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Chapter 34 The Child-Fearing "Middle-Aged Beautiful Girl"

Everyone knows that Zheng Haiyang loved, respected, and feared Zhang Min all his life, and he is known far and wide as a "strict wife".

But because Zhang Min is smart and beautiful, he is also willing to be a strict wife.Not only did he not feel that he would lose face, but he also felt that this was his blessing.

Of course, there is another key reason why Zheng Haiyang is so accommodating to Zhang Min: because she gave birth to Zheng Gege.

According to the concept of their generation, shouldn't a woman have a child?What's the big deal?What's more, Zhang Min gave birth to a daughter, and in the traditional concept, this is not something to be proud of.

The reason for all this starts from the day when Zhang Min gave birth. Before Zhang Min gave birth, her amniotic fluid broke, and she lay on the operating table for a day and a night. Later, the pain was so painful that she almost fainted, so she had to change from a normal delivery to a caesarean section. .
In Zhang Min's own words, in order to give birth to Zheng Gege, she walked through the gate of hell.

When Zheng Gege was born, Zhang Min saw in the delivery room that she had worked so hard to give birth to a girl, and suddenly burst into tears from grief.

When she cried, the doctors and nurses present were frightened, and they took turns persuading her, telling her, "Girls are careful, and when they grow up, they know how to love their parents."

But the more the doctor persuaded her, the more she cried and almost fainted again.

Later, the doctors and nurses stopped persuading her and let her cry.In the hearts of those doctors and nurses, Zhang Min was also labeled as "patriarchal".

But how could they know that the reason why Zhang Min was so sad was because she felt that the daughter she had given birth through so much hardship would have to endure the pain of childbirth in the future, so her heart ached!
Therefore, since Zheng Gege was sensible, Zhang Min described to her over and over again how painful it was when she gave birth to her. In order to prove the reality of this pain, he often showed Zheng Gege the long line on her belly scar.
Zheng Gege still remembers the feeling she felt when she saw the scar on Zhang Min's stomach for the first time, and it is no exaggeration to describe it as shocking.After all, she was only three or four years old that year, and that scar looked like a giant centipede in her eyes.
Later, because Zheng Gege often looked at the "centipede", he was not so afraid.However, another kind of fear has been rooted in her heart since then. She has a strong resistance and fear of "female childbirth".

As an adult, whenever she heard Zhang Min talk about the pain of giving birth, she said: I will not have children in the future, but be a DINK.

At first, both Zhang Min and Zheng Haiyang were a little surprised and helpless, after all, they only had one daughter.But later Zheng Gege talked a lot, and they seemed to be brainwashed, so it didn't matter.Later, it was accepted.

Therefore, since Zheng Gege established a relationship with Han Xu, he told him: I don't plan to have children in the future, and I want to be a DINK.

At that time, Han Xu was only in his early twenties, and Zheng Gege was beautiful, temperamental, and tasteful, so he was fascinated by all kinds of meat and vegetables, and his career had just started, so he was incompetent in all aspects. Once you are on the right track, how can you still think about the unreachable fertility issue?
Today, Zhang Min and Zheng Haiyang came and brought Zheng Gege a large box of imported fruits, and specially made her favorite dishes.

After the meal, Zhang Min and Zheng Gege took a lunch break in the bedroom.

After Zheng Gege lay down beside Zhang Min, Zhang Min asked softly: "I heard that Han Xu's sister-in-law gave birth to another son, is it true?"

Zheng Gege was startled for a moment, then turned to look at Zhang Min: "Who told you?"

Zhang Min gave her an angry look: "Who else? Han Xu said it when he was chatting with your father just now."

"Oh" Zheng Gege smiled, and then asked, "Isn't that good? I won't have any pressure to bear children at all in the future."

"Why?" Zhang Min was puzzled.

Zheng Gege quickly replied: "There were no males in the next generation of the Han family before. Didn't his mother always look forward to having a grandson. Now it's all right, the grandson has come out, and everything will be fine."

After Zheng Gege finished speaking, he also made a satisfied grimace.

But only she knows what kind of impact what happened after returning to Han Xu's house this time has had on her.

She had never had fertility anxiety before, and now she suddenly has fertility anxiety.

After hearing this, Zhang Min was silent for a few seconds, turned over, looked at the ceiling and sighed softly: "If you had a baby when you were young, it will probably be much better now."

"Mom, what are you talking about?" Zheng Gege quickly interrupted Zhang Min's words, and the dissatisfaction in his emotions was obvious.

Zhang Min continued to look at the ceiling, sighed slightly, and then continued: "But if you don't have a baby, you don't have a baby. It's not easy to have a baby. I almost died to give birth to you, and I don't want you to suffer." Such pain."

After Zheng Gege listened, he didn't make a sound.

However, just when Gege Zheng closed his eyes and was about to take a nap, Zhang Min said again: "However, it is different from our time now. In our time, we basically had normal births, and we switched to caesarean section when it really failed. Now that medicine is advanced , in order to avoid pain, many people directly choose to have a caesarean section, so it is not so scary.”

When she said this, Zheng Gege suddenly opened her eyes: "Mom, you won't change your mind again, do you want me to have a baby?"

After Zhang Min listened, he didn't answer for a long time.

Zheng Gege couldn't bear it anymore, turned his head and looked at Zhang Min with disbelief: "Mom, you don't really want me to have a baby, do you?"

Zhang Min still didn't look at her, and his tone was still calm: "Even if I really want you to give birth, can you still give birth? You are already forty, and women only have their first child when they are forty. This..."

"You really think so?" Zheng Gege suddenly sat up from the bed while speaking.

Only then did Zhang Min cast his eyes on her, and after a few seconds of stunned, he suddenly smiled, and then reached out and patted Zheng Gege on the back: "Forget it, let me just say it casually, it will scare you." ?!"

"I wasn't scared by you!" Zheng Gege was still sitting there, his eyes full of dissatisfaction, "I was scared by you!"

"What's so angry about this?" Zhang Min immediately sat up heavily, and hugged Zheng Gege, "Forget about my little princess, you are a child, what kind of child do you have?"

Zheng Gege's mood improved obviously, but he still spoke angrily: "I'm not a child!"

"Why not a child?" Zhang Min scolded, "A 40-year-old boy!"

Zheng Gege, who was in a calm mood, suddenly thought of something, and then changed the subject: "Mom, I went back to see Han Xu and his sister-in-law this time, and I feel really old. I was thin at first, but now I look more like an empty woman." It's shell."

Hearing this, Zhang Min immediately echoed: "That's not true, do you think it's easy for a woman to have a child? The energy and flesh and blood in my body have already raised a child."

"Mom, can you stop talking so scary?" Zheng Gege turned to look at her with dissatisfaction.

"I didn't mean to scare you. That's the rationale." Zhang Min said again, "However, his sister-in-law has made a contribution this time. In the future, your mother-in-law will stop urging you to have a baby, which is also a good thing."

"Hmm." Zheng Gege was thoughtful.

"Go to sleep." Zhang Min immediately lay down, followed by Zheng Gege. The mother and daughter closed their eyes almost at the same time, as if they were asleep, but they seemed not at all.

(End of this chapter)