As a matchmaker, I'm not convinced by anyone

Chapter 281 Can You Still Be Friends After Divorce?

Hubei province.

a coffee shop.

Lu Bailian and her best friend Zhao Jingjing narrated her unbearable past, "I was very disappointed in him at that time, so I stopped writing and asked him to go out and find a job.

He was obedient, and obediently went out to find a job.

Maybe it was hard work but didn't get the rewards I imagined, or maybe it was two or three years of poor life that wore away the original feelings. In short, I felt inexplicably depressed during that time.

Then, I met that scumbag. "

Hearing this, Zhao Jingjing knew that the important point was coming, and immediately sat up straight and listened to her best friend's narration.

Lu Bailian said with complicated emotions: "At that time, I also had a brain twitch. Under that scumbag man's coldness and warmth, I subconsciously ignored my status as a married woman, and I got closer and closer to him. Finally, on a night of drinking too much, Fucked with him."

Although there was a faint guess in her heart, Zhao Jingjing still felt incredible when she heard this, and she asked: "Sister Lian, what happened next?"

Lu Bailian sighed and said: "At first, I felt guilty, but it turns out that no matter men or women, there are only zero or countless cheating times. That cheating was like opening a Pandora's box. I was obsessed with it." went in.

He even had the audacity to bring that scumbag home to have sex and live an extremely exciting life. "

"This..." Zhao Jingjing looked at her best friend who had been with her for more than ten years, and really didn't know what to say. She really couldn't think that this kind of thing would be done by her best friend.

Lu Bailian recalled that scene at the time, even though it had been a full 15 years, she wanted to give herself a few big mouths, and said in a tone full of regret: "I really lost myself at that time, as the saying goes" If people don't know, unless you do nothing', when I was having sex with that scumbag at home, I was finally bumped into by him who had resigned and returned home..."

Thinking of that scene, Zhao Jingjing couldn't help asking: "Sister Lian, how did you handle this matter at that time? Your ex-husband should be very angry, right? Didn't he chop that scumbag with a knife?"

"He is very angry, but he can control himself without impulsiveness. In his words, it is a fly that does not bite seamlessly. If I was raped, then even if he changed his life, he would definitely kill that scumbag. I chopped it up, but if it's your choice..."

Speaking of this, Lu Bailian shook her head, stopped mentioning the scandal that made her guts regret, and continued: "The next day, I went through the divorce procedures very calmly without arguing or arguing with him.

Maybe he thought that my two or three years of married life was pretty good to him, but in order to preserve my reputation, he kept his secret about the reasons for the divorce, saying to the outside world that it was my personality disagreement. Until now, everyone including my parents Friends and relatives, no one knows the real reason why I divorced him back then.

As for what happened between me and that scumbag later, you already know that not long after I got divorced with him, he changed his mind and flirted with other girls. "

Zhao Jingjing took a sip of coffee and sighed: "Sister Lian, from what you said, your ex-husband is actually pretty good, but unfortunately, his ability to make money is not good."

Hearing this, Lu Bailian, who has always been strong, cried. …

When Zhao Jingjing saw her best friend who burst into tears suddenly, she couldn't help being stunned, and asked cautiously, "Sister Lian, did I say something wrong?"

Lu Bailian said while crying: "Jingjing, I regret it so much, do you know that? He wrote three books and threw three books. After I drove him to work, he actually didn't give up writing, but kept it from me. Prepared the fourth book.

This book, which he spent a lot of energy on, finally achieved success. He wanted to announce the good news to me when he resigned that day, but he never expected that the good news would eventually turn into catching rape.
After divorcing me, he has soared into the sky, his income has been increasing year by year, and now his net worth has exceeded [-] million! "

Zhao Jingjing was dumbfounded when she heard that, no wonder her best friend cried, if it were her, she would probably cry even harder, this is not a joking mistake like snatching red envelopes, but a real mistake!

If my best friend could control herself back then, she would be a billionaire woman now. She can eat whatever she wants every day and play wherever she wants. She doesn't have to be busy with work or worry about not having enough money...

In short, the difference in one thought at the beginning has caused a completely different result today.

Zhao Jingjing felt sorry for her best friend.

