Rebuild 2005
Chapter 1052 [1051] I will not change my mind
"Dad, I'm sorry."
After the father and daughter were silent for a few seconds, Jiang Qinghuai took out a tissue, wiped the wet marks on his face, and then broke the silence softly, "I don't want to accuse you, I just..."
She wanted to explain, but her words stopped, after a pause of two seconds, she continued: "I just want to explain the reason to you...Of course it still sounds like an accusation, but I don't mean to blame you. "
Jiang Qifeng raised his head. He didn't know when it started. He looked no longer young and looked at his daughter quietly, and said calmly, "It's Dad who is sorry for you."
Jiang Qinghuai was silent for a few seconds, then smiled and said, "I...I..."
She seemed to want to find her own train of thought, but she didn't seem to be able to succeed, so she was silent for a few seconds, and finally said: "I know, I understand your current mood and thoughts, I don't want to use you to do something. Wrong, or I'm sorry, to exonerate myself, I just want to explain why I did this, I don't do this for no reason, right?"
Jiang Qifeng seemed to want to refute something, but in the end he didn't say anything, and waited silently.
Jiang Qinghuai continued: "I want a complete family - not referring to you, but referring to my future small family, my husband, my daughter, and me... We are a complete family, of course you and Yu Auntie is fine now, we are also a family.
"Your knowledge is much more extensive than mine. You should know the evolution of marriage in the long history of mankind. It requires official certification and a marriage certificate. It is a very short thing. Even in modern society, it cannot protect the integrity of a family. Integrity can only protect the distribution of property when the family is broken.
"And this doesn't make sense to me. I want money, and I can do it anytime."
At this point, Jiang Qinghuai's words finally became fluent. She held the paper ball and wiped her cheeks lightly, sniffed, then looked at her father, and said softly, "Wei Qingfan bought Miaomiao in the original book of Yihe." bought a villa,
"Of course, my senior sister also has one. There is a four-story villa next to Xiamen University, and there is another one-story house in the capital, with more than 500 square meters. But Miaomiao wants everyone to live together because she likes children. I also like to be lively.
"Miaomiao's villa is in the original work of the Summer Palace... To put it simply, it is in the Summer Palace. It seems that when I bought it, it was 1 million... Now it has increased a lot, about 4000 to 3000 million.
"We have a lot of people, and we will have children in the future, plus Wei Qingfan's parents may occasionally live in, and hope to live closer, that villa may not be able to live, so they are now planning to buy another villa in the same community. One, the villa just next door is for sale because the owner’s capital chain is broken and needs money to save his life.”
Her tone seemed to be chatting about family affairs, and her expression gradually returned to calm, "Wei Qingfan said a long time ago that he asked me if I wanted a house, but I refused because..."
She paused for a moment, and didn't say something like "Without him, Miaomiao's family could afford the house; senior sister has the skills, so she can afford it too", but said: "I can't accept it, so I put it on hold for now, and later the company purchases official business Car, he bought me one of the same model, about 70 million, I want it, and I am driving it, because sometimes it is windy, rainy, or too sunny, and I don’t want him to worry about me.
"Senior sister and Miaomiao are discussing the villa set in the original book of Yihe. It's almost the same. Now I just want to lower the price, because we can afford to wait, but the other party can't afford to wait."
She breathed a sigh of relief, "I originally thought that this villa should be under the name of the senior sister, or Wei Qingfan himself, but I only found out two days ago that they—senior sister, Miaomiao, Wanyun, and Wei Qingfan, basically haven't discussed much about who will own the villa, they are discussing how I can agree to accept this villa..."
Finally, Jiang Qifeng's expression fluctuated on his expressionless face. He seemed to subconsciously want to say something, but he opened his mouth and couldn't say it.
"dad."
