrying about trifles makes people upset, so people are impetuous, their resistance to temptation is reduced, or they hope to be seduced, so there are so many extramarital affairs and divorces, and there are Many single parent families.

People are all looking for happiness, and any good shelf life can be extended forever under the joint maintenance of each other, and if one person cheats and cheats, it will expire prematurely.

Love is the most beautiful emotion of human beings, and marriage is the fortress of love.

We pursue the heartbeat of love, but try to escape in the fortress.

People, if you can't see yourself and reality clearly, you will always be a loser.

The next day I inspected all the hot pot restaurants, Lao Tan was not interested in hot pot, so in the afternoon he and Huang Yuhang went for a walk around Kuanzhai Alley.During the trip, I bought a puppet for my son, a Shu brocade for Lin Yan, and souvenirs for Zhang Li and Wang Gang.

On the morning of the third day, I went to Pixian County on the outskirts of Chengdu. I visited the Pixian County Douban Factory. After returning, I had a meal at Chengdu Impression. In the afternoon, I went to the Wukuaishi raw material market.

Huang Yuhang has been following Lao Tan for the past two days, and Lao Tan also likes this young man very much.The young man asked if he didn't understand, and Lao Tan was willing to answer.People are like this, they have the characteristics of being a good teacher, when others ask themselves, they will tell them what they know without reservation, and they will repeat it repeatedly because they are afraid that what they say is not clear and others will not understand.

A person who has never been taught will never be able to teach others. Only when he understands himself can he be qualified to teach others.

"Master Tan, is your Sichuan cuisine selling well?" Huang Yuhang asked.

"It's okay, I don't have many Sichuan dishes, just a few dishes, mainly farm dishes." Old Tan said.

"I've never been to your house, so I'll have a meal at your house when I go back," Huang Yuhang said.

"A warm welcome."

"Call me when you go, let's go together." Cao Tao who had been following him interrupted.

Many bosses and managers did not participate in the raw material inspection in the afternoon, and all the chefs came.It is obvious that Cao Tao can follow the purpose, he wants to be with Huang Yuhang.

Lao Tan looked at the two of them smiling and felt that it is good to be young. They have come together only three or four days after they came out. I don't know if they can go far.

Teacher Wu, who led the team, came to Lao Tan and the three of them with a smile. First, they chatted for a few words, and then talked about business, and asked Lao Tan to share as a representative at the farewell party in the evening.

"Let's find someone else, what will I share?" Old Tan declined.

"Let me share with you the work point system management in your family." Mr. Wu said.

"No, that's a trick in class, it's not shameful enough." Old Tan said.

"Okay, it's you."

Teacher Wu and Lao Tan are old acquaintances, so it's okay if they can't do it.

Lao Tan suddenly had an idea and asked, "You don't have any plans to visit the provincial capital?"

"There are also, mainly because your provincial food and beverage association is not very supportive. I have contacted and said that there are no special restaurants, and the restaurants are unwilling to accept them." Teacher Wu said helplessly.

"You can go to the provincial capital to inspect the farmyard. In the Northeast, the farmhouse in the provincial capital is famous and unique. It is a bright spot. I guess the southerners are willing to learn. Besides, our inspections can't be all in the south. We also take care of the north." Old Tan said.

"I really have this plan. I will go to the north to inspect the spring when the wild vegetables come out." Mr. Wu said.

"I told you that it is best to go to the provincial capital, and I also made suggestions to your leaders. Our Kanto family is the biggest highlight, and we guarantee that the people who call the inspection will return with a full load." Old Tan said.

"Okay." Teacher Wu nodded and was about to leave. Before leaving, he told Lao Tan not to forget the sharing session tonight.

After Mr. Wu left, Lao Tan stood on the spot and thought for a while, and felt that he could use this opportunity to promote the catering in the provincial capital, so that catering people across the country could have a preliminary understanding of the Northeast Restaurant, and to organize a visit to the provincial capital for Oriental Cuisine. a foreshadowing.

(End of this chapter)