My father-in-law is Kangxi

Chapter 18 People's Hearts
After dinner, Mama Wu came over and taught Shu Shu the first lesson.

Shu Shu admits that she is narrow-minded.

Nanny Wu did not start with "love between men and women", nor did she have other hidden backgrounds and skills similar to a certain circle in Yangzhou, but talked about her own experience.

"The old slave's ancestral home is in Huairou, and his mother's family has made wine for generations. When the old slave first married, the dowry was generous. Xu's son was a farming student in the same village. The two women's fortunes looked like honey, and they gave birth to a pair of children...

The Eight Banners entered the customs, the clan encloses land, most of the land in Gyeonggi has become official villages, and most of the people are tenant farmers...

My mother's parents and elders died of illness one after another. My ex-husband was already a scholar, so he took advantage of this to sneak into the old master's side.

At that time, everyone persuaded the old slave to admit it, but the old slave refused to admit it. He can get promoted with the help of books, so can't I?
At that time, Lord Shunzhi also admired sinology, and the female family members of the banner people learned to speak Chinese and recognize Chinese characters, so the old slave took refuge in the name of the mistress, and brought a dowry to reconcile with her ex-husband...

In the accompanying room of the mistress, she chose the current man as her husband...

Although they are a half-way couple, but after half a lifetime, fifty years younger, where is there no stumbling?
But even if he had his parents and brothers as backers, he would not dare to offend the orphaned old slave, except that the old slave raised his wife and was somewhat respectable in the mansion. Under the old slave's name, this relationship between husband and wife is just icing on the cake, it's not that you can't live without a man, whether you live separately or get separated again, there is nothing unacceptable...

No matter the love between husband and wife, the relationship between children, as long as they are not short of money, they can be respectful to each other...

But I can't be taken advantage of, thinking about the separation of flesh and blood...

You must know that people's hearts are raised, so it's better to draw the line early...

At any time, you are the heaviest, and that is the real way of preservation...

Don't think about being wronged and asking for perfection, the more you ask, the more you can't ask for perfection...

The old slave's two ex-husband and children are a lesson from the past...

I thought they were pitiful before, and wanted to take them with me to raise them, but they were rich and powerful at the time, and they looked down on the old slave as a cousin...

The old slave didn't force it...

Until now, they are all filial sons and grandsons...

But the old slave also understands that they are all here for money...

Come on, come on, no one is a saint...

As long as you can live with face, you should coax yourself to be happy, don't be harsh..."

The old man spoke slowly, but Shu Shu listened with admiration.

You must know that there was a wine shop under the name of Jue Luo before, and it was closed only a few years ago when the emperor issued a "prohibition order".

It seems that it should be the formula of Wu Mama's mother's family.

As an ordinary woman, after going through such great changes as the downfall of her mother's family, her husband's change of heart, and her concubine's concubine, she would probably end up depressed, but Nanny Wu refused to admit defeat and always had her own cards.

There are many calculations such as "leveraging strength to fight strength", "fox pretending to be tiger", "preparing for a rainy day", but firmly holding the initiative in our own hands.

"The so-called parents-in-law are not parents... Back then, the old slave's former parents-in-law wanted to collect my dowry as soon as they entered the door, and they kept saying 'elder sister-in-law is like a mother', wishing to push all the marriage funds of my uncle and sister-in-law to the old slave...

It's just bullying my new daughter-in-law's tender face, it's hard to refuse, the old slave directly borrowed the law book from the bookstore, and urged her ex-husband to copy the book day and night, taking up the responsibility of "elder brother", and also took the initiative to teach my sister-in-law to embroider, hand in hand Her way of being a wife...

It seems that the suspicion has deepened, and later he supported his son to marry another, and finally got a "mother-like" domineering daughter-in-law, who is also "seeking kindness and deserving kindness"...

Don't take these idlers to heart, and there's no need to get angry about them, they're just irrelevant people...

When the future parents-in-law, everyone will be polite and respect each other, no one is good, the rules are..."

Shu Shu became more and more respectful.

Perhaps some people's blessings are born, while others are earned through hard work.

It seems that I misunderstood Jue Luo, what she wanted to teach herself through Madam Wu was not the game between men and women, but an attitude towards things.

Be self-reliant and self-improving at all times, and don't wrong yourself.

On the second day, Shu Shu approached Jue Luoshi, feeling a little sad: "Ernie, you and Ama need to be well... Every month, I need to ask for the Ping An pulse, and the four seasons' food supplements must follow..."

The husband and wife had been married for many years before they had their eldest daughter. Now they are in their forties, and they worry that they will not be able to rely on their daughter.

Jue Luoshi embraced Shu Shu lightly, and stroked her back: "Ernie knows your temper, you look peaceful, and you have the strongest temper... If you want to not get angry, you can't rely on anyone, but you don't need to show your sharpness... It's a bit of a deal Just remember it in your heart, there is no need to engrave your shrewdness on your face... so many diseases are caused by anger, apart from life and death, there is nothing that cannot be resolved..."

Shu Shu sighed inwardly, it is not her who is afraid of marriage, but Jue Luo Shi, this is the disadvantage of "marrying a daughter from a high family".

"Don't worry, Ernie, I will have a good life..."

Shu Shu smelled the increasingly strong sandalwood fragrance on Jue Luo's body, and said solemnly.

After returning to the room, Shu Shu took out her notepad.

Before worrying about the direction of "Kowloon seizing the heir", he should learn to be a "qualified" Jiufu Jin.

The first impression is very important. I had a lawsuit with Guidan before, and I was confronted with Guo Luoluogege, and my temper seemed too sharp.

Next, it's time to show the softer side of politeness.

