Dream back to the beginning, you are fine

How could Xu Chunxi not understand, she was also a grandmother, how could she not understand that being a grandmother would inevitably think that the children and grandchildren below would be better off as one.

The problem is that "the child can't help the mother when she grows up", let alone the grandmother who is separated by another generation, or the grandmother who wants to suppress the granddaughter so that the granddaughter will behave.

Yes.

granddaughter.

Not grandchildren.

Changqing is no longer the grandson of the old Xu's family, she is a married woman, so she is naturally scruples about going to her husband's house when considering issues, let alone not a real daughter of the Xu family.

But it's hard for her to say these words.Today, the child's grandma wants to suppress Changqing to be obedient because of Changhai, but He Zeng didn't want her family to agree with this grandson.

It's the same, she is a girl from the old Xu's family, being a nun is not much easier than a niece, it's just as difficult, her son has already married and established a business, so what the hell!

Xu Chunxi went out with two of the annual presents, but he was still worried about his niece who ran away in anger. Fortunately, the child was angry, and he was still standing at the gate.

Just now she was always worried that the child would be so angry that he would go back alone first, that would be bad.Wei Min's child is a ghost, so it's hard to hide it from him.

If Wei Min's child was so angry when he found out that the little daughter-in-law he was holding in his palm came back with big bags, and ran back alone without caring about anything, that would be fine!

That is a child who is both rational and unreasonable, who can hold back when he gets mixed up. "Are you angry? If you want to blame, you should blame your family and brother. It's all caused by him."

Xu Changqing was ashamed.

To be precise, it was actually caused by her couple, who let the Shen family reunite, otherwise there would be nothing Chang Hai wanted to go out with.

This time, her little old lady even plotted against her stepdaughter, and she took advantage of the trend to make her position clear in front of her aunt. It was really unkind to bully others.

Ashamed!Xu Changqing shook his head, "No, it was my grandma who wanted to hit me when she saw that my life was going well, she has been like this since I was a child, you just didn't see it.

It's not the relationship between my family and my brother, as long as the aunt and the second aunt say something in front of her, she will regard me as an opponent to suppress, as if she can decide everything if she has persuaded me. "

Xu Chunxi felt that he couldn't deny what he said.You don't need to think about it, the key to her mother's obedience to her younger brother's family is not the child.

The younger sister-in-law is easy to talk to, and her younger brother is always away from home. This child has been in charge of the family since he was a child. It is difficult to accommodate two tigers in one mountain. Bah, where are you thinking!
"It's nothing, you are your granddaughter, how can she treat you as something to suppress her opponents, you are not an unfilial child, think too much."

While talking, Xu Chunxi was pondering over his words, "I can't be wrong to listen to my aunt, your grandma just values ​​you too much, and she wanted to keep you at home to support the family earlier.

Leaving you at home to support the family is not the same thing as a married woman. She doesn't dare to spoil you, and it's fine if she spoils you.No, after a year, she got used to it.

Besides, it's not easy to talk about your milk, although my aunt thinks your milk is good enough, but my daughter-in-law is an outsider, and your father has always helped her.

So this person, you don’t need to work hard to get used to it, it’s very bad, and your grandma is always in trouble, so don’t help, your brother Changhai is also her grandson.

If it were a child from your daughter-in-law's natal family, your grandma wouldn't mind pushing it, she didn't treat me and my uncle as if they weren't her children and took care of her.

It's like this every time, so I always wronged your father and your father, but your uncle and his brothers can't think about your grandma and their sake, and your aunt and her two quarrel.

Daughter-in-laws are different. When they quarrel, they will hate your grandma even if they don't say it. They don't have to think that your grandma is secretly instigating the two of them to fight.

Even Gu, there are some things that are not easy to say to your aunt and the others. If you talk too much, your kindness will become hatred, and your grandma has given too much. This is what "Sheng Mien, Doumi Qiu" is talking about. "

Xu Chunxi sighed secretly, "It's not easy. Take your time, now that your parents have moved far away, slowly, they will understand, and they will only get farther and farther away if they stay the same."

That's right, it's so simple, but there are so many things that people can't see through.Xu Changqing looked at the aunt who patted her shoulder comfortingly, "I'm fine."

"It's good that you're fine. Come in. Hey, you're not wearing enough clothes. Be careful that you're freezing. Then go to your uncle's side first, and you can go in and chat with your grandfather."

"it is good."

Mrs. Xu raised her head and glanced at Xu Changqing who lifted the cotton curtain and came in, "Didn't you accompany your aunt to your uncle's side? Sit there and warm your hands and feet."

You are so good!
It's loud now!Xu Changqing was speechless, and looked at the door of the east room, where he was still chatting and laughing.That's right, why is she more serious than an old fool!

Mrs. Xu saw that her little bored gourd was not good enough, so she sat down in front of the stove to warm her hands honestly, so she took a basin of chestnuts and walked to the side to sit down.

Passing a kitchen knife to Xu Changqing and motioning for her to cut the chestnut, the old lady Xu asked in a low voice, "Did you go to your grandfather's place during the summer vacation?"

Hehe, your father is in the back room, thinking about something that shouldn't be.Xu Changqing was too lazy to speak, let alone nod in response, so she lowered her head to work while holding a kitchen knife.

"Your grandpa actually has a brother, right? It's your grandma Shen and her own brother. Have you seen him over there? Did they come back to see your grandma Shen?"

Xu Changqing glanced up at her little old lady, lowered her head and continued to work.This made Old Madam Xu so angry that she gritted her teeth, "Are you dumb again?"

"Oh, speak up if you have the ability." How old you are, you still don't know the key! "You don't care when people come back to visit relatives, you don't even understand your own family affairs."

"..." This damn child!The old lady Xu was so angry that she just wanted to pick up the firewood beside her and beat the dead child, "You tiger, you have too many nephews, and your father still cares about your grandma Shen?
Since your grandfather came back, now your grandma Shen and the others go to the provincial capital every other month, why?It's not because you are afraid that your father will be bullied, it's really easy to deal with your grandma Shen!

Before your grandfather came back, who knew your grandma Shen's life experience?She is not simple.If that person brings his children and grandchildren back, who would you say is closer to her?
Grandma just listened to what your grandpa said..." Mrs. Xu pursed her lips and continued, "That man is full of children and grandchildren, all of whom are no worse than your father..."

"Let it go..." Xu Changqing almost swears, and forced out the indecent word, "Comparing my father with those second-generation ancestors, who do you want to insult?

It is impossible for my grandfather to say this, let alone ten or eight of those children and grandchildren, even if there are hundreds of them together, they can't compare with my father's hair! "

Mrs. Xu knew that her son was inferior to anyone in the eyes of this child, so she couldn't help smiling at this moment, "You've seen it all, how is that family?"