Jiang Qinghuai smiled and said, "I am your daughter, and your blood is flowing on my body. Although I used to hate this, I can't change it... Don't worry, I won't belittle myself, I understand... "
She got stuck again, then thought for a while, and said after deliberation: "I understand some principles of life, not everything can be measured, but, Dad, that's tens of millions... Even if the [-] million is deducted, A fraction of tens of millions is enough to make many people turn against each other?
"If Wei Qingfan and I are destined to only walk a short distance and not reach the end, can a wedding and a marriage certificate change the ending?
"If Wei Qingfan and I can reach the end of our lives, does it make sense to have that wedding, or that certificate? Of course, there must be regrets, but I don't want to embarrass him, because Miaomiao's parents are very happy. care about these.
"I know, you care too, Aunt Yu cares too, many people who love me care, you love me and care about me... I know, but I also want to do something."
Jiang Qinghuai raised his head, sniffed, then smiled again, and asked softly, "Dad, what else can I do?"
Jiang Qifeng finally stopped being silent, and said in a blunt tone, "You can leave."
"I know."
Jiang Qinghuai was not surprised, his smile was pure and soft, "But, I can't bear it, I like him, maybe I liked him a long time ago, but I found out too late, otherwise I wouldn't be the third child... ..."
After she finished speaking, she tilted her head slightly, seemed to be thinking for a while, and then corrected with a smile: "It's hard to say, after all, they were close to each other in high school..."
Jiang Qifeng saw that his daughter was actually struggling with this issue at this time, and there was no sign of repentance or even embarrassment when she spoke, and finally said angrily: "There are so many good men in the world! You must..."
"But, I only like him."
Jiang Qinghuai interrupted his father's words in a low voice, "There are so many good men in the world, where are they? I only met this one."
Jiang Qifeng suppressed his anger and said, "Is he a good man?"
"Forget it."
Jiang Qinghuai nodded seriously, and then asked back, "Dad, what kind of man do you think is a good man for a woman?"
Jiang Qifeng didn't speak.
Jiang Qinghuai asked again: "If you can't have both, you have high moral character, serve the country for the people, and give up selfishness for the public. Is it a good man? Is it a good man who is single-minded and married to a clear matchmaker? Or is it a good man who can make his wife and children happy and happy?"
Jiang Qifeng couldn't answer anymore.
"If I can have both, of course I want to, but in reality I often can't even get one. Now, at least I can be sure that I am happy and happy."
Jiang Qinghuai pursed his lips. Seeing that his father had been silent, he thought for a while and asked again: "Dad, do you think you are busier now, or when you were working in the Education Bureau?"
Jiang Qifeng still didn't answer, just looked at her quietly, waiting for the follow-up.
"Then do you think you were busier when I was a child, or Wei Qingfan is busier now?"
Jiang Qinghuai didn't wait for his father's answer, and then said: "You know what? Wei Qingfan founded this company, but he hardly spent time outside of work to win people's hearts. Many people in the company joked that his boss is better than Employees are more like salaried workers, they will never take the initiative to work overtime if they can get off work early, and they were even unwilling to travel on business before..."
Jiang Qinghuai said, feeling a little shy in his heart, but there was a smile on his face, "His prestige in the company is basically based on his high salary and almost no mistakes in decision-making. Moreover, in this way, the company does not have so many social activities, and the atmosphere is very relaxed. Many people like this atmosphere very much, but prefer such a boss.
"After the senior sister's child was born, he changed a little. He started to take the initiative to maintain contacts, but even so, he hardly sacrificed the time to spend with his family. I have to go back..."
When she spoke, she didn't blame Jiang Qifeng for a single sentence, but in Jiang Qifeng's ears, there was almost no sentence that was not criticizing him.
He realized that when his daughter was young, he seemed to be very busy every day and often couldn't go home, not to mention noon, and he often didn't eat dinner at home.
Because he has a lot of things to do, besides work, the off-duty time is even more busy, because there are too many injustices, everything is troublesome, and it takes a lot of time to deal with it.
