The Northern Stories of Chef Lao Tan

Chapter 127 Yaru's Life

As the saying goes, if you drink too much, you will lose money when you play money.

When two people drink together, even if they are wine and meat friends, their relationship will get better the more they drink.

In fact, you might as well think about it, many friends start with wine and meat.Usually, the two get to know each other first and then drink together.If you speculate at the wine table, you will inevitably drink a few more times in the future, and then become friends.

The scope of friends is very wide. They say who they know, they are friends, but in fact, they have drank and talked together, and there is no deep friendship.This is friendship in the ordinary sense, and sometimes it doesn't count at all.

After drinking a few times, we have a good impression of each other, and we have done business, so we are friends.There are many such friends, and we also live in such a circle of friends.Of course, it’s not that you can’t make friends if you don’t drink, it’s just that you can make friends better if you drink.

A true friend doesn't need to drink, even if they drink, they don't talk loudly, but sit quietly together, when you raise a glass, he also raises a glass, drinking slowly with you.

When you encounter difficulties, you don’t need to talk too much, and you will be behind you when you look back. It’s all right. This is a true friend for a lifetime.

Drinking can deepen the relationship between friends, but playing with money is different.

In the game of gambling, it is often because a penny is good friends can break the face, otherwise it is said that there is no father and son in the casino.Even father and son are like this, what are friends?

Good friends don't play money together.

How many people have lost their lives and lost their wives because of playing with the money family.

Gambling is the foundation of bereavement.

Especially for those who work outside, one game of cards may lose the entire month's salary.It's okay to be single, if one person is full, the whole family will not be hungry, at worst, he will not smoke or drink for a month, and he will work honestly and pretend to be a person.

What if you have a wife and children?What does the child's wife eat and drink?spend what?Do you drink northwest wind?

People, you can't go to the casino to try your luck, and luck doesn't come that way.If there is luck in the casino, no one will open the casino. Where can I make money?Is it okay to open a welfare home?And get a good name.

When does a person have to know their last name and name, and eat a few bowls of dry rice.Money is hard earned, not from gambling.

At any time, you have to walk down-to-earth, you can't drift, let alone think of shortcuts to get sideways, and do nothing.

"I'll talk to the boss, but you have to promise not to cheat with money in the future." Li Shuang said.

"I don't even dare to kill him," Xiao Gao said.

"Boss hates playing with money the most."

"I know, didn't I change it?"

"Well, I have performed well for more than a year and deserve praise."

"Hey, then when you go home--"

"Hmph, Xiao Mian, you're exhausted!"

The couple went home lovingly talking and laughing.

We live in an ordinary world and live ordinary days day after day. Today is the continuation of yesterday, and tomorrow is the repetition of today.After a long time, I feel flat and nothing.In the long river of time, there is nothing exciting except for increasing age. I just hope to see, or look forward to the vigorous and soul-shaking songs and tears.

However, we are just ordinary people, running around for life every day, food, rice, oil and salt are the symphony of life, and dressing and eating are the normal needs of life.

Watching the ups and downs of the plot in the TV series, the protagonist weeps with sadness or joy, sometimes a harem drama can get tangled up to the finale, and I feel a lot of emotion.

But our life, our days, those stumbling successes and failures in life, those joys, sorrows, joys and sorrows in life, we hardly have time to savor them carefully.

And the life of an ordinary person can better reflect the whole life.

It is precisely because of these that we live happily, work hard, and feel satisfied while working hard.

Life itself is wealth.

Don't say how bad the day is, no matter how bad it is, you don't want to end it, because there is value in life that only you can understand.

When life makes people have longing and love, they will be delighted to find that all the efforts and efforts are worthwhile.The harvest has far exceeded expectations, and this is the goal of a living person.

Yaru went home after the Chinese New Year and visited her parents and son.The main thing is to look at my son. I have never been separated from my son for such a long time. Besides missing him, I still have concerns in my heart.

All mothers, especially divorced women, feel guilty about their children in their hearts.

The son is her flesh and blood, and also the lifeblood of her grandparents.

When she got divorced, she thought about it, she couldn't bear her son, and her parents-in-law couldn't bear her grandson even more.The two old men have given up on their unworthy son, and even don't care about it.But he couldn't let go of the only grandson. If the grandson followed his mother, it would undoubtedly kill the old couple.

The mother-in-law said with tears in her eyes to keep the child. The old couple are in good health and can support their grandson, at least until they graduate from college.When the grandson is an adult after graduating from university, he can go to his mother or do something else, but don't take it away now.

The father-in-law didn't speak, his eyes were red, and he couldn't bear to part with his grandson.

They don't want to part with it, but are they willing to be mothers?

The child has been with him since he was a child, and he hasn't left for a day. Leaving now is like taking a knife to gouge out the flesh on his body.

The son is reluctant to part with his mother, and also his grandparents.

15 years old children have to make life choices in their teenage years. This choice is a bit cruel, but it has to be done.