"Sister Lian, haven't you thought about apologizing to him and begging for his forgiveness?"

Lu Bailian wiped away her tears with a tissue, and said with a self-deprecating smile: "I not only thought about it, but also acted on it. After breaking up with that scumbag, I asked him to meet and apologized to him seriously. "

Zhao Jingjing interjected: "He won't forgive you?"

Lu Bailian shook her head and said, "No, he forgave me, and thanked me for supporting and encouraging him during the two or three years of my marriage, but when I tried to say something about getting back together, he gave me a look that I will never forget. I can't describe that look, anyway, when he looked at me with that look, I didn't have the courage to bring up the matter of getting back together.

In fact, based on my understanding of him, I have always understood that there is no room for maneuver in this matter.

Because I touched a man's bottom line, wearing a cuckold is something normal men can't tolerate. He can choose to forgive me after the divorce, but it's impossible to get back together. "

Zhao Jingjing sighed and said: "Sister Lian, the matter is over, and it won't help if you struggle with it any longer. Let's take it easy and find a good man to marry again!"

Lu Bailian finished the coffee in her cup, smiled wryly and said, "I know it's useless to dwell on this, but everyone has the same problem, they will be annoyed by missed opportunities, and those who can accept it calmly have a strong heart.

To be honest, if my ex-husband did not succeed later, but wrote a book like before, then although I would have a little regret for missing this marriage, it would definitely not make me miss it for more than ten years, day and night regret it.

So, Jingjing, do you understand? "

Zhao Jingjing nodded and said: "I understand. This is human nature. It's like buying a lottery ticket. I lost the lottery ticket because of carelessness. If the lottery ticket doesn't win, then it's lost if it's lost. There's nothing to care about. The lottery ticket I lost, it won the prize, and it was the first prize, this kind of regret is destined to be unforgettable in my life.” …

Lu Bailian said like a chicken pecking at rice: "That's the reason."

Zhao Jingjing thought for a while and asked, "Sister Lian, you two can't make it as a husband and wife, can't you be friends?"

Lu Bailian asked the waiter to refill her cup, and sighed: "Although there are examples in this world where couples can be friends without being married, such examples are few and far between. Under normal circumstances, divorced men and women are unlikely to become friends.

Let’s not talk about husband and wife, just talk about boyfriend and girlfriend, can they continue to be friends after breaking up? "

Thinking of her ex-boyfriend, Zhao Jingjing couldn't help but nodded and said, "It's true that I can't be friends."

After taking a sip of coffee, Zhao Jingjing asked again: "Sister Lian, what are you thinking now? It's been 15 years since you divorced him, have you been single like this?"

Now that I have talked to this point today, Lu Bailian no longer hides this girlfriend who has been with her for more than ten years, and said with a little bit of hope: "The reason why I haven't looked for it again is because my ex-husband is currently also married. I'm still single, I don't know what kind of psychology I have, I know it's impossible to be with him, but if he doesn't get married for a day, I don't have the idea of ​​getting married, maybe I still have fantasies deep in my heart!"

Zhao Jingjing understands the psychology of girlfriends, and she wants to persuade her, but she doesn't know where to start. After all, ten years of persistence cannot be easily let go.

Simply, she stopped persuading her, and instead inquired about the situation of her girlfriend, the mysterious ex-husband.

Today, Lu Bailian also opened up her heart, basically answering every question, chatting until around eleven o'clock in the evening.

When she got home and took a shower and was about to go to bed, Lu Bailian habitually opened the website, found the work her ex-husband was serializing, and planned to read the update before going to bed.

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Since her ex-husband started writing books, she has followed every book, even after the two divorced, she has not stopped, so she watched her ex-husband step up to the altar and become a billionaire .

On the bookshelf, Lu Bailian saw a single chapter published by her ex-husband at a glance. The title of the single chapter was very simple, just two words: Good news!
Lu Bailian couldn't wait to click in to have a look.

"Old book friends who have been with Sanchi for many years know that Sanchi entered the marriage hall as early as 18 years ago, but it is a pity that the marriage lasted less than three years and came to an end.

In the past 15 years, San Chi also briefly fell in love twice, but both broke up because of personality differences.

