As a matchmaker, I'm not convinced by anyone
Chapter 77
Chapter 77
After leaving Xia's house, Jiang Feng drove to find the hotel while thinking about the conversation he had with Xia Lingling just now.
In fact, there are some things that he doesn't need to say, such as using Xia Lingling's brothers as an example, it sounds like playing the emotional card, but it sounds like he is using the girl's family affection to persuade her.
Although the ultimate goal is for the good of the other party, it must have caused trouble to the girl at the moment.
Jiang Feng knew all this in his heart, but he chose to do it in the end for three reasons:
One, because of Xia Lingling's personality, strictly speaking, she is not the kind of girl who is greedy for vanity. Although she also fantasizes about marrying a rich man, she will not give up her mate selection criteria just because the other party is a rich man.
If Jiang Feng persuaded her about what kind of life she could live after marrying a billionaire, he probably wouldn't be able to convince her.After all, she is still young now, and she has never experienced the helplessness of urgently needing money but not being able to get it, and then looking around to find someone to borrow it but not being able to.
Therefore, serious persuasion will definitely not work.
Second, as a matchmaker, Jiang Feng is obliged to help both men and women explain all aspects of their interests clearly and thoroughly. Although these words can be spoken by the woman's parents, it is actually the matchmaker's negligence to do so.
Because it is normal for a matchmaker to persuade such things, this is the job of a matchmaker, and no one would hate a matchmaker for this.But if he pushed this kind of thing to his parents to persuade him, it would really hurt the woman's heart, and it would be completely irresponsible. As a professional matchmaker, Jiang Feng certainly couldn't make this mistake.
Three, Jiang Feng believed in his cheating ability. Since Wei Xuefeng and Xia Lingling's husband and wife relationship limit value can reach 83 points, and their family relationship is as high as 84 points, it proves that the two of them can definitely be happy together.
Now that you know the result, you must try your best to match up, instead of giving up when the woman has a bad first impression of the man's appearance.
To put it bluntly, without his help, Xia Lingling might be able to marry into a good family, but it is extremely difficult to marry someone with a husband and wife relationship and family relationship of over 80 points!
After all, those who can achieve this score are all model couples and families selected from thousands of miles. This is really not something that can be encountered casually, otherwise the divorce rate in our country would not be so high.
And the probability of her meeting a scumbag is not small. After all, if he can match her in appearance, he is also an out-and-out handsome guy. There are many temptations around such a person, and it is not surprising that he has an affair.
In short, without Jiang Feng's help, whether Xia Lingling could live a happy and stable life in this life would be a big question mark.
Based on the above, this is why Jiang Feng chose to persuade Xia Lingling from the aspect of family affection.
Even though she is currently troubled, Jiang Feng still has the trump card of "look at the face". When she thinks about it, she will use "look at the face" to strengthen her confidence in this marriage. With a bright spot, the couple's relationship between the two can naturally be promoted to an ideal state.
Thinking of this, Jiang Feng, who was at ease, stopped thinking about it and concentrated on driving!
……
At the door of Xia's house.
When Xia's mother was planning to use her life experience to talk to her daughter about what should be paid attention to in marriage, a taxi quickly drove over and stopped at their house.
Then, the eldest son of the neighbor next door got out of the taxi with a haggard look, walked quickly in front of them, and said with red eyes: "Uncle Xia, Aunt Xia, my dad was hospitalized for heart failure some time ago and needed a heart transplant. As well as the cost of before and after care and other aspects add up to nearly one million, our family really can't make up so much money!
I have no choice but to go back to the village and ask everyone for help. I hope that Uncle Xia and Aunt Xia can lend me a sum of money. No matter how much or how little we borrow, our family will be grateful, and we brothers and sisters will work hard to repay the money in the future! "
The three members of the Xia family could not help but look at each other when they heard the words.
As neighbors, they knew that each other's father had been sent to the hospital because of discomfort, but they did not expect it to be so serious and suffered from heart failure.
Now that human life is at stake, and they are neighbors who have been together for decades, even if the Xia family's economic conditions are average, this favor must be helped.
So Father Xia, the head of the family, only thought about it for less than three seconds before sighing: "Dajun, you know the situation of our family, we can only lend you [-] yuan, and we can't do anything more!"
Dajun said gratefully when he heard the words: "Uncle Xia, I won't say more words of thanks, I will keep them all in my heart, if you need something later, please call, our brothers and sisters will be here at any time!"
Next, Father Xia scanned the QR code on WeChat and transferred [-] to Dajun.
