As a matchmaker, I'm not convinced by anyone

Chapter 507 Happy Marriages Are Too Few
"Damn it, that brat is really annoying. If I were there, I probably wouldn't be able to control my violent temper, and I would definitely give him a slap in the face."

"What kind of bear child will have the bear parent. This sentence is really a wise saying. Judging from the actions of that bear child and the attitude of his parents who turn a blind eye, if we continue to educate children in this way, then I will I dare say this brat will become a social cancer when he grows up."

"Meeting such a brat in a car is really irritating. I have met such a brat before, and that journey really made me angry."

"The young man wearing the mask is really good, especially using the same method to step on the bear's chair. It's so relieved. It's just that the following operations are a bit incomprehensible. Could it be that the young man wearing the mask knows that family? Three bites?"

"Damn it! I'm not dazzled. That young man wearing a mask seems to be Master Jiang?"

"That's right, you're not dazzled. That's indeed Master Jiang. Master Jiang took action to clean up the bear's family. It's really satisfying!"

"Haha, Master Jiang's unpredictable calculation method is used here, it is really an anti-aircraft gun to shoot flies, and that bear's family can be regarded as "death without regret."

"What a "death without regret", the parents of the bear children said that they don't want to be flies killed by anti-aircraft guns!!!"

"I'm glad to hear it. It's time for someone to stand up and punish this kind of brat. It's okay to be lawless in your own home, but it's also like this in public. It really deserves a beating."

"I tried to put myself into the beauty in the front row, imagining that when I encountered this situation in a car, my blood pressure would soar. This family of three is really disgusting!"

"I hope that there will be more people like Master Jiang. In the future, if you encounter such a situation in a car, you must stand up bravely and don't choose to be patient, because the more you tolerate those shameless people, the more rampant they will be."

"..."

After the video in the car was circulated, the entire Internet was heatedly discussed. Everyone hated what Xiongzi did, and praised Master Jiang who took action to punish Xiongzi's family.

Then the topic expanded, and everyone discussed the importance of children's education.

Just as the whole network was discussing, Jiang Feng had already arrived at his destination, the provincial capital of Guizhou Province.

……

Marriage is arguably one of the most important things in life.

Both men and women want to find a satisfactory partner to spend their whole life with, but in practice, no matter how cautious you are about marriage, or how bright your eyes are when looking for a partner, it doesn't help much.

There are a large number of couples who inevitably go to divorce in the end.

The following are the most common reasons for divorce:
1. Extramarital affairs.

According to the survey, extramarital affairs are the leading cause of marriage breakdown.

The unsatisfied sexual desire of one party, or the gradual fading of the passion between husband and wife, is the trigger to induce extramarital affairs, and the anger and resentment after the extramarital affair is revealed become the accelerator of divorce.

2. Economic issues.

It leads to divorce rates second only to extramarital affairs.

Love, as long as romance is enough, but marriage is realistic, need to consider daily necessities, children's upbringing and parents' pension and other issues.

Now many girls want to marry a rich man, but they don't want their marriage to be troubled by economic reasons in the future. Many women always complain that men don't let her live a life of worry-free life.

The so-called poor and lowly couples are sad for everything, only if they have experienced the embarrassing life of being unable to move an inch without money, people will deeply understand the meaning of this sentence.

Without money, children cannot receive a good education, parents cannot enjoy their old age comfortably, and they cannot live a quality life.

Many women often don't blame themselves, she only blames the man for not being able to let her live a life without worrying about food and clothing.Financial constraints and life pressure and other trivial matters in the family also affected the couple's relationship to a certain extent, which led to frequent quarrels, and then quarreled and quarreled and quarreled and quarreled the family.

3. Lack of communication.

Good communication is the basis for establishing trust between husband and wife, which can effectively enhance the relationship, otherwise it will increase the resentment and frustration of both parties.Not talking much all day, yelling at your partner or even saying bad words to each other, misunderstandings and not solving them are all bad communication methods that need to be abandoned in marriage.

4. Frequent quarrels.

Husband and wife are always unavoidable stumbling, and even fierce quarrels.

Among the main causes of such quarrels between husband and wife, housework issues are at the top of the list. Small things such as washing dishes and cleaning the room may be "sparks" that start a fire of anger.

