Farmers' group pet: the blessings of powerful ministers are soft and deceitful

Song Zhicheng on the side heard this and quit, "What do you mean by getting married? According to this, our family Pu Cun also got married with Yuanyuan."

Xu Xingling couldn't bear to listen to these words, "What you said, it seems that Yuanyuan has already engaged two men, and when Shen Lan comes back, she will definitely not be able to spare you."

Song Zhicheng changed his words and said: "Anyway, you can't make up your own mind about this matter, wait for Shen Lan to come back and talk about it."

In spring and March, Shen Chenlan's motorcade is also slowly entering Beijing.

Jiang Nianxu lifted the curtain of the car to look at the spring scenery outside, and said curiously: "Mother, it's only March, and the ice and snow in Beijing have already started to melt."

In Suizhou, it takes April and May every year for the snow to melt.

There are still one or two months before the Chinese New Year, so she can go ice skating and skiing.

Jiang Ning touched her forehead with her hand, and said, "I just know how to play. When I get to Beijing Middle School, I don't have to go to school anymore. What are you going to do?"

Jiang Nianxu was stunned, "Don't you need to go to school?"

And this good thing.

However, she quickly realized that the reason why she was able to enter the official school in Suizhou was because of her father.

It is the imperial court's law that women do not enter government schools. Even if they enter, they cannot be examined for officials and serve the country.

At her age, the most she can do is to study poetry and books at home, embroider flowers, and wait for the family to choose a husband for herself and get married smoothly.

After that, she will be a husband and a child, and live her life in a regular manner.

Jiang Nianxu felt that this life was a bit suffocating.

She said: "I haven't thought of it yet, let's take one step at a time."

Jiang Ning glanced at her and said, "Your grandparents have asked me to help you find the list of unmarried sons in Beijing, do you want to see it then?"

Jiang Nianxu knew that although her mother said so, she would never force her, so she waved her hand and said, "Let's talk, talk."

Sure enough, Jiang Ning pampered her very much: "Then do you want to do business with your mother?"

Jiang Nianxu lived a fairly well-off life since she was a child, and has never had a hard life. She is not as firm as her mother in getting rich and saving money.

Therefore, she just thought about it for a while before refusing: "My mother is better at doing business. For me, forget it."

Lin Ru worried at the side and said: "Then you don't want to get married, don't start a business, what do you want to do? The world is so big, there must be someone by your side, we are old, we can't be with you all the time, if you can do it Even if the business is good, even if you don’t rely on men, you can support yourself.”

Their ideas are different now. They used to think that women can only live if they get married.

But looking at Shen Lan and her daughter, they felt that no matter whether they were powerful or common people, there were good and bad, and the most important thing was to be able to choose a lover.

It would be nice to have someone who can love you for the rest of your life.

It is true that marrying into a powerful family can lead to prosperity and wealth for a lifetime, but not many people can stick to their hearts like Shen Lan, and their thoughts are hung on Ningning for the rest of their lives.

It is common for people from high families to have three wives and four concubines, but they don't want Yuanyuan to suffer this kind of grievance.

If she chooses a small family to marry, she might not dare to make trouble with Yuanyuan due to Shen Lan's status.

Jiang Nianxu knew grandma's thoughts, she said: "But if you choose a small family and feel that our family is oppressing them, you will feel wronged. When your father gets old and gets up again with our help, he will bully us again." , isn’t that a loss-making business?”

"This..." Lin Ru suddenly found herself in trouble.

The little girl is really eloquent, just like her father, she looks at things in a variety of ways.