Sensible children choose grandparents.

Knowing that it will be difficult for my mother to live with myself after divorce, I don't want to add burden to my dear mother.

Follow your grandparents, and you can also meet your mother.

When mother and child are connected, mother is mother, and it will never be changed in a lifetime.
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The son is excellent and everything is fine.

And grew taller and looked like a grown-up.

As if the divorce of the parents made the child mature suddenly, Yaru felt a sense of protection and security in front of her son, which was unprecedented before.

His son's academic performance is very good, and he is among the best in the class.It's time to go to high school in the next year, and my son said that he will study hard in high school and will definitely be admitted to university.When she graduates from university and has a job, she will be taken over, and she will not be asked to work again to earn money to support her mother.

Seeing his son was happy, he was relieved to hear his words, his eyes were warm, full of tears of relief and excitement.

sensible child.

When I got home, my mother said that if I met a suitable one, I would find another one, and I couldn't live alone.Father didn't say anything, but he could see that he meant the same thing as mother.

She understands her parents' feelings.No matter how old they are, they are still children in front of their parents. They love, care about and care about children as much as themselves.If you don't raise children, you don't know the kindness of your parents. There are no parents in the world who don't worry about their children. Human nature is also family affection.

If one day I can't do it outside, the only ones who can stay by my side are my parents.Even if they use a flatbed car, they will pull themselves back home. Mom says don’t be afraid of the child, there is a mother; father says don’t be afraid of the child, there is a father——
It's not that Yaru didn't think about finding another one, it's just that he was strangled to death as soon as the idea came up.

It's not that I don't want to, but I don't think about it now.

15 years of widow-like marriage made her lose confidence in family life, and she didn't even have any concept.I have been living with my son for 15 years. The husband is just a pronoun, and it is just a family in the eyes of outsiders.

Now that I am divorced, I just no longer live with my beloved son, and nothing else has changed.

15 years of marriage life without emotion has made her no desire for marriage and family, and a peaceful life is what she needs at this stage.

What this kind woman is thinking about now is to live like this first, to calm herself down, and even have a kind of relief after relief.

Those who have watched the first part should know that Yaru is a kind, intelligent and virtuous girl.At that time, she was young, and her cognition of love was hazy, and she didn't dare to make a decision for her own feelings. She was a very obedient and obedient girl.

The memory of love in her life seems to only stay in love with Lao Tan.

Looking back on the past, we can't help feeling sorry for her love with Lao Tan.For the two of them, it was the first time in their lives. Often the first time is the most authentic, purest and most beautiful, and also the deepest memory.

Let's just say she was young and uninspired.She loves Lao Tan in her heart, but dare not resist the marriage arranged by her family.From childhood to adulthood, everything was arranged by parents, and the marriage obeyed.

Yes, she was barely in love with the man who later called her husband.Like many rural girls who were arranged by their parents to go on a blind date at that time, they took a look at the man and thought it was okay, and then after a simple conversation with a blushing heartbeat, they told the matchmaker that they had no objections, and the marriage was settled in the joy of both families. .

The rest is programmatic.

Get along for a period of time, during the holidays, the man will pay a courtesy visit to the woman's house, and then the woman will go to the man's house to say hello.

The happy ones are the parents of both families. The parties involved have sweetness in their hearts, but they haven't had much contact with each other and don't know each other deeply.In this kind of longing for love and longing for the future, on a certain Huangchen auspicious day, a couple walked into the marriage hall with the blessings of their relatives. It seemed that they became their daughter-in-law before they had time to prepare.

Love is just a short conversation between each other when they go to each other's home and the warmth of the man on the way to send the girl home. Although it was very open at that time, Yaru, who had a strict family education, dared not do anything out of the ordinary. The object's greatest intimacy is just holding hands, without hugging.

Therefore, I don't know much about that man. Apart from his appearance and family background, he doesn't even know his personality and hobbies very well.

In the mid-to-late 90s, many marriages in rural areas were like this. The so-called love is engagement, and love is something after marriage.Of course, there are also bold and open-minded people who pursue their love, but they are still a minority.

Yaru got married step by step, and she also had the sweetness of a new marriage, but it only lasted for half a year.Half a year later, the husband started to go out to play money. Because Yaru had a trouble, the husband just stopped for a while, and then the old illness relapsed and remained the same.

Yaru filed for divorce while she was pregnant. First, the two elderly people intervened, saying that the divorce was a disgrace, because such a trivial matter could not justify divorce, and they shed two tears in a long sigh.Then relatives and friends came to persuade her with good words and bombarded her one after another, as if divorce was not Yaju's business, but everyone's business, so think twice before acting.

I didn't wait to leave, I was exhausted and lost confidence.

The child was born and became a real family of three.Because of the child, the husband has been stable for more than half a year and has become a competent father and husband.Later, I was transferred to work in other places, and I went home every half a month, so I had the space not to be restrained, and I started playing with money again.

Not only for money, but also for women.

(End of this chapter)