Dowry, you can reduce the amount!

Regardless of the order or title, the ninth elder brother is inferior to the eighth elder brother, and the reduction of his own dowry is also a respect for the former brother and sister-in-law.

There is also Guo Luoluo's family, the Guidan bastard is a bastard, but he is heartless and doesn't like to hold grudges, so it is easier to coax him.

The elders of Guo Luoluo's family are not fools, but there is no need to worry. With their status, they are the only ones who flatter them. When the time comes, they will share the tea business, and they will be appeased.

After Shu Shu made adjustments, she felt at ease.

It's just that I never expected that I would see real "knowledge" that night.

"Is there anything a man can learn that a woman can't? Husbands and wives fight at the head of the bed and have sex at the end of the bed. The old principles that have been passed down for thousands of years can't be wrong...

People are well-behaved in front of others, but it's a couple's little fun to make trouble in the queen...

man?They are all sacrificial, if you don't satisfy him, someone will always satisfy him...

The harmony of yin and yang is the way of heaven. If you can't, you can only find someone outside...

If we really want to talk about the physical strength of men and women, men seem to have great strength, but women have stamina...

It's very easy to torment him with no heart..."

In the second "teaching" by Grandma Wu, only Shu Shu and Grandma Qi were left behind, while Xiaochun and Xiaotao were dismissed.

Shu Shu took the small box from Madam Wu, and after listening to Madam Wu's words, she knew that this was the real thing.

A set of slightly rough porcelain, all in a group of two villains, but the size of a thumb, but the details are in place.

Some poses are common, and some have only heard the name, which is a bit of juggling.

Nanny Wu still looked kindly, speaking slowly.

Nanny Qi listened with a serious face, looking at the meaning, wishing to remember every word in her heart.

Shu Shu realized later, the appearance of Brother Jiu appeared in his mind, and his face turned red all of a sudden, not because of embarrassment, but because of embarrassment.

Don't discuss this kind of private matter as a topic! ?
this... this... this...

Don't be so serious...

Nanny Wu and Nanny Qi looked at each other, only when Shu Shu realized it.

Grandma Wu smiled and said: "Listen to this more, it's not bad... It will save you from being scared and hurt, and worrying about this..."

Nanny Qi also persuasively persuaded: "To put it bluntly, this is the thing between men and women... If you really want to be bothered by this, you won't be able to live a warm life... Although the first wife Fujin doesn't need to be charming, but The young man is curious about this, the happiness of a husband and wife is more worry-free than that of a concubine... A husband, a husband, is a husband within ten feet... No matter what you like or not, before the little master lands, you have to win over her and wait until she gives birth. A son and a half daughter, if you don't care about it, you don't care about it... The emperor said marriage, Ge Ge's position is stable, as long as you relax and don't think too narrowly, it is not difficult to live a happy life..."

Shu Shu felt embarrassed, but she didn't want to be too different, so she nodded shyly.

When the two nuns went out and Xiao Chun came in, there was a bit of uneasiness on their faces.

Shu Shu looked at them one by one, Xiaochun who can settle accounts, Xiaosong who can massage, Xiaotang who can cook, and Xiaotao who can comb hair, all followed her when she was young, and she also chose her name.

Although she had no memory of her previous life at the time, she was obviously afraid of death, so she took the names of trees that meant longevity.

These four people are all one to two years older than her, and Zhenghua is just right, especially Xiaotao, who is exceptionally good-looking, with bulging breasts, like a delicate peach, and has a soft personality.

Shu Shu personally trained these crystal people, so naturally she didn't intend to let them be intercourse, so she had to say something up front: "I told you a few times ago that I don't need intercourse...that's what I mean before marriage, now It still means the same thing... In the future, even if my elder brother wants to take a concubine, he can choose from the beautiful women of the Eight Banners, or from the beautiful women of the Ministry of Internal Affairs, but I will not push you a few. You have been with me for two years and want to marry outside , or want to choose someone in the mansion, it’s up to you..."

Xiaochun and the others immediately knelt down.

"Master, don't worry, as long as you have that rotten thought, it will only make your slaves die and become prostitutes forever!"

Xiaochun was the most loyal, and he spoke harsh words, and looked at the others with doubts.

Xiao Song frowned and said: "Anyway, this servant is determined to comb himself... What's so good about a stinky man, this servant should not leave Gege..."

Xiaotang didn't say a word, her gaze fell on Xiaotao like a knife.

Seeing her like this, Shu Shu's eyes also fell on Xiaotao.

Xiao Tao's face turned pale with astonishment, and she quickly kowtowed: "Ge Ge, slave... I don't dare to have such an idea... It's all said by my family, and I absolutely dare not have such a thought..."

After hearing this, Shu Shu's heart sank.

If the family members have such thoughts, this person has a hidden danger.

On the other hand, Xiaotang usually protects Xiaotao the most, but now she takes the initiative to expose this matter, which shows that she is very angry.

Both Xiaotang and Xiaosong lost their mothers, and they both died in childbirth. They were not born when they were born, but when they gave birth to their younger siblings. They had already remembered things at that time, obviously leaving a shadow.

Xiao Song felt that pregnancy was the original sin, and it was dangerous to marry and have children.

Xiaotang, on the other hand, hated her mother for not dying, so she turned to her aunt who colluded with her brother-in-law to fill in the house, and blamed her father and aunt for the adultery.

Shu Shu didn't attack Xiao Tao immediately.

After all, this kind of thought is common. In the eyes of the servants, the prince's house is no less than wealth and wealth. The whole family can change the fate. What is the love of master and servant?
Regardless of whether Xiao Taosheng had this idea, it is inappropriate to follow her into the palace.

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