Dream back to the beginning, you are fine

Weddings in this era are actually very simple. Generally speaking, relatives and friends come to sit at home on the day of the wedding, and the bride and groom distribute some happy candies to everyone.

And the three friends and four friends also pooled their money to buy a pair of thermos, mirrors, combs, washbasins and other gifts for the bride and groom, which is regarded as a blessing to the couple.

But there are always exceptions to everything, and there are still some places that continue to preserve or pass down the customs and habits of the ancestors on such a happy day.

Such as Baizigou.

As above Wafang Village.

As long as they are not completely poor, most people will try their best to set up a few tables at home to entertain relatives and friends on such a day when their children are happy, even if they tighten their belts.

To put it bluntly, whether it's the woman's "hospitality day" or the man's "regular day", setting up a few tables is a great way for a couple to get to know their relatives and friends.

Of course, to put it bluntly, it still involves a matter of face. Some people will laugh at someone who didn't have a table for their children's wedding banquet, but no one will mention that there is no hard food.

Therefore, no matter how tight the schedule was, the day before the day became a "hospitality day" according to custom, and this day was also the day when the woman's family entertained relatives and friends.

Xu Changqing remembered that when her younger siblings got married, they were professionally managed, and she was exhausted just by talking, so she repeatedly asked for simple arrangements this time.

In addition to not wanting to be too ostentatious, she was never afraid of making troubles and troubles. Fortunately, Brother Shen, who didn't mention Laoyang, nodded, and even her father nodded.

But... Originally, in her mind, "simple arrangements" meant simply setting up three or five tables, inviting close relatives and friends over for a meal, and the job was over.

But she still underestimated the weight of these four words, even though she had intentionally picked one of the three auspicious days closest to the first auspicious day of returning from the winter vacation, and the plan was to arrange the wedding as soon as possible before it got home , so as not to procrastinate further, and there will be more guests, but the result is still seriously beyond imagination.

This day was very rare, even her own grandpa, grandpa Shi, and grandma Tian were at her house early in the morning.As for the banquet, to entertain relatives and friends, her parents set up five tables.

These five tables are really not many. On the "Hosting Day" before her sister Xiaoyu got married, her second uncle's house set up five or six tables. It is normal for her house to have five tables.

but?

Originally, Grandpa Yu had promised to go directly to Shen's house for a wedding banquet tomorrow, but the old couple brought their eldest son and old uncle and came to congratulate him before the banquet started.

Following the arrival of their family, Principal Zhao and several of her high school classmates followed.This is not too much, and congratulations to those who fought together in Gaofu.

It sounded as if there were guests coming soon, Xu Changqing felt a little numb when he heard it, and finally the five tables that he thought were sitting loosely became nine tables.

The temporary extra four tables are thanks to her father's preparation in advance to wait for her to return to the village, otherwise this day is not about entertaining guests, but driving them away.

Lively is really lively.

Although it is already winter, God is in a good mood, and the sun is shining at noon, even sitting in the yard and eating may not be as good as being in the house.

The Xu family was decorated with lights and festoons early that day, amidst the festive red, even the backyard where the shed and stove was built, laughter filled every corner.

Similarly, on this day, even with Shen Weimin, they received a lot of gift money from relatives and friends of the Yue family.Even if he is tired, he and his wife will not be tired, just give everyone a toast.

It's a toast, but in fact tomorrow is the day, and no one wants to pour him, one of the protagonists, today, most of them just take a sip of meaning.

After the banquet was over, Xu Changqing found that it was not a problem to ask someone to walk in a straight line.Apparently everyone considered that he had to go back first, and come to greet his relatives in the morning.

But you obviously didn't drink too much, so why are you so unreasonable at this moment and started to sneak those gift money and red envelopes into my satchel when there is no third person present?

"I've never eaten pork, haven't I seen a pig run away?" She has never been married, so she doesn't know the rules of marriage very well, but she does understand well.

Today's gift money cannot be handed over to her now, at least he will show it when he gets home later.For example, some people say how the daughter-in-law and her family are like, apart from looking at the dowry, they also look at how much gift money the aunt received from relatives and friends of the woman's family on the "Hospitality Day".

Shen Weimin listened to what she said was funny, but because he wanted to drive out immediately, it was not easy for the two of them to go out and hide and talk quietly as usual, so he had to make a long story short.

Whether other people's daughters-in-law need to show off their dowry, or whether they want to share the gift money for the day, he doesn't care, but his Shen Weimin's daughter-in-law doesn't need to show off her muscles at all.

It's just a few miles away, and no one knows who's home.His father-in-law just let his daughter-in-law marry empty-handed, who would believe that his daughter-in-law has no dowry, it's impossible.

Of course, these are secondary issues, the key is that one of the red envelopes really cannot be shown.It looks thin, but you can know its weight without opening it.

Changqing's grandfather, this time, took the opportunity of today to deduct the amount that he always wanted to pay his eldest sister (Old Mrs. Shen) to his grandson-in-law and nephew.

Shen Weimin explained softly that he opened one of the red envelopes folded into an envelope first, and as he expected, it was a deposit receipt.

Of course, the eccentric problem has not changed, and the name on the deposit certificate is "Xu Changqing".Look, it seems that he is afraid that he will swallow up his precious granddaughter's family fortune.

Xu Changqing happened to hear this muttering, and when she couldn't help laughing, she couldn't help giving Shen Weimin a punch: Look at your head, you don't know where you are.

Her grandfather must be worried about whether the eldest sister will let her grandson return, and if she saves her name, it means that it is for her granddaughter, so as not to make other younger generations feel unhappy.

After all, everyone is the grandson and grandson-in-law of a grandparent. If you directly deposit it in your name, whoever is the grandfather will directly give a big sum to the grandson-in-law.

Furthermore, why did her grandfather give 99?It's so simple, her father never worried that her couple's source of funds would not be clear on the surface.

Shen Weimin gave her a thumbs up: Don't talk, it makes sense!If it wasn't for the time rush, I really want to pack up and take away this considerate daughter-in-law right now!

"Wait until I come to marry you tomorrow morning."

is to marry.

Not pick up.

Xu Changqing listened to Shen Weimin's tone of emphasizing the word "marry" intentionally, so it was unnecessary for him to repeat it again, so he quickly nodded first to express his opinion.

Don't get excited!