Then the family of three watched Da Jun continue to go to another house to borrow money.
This sudden scene had a great impact on Xia Lingling's mind.
In the past, whether it was a matchmaker or a mother, she just listened to how important it was to ask for money in front of her, and didn't have much emotion. She always thought that it was enough to spend enough money, and there was no need to wrong herself for money.
I think when she was in college, there were already so-called successful people outside the school who wanted to pamper her. As long as they could be on call, they would give her 3 yuan a month.
She doesn't even look straight at this kind of thing.
But the scene just now really taught her the most realistic lesson.
In order to treat his father, the elder brother of the neighbor had to go door-to-door asking for help. The medical expenses of nearly one million yuan, the family estimated that they would have to sell everything and ask grandpa to sue grandma.
What if this kind of thing happened in their home?
Thinking of this, Xia Lingling couldn't help shivering. She realized that if this assumption was true, then her family would probably be helpless, and would have to ask for money everywhere like a neighbor's elder brother.
Even if I went to ask for it, I probably couldn't make up so much money.
At this moment, Xia Lingling was no longer as resistant to her blind date with Wei Xuefeng as before.
Xia's mother sighed and said: "This army is quite pitiful. I heard that he had a girlfriend some time ago, and the two already planned to get married, but now that his father's incident happened, it is estimated that this marriage is very likely. Eight or nine were blown."
Xia's father also sighed: "There are unpredictable things in the sky, and people have misfortunes and blessings. This kind of thing cannot be controlled by human beings. Once such a serious illness occurs, unless the sick person waits to die, the family will basically die." Just follow through!"
Xia Lingling was silent for a moment, and then said: "Dad, you can call the Jiang matchmaker and say that I am willing to go on a blind date, and try to get along with him!"
Thanks to Mr. Zijun for the five thousand reward.Thank you for the five hundred rewards from the two masters of origin, fate, fate, Ziyuan and Guessing Mantou.Thank you Baili Tongyun beauty for the four hundred rewards.Thanks to Yi Silan, Or Yu 4, and the three big brothers of Baiyun City ㎎ for their rewards.It's really impossible to mess around in the online literary world without the ability to do it yourself.For the first time in my life, I was bullied by the Internet. Let’s say the plot is fine, and I will directly start a personal attack. necessary.
(End of this chapter)
After leaving Xia's house, Jiang Feng drove to find the hotel while thinking about the conversation he had with Xia Lingling just now.
In fact, there are some things that he doesn't need to say, such as using Xia Lingling's brothers as an example, it sounds like playing the emotional card, but it sounds like he is using the girl's family affection to persuade her.
Although the ultimate goal is for the good of the other party, it must have caused trouble to the girl at the moment.
Jiang Feng knew all this in his heart, but he chose to do it in the end for three reasons:
One, because of Xia Lingling's personality, strictly speaking, she is not the kind of girl who is greedy for vanity. Although she also fantasizes about marrying a rich man, she will not give up her mate selection criteria just because the other party is a rich man.
If Jiang Feng persuaded her about what kind of life she could live after marrying a billionaire, he probably wouldn't be able to convince her.After all, she is still young now, and she has never experienced the helplessness of urgently needing money but not being able to get it, and then looking around to find someone to borrow it but not being able to.
Therefore, serious persuasion will definitely not work.
Second, as a matchmaker, Jiang Feng is obliged to help both men and women explain all aspects of their interests clearly and thoroughly. Although these words can be spoken by the woman's parents, it is actually the matchmaker's negligence to do so.
Because it is normal for a matchmaker to persuade such things, this is the job of a matchmaker, and no one would hate a matchmaker for this.But if he pushed this kind of thing to his parents to persuade him, it would really hurt the woman's heart, and it would be completely irresponsible. As a professional matchmaker, Jiang Feng certainly couldn't make this mistake.
Three, Jiang Feng believed in his cheating ability. Since Wei Xuefeng and Xia Lingling's husband and wife relationship limit value can reach 83 points, and their family relationship is as high as 84 points, it proves that the two of them can definitely be happy together.
Now that you know the result, you must try your best to match up, instead of giving up when the woman has a bad first impression of the man's appearance.
To put it bluntly, without his help, Xia Lingling might be able to marry into a good family, but it is extremely difficult to marry someone with a husband and wife relationship and family relationship of over 80 points!
After all, those who can achieve this score are all model couples and families selected from thousands of miles. This is really not something that can be encountered casually, otherwise the divorce rate in our country would not be so high.
