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Chapter 142 The Child's "Sexual Enlightenment"

Perhaps some words of Shengyang caused Gao Xiaojuan to think deeply. Then, she also began to cooperate with Huang Yunshan to supervise Huang Jiaming at all times. She was also afraid that Huanhuan and Lele would be affected by Huang Jiaming, and she would be very nervous and sensitive when she saw them playing with their mobile phones.

Sheng Yang felt that Gao Xiaojuan was a little too nervous, so he came to talk to her again, hoping that she would face all this correctly.

After listening to Sheng Yang's persuasion, Gao Xiaojuan sighed: "Sheng Yang, I didn't stare at Jiaming before, and you thought we were wrong. Now we stare, and you said we were wrong. Then what should we do?"

"I didn't say you guys are bad." Sheng Yang explained, "I just think there must be a limit to everything! Jiaming has been playing games since he was a child, and he has been here for so many years. There must be a buffer period in between. And Huanhuan He Lele, they sometimes use their mobile phones to look at paintings and children’s handicrafts, I think it’s okay, there’s no need for one size fits all.”

Gao Xiaojuan thought for a while: "Okay, you set a schedule, when they can play with mobile phones, and what to play, you can list them all. At that time, I will follow the plan you listed, so it will be okay ?”

Although Gao Xiaojuan's words still contained negative emotions, Sheng Yang could see that she had changed a lot compared to before.

So, that night, she made a schedule. Huanhuan and Lele could only watch their mobile phones for two hours on weekends, including puzzle games, cartoons, and children's songs.

And Huang Jiaming also began to use his spare time to read books, planning to test his professional title.

In the past, as long as Sheng Yang asked Huang Jiaming to read books, he would have a lot of opinions. Since seeing a psychiatrist, she has not had such a big opinion on Sheng Yang, and she will not think that Sheng Yang is not used to him deliberately finding fault .

Sometimes, a seemingly difficult thing to change, a small action, can make a big difference.The premise is that peace of mind is very important.Many problems arise because of negative emotions and bad attitudes.Even more so between husband and wife.

During this period of time, the communication between Sheng Yang and Huang Jiaming increased significantly, and the relationship improved a lot.

Huanhuan felt curious, so she secretly asked Sheng Yang, "Mom, are you dating Dad?"

After Sheng Yang heard this, he felt very nonsensical, so he asked, "Huanhuan, what do you think is falling in love?"

Huanhuan listened, thought for a while, and then suddenly covered her mouth and laughed, looking like a big kid: "Dating love means two people get married!"

"Oh." Sheng Yang smiled, "So that's how it is."

"Mom, who will I marry when I grow up?" Huanhuan suddenly opened her eyes and asked very seriously.

Sheng Yang thought for a while before answering: "When you grow up, you will naturally meet a boy you like. If you meet a boy you like, if you are suitable for each other in every aspect, you may enter the palace of marriage. "

"Oh" Huanhuan seemed to understand, but after asking, he suddenly thought of something, and then suddenly asked Sheng Yang in a low voice, "Mom, when a little girl grows up, will grandma grow up?"

Sheng Yang nodded: "Yes, this is a natural change of the body."

After hearing this, Huanhuan suddenly stopped laughing, as if worried.

Sheng Yang was a little puzzled, so he asked, "Huanhuan, what are you thinking about?"

Huanhuan suddenly looked a little shy, and said in a low voice: "I think the child's eldest grandma is so embarrassing."

Seeing Huanhuan like this, Sheng Yang thought she was cute.At the same time, she also thought about when her body began to develop, she also had a lot of worries.At that time, the concept of parents was much more "closed" than it is now, and she didn't dare to talk about this issue with Zhou Jing at all.Including her first period, she didn't know how to deal with it, and secretly stole Zhou Jing's sanitary napkin at home.It is precisely because she has to steal every time that she has a lot of resistance to menstruation, and she is always worried about being discovered by her family.
The same is true for the initial development of her body. She even worried that others would discover her physical changes, and she felt a little ashamed. As a result, for a long time, she even walked bent over, for fear that people would discover her "little secrets." ".

It was precisely because of personal experience that Huanhuan suddenly mentioned this today, and she was not surprised at all.

