Dream back to the beginning, you are fine

Chapter 632 What's Wrong
"Father?" Xu Changqing couldn't bear her father's silent atmosphere when he looked at her, so he reached out and moved the teacup on the table to her father, "Take a sip first."

Open your mouth so moisten your throat?Xu Qiguang didn't know whether to take a sip from the teacup first, or to speak first.Okay, let's have a drink first.

For a while, he didn't know where to start.His parents will not understand the big truth, and if they talk too much, it will be pure nonsense and they won't take it seriously.

What's more, from a selfish point of view, he doesn't think there is anything wrong with his parents' youth.Yes, that is, the child has not really realized that once he is serious, he will lose.

"Do you still remember that father asked you to apply for the university in the capital as much as possible before, why, father sees that you haven't really understood why so far, you should think twice."

Xu Changqing was startled for a moment: Got it?Looking up at her father's expression, she was absolutely sure that her mother was telling the truth in front of her father.

"Before, Dad was thinking about waiting for you to go out. He has seen a lot and learned a lot. He will naturally understand that the big things that were so important in your eyes are not worth mentioning at all."

But I really didn't take that idea as a big deal, it's just that I was unhappy.Xu Changqing almost scratched his head, how should he answer this question.

"Besides, your strengths are on the outside, not on the inside. Dad remembers saying this to you twice, and this is the third time. I hope you won't let Dad say it the fourth time."

"will not."

"Okay! Then tell Dad, after hearing this sentence, are you just thinking about making up for your shortcomings?"

Xu Changqing was silent.

"Do you know what's wrong?"

"I know." Xu Changqing nodded slowly, "Priority is biased."

"It's good to be able to recognize this, and then adjust your mentality. Some people and some things, if you care about them, you are more likely to be hurt.

To put it bluntly, don't try to change anyone.Can change, dad can always stand by?It’s just that you can’t change it, so why bother with it, just stand firm on your own. "

That's what I think, but there are always things that come out, I just don't want to be affected, but more or less, it's still very depressing.

"After hearing this, I still feel very conflicted?" Xu Qiguang didn't need his parents Qing to speak, just by her expression, he knew what the child was thinking again.

"Why? Because you started to expect too much." Xu Qiguang hesitated for a while, "It's like talking about your grandma, she is a father and mother, and my father knows her better than you.

She, you just give up trying to change her mind.It's not necessarily a good thing to change, it's a blessing for her to get along with your grandpa so selflessly.

The basis of your grandfather's non-greedy is that your grandma will think about his children and grandchildren in front of him. The most untestable thing is human nature, and there are mistakes.

It's not that your father insulted your grandfather's character, but if you are a human being, don't try it.The best way to get along is to get along well with each other, and some things will not even be sympathetic if they are broken. "

Xu Changqing frowned. How come her grandfather is not a kind person?No, she must have misheard, her father definitely didn't mean that.

"Like your aunt, your uncle doesn't understand her, or can't control her? It's meaningless to talk about it. As long as he respects your grandma, it's fine on the scene.

Can dad still force him to be his dad and his brother to protect him?It doesn't matter if you can help, you can help. Anyway, they can't do anything, and it's not helping anyone.

There is no need to be too serious about everything, it is rare to be confused, it is very good, and what people ask for you is never not you. You should be glad that you are not useless.

At the very least, you have the initiative, and how you deal with it depends on how you think about it. This means that you have the advantage, and it's as simple as that between people.

Like your uncle, he should be regarded as a fair and selfless elder in your mind, but Bai Xinsheng is selfless?Impossible thing.

Whoever is selfless, if he doesn't protect Bai Xiulian, father would have told you to avoid contact with him as much as possible.To put it bluntly, only with shortcomings can we control it better.

If you really want to meet someone who seems to have nothing to ask for, you should be more cautious. The first thing to consider is that they are not asking for nothing, but they have big plans.

The consequences are so big that no one can even imagine, so you should be careful.Compared with this kind of person, the people and things that annoy you are not worth mentioning at all..."

Bai Xiulan stretched her neck again to look at her parents Qing's small room: It's been a long time, and I don't know what the two of you talked about in it.

On weekdays, the two of you stayed inside talking heart-to-heart, and they never came out for such a long time. Could it be that the mother-in-law made it up this time, and the two of you would have to chat for a long time.

Even if there is a disagreement, it's time for dinner now, the food is getting cold and they are chatting, things have happened, so what can't be said after dinner.

Xiao Changyuan and Xiao Changyou saw their mother stretching her neck and looking at her sister's door, one of them pointed to the door of the room with the curtain hanging down, and the other struggled to get there.

Bai Xiulan hurriedly stopped her, but don't bother her, maybe your father is just trying to explain something to your sister, and he will be angry.

"Father/Daddy!...Sister!...Let's eat~"

It's not like Xiao Changyuan frowned and called Dad, Xiao Changyou opened his small voice and called her father and sister, and didn't forget to call her brother together.

Xu Qiguang actually said a lot inside, and when he heard the little girl shouting outside, he realized that it was almost dark outside the window before he knew it.

"Okay, let's go back and slowly think about whether what Dad said makes sense. If you go out now, your mother must be worried again, and even Chang You yelled."

Xu Changqing nodded heavily.

Some of the things her father said this afternoon that he rarely mentioned to her in the past are not advice to her, but her father's personal perception.

She really has to think about it, no one in this world can better understand the different reactions of relatives and relatives around her when she was down and down.

Even she couldn't say that she knew the people around her like the back of the hand. She just walked away back then, and what she heard was not necessarily the truth.

But her father is not, her father is like the proud son of heaven, until he loses the glory of his genius and becomes what everyone calls an unlucky person, he walks out of Baizigou step by step.

This time, she doesn't need to think about it again, she can imagine how hard her father's life was during that period, so her father can see it more clearly.

"What are you two talking about? They chatted for a long time, and they didn't come out unless they barked. Now that the chatter is over, do you want to continue chatting at the dinner table and let me listen?"

"Okay, as long as you are willing to listen." Xu Qiguang reached out and touched the twins' heads, "They haven't eaten yet?"

Bai Xiulan laughed and replied: "I ate it long ago, so I can have another meal now. You two look at them first, the food is probably cold, I'll heat it..."

"No, I'll just come, you rest first." Xu Changqing, who came out one step behind, took the words and walked to the table next to the kitchen one step ahead.

Seeing this, Bai Xiulan winked at her husband: Did you scold the child?
Correct!
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(End of this chapter)