Dream back to the beginning, you are fine

One week of school spring break, exactly two months into her pregnancy, the family has been wondering for a long time about whether Xu Changqing's baby will be "double sticks" and finally revealed the answer.

"Grandpa, please reassure the family. It is confirmed that you are pregnant with a child today." When Shen Weimin reported to Cheng Lao on the phone, he still couldn't hold back his laughter.

Compared with twins, it was already very difficult to conceive one child, let alone having two at once, he must have wanted his wife to have a lighter burden, but the result was gratifying.

"That's good. Is your appetite okay? Do you want to eat something that you can't buy there in your hometown, so you don't have to come back to raise her with peace of mind, just send it to you."

"No, no, it's always troublesome." Xu Changqing took over the words, "I'm similar to Huai Yi this time, I have a good appetite, I can eat everything, and I'm not picky."

"Mom is the best!"

The primary school's father raised his thumb, seeing that his mother had already spoken, he could speak, he first praised his mother and then called his great grandfather good afternoon.

"Hey, my great-grandfather heard it. We are the best one by one, we are so good. It's a new semester. How is your performance in school this semester?"

This sentence can make his family's heart itch, his family is not happy to hear people say that he goes to kindergarten, that he goes to school and is always happy!

"Very well, the teachers and classmates like me. I will continue to study hard, and I will be admitted to the best university when I turn back. Grandpa, let me tell you a secret.

I'm an elder brother now, if I don't set a good example for my younger siblings, I will definitely not listen to my elder brother when they come out, and it's useless to beat them. "

Hearing the voice of Cheng Lao laughing happily on the other end of the phone from the phone with the hands-free button pressed, Xiaoyi covered her mouth and winked at her parents.

Xu Changqing: "..." Are you just a little kid?He's not even five years old yet, where did he get this unscrupulous little look, he looks more and more like your father.

Shen Weimin couldn't hold it back after all, just imitated his family one by one covering his mouth with his right hand and still burst out laughing.His precious son, why is he so cute!

"Yes, I didn't go back during the Chinese New Year. It seems that I won't be able to go back during the summer vacation. My uncle and aunt will understand the desire to accompany my mother, but the old uncle will go back to China during the summer vacation."

Listen, our son's tone of voice and expression are exactly the same as yours again!Shen Weimin tried his best to hold back his laughter and continued to listen to his family talking nonsense with the old man one by one.

"Really? That's great!" Xiao Yi applauded, "Then when grandpa and grandma will bring my uncle and aunt to the capital, how about living in Beichizi?"

Xu Changqing and Shen Weimin looked at each other, and Shen Weimin patted his son's chubby legs lightly, "Let Dad talk to Grandpa first. Grandpa, is it true?"

"It's still steaming, it's not coaxing, it's because your father is afraid that you and your wife will find out and take the children back to celebrate the New Year, saying that it's not a big thing, so he didn't inform you.

At present, the approval has already been passed, and even the filing letter has been sent, and relevant procedures such as settlement are being processed. The specific situation will be discussed after your father moves to the capital and settles down.

There is also the issue of housing. The logistics department of the unit will definitely arrange a residence for your father in advance.Don't mess around, your father just transferred to Beijing to work, it's not suitable to be too showy. "

The corner of Shen Weimin's mouth twitched, his brain was flooded again, how could he not know this. "Understood, act in a high-profile manner and behave in a low-key manner, we definitely don't do things that are too public.

Just one thing, Changqing graduated in June this year, and I will next year, so next year at the latest, my family of four will definitely return to Beijing by the end of next year, the house in Beichizi is too small.

So that set of three-entry courtyard house, I have asked Brother Heping to help take it back this year.I just heard that the inside is in a mess, and the repairs will start around the next month. "

Brother Shen, it's foreshadowing again!

"I want to report this matter to you first. There is also my parents. If there is a chance, I have to trouble you and my father to tell me that I will not leave favors for this promotion.

Although I'm my father's son-in-law, I'm also my father's eldest son, no, outsiders leave favors.With my eldest son and his eldest daughter-in-law here, whoever wants to think about me in front of my father, as long as it is reasonable, there is no need to worry about embarrassing my husband and wife..."

Xu Changqing glanced silently at Shen Weimin, who was starting to grab her position again, and when he looked away, Shen Weimin began to imply that money was not a problem.

If there is any need for donations, or if there is a need to use foreign exchange to help her father work, there is no need to hide it. Her father can just work with peace of mind?

After the call was over and hung up, she was even more speechless when she heard Shen Weimin repeating the content of the call, analyzing and instructing him as if holding his son in his arms again.

How can anyone teach a child like this, for fear that the son is too simple.Why do you teach so early when you are not yet five years old? You really want to take over as adults one by one and retire?
"Definitely not, it is to guide us one by one to have a basic awareness of what words need his attention, and what words need to be used to express different scenes more appropriately.

We one by one are not like our husband and wife who were able to eat white noodles. It is no exaggeration to say that he grew up with a golden key in his mouth.

This kind of atmosphere is actually very unfavorable for his growth, so I can only guide him slowly while he is still young, not asking us to be more outstanding one by one, at least we need to be more thoughtful.

For example, last night his great-grandfather said on the phone that his grandfather was going to move to the capital, but unfortunately he didn't have a house to live in. He replied how his great-grandfather let his grandfather live in Beichizi.

At that time, he didn't realize that it was not good to answer like this. Although the answer was very pleasing, he didn't realize that it would be more appropriate to ask for the permission of his parents before answering.

Five-year-olds should understand the ways of the world, especially since we are precocious, we need the guidance of our parents. If someone else asks this question, how should we answer it?

Then, from among these "others" if replaced by other people, I will guide him how to reply according to the difference of closeness, will it be possible for us to have a deeper understanding one by one?
With these deeper understandings, we will naturally understand when we encounter similar problems one by one in the future, and how to deal with them more properly is the best policy..."

Hmmm, it makes sense, then you can follow the trend.Let her come?Xu Changqing thinks she is stupid, and as a mother, she shouldn't use her words to guide her son.

"... After teaching, his starting point is higher than that of ordinary children, and he can start from scratch without giving much assets. This is the capital for children to stand in the world.

So for you next, just take care of your baby with peace of mind first, don't get tired and cold, so that this child can also inherit your good brain, which is a hundred times better than anything else.

As for our couple, the child's IQ task is entrusted to you, the mother, and my father, who is responsible for cultivating their EQ.Do you think this division of labor is good? "