"If Wei Qingfan focused on his career, he would have many, many entertainments every day, official, cooperative, and internal... But he can push these almost as soon as he can, so that many partners are the first time When I saw him, I was very surprised, because I thought Mr. Wei's personality was weird and withdrawn, but after meeting him, I found that he was quite easy to get along with..."
When she said this, she couldn't help laughing, and then she seemed to realize that it's not appropriate to say these things now, so she stopped her smile, paused and said: "I said a little too much... Anyway, I believe he is The one who can make me happy and happy, so, "
She paused again, then looked at her father, spoke slowly and seriously: "If you object for my happiness, then it is completely unnecessary. If you object for other reasons, I can understand, but... ..."
She looked soft and said calmly, "I won't change my mind just because of your objection."
After she finished speaking, she looked at her father, waiting for his reaction, such as... anger.
Jiang Qifeng's reaction was beyond her expectation. It was obvious that he was very angry, but he just took two deep breaths, as if he was trying to control his emotions, and then said as calmly as possible: "Where's the child?"
Jiang Qinghuai blinked, a little out of touch with his father's thoughts.
"Have you considered your child's feelings?"
Jiang Qifeng took another breath, and then asked seriously, "Single parent is an abnormal family, so if you persist like this, when your child is born in the future, will you feel that your family is normal?"
"We discussed it."
Jiang Qinghuai was a little surprised, because she found that her father seemed to be going to reason with herself, and she wanted to convince herself through reasoning. After thinking about it, she seriously answered this question.
"Senior sister and Miao Miao want to live together, a large part of the reason is that we want our children to live and grow up together, so as to cultivate relationships and avoid comparisons due to some things, such as family property, when they grow up. big contradiction.
"Senior sister will get divorced after a few years. They originally wanted Miaomiao to get married, but now they are going to let me go first, because Miaomiao is relatively young, so I can wait a few more years, but I don't want to do this because I just said .
"As for having a child in the future, I will explain this to her and tell her that it is wrong for her parents to do this..."
In fact, this was a question she hadn't thought about, and she didn't know how to explain it to Jian Jia in the future, but she had to give a clear answer to her father's questioning.
After the father and daughter were silent for a few seconds, Jiang Qinghuai took out a tissue, wiped the wet marks on his face, and then broke the silence softly, "I don't want to accuse you, I just..."
She wanted to explain, but her words stopped, after a pause of two seconds, she continued: "I just want to explain the reason to you...Of course it still sounds like an accusation, but I don't mean to blame you. "
Jiang Qifeng raised his head. He didn't know when it started. He looked no longer young and looked at his daughter quietly, and said calmly, "It's Dad who is sorry for you."
Jiang Qinghuai was silent for a few seconds, then smiled and said, "I...I..."
She seemed to want to find her own train of thought, but she didn't seem to be able to succeed, so she was silent for a few seconds, and finally said: "I know, I understand your current mood and thoughts, I don't want to use you to do something. Wrong, or I'm sorry, to exonerate myself, I just want to explain why I did this, I don't do this for no reason, right?"
Jiang Qifeng seemed to want to refute something, but in the end he didn't say anything, and waited silently.
Jiang Qinghuai continued: "I want a complete family - not referring to you, but referring to my future small family, my husband, my daughter, and me... We are a complete family, of course you and Yu Auntie is fine now, we are also a family.
"Your knowledge is much more extensive than mine. You should know the evolution of marriage in the long history of mankind. It requires official certification and a marriage certificate. It is a very short thing. Even in modern society, it cannot protect the integrity of a family. Integrity can only protect the distribution of property when the family is broken.
"And this doesn't make sense to me. I want money, and I can do it anytime."
At this point, Jiang Qinghuai's words finally became fluent. She held the paper ball and wiped her cheeks lightly, sniffed, then looked at her father, and said softly, "Wei Qingfan bought Miaomiao in the original book of Yihe." bought a villa,
"Of course, my senior sister also has one. There is a four-story villa next to Xiamen University, and there is another one-story house in the capital, with more than 500 square meters. But Miaomiao wants everyone to live together because she likes children. I also like to be lively.