And the probability of her meeting a scumbag is not small. After all, if he can match her in appearance, he is also an out-and-out handsome guy. There are many temptations around such a person, and it is not surprising that he has an affair.
In short, without Jiang Feng's help, whether Xia Lingling could live a happy and stable life in this life would be a big question mark.
Based on the above, this is why Jiang Feng chose to persuade Xia Lingling from the aspect of family affection.
Even though she is currently troubled, Jiang Feng still has the trump card of "look at the face". When she thinks about it, she will use "look at the face" to strengthen her confidence in this marriage. With a bright spot, the couple's relationship between the two can naturally be promoted to an ideal state.
Thinking of this, Jiang Feng, who was at ease, stopped thinking about it and concentrated on driving!
……
At the door of Xia's house.
When Xia's mother was planning to use her life experience to talk to her daughter about what should be paid attention to in marriage, a taxi quickly drove over and stopped at their house.
Then, the eldest son of the neighbor next door got out of the taxi with a haggard look, walked quickly in front of them, and said with red eyes: "Uncle Xia, Aunt Xia, my dad was hospitalized for heart failure some time ago and needed a heart transplant. As well as the cost of before and after care and other aspects add up to nearly one million, our family really can't make up so much money!
I have no choice but to go back to the village and ask everyone for help. I hope that Uncle Xia and Aunt Xia can lend me a sum of money. No matter how much or how little we borrow, our family will be grateful, and we brothers and sisters will work hard to repay the money in the future! "
The three members of the Xia family could not help but look at each other when they heard the words.
As neighbors, they knew that each other's father had been sent to the hospital because of discomfort, but they did not expect it to be so serious and suffered from heart failure.
Now that human life is at stake, and they are neighbors who have been together for decades, even if the Xia family's economic conditions are average, this favor must be helped.
So Father Xia, the head of the family, only thought about it for less than three seconds before sighing: "Dajun, you know the situation of our family, we can only lend you [-] yuan, and we can't do anything more!"
Dajun said gratefully when he heard the words: "Uncle Xia, I won't say more words of thanks, I will keep them all in my heart, if you need something later, please call, our brothers and sisters will be here at any time!"
Next, Father Xia scanned the QR code on WeChat and transferred [-] to Dajun.
Then the family of three watched Da Jun continue to go to another house to borrow money.
This sudden scene had a great impact on Xia Lingling's mind.
In the past, whether it was a matchmaker or a mother, she just listened to how important it was to ask for money in front of her, and didn't have much emotion. She always thought that it was enough to spend enough money, and there was no need to wrong herself for money.
I think when she was in college, there were already so-called successful people outside the school who wanted to pamper her. As long as they could be on call, they would give her 3 yuan a month.
She doesn't even look straight at this kind of thing.
But the scene just now really taught her the most realistic lesson.
In order to treat his father, the elder brother of the neighbor had to go door-to-door asking for help. The medical expenses of nearly one million yuan, the family estimated that they would have to sell everything and ask grandpa to sue grandma.
What if this kind of thing happened in their home?
Thinking of this, Xia Lingling couldn't help shivering. She realized that if this assumption was true, then her family would probably be helpless, and would have to ask for money everywhere like a neighbor's elder brother.
Even if I went to ask for it, I probably couldn't make up so much money.
At this moment, Xia Lingling was no longer as resistant to her blind date with Wei Xuefeng as before.
Xia's mother sighed and said: "This army is quite pitiful. I heard that he had a girlfriend some time ago, and the two already planned to get married, but now that his father's incident happened, it is estimated that this marriage is very likely. Eight or nine were blown."
Xia's father also sighed: "There are unpredictable things in the sky, and people have misfortunes and blessings. This kind of thing cannot be controlled by human beings. Once such a serious illness occurs, unless the sick person waits to die, the family will basically die." Just follow through!"
Xia Lingling was silent for a moment, and then said: "Dad, you can call the Jiang matchmaker and say that I am willing to go on a blind date, and try to get along with him!"
Thanks to Mr. Zijun for the five thousand reward.Thank you for the five hundred rewards from the two masters of origin, fate, fate, Ziyuan and Guessing Mantou.Thank you Baili Tongyun beauty for the four hundred rewards.Thanks to Yi Silan, Or Yu 4, and the three big brothers of Baiyun City ㎎ for their rewards.It's really impossible to mess around in the online literary world without the ability to do it yourself.For the first time in my life, I was bullied by the Internet. Let’s say the plot is fine, and I will directly start a personal attack. necessary.
(End of this chapter)
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