Sunshine starting line

Chapter 51

Since Sheng Yang had a big fight with Huang Jiaming, although she was calm on the surface, her disgust towards Huang Jiaming became stronger and stronger in her heart.She even felt that a person like Huang Jiaming could do nothing but eat, drink, burp, fart, and play games!
The idea of ​​divorce slowly sprouted in her mind.

It was precisely because of this that she specially asked Qianhui to drink coffee at the "Zhiyu" cafe.

Although the relationship between Shengyang and Qianhui is not bad, it is far from the point of exchanging thoughts.

The reason why Shengyang went to Qianhui to discuss her concerns was because she wanted to divorce, but she didn't have the courage to take the first step.And Qianhui has been divorced, and she wants to find some experience from it as a reference.

After Qianhui received Shengyang's invitation, she handed over Yueyue to her neighbors, and then went to the "Zhiyu" cafe.

When Qianhui arrived, she saw Sheng Yang sitting in the corner of the cafe. She hurriedly walked over, and after standing still, she said to Sheng Yang, "Sorry, I'm late."

"It's not too late, I just arrived." Sheng Yang also stood up while speaking.

After both of them sat down, Sheng Yang began to look at Qianhui. She was dressed plainly and didn't even put on makeup, but she was still beautiful and dignified.

She felt more and more that Qianhui was quite beautiful, and she belonged to the type who looked more and more beautiful.If it is said that Zheng Gege's beauty is born with nine points, then Qianhui has cultivated her innate appearance of seven points to nine points.

Immediately afterwards, Sheng Yang ordered a cup of longan red date tea, and Qian Hui ordered a cup of latte.

When Sheng Yang watched Qianhui sipping a latte, he couldn't help being curious, so he asked, "Aren't you afraid of insomnia when you drink coffee at night?"

Holding a dark blue coffee cup, Qianhui said with a faint smile, "I'm not afraid. Coffee is my must-have drink at night. Once I get used to it, I won't suffer from insomnia."

Sheng Yang was still a little curious, so he asked again: "But why did you choose to drink coffee at night?"

In her impression, Chinese women drink coffee in the morning or afternoon, and few of them drink coffee at night.

Qianhui thought for a while, then pursed her lips and smiled: "Maybe I'm a different kind!"

Although Sheng Yang didn't know what Qianhui meant by "heterogeneous", he didn't think much about it, let alone ask.After all, in her eyes, Qianhui has always had a sense of mystery, which is unpredictable.It's like when she and Xu Zijun were together, outsiders thought they were very suitable and happy, but she left as soon as she said it, without warning.

While Sheng Yang was thinking, Qian Hui had already put down the coffee cup in her hand: "Sheng Yang, ask me out today, is there something wrong?"

Although Sheng Yang always felt that there was a lot of grievances and nothing to say, but when Qianhui asked suddenly, she didn't know how to speak for a while.

Qianhui seemed to see something, and then said: "Last time because of Yueyue, you helped me a lot. So, if you have any difficulties, just ask, and I will definitely do my best."

After hearing this, Sheng Yang hesitated and said, "Actually, it's not a big deal."

"That's better." Qianhui said immediately, "Since it's not a big deal, it's probably within my ability."

Sheng Yang organized his words in his mind, and then asked in a low voice: "Qianhui, is the divorce rate much higher now than before?"

After hearing this, Qianhui was slightly taken aback, and immediately replied: "Judging from the data reported in the news, it is indeed the case."

Sheng Yang then asked: "What do you think is the reason for the high divorce rate now? Is it because women are independent and don't need marriage anymore? Or is it because there are so few happy marriages, and a lot of happiness is actually an illusion? Once the bubble of happiness is shattered, and only some trivial things are left, slowly, numbness and disappointment begin.”

Qianhui listened carefully to Sheng Yang's words, but she didn't express her opinion immediately.

Seeing that Qianhui didn't speak, Sheng Yang spoke again.Moreover, once the chatterbox is opened, it can't be stopped: "Before I got married, I always felt that I am a person who loves first, and that a man who is willing to marry you is the greatest respect for love. After getting married, I realized that , Marriage is too complicated, and it is not the same thing as pure love. All kinds of trivial things gather together, one after another, and you can never finish dealing with it. And imagine that there is a world of two people after marriage, but in fact it is so much In the world, and you are the elders, no matter they are right or wrong, you must give them enough respect. What's worse, they will also interfere in the life of young couples, all kinds of finger pointing. If it is before marriage, I heard When married people say this, they will feel that it doesn’t matter. They will feel that as long as two people love each other, nothing is a problem, and everything can be overcome. After I got married, I realized that it can be overcome once or twice, and it can barely be overcome ten times or twenty times. But if Hundreds of times, countless times, then it may not be possible