"Miaomiao's villa is in the original work of the Summer Palace... To put it simply, it is in the Summer Palace. It seems that when I bought it, it was 1 million... Now it has increased a lot, about 4000 to 3000 million.
"We have a lot of people, and we will have children in the future, plus Wei Qingfan's parents may occasionally live in, and hope to live closer, that villa may not be able to live, so they are now planning to buy another villa in the same community. One, the villa just next door is for sale because the owner’s capital chain is broken and needs money to save his life.”
Her tone seemed to be chatting about family affairs, and her expression gradually returned to calm, "Wei Qingfan said a long time ago that he asked me if I wanted a house, but I refused because..."
She paused for a moment, and didn't say something like "Without him, Miaomiao's family could afford the house; senior sister has the skills, so she can afford it too", but said: "I can't accept it, so I put it on hold for now, and later the company purchases official business Car, he bought me one of the same model, about 70 million, I want it, and I am driving it, because sometimes it is windy, rainy, or too sunny, and I don’t want him to worry about me.
"Senior sister and Miaomiao are discussing the villa set in the original book of Yihe. It's almost the same. Now I just want to lower the price, because we can afford to wait, but the other party can't afford to wait."
She breathed a sigh of relief, "I originally thought that this villa should be under the name of the senior sister, or Wei Qingfan himself, but I only found out two days ago that they—senior sister, Miaomiao, Wanyun, and Wei Qingfan, basically haven't discussed much about who will own the villa, they are discussing how I can agree to accept this villa..."
Finally, Jiang Qifeng's expression fluctuated on his expressionless face. He seemed to subconsciously want to say something, but he opened his mouth and couldn't say it.
"dad."
Jiang Qinghuai smiled and said, "I am your daughter, and your blood is flowing on my body. Although I used to hate this, I can't change it... Don't worry, I won't belittle myself, I understand... "
She got stuck again, then thought for a while, and said after deliberation: "I understand some principles of life, not everything can be measured, but, Dad, that's tens of millions... Even if the [-] million is deducted, A fraction of tens of millions is enough to make many people turn against each other?
"If Wei Qingfan and I are destined to only walk a short distance and not reach the end, can a wedding and a marriage certificate change the ending?
"If Wei Qingfan and I can reach the end of our lives, does it make sense to have that wedding, or that certificate? Of course, there must be regrets, but I don't want to embarrass him, because Miaomiao's parents are very happy. care about these.
"I know, you care too, Aunt Yu cares too, many people who love me care, you love me and care about me... I know, but I also want to do something."
Jiang Qinghuai raised his head, sniffed, then smiled again, and asked softly, "Dad, what else can I do?"
Jiang Qifeng finally stopped being silent, and said in a blunt tone, "You can leave."
"I know."
Jiang Qinghuai was not surprised, his smile was pure and soft, "But, I can't bear it, I like him, maybe I liked him a long time ago, but I found out too late, otherwise I wouldn't be the third child... ..."
After she finished speaking, she tilted her head slightly, seemed to be thinking for a while, and then corrected with a smile: "It's hard to say, after all, they were close to each other in high school..."
Jiang Qifeng saw that his daughter was actually struggling with this issue at this time, and there was no sign of repentance or even embarrassment when she spoke, and finally said angrily: "There are so many good men in the world! You must..."
"But, I only like him."
Jiang Qinghuai interrupted his father's words in a low voice, "There are so many good men in the world, where are they? I only met this one."
Jiang Qifeng suppressed his anger and said, "Is he a good man?"
"Forget it."
Jiang Qinghuai nodded seriously, and then asked back, "Dad, what kind of man do you think is a good man for a woman?"
Jiang Qifeng didn't speak.
Jiang Qinghuai asked again: "If you can't have both, you have high moral character, serve the country for the people, and give up selfishness for the public. Is it a good man? Is it a good man who is single-minded and married to a clear matchmaker? Or is it a good man who can make his wife and children happy and happy?"
