Poor family mother and son

Chapter 16 Teach

After dinner, Mr. Xie's old wife specially invited Chu Qingguo to visit him in the backyard.

This can be regarded as a very formal invitation.

Mr. Xie lived in the school with his old husband and wife, and only a little book boy was by his side, which was the role of passing a message and passing a letter.

The two sons are not material for studying, and they are not obsessed with taking exams. Instead, they choose to work in their hometown with great self-knowledge. If you want to be rich and rich, you will be content with a well-off life.

Mr. Xie is a person who loves education and is willing to be with the school and the children. As long as he is not in need of retirement, he will always be a teacher.

A few years ago, I taught in a government school, but I didn't like the atmosphere there, so I resigned directly.

Because he was acquainted with Village Chief Wu, he stayed here to teach.Although Shuxiu is incomparable with the government school, the people here are relatively simple, and the children are innocent and innocent, without the bad atmosphere of crooked ways.

Mr. Xie went home and told his old wife Chuqing's suggestion about letting students participate in collective labor today. He is reasonable and generous, unlike those women in the village who are coy when asked to talk about something serious.

Mr. Xie really wanted to dig out his clear thoughts, but the old wife said that it would be better to invite him to his house as a guest.

That's how Chu Qing came to be a guest.

This was Chu Qing's first visit to this world, and he felt fresh.

He led Xiaobao into the door, and greeted Mr. Xie and Mrs. Xie.Although Xiao Bao didn't speak, he should bow and bow, it was very polite.

When he was seated, Xiao Bao didn't let Chu Qing hug him, but climbed onto the chair next to him to do it without Chu Qing's help.

Mr. Xie asked how Chu Qing thought of collective labor, but Chu Qing couldn't tell the truth, so she said:
"I saw that every household has to cultivate the land. Those with a large population are in full swing, and those with a small population are working together. Every household is a small group. The children in our school are also a small group because of the existence of the school. .Small collectives work together, isn’t it collective labor.”

Mr. Xie nodded again and again and said, "Today you still mentioned teaching and educating people. Do you think the content of educating people in books is not enough?"

This question cannot be answered casually.The books are all the wisdom of the sages, who dares to say that they are not wise enough.

Only when you think about it can you say it.

Chu Qing sorted out her thoughts, and said:

"No, sir, that's what I think. These days I'm copying "Thousand Characters", and there are sentences about educating people, such as 'Take the training from the outside, and enter the ceremony of the mother. The aunts, uncles, and children Bill, brothers Kong Huai, like-minded. Make friends, score points, and sharpen the rules.' These few sentences have taught the code of conduct for disciples, children, brothers, and friends. This is educating people. "

Chu Qing picked out some easy-to-speak parts, and tried to think about how to explain clearly.

"But the norms say, how to do this? Brother Kong Huai, how to be conceited? The communication between people is two-way. If one party does not do things properly, how should the other party be conceived? The children are still young, I think we should Make these learnings concrete." Chu Qing didn't know if he made it clear.

"Concrete? What does this mean?" Mr. Xie was a little puzzled.

"It's just a single example. The sages and sages have left us precious principles of life, but when it comes to everything, how to think and how to do it can be taught to children."

"For example, if Little Treasure does something good, I'll say that Little Treasure is awesome," Chu Qing took Little Treasure as an example.

"Xiaobao may be happy once or twice, but after a long time, he will not care. But if I clearly tell Xiaobao how good this thing is, how good it is, and how proud I am, then over time, Xiaobao will be happy. I will take this matter as the standard, and gradually do better and better. When I encounter problems, I will analyze how to do it well.”

"Similarly, if Xiaobao does something wrong, if I say he is disobedient, this is very general, because he will not know why he should be obedient, and what will be the result of disobedience. If I can tell him about it, you If you make a mistake, what is wrong, what will be the result, and how the world will look at this matter, then over time, Xiaobao will have a thoughtful mind in his actions in the future, and will not be reckless."

Making analogies and giving examples is the most annoying thing, it is easy to be suspected of being a teacher, but when Mr. Xie asks a question, Chu Qing has to answer it. "It's just a little woman's narrow thinking, it's not appropriate." Chu Qing quickly retracted the words.

Mrs. Xie listened carefully and earnestly.At this time, she looked at Xiaobao and asked, "Xiaobao, has your mother always taught you this way?"

Chu Qing was a little nervous.It's only been a few days since I became Xiaobao's mother, and besides, Xiaobao didn't say that he recognized his mother.

Xiaobao nodded seriously.Mrs. Xie smiled: "Well, it can be seen that Xiaobao has always been well-behaved and polite, and he is a well-educated and good boy."

Chu Qing secretly breathed a sigh of relief.Xiaobao, it's interesting to give you 100 likes!
Mr. Xie also agreed at this time: "It makes sense. Only by analyzing specific cases in detail can students understand why."

"That's right, 'receive the training from outside, and serve the mother'. School and family education are inseparable. It should be 'co-education between home and school'. Even if the family education is biased or insufficient, the husband can correct and help in time. Only by making up for it can we better cultivate talents.”

"Family-school co-education, good, very good!" Mr. Xie praised: "Miss Yuan, you made a very good suggestion!"

