It is difficult for the farmer's sister

Chapter 796 Rebellious Psychology
"Ah, it's getting so hot today..."

Before Yun Wanjiao's person arrived, the voice came into the hall first.

"Sister Wanjiao, come and cool off, cool off."

Su Rui hurriedly stood up to greet her, and stepped forward to pull Yun Wanjiao who had walked in, to sit down beside Bingjian.

Yun Wanxian slapped the fan and couldn't help but smile, "Won't you go out earlier? It wasn't so hot when I went out..."

Yun Wanjiao took the iced sour plum soup that Su Rui personally poured for her and drank it all in one gulp, and she didn't forget to push the cup in front of Su Rui again, "Sister Rui, what is this? It's sweet and sour, it's so good Drink, I want to drink..."

Su Rui poured her another glass with a smile, "This is sour plum soup. It's the most comfortable drink in summer, but because it's iced, don't drink it too hard."

Yun Wanjiao nodded, only drank half a cup before putting it down, "I was stopped by Shuheng before going out, so I had no choice but to play with him for a while before coming out..."

Su Rui was stunned for a moment, "Why didn't you bring Shuheng along? Zong Yao and the others all miss Shuheng..."

Wu Shuheng and the triplets are two days apart in the same age and month, so they usually play well.

Yun Wanjiao sighed, "Do you think I don't want to bring him here? He is studying with Mr. every day, from morning till night."

"Just played with him for more than half an hour this morning, and he will make up for the half an hour tonight..."

Yun Wanxian was shocked, "Shu Heng is only three years old, right? Why did you start studying so early?"

Yun Wanjiao frowned, "Mr. Wu was sent by Mr. Wu from the Wu Mansion, and he was the husband of the son-in-law brothers when they were young..."

"Master Wu said that three-year-olds are old, and learning should be done early, so..."

Yun Wanjiao is a princess and has her own princess mansion, so she doesn't need to live with her in-laws after getting married, and she doesn't need to greet her in-laws every day, but they are elders after all, and the elders usually don't ask for it. It's really hard for her to refuse a request...

So, Yun Wanjiao struggled for a few days, and finally figured it out, Wu Shuheng is a descendant of the Wu family no matter what, and the elders of the Wu family want him to be successful in the future for his own good, so she just let it go...

Yun Wanxian opened her mouth when she heard the words, and stammered, "Yuan, so Mrs. Wu invited them? Well, then you really have no way to refuse..."

Mr. Wu is the old Cheng Engong who fought the world with the imperial grandfather back then. Although he is usually very low-key, he basically does not go to court now. What to say, the current emperor will still give him some face...

Su Rui said lightly, "Study is necessary, but there must be rest days, otherwise such high-intensity study will cause him to have a rebellious mentality..."

Yun Wanjiao was stunned for a moment, "Rebellious psychology? What is it?"

Su Rui put down the teacup, looked at Yun Wanjiao and Yun Wanxian and said, "Sister Wanjiao, sister Wanxian, don't underestimate the rebellious psychology of children. Generally, children's rebellious psychology often occurs in two stages. The first stage It is between the ages of two to three or four, and the second stage often occurs between the ages of twelve and three to fifteen or six..."

Yun Wanxian was puzzled, "Are children from [-] to [-] still considered children? They are already at the age of engagement, so what is there to be rebellious?"

Su Rui pursed her lips. She really wanted to tell them that children between the ages of [-], [-] and [-] or [-], regardless of gender, once they have a rebellious mentality, if their parents don't understand, don't tolerate and encourage them, it's easy Do something that parents will regret...

Yun Wanjiao tugged on Yun Wanxian's sleeve, "Sister Wanxian, stop talking and listen to what Sister Rui has to say."

He said and looked at Su Rui, "Sister Rui, go on, what is the rebellious psychology of children aged two to three or four?"

Su Rui sighed, and continued, "Children of this age will attract the attention of adults on other things in order not to do some things. For example, children who usually never make noise will make noise at a certain time... ·”

"It's okay if it's just noisy, as long as we parents have more patience and communicate more..."

"I'm afraid that some parents always feel that they are for the good of their children, and continue to be cold and violent. Regardless of it, it's not good to let it play... As for why it's not good, sister Wanjiao, sister Wanxian, you have seen some people who have been abused. There should be more examples of parents raising and destroying than me..."

Yun Wanjiao and Yun Wanxian looked at each other when they heard the words, they had indeed met a lot, not to mention far away, the sixth prince of the former emperor, the current King Ling is a living example.

Ever since King Ling could speak, his mother and concubine, concubine Hui, had to read and write eight out of twelve hours a day, which caused him to be lifeless since he was a child, and none of his brothers and sisters were willing to talk to him. Even though Concubine Hui has passed away long ago, and he has long since left the palace to live in the palace, he does not need to read and write every day, but he still does not leave the gate every day, living a life isolated from the world...

The current emperor has said countless times that King Ling was ruined by Concubine Hui. In fact, King Ling's talent is the most outstanding among the dozen or so princes, but it was because of his excellence that Concubine Hui forced him to go off the rails. Obsessed, delirious...

In fact, Su Rui does not agree with the fact that children who are only three years old work so hard every day. She thinks that they should do things at any age. At the age of three, they can learn to read and write, but there must be a limit.

But she is an outsider after all, even if she and Yun Wanjiao are sisters with different surnames in name, she can't interfere too much, she just mentioned it casually, as for whether Yun Wanjiao listens or not, that is her business.

Yun Wanjiao still took it to heart, she decided to have a good talk with Wu Shangen when she went back, and said that she agreed with Shuheng's study, but she couldn't arrange it so full every day, just read for an hour every morning, and waited for the book to read. After Heng reaches the age of six, it is okay to increase slowly...

After figuring things out, Yun Wanjiao smiled and asked, "By the way, what's the matter with you calling us here today?"

Su Rui patted her head, she thought angrily, how could she forget the most important thing?
In the gradually shocked eyes of the two, Su Rui slowly told about the appointment of her as the Royal Orphanage for Girls by His Majesty, as well as the problems she found in the orphanage yesterday.

"That's the way it is, two sisters, you don't even know how pitiful those children are..."

"But my abilities are really limited. The premise for me to let them learn some skills is to let them have enough food and clothing..."

(End of this chapter)