The Northern Stories of Chef Lao Tan

Chapter 571 Because You Can't
Lao Tan heard some meaning from the conversation between the two, but he didn't point it out, he just looked at them with a smile.

This is where something goes wrong.He knew Erdun's age. He was 36 this year, but Zhao Min was at most 23 or [-] this year. The gap between the two was at least ten years old, which seemed impossible.

But soon he denied his opinion, and felt that if the two of them were sincere, age should not be a problem, the real problem was the difference in ethnicity.He has been in Inner Mongolia for these years, and he has seen Han men marrying Mongolian wives, but he seems to have never seen a Mongolian man marrying Han wives.

Erdun and Zhao Min didn't stay long and went back soon.

After the two left, Lao Tan took a shower, and Yaru called when he was about to go to bed.Yaru had nothing else to do when she called, just to ask if Lao Tan arrived, whether Zhao Min cleaned up the house, whether the windows were opened to let the smell out of the house, whether the sheets were washed, whether the slippers were brushed, etc.

Old Tan answered one by one.

"Turn on the air conditioner, it's cold in Suzhou during this solar term," Yaru said.

"Well, it's opened, and the room is quite warm." Old Tan said.

"Close the windows when you sleep, so you don't catch cold."

"Ah."

"I ate at Yingzi's house today, and I just came back not long ago."

"Really? You two get along very well."

"Of course." Yaru said, "I didn't expect you to have a younger sister. Why didn't I hear you mention it before?"

"There's nothing to say about that." Old Tan said.

"Old Tan, Wang Hong is your older sister, and Yingzi is your younger sister. You are quite feminine."

"I also have a manliness. The brothers in the kitchen are all friendly with me, and they all ask my boss to know. Wherever I go, I always drink with my brothers first. You don't know." Old Tan said.

"Okay, I won't tell you, I can't tell you." Yaru yawned, and then said: "I'm going to sleep, drink less alcohol there, remember to take medicine, don't fall behind."

As soon as Lao Tan put down the phone, it rang again. This time it was the sister-in-law of the eldest brother's house in the beautiful valley west courtyard.Old Tan's heart sank when he saw the number, and a bad premonition arose spontaneously.

The fact is indeed the case - the eldest brother is gone.

The eldest brother left three days ago, and he walked very quietly, as if he was relieved.

The sister-in-law over there had already hung up the phone, and Lao Tan still held the phone, dazed in a daze.The face of the eldest brother appeared in front of him naturally, which reminded him of many past events——
In our life-long drama, Brother Xiyuan may just be a passer-by, but he is undoubtedly a good person and left a deep impression on us.We hope that there will be no sickness and good people will be happy in heaven.

The death of the eldest brother really touched Lao Tan, and he couldn't help but think a lot.

His first thought was that if he hadn’t met an old Chinese doctor in Beijing, he would have received the same treatment as his elder brother—resection surgery, followed by radiotherapy and chemotherapy.I am in the early stage, not as serious as my elder brother, but my recovery will not be as fast as it is now, and there is a possibility of relapse.

If you do that, you will embark on a long road to fight cancer. On this road, you may die at any time, your life will end, and your life will come to an end.

Fortunately, I met an old Chinese doctor. Under the treatment of his superb medical skills, the cancer was eliminated, and life continued, just like rebirth.

So now when I hear about the death of others, or when I think about the threat of death that I have faced in the past two years, although I feel lingering fear, I have another understanding of life - I can't live up to it and live every day well.

In the past, he was afraid of death, and when he thought of death, he felt ashamed, as if it could happen at any time.

But at the moment when the old Chinese doctor said that the cancer cells had completely disappeared, and the cancer was cured, he was suddenly not afraid.This is not to say that the cancer is cured and I have confidence in my heart, and I can brag about it, but that I am really not afraid.

How to put it, in the final analysis, it is a mentality problem.

First of all, knowing that life is fragile and can be lost at any time, and then being reborn like a phoenix from Nirvana, this is a great thing for everyone, and they will have a new understanding and perception of life.

Lao Tan's perception is not only to live well for the rest of his life after the catastrophe, but also to respect and live purely and fulfillingly, and to be a good person.

People only have one life in this world, how to live is very important.Everyone wants to live a good life, healthy and happy, but everything they do is selfish and immoral, and it is difficult to think well.

Although it will be a lifetime no matter what, someone must carry it after death, so why don't you even have a person to carry it when you die?Climb up the mountain by yourself?

So it is said that people must set their consciences straight while they are alive, don't be guilty.Help others if you have the ability to help others, but don't ask good or bad things about doing good deeds, that's the way to go.

Some people live their whole lives without understanding this, so no one cares about it when they leave, and they forget it after a few days.

Something needs to be done.

Old Tan thought about it, and said to himself: Now that the illness is cured, it is equivalent to rebirth as a human being, so live well, do as much as possible, and don't waste your life.

He thought of agreeing to Boss Zhang's training, and he seemed to be very suitable for training, and he liked it.Standing on the podium to give lectures feels very beautiful, not to show off as a teacher, but to share the experience with a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.

Just starting with the training, this is also saving people, a piece of merit.

The next day, Lao Tan didn't leave the house all day and locked himself in the room to organize the courseware.

He classified the previous courseware into several parts.They are professional skills, management and operation, planning and marketing, pre-employment

Training and training and gratitude education.

In the process of sorting out, I recalled my own training process. At first, it was because I couldn’t afford to hire professional lecturers to train the employees, and I couldn’t catch the ducks on the shelves and go into battle by myself.

At that time, there was no computer screen projection and no courseware. I just wrote and talked on the blackboard, just like a teacher giving a lecture.Fortunately, all the employees who listened to it were their own employees. No one would pick a bad speech, and they gave encouraging applause.

Later, I got a computer, had a screen projection, and learned how to make courseware, and the training became lively, and everyone loved it.

Later, with the accumulation of experience, I learned situational teaching, and the training became more vivid, with practical and practical significance, and this tended to be perfected.

He knows what his training looks like.No higher education, very little vocabulary, mostly vernacular and truth.Sometimes I rack my brains for an adjective and have to say a lot more.

But he knows what kind of people he is facing, knows the cultural level of these people, knows how to talk to them, and how to talk to them so that they love to listen. This is the most important thing.

If you really talk like those highly educated and knowledgeable lecturers, you may fall asleep with these employees who are only junior high school level.

Tell them not to drag words, don't show off, and don't feel that you are a lecturer training.Instead, they are chatting, chatting about family affairs, and talking about how to live and live.

You can tell them how to do things instead of how to work hard, you can talk about loyalty but not rules, you can talk about filial piety but less loyalty, you can talk about diligence and thrift but not financial management, you can talk about benevolence but not justice, etc. Wait.

All in all, there is one thing to say, everything I said was done first by myself, and it was recognized by everyone, and I gave it a thumbs up. Otherwise, they will say that you are not as good as me. In that vernacular, what? This sentence is enough.

In fact, this is the same as ordinary people’s life. They all like to listen to the words of virtuous and prestige people and believe them to be true. However, people who are nothing themselves will not listen to the sky even if they tell the truth, because you are not good at human beings.

(End of this chapter)