Jiang Qifeng couldn't answer anymore.
"If I can have both, of course I want to, but in reality I often can't even get one. Now, at least I can be sure that I am happy and happy."
Jiang Qinghuai pursed his lips. Seeing that his father had been silent, he thought for a while and asked again: "Dad, do you think you are busier now, or when you were working in the Education Bureau?"
Jiang Qifeng still didn't answer, just looked at her quietly, waiting for the follow-up.
"Then do you think you were busier when I was a child, or Wei Qingfan is busier now?"
Jiang Qinghuai didn't wait for his father's answer, and then said: "You know what? Wei Qingfan founded this company, but he hardly spent time outside of work to win people's hearts. Many people in the company joked that his boss is better than Employees are more like salaried workers, they will never take the initiative to work overtime if they can get off work early, and they were even unwilling to travel on business before..."
Jiang Qinghuai said, feeling a little shy in his heart, but there was a smile on his face, "His prestige in the company is basically based on his high salary and almost no mistakes in decision-making. Moreover, in this way, the company does not have so many social activities, and the atmosphere is very relaxed. Many people like this atmosphere very much, but prefer such a boss.
"After the senior sister's child was born, he changed a little. He started to take the initiative to maintain contacts, but even so, he hardly sacrificed the time to spend with his family. I have to go back..."
When she spoke, she didn't blame Jiang Qifeng for a single sentence, but in Jiang Qifeng's ears, there was almost no sentence that was not criticizing him.
He realized that when his daughter was young, he seemed to be very busy every day and often couldn't go home, not to mention noon, and he often didn't eat dinner at home.
Because he has a lot of things to do, besides work, the off-duty time is even more busy, because there are too many injustices, everything is troublesome, and it takes a lot of time to deal with it.
"If Wei Qingfan focused on his career, he would have many, many entertainments every day, official, cooperative, and internal... But he can push these almost as soon as he can, so that many partners are the first time When I saw him, I was very surprised, because I thought Mr. Wei's personality was weird and withdrawn, but after meeting him, I found that he was quite easy to get along with..."
When she said this, she couldn't help laughing, and then she seemed to realize that it's not appropriate to say these things now, so she stopped her smile, paused and said: "I said a little too much... Anyway, I believe he is The one who can make me happy and happy, so, "
She paused again, then looked at her father, spoke slowly and seriously: "If you object for my happiness, then it is completely unnecessary. If you object for other reasons, I can understand, but... ..."
She looked soft and said calmly, "I won't change my mind just because of your objection."
After she finished speaking, she looked at her father, waiting for his reaction, such as... anger.
Jiang Qifeng's reaction was beyond her expectation. It was obvious that he was very angry, but he just took two deep breaths, as if he was trying to control his emotions, and then said as calmly as possible: "Where's the child?"
Jiang Qinghuai blinked, a little out of touch with his father's thoughts.
"Have you considered your child's feelings?"
Jiang Qifeng took another breath, and then asked seriously, "Single parent is an abnormal family, so if you persist like this, when your child is born in the future, will you feel that your family is normal?"
"We discussed it."
Jiang Qinghuai was a little surprised, because she found that her father seemed to be going to reason with herself, and she wanted to convince herself through reasoning. After thinking about it, she seriously answered this question.
"Senior sister and Miao Miao want to live together, a large part of the reason is that we want our children to live and grow up together, so as to cultivate relationships and avoid comparisons due to some things, such as family property, when they grow up. big contradiction.
"Senior sister will get divorced after a few years. They originally wanted Miaomiao to get married, but now they are going to let me go first, because Miaomiao is relatively young, so I can wait a few more years, but I don't want to do this because I just said .
"As for having a child in the future, I will explain this to her and tell her that it is wrong for her parents to do this..."
In fact, this was a question she hadn't thought about, and she didn't know how to explain it to Jian Jia in the future, but she had to give a clear answer to her father's questioning.
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