Dongli drinks wine after dusk

Chapter 33 Childhood Influences
The second day is always the saddest.

Bleeding, sweating and not tears are just floating clouds. As soon as Jiang Jiuying got up from the bed, tears came out from the pain.

My whole body hurts everywhere.She bared her teeth and slandered, girls with five surnames and seven wangs are really miserable, growing up under such a repressive upbringing every day, what a happy childhood.

Obviously jail time!
Today's greetings are a little more difficult.

Ning's eyes were red, and her pink and tender daughter seemed to be wilting after one night.

Jiang Wenyuan also showed a bit of distress, and hastily moved his chopsticks a few times, avoiding his wife's resentful eyes as if fleeing.

On the contrary, Jiu Ying, who was still a little resentful yesterday, was relieved.

She doesn't know if the words "there are no exceptions" to her parents are true to her, but her parents really love their children.

After being a daughter for more than ten years and having enjoyed it for more than ten years, if her parents ask her to do something she doesn't want, can she feel resentful?

She felt ashamed of her temper: "Mother, my daughter is fine, mother, don't be sad, and don't get angry with father." She saw Ning's small gesture of glaring at Jiang Wenyuan.

"My son, you have suffered." Ning patted Jiang Jiuying's hand: "You have to study hard, we will go back to Beijing sooner or later, the old lady in Beijing. Alas, your grandmother is a good one. The rules are stricter."

Grandma far away in the capital?Jiang Jiuying had never seen it before, but every time Ning gave gifts to the capital, Ning was extremely nervous, checked in every possible way, added and subtracted several times, and tried to cover everything.

Especially for the things for the old lady, they must be prepared several months in advance, and I dare not show any disrespect.

"Mother, tell me about grandma. When we go back, we must live in the old house, right?"

That's right, there is no reason for the son's family to go back to Beijing and live outside alone.Ning has a dowry house in Beijing, but if she dares to bring her family to live in her house, the family can immediately ask Jiang Wenyuan to let her go out.

Many children are blessed, the population is prosperous, and several generations live in a big house, all of which are popular elements nowadays.

It is not easy to live in the capital, so even if the Jiang family has more than a hundred years of heritage, it can only be compared to a house in the east city.

The place where Jiang Wenyuan's family lives now is much larger, but the population is more than five times larger.

It is conceivable how lively their life will be after returning to Beijing.

If it wasn't for her husband's future and the marriage of several children, Ning would rather take the job outside.

"The old lady is not a difficult person to get along with." This is what Ning said in her heart. Compared with the truth, she became a mother-in-law who bullied her daughter-in-law legally. The old lady dumped them more than [-] blocks.

"She's just used to living a frugal life, and she's very disciplined. After all, with that kind of background, that kind of family background, but she was young and had no children. She almost died of cold and hunger, and her temper is more or less left."

Born in a family, but was extremely poor when he was young, the only thing the old lady can grasp is the rules.

Those in the family who knew the inside story felt pity for her and were very obedient to her.

Hearing Ning's explanation, Jiang Jiuying realized.

The unmasked grandmother was also a poor person.

The impact of childhood on a person is far beyond everyone's imagination.

There is a saying that is true: some people are healed by childhood all their lives, and some people are healed by childhood all their lives.

Childhood shadows can make or destroy a person.

The same thing often affects people in two extremes.

Give two simple examples.

A girl's family was poor when she was a child. She never wore new clothes, but picked up the leftovers from her brothers and sisters.

Then when she grows up and has money, she can afford clothes by herself:
1. She may have a compulsive desire to shop. She can't help but buy one after another when she goes shopping. There are so many hanging tags in the closet that she can't take them off in time.

2. She will be extremely frugal, breaking a penny into two flowers. Any necessary consumption will make her feel guilty. As long as a piece of clothing is not broken, she will wear it for ten or eight years without buying a new one.

A little boy was molested when he was young and grew up in an extremely insecure environment.

When he grows up, in the prime of life:

1. He will become the same bad person as the person who violated him, and turn to find the same target as he was when he was a child, and violate it;
2. He will grow up to be a crime-fighting law enforcement officer, protecting children as weak as he once was.

As for what kind of person will become which one of the above, probably only they themselves choose.

Jiang Jiuying resigned herself to going back and forth between Pan's house and Jiang's house every day, privately thinking that these so-called etiquettes were really useless.

A month quickly passed in Jiang Jiuying's dire straits.

A lot happened in between.

Qiutong and Li Erniu had been beheaded at Xishikou for public display, Guo Xiaoni was exiled, and was sent to the capital to be an official prostitute.

Although Guanyue Building was implicated, it did not intervene in the end. Jiang Wenyuan was not embarrassed. On the second day after the resumption of business, the owner behind the scene actually came to give a gift in person, which is really polite.

The second brother's academics have made a qualitative leap, and the articles he writes are becoming more and more decent. It is also painful and happy to be singled out by Jiang Wenyuan.

There is also good news, big brother is coming back!
Jiang Jiuying plans to take two days off tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, so that the family can reunite for a few days.

Leave is not so easy to ask for.

She learned the etiquette and learned to be invisible. No matter how she looked at it, Madam Lu was not pleasing to the eye, and she always felt that she was almost too good.

The movements are impeccable, every move is rigid and well-behaved, but it is a piece of wood, without soul, and it is not natural.

Comparing with Pan Jiaxin, the judge will be judged.

Therefore, it is extremely difficult to ask for leave. In Lu's words, she can't smash her own brand.

How is it possible to have a soul?Jiang Jiuying scoffed at their rules of five surnames and seven wangs, thinking that they were rotten from the bottom up, but they just pretended to be obedient and like a lady in order to live within the rules and make themselves better.

There is no awe in his bones, and he can't put in the effort and effort like Pan Jiaxin when he is studying, he just asks others to easily pick and not make mistakes.

Nanny Lu is a dog biting a hedgehog, she has nowhere to talk, so she can only compromise in the end.

Because tomorrow is the holiday, Jiang Jiuying is a little out of mind this afternoon, and has been distracted in arithmetic class.

Jiang Jiuying regretted choosing this subject, it was much easier than she thought, and all she learned was mathematics related to housekeeping.

For example, one mu of paddy field produces 4 stones of rice, and there are seven acres of fields under the name, how many stones of rice are produced in total;
There are six masters in the mansion, 5 taels of mistresses, 3 taels of legitimate sons, 2 taels of legitimate daughters, 1 taels of concubines, 17 servants, 2 taels of stewards, 2 taels of first class, 1 tael of second class, and 500 rough envoys. Money, ask how much is needed in January.

No nutrition.Jiang Jiuying spent almost every class in drowsiness, without it, the old man with a white beard longer than her hair really recited the lullaby very well.

The two concubines of the Pan family who attended the class with her studied hard, wishing they could write down every word the master said.

(End of this chapter)