Originally, with the growth of age, Sanchi thought that he could only be a single dog in this life, but he never expected that more than a month ago, a blessing came from the sky, and the beautiful and moving alliance was sent to me.

Today is the happy day for me to register my marriage with the Beauty Alliance, and I will post here as a proof that I will love our Beauty Alliance in this life, and will never leave the Beauty Alliance regardless of life, old age, sickness or death.

Well, that’s all for now, thank you parents for your support to Sanchi. "

After reading this short single chapter, Lu Bailian was dumbfounded!

When she came back to her senses, she found that she had already burst into tears.

At this moment, Lu Bailian's mood was extremely complicated, three parts uncomfortable, three parts regretful, three parts relieved, and one part hopeless, at a loss as to what to do. …

I don't know how long it took before Lu Bailian picked up the phone and sent a text message to that phone number that she will never forget for the rest of her life. The text message only had three words: Congratulations.

……

Gui C City, Gui Province.

In a certain tea shop, Li Jing is drinking tea and chatting leisurely with his friends.

As a social cow with friends all over the world, Li Jing's tea shop has never been short of friends. Every day at least a few friends come to drink tea with him and chat.

When a few men get together, talking about women can be said to be an eternal topic. At this time, several middle-aged men are talking about the women they missed the most that they regret the most.

A middle-aged man with a height of barely 1.7 meters but very handsome sighed: "The woman I missed back then was really the best, but unfortunately I didn't know how to cherish it at the time. After I found out that she was good, she had long since disappeared. , I can't find her even if I try to find her, alas..."

"Brother Jin, you are a guy who never owes women, and there is such a superb woman that you can't forget?"

"Brother Jin, what kind of superb woman have you missed? Tell us about it!"

"Brother Jin, tell me your story."

"Okay, then I'll tell you."

Under the urging of everyone, Brother Jin talked about his love history back then, "That woman is very beautiful, with a superb figure, and she is very obedient to me. The only disadvantage is that her family is relatively poor, and she is just a clothes seller. little sister.

At that time, I was young and ignorant, and I only wanted to find a rich woman, so I kept procrastinating and refusing to marry her.

She is a very smart woman, and she probably guessed my thoughts. One day, I was playing cards with my friends, and she sent me several messages, saying that she was at the train station and was about to leave the city.

If I am willing to marry her, I will find her at the station before the train starts, and then register for marriage with her. If I am not willing to marry her, then she will completely disappear in my world, and I will never find her.

At that time, I was playing poker vigorously, and I didn't pay enough attention to her, so I just sent her a message back, telling her to stop making trouble, and go back to her after playing poker.

As a result, the game broke up, and when I contacted her, I realized that I could no longer contact her.

I went to the train station to look for it, but I couldn't find anyone. When I went back to the rental house, I found that all her things had been taken away. I went to look for her at work, and found that she had resigned.

In short, she should have completely given up on me, and she walked very simply, leaving no way out for me.

People are always so cheap, they don't know how to cherish when they have them, and they don't know how precious she is until they lose it. Later, I frantically looked for her and exhausted all methods.

It's a pity that more than ten years have passed, and there is still no news of her, which makes me want to hit the wall with regret even thinking about it. "

Hearing this, Li Jing couldn't help but said: "Brother Jin, this girl is not simple. She is so decisive in her actions and keeps her promise. As long as she is given a chance, she can really achieve a great career."

Brother Jin sighed and said: "She said back then that she would fight with me and make a career, but it's a pity that I couldn't listen to such illusory things at the time, and I just wanted to find a rich woman. what!"

Friend A said: "This girl is really ruthless. If you don't leave, you will be fine. If you leave, there will be no room. If Brother Jin had ended the game early and went to the train station to find her, then your life trajectory would have been completely changed."

Brother Jin nodded and said, "It's not like we can make great achievements with her, but we certainly won't live worse than others."

Li Jing asked: "Brother Jin, haven't you visited her hometown?"

Brother Jin shook his head and said, "I haven't been to her house, I only know that it's from Cen City, but the scope of a city is so big, I don't know the exact address, so finding her house is undoubtedly looking for a needle in a haystack."

While they were chatting, a beautiful girl walked into the tea shop.

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