Sir, I really didn't mention it. Parents' associations in elementary schools are full of these things now. If I have a chance, I will take you to observe them.Chu Qing thought to herself.

Xiao Bao stared at Chu Qing with bright eyes.

"Sir, it's absurd." Hurry up and be humble.

"Miss Yuan, what do you think the students should learn in the school besides collective labor? Well... let's be more specific." Mr. Xie learned and applied it flexibly.

"Sir, you're flattering me." Chu Qing made a disturbed look, "I'm a little woman, how can I understand these things?"

"Don't worry," Mrs. Xie reached out and patted Chu Qing's hand, and said kindly:

"Your idea is very good. The old man often told me that the students' knowledge is uneven, and it is not difficult to teach. The difficulty is that some children have bad tempers, lack of vision, and it is difficult to teach them no matter how smart they are. We often Discuss these."

The old lady asked Chu Qing to put down her guard and open up the conversation.

Chu Qing is not a pretentious person, but she can't help it. The "family-school co-education" just now means bald mouth.

It can’t be said according to the parent meeting in elementary school, it will make people feel “not my race”.Danger!

Then let's talk about it.

"I think that the scientific examination has not stopped even though we have been fighting for years. This shows that His Majesty the Emperor has a long-term vision and believes that the cultivation of talents should not be delayed. Our villages are doing well. No matter how hard it is, we must cultivate scholars. No matter how poor you are, you can’t have poor education.”

Emma is going bald again.

"I mean, the children in the school must have learned the idea of ​​being loyal to the monarch and patriotism. Then we can teach them how to be loyal to the monarch and patriotism in concrete terms. The big ones can't do it, but the small ones can always do it. For example, pay attention to whether any suspicious people enter the In the village, for example, how to prevent strangers from being fooled, such as what not to do, such as encountering danger..." Chu Qing gave an example.

"Regarding loyalty to the emperor and patriotism, what kind of things do you think students can't do, they are still children?" Mr. Xie asked to be more specific.

"Well, we are a border town, very close to the East Lun Kingdom. When the two countries are at war, spies from various countries must investigate each other," Chu Qing thought of people like Bai Hua.

"Then it is possible to detect the children. Do you have enough to eat, how many people are in your family, where is your village, do you know who is so and so, where can you take me... etc. Wait, isn't this a place where information can be leaked." Chu Qing gave another example.

"If you can't deal with people, then you can always do it by not talking to strangers. You can always do it by not running around and making your family worry." Chu Qing took a breath.

Thinking of Meng Dalai, he ran away after being hit by the ruler, and he didn't know whether he would go home or not. The time for a half-grown child is the most extreme and self-righteous.

Don't meet bad guys!Chu Qing was distracted.

Mr. Xie was contemplating, thinking clearly about what he just said.Indeed, if you live in a border town, you may not be able to encounter any kind of things.If family members and villagers are affected because of ignorance, it is really...

Mrs. Xie poured tea for Chu Qing, and the sound of pouring brought Chu Qing back to her senses.I quickly got up to thank you.

Mrs. Xie said earnestly: "Miss Yuan, what you said just now taught me a lot. In raising children, in addition to feeding them and clothing them, you also need to teach them how to behave. Children are young, You can’t do anything for the court, but you must manage yourself so that you don’t cause any trouble to the court and don’t bring disasters to your family, so you must educate yourself well.”

"Yeah, I don't understand the big truth. I just thought of it from the words of the villagers. You see, some women will ask other people's children, have you eaten? If you haven't eaten, come to your aunt's house to eat. If the child says After eating, I asked again, what does your family eat? If the child answered, the woman could turn around and tell others, look at that so-and-so family, they eat what they eat, how rich they are! "

Chu knew that this was completely nonsense, she had never wandered around the village listening to other people's chatting.

"The grown-ups can tell the words of the children, but the bad guys can't tell the good people? Can't we get some useful information out of the mouths of ordinary people? If something goes wrong, it will bring trouble to the family." Chu Qing made a contact.

"In the school, we can tell the students about the current situation." This is what Chu Qing wants to know, "tell the students who we are fighting against, how close our homeland is to the flames of war, what we should do and what we should not do." Whatever you do, the students can also pass on what the teacher said to their families, so that all villages can also strengthen their awareness of prevention." Chu Qing said again.

At this moment, Mr. Xie raised his head and said solemnly: "The old man has been taught."Chu Qing was so frightened that she hurriedly stood up and dared not dare.

This is just pure chatting, what do you think of and talk about, what are you doing so seriously?
"I didn't expect Miss Yuan to be so far-sighted. I will think carefully about what you said today. Knowledge cannot be limited to the words in books. Knowing how to look at problems and how to behave correctly is also knowledge."

This Mr. Xie is really a good teacher who loves his post and works hard!

After saying goodbye to Mr. Xie and Mrs. Xie, Chu Qing and Xiao Bao went back to their utility room.

Counting with his fingers, there are still two days until the school holiday, Chu Qing plans to take Xiaobao to the city to buy some daily necessities that day.There is a shortage of everything now, but I can't buy too many things. The utility room is only so big, and there is no place to store too many things.

Buy some clothes that are multi-purpose, economical and affordable.It is best to buy some books to read.

No Internet, no computer, no mobile phone, just read a book.

(End of this chapter)