The second is the issue of "financial power". Disagreement easily arises on how the family manages its finances and who should manage the money, which affects feelings.If there is a delay in reconciling or finding a solution after a fight, it is likely that it will eventually lead to divorce.

5. Out of shape.

Although this reason sounds superficial, it is indeed an important factor affecting the relationship between husband and wife.Weight gain can lead to a loss of attractiveness and damage to self-confidence and self-esteem.Over time, visual "fatigue" and lack of freshness will lead to alienation from each other, and even divorce.

6. Relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem. There have been examples of quarrels with husbands because of mother-in-laws in almost every family. In serious cases, there have even been fatalities, let alone divorces.

7. Flash marriage.

Needless to say, the two parties got married in a hurry just because they knew each other superficially, and their shortcomings were exposed one by one after marriage. If they couldn't accept it, the marriage would naturally not last.

8. Mental imbalance.

When one party feels that he has taken on more responsibilities in the marriage, he will often feel unbalanced, and the resentment will snowball and eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage.Husbands and wives should not only learn to communicate effectively, but also look at problems from the perspective of the other party, empathize with each other, and help each other, so that they can enjoy an equal and harmonious relationship.

9. One of the spouses has bad habits.

For example, pornography, gambling and drugs, if one of the husband and wife is involved, it is a matter of time before the marriage breaks up.

10. Domestic violence.

There are two types of domestic violence, physical and spiritual, and both are tragic.

Zhao Yuanming summed up the reason for his divorce, which should be the lack of communication with his ex-wife.

Originally, Zhao Yuanming's communication skills were quite good, at least when communicating with patients and their families in the hospital, it was often relatively smooth.

However, people have two sides. When facing outsiders, many people are very polite, have a very good attitude, and talk and laugh.

But when facing the closest people, his attitude is different, and he often makes a bad face.

Of course, Zhao Yuanming was not such a person, but when he faced his wife, his attitude was indeed not as patient as that of patients and their families.

In his opinion, his wife should be the person who understands him best. He is tired enough from working in the hospital, and he can relax when he returns home. He does not want to communicate with his wife in the same manner as he would communicate with a patient.

Even if he doesn't say a lot of things, his wife should understand.

But it turns out that Zhao Yuanming overestimated the degree of tacit understanding between him and his wife. Originally, the young doctor was famously busy in the hospital, and his wife also had her own job. many.

If the couple communicate well, it doesn't matter, but if the communication is not in place, the relationship will naturally cool down in the long run.

Zhao Yuanming didn't understand at the time. It wasn't until he summed up after divorcing his wife that he realized how important timely communication between husband and wife is.

However, the marriage is divorced now, and the most important thing is that his ex-wife became someone else's wife less than a year after the divorce, so even if Zhao Yuanming wanted to get it back, he had no chance.

Zhao Yuanming felt a little regretful about this. After all, he still had feelings for his ex-wife.

It is said that the relationship is not going well and the career is going well, and there is some truth to this.

After the divorce, Zhao Yuanming devoted all his thoughts to his work, which made his surgery better and better, and was praised by the head of the department many times. It can be said that he has a bright future.

This afternoon, after the last operation, Zhao Yuanming, who was tired and hungry, washed his hands and changed his clothes, then walked to the parking lot, ready to drive home for dinner.

Originally, after Zhao Yuanming got married, he stopped eating and lodging with his parents, but since his divorce, he went back to eating with his parents again.

As soon as he walked in front of his scooter, someone greeted him, "Hello, Dr. Zhao."

Zhao Yuanming looked over and found that it was a handsome young man who looked a little familiar. He thought it was his former patient, so he also greeted him: "Hello!"

The handsome young man introduced himself: "Doctor Zhao, my name is Jiang Feng, Jiang from Changjiang, and Feng from Fengye. I'm a matchmaker from Xingfu Marriage Agency in Guangxi Province. I want to introduce you to a very good match. Shall we have a chat over dinner?"

Zhao Yuanming reacted instantly when he heard the words, and asked in surprise, "Are you that Master Jiang from Gui Province?"

Master Jiang is a master matchmaker, he mentioned it when he heard the nurses in the hospital chatting, and he even saw Master Jiang's photo, which is why he felt familiar with him just now.

"It turns out that Dr. Zhao also knows me!"