Not only was it not surprising, but she was a little lucky—she finally had the opportunity to explain this issue to Huanhuan.

She said to Huanhuan: "Huanhuan, there is nothing shameful about normal physical development, it is a sign of good health."

Huanhuan asked another question while thinking: "Mom, will I have a baby in the future?"

"Yes."

"Then how many babies should I have?" Huanhuan asked.

Sheng Yang thought for a while: "How many babies do you want to have?"

Huanhuan thought for a while before answering, "I want to have three."

Sheng Yang was about to say something, when Huanhuan asked again: "Do you think it would be better for me to have a boy baby or a girl baby?"

"I think it's all good." Sheng Yang said, "Since you plan to have three children, then there will be a boy and a girl, right?"

After Huanhuan listened, she thought carefully for a few seconds and then shook her head: "Forget it, I don't really want to have a baby."

"Why?" Sheng Yang asked.

Huanhuan seemed a little worried: "I heard that giving birth to a baby is very painful, and I don't want to give birth anymore."

After hearing this, Sheng Yang was slightly taken aback, and then asked again: "How do you know that giving birth is painful?"

"I heard what our classmate said." Huanhuan gasped at this point, "I heard that if you cut your stomach open, it will bleed."

Seeing that Huanhuan looked worried and scared, Sheng Yang comforted him, "Huanhuan is fine, it's not that scary. Mom will buy you some books when the time comes to let you learn about this, okay?" ?”

After listening to it, Huanhuan quickly asked, "Is it an interesting book?"

"Of course." Sheng Yang looked at Huanhuan's wide-eyed and curious face, and said with a smile, "Mom will watch it with you and Lele, okay?"

"Okay!" Huanhuan laughed, and the worried look on his face just now disappeared completely.

It has to be said that children's emotions are really unpredictable.But it is precisely in this way that we can see more innocence and childishness.

Immediately afterwards, Sheng Yang specially bought some pop-up children's books about body awareness and sex education.

When she and Huan Lele read these books together, the two little sisters were very happy.Although I had a preliminary understanding of the body before, this time with Sheng Yang's explanation and everyone's interaction, I solved a lot of confusion and added a lot of fun.

During this time, Zhou Jing discovered Huang Jiaming's changes, so he said to Huang Yunshan, "Look, Jiaming has changed a lot under my guidance recently."

Before Gao Xiaojuan finished speaking, Huang Yunshan asked, "You just started teaching now? Why did you go so early?"

Gao Xiaojuan wanted to ask for credit, but she failed and was ridiculed instead. She suddenly became angry, so she asked Huang Yunshan: "As a father, what have you done for Jiaming since he was a child? Since Jiaming was born, how many days have you been with him? How many times have you tutored? Do you know how many points he scored in each exam from elementary school to high school? Do you know when he went to university and graduated? "

Gao Xiaojuan's sudden question stopped Huang Yunshan from asking.

He was stunned for a long time with the cigarette between his fingers, unable to speak a word.

Gao Xiaojuan said again: "You don't know anything, including now that you're retired, you don't care much about your children. Even Huanhuan and Lele are taken care of by us. You drink tea and smoke all day long, and don't care about anything. Ask, if something goes wrong, blame me, have you thought about what you didn't do well?"

Huang Yunshan choked for a long time, but still couldn't speak a word.Then she suddenly stood up from her seat, gave Gao Xiaojuan a blank look, and walked away with a cigarette between her hands.

Gao Xiaojuan sat on the head of the bed, the more she thought about it, the more angry she became.

But at the same time, she felt relieved: this time, it was the first time she "contradicted" Huang Yunshan like this, and Huang Yunshan didn't dare to reply to him.

The reason why Huang Yunshan had such a change, she knew better than anyone else.

Before, Huang Yunshan could not get used to Huang Jiaming in various ways. He always felt that it was because of Gao Xiaojuan's doting and improper education that his only son was not enterprising. .

For this reason, Gao Xiaojuan was naturally wronged.But in the face of Huang Jiaming, who is addicted to games and does not want to make progress, she still has no confidence to resist.

But now, seeing Huang Jiaming start to make changes, even if it's just the first step in the journey of thousands of miles, she seems to have suddenly gained a bargaining chip against Huang Yunshan.

(End of this chapter)