"It's been a long time since I heard your name!"

Afterwards, the two of them had some politeness, and then they boarded the car together and headed to a certain restaurant for dinner.

……

After half an hour.

In the box of a certain restaurant, Jiang Feng and Zhao Yuanming chatted while eating.

Jiang Feng said: "Doctor Zhao, let me introduce you to her personal information first!"

Zhao Yuanming nodded and said, "Okay, tell me, I'll listen."

Jiang Feng briefly introduced: "She is from X City, Guizhou Province. She is an only child. She is 28 years old this year. She is 1 meters tall. She has a good figure and looks. She has a bachelor's degree and is proficient in the local dialect, Mandarin, Japanese and English, once married to Japan and gave birth to a daughter, divorced last year and brought the child back to China, and is currently preparing to open a Japanese grocery store in the provincial capital."

Listening to the previous introduction, Zhao Yuanming could feel the excellence of the other party, but when he heard that the other party had married far away in Japan and gave birth to a daughter, he couldn't help frowning.

He didn't care about the fact that the other party had been married before, because he was also married, but the other party married a Japanese and gave birth to a child, which is a bit of a problem.

After all, most Chinese people don't have a good impression of the Japanese, and Zhao Yuanming is one of them.

After Jiang Feng's introduction, Zhao Yuanming couldn't help but said: "Master Jiang, the other party's qualifications are indeed very good, he can be said to be both talented and beautiful. Originally, I shouldn't choose, but she gave birth to a child in Japan. If you marry her, you have to give birth to her." I can't accept that Japanese kid as a father at this moment!"

Jiang Feng swallowed the sour soup fish in his mouth and said, "Doctor Zhao, I understand your feelings, but we can't look at the problem so one-sidedly. Take the Anti-Japanese War as an example, there were friends in Japan who did their best to help our party. On the other hand, There are also endless domestic traitors.

Comparing the two, do you think it is better to be traitors with the same roots as us, or those Japanese friends? "

Zhao Yuanming took a sip of the soup and said, "Master Jiang, do you want to say that blood is not important, but cultural identity is the most important thing?"

Jiang Feng nodded and said: "That's what it means. This is reality and not a fantasy novel. Having a certain bloodline is destined to soar into the sky. So it doesn't matter whether the blood is not. That child grew up in China and learned our Chinese culture. Then she is us Chinese."

After all, Zhao Yuanming is a high-achieving student, so he naturally understands such a simple truth. He just mentioned the Japanese subconsciously and resisted it.

"Well, Master Jiang, what you said makes sense. I don't know what kind of character she is?"

"Her personality is still very good..."

The two chatted while eating, and after confirming that Zhao Yuanming was interested in Li Shuixiu, Jiang Feng took out his mobile phone, called up Li Shuixiu's latest photo, handed it to him and said, "Doctor Zhao, this is her photo, see if it matches Your aesthetics?"

Zhao Yuanming took the phone and looked at the radiant young woman on the screen, his eyes suddenly lit up.Men are visual animals, and whether a woman's appearance conforms to his own aesthetics can be seen at a glance.But now Zhao Yuanming is very sure that the young woman in the photo really grew up in his aesthetics.

Zhao Yuanming is 31 years old this year. Ever since he learned how to appreciate women, he has never seen a woman who can make his heart beat instantly faster, including his ex-girlfriend and ex-wife. They all came together slowly after getting along, not love at first sight.

But now, seeing this charming young woman on the screen, Zhao Yuanming has a special impulse in his heart, wishing to marry her home immediately, and then do what every man wants to do!

Zhao Yuanming swallowed his saliva, handed the phone back to Jiang Feng reluctantly, and said, "Master Jiang, you really deserve your reputation. I really like the person you introduced to me very much. I don't know when you can arrange for me to meet her? "

Jiang Feng took the phone and said with a smile: "It's a bit late today, what shift do you have tomorrow, Dr. Zhao?"

Zhao Yuanming understood and said: "I will go to work normally tomorrow. There are many surgeries scheduled in the morning, and there may not be enough time at noon. If we arrange a meeting, it is best after getting off work at [-] pm."

"Then I'll arrange for your two families to have dinner together at seven o'clock tomorrow night. Is it okay?"

"No problem at all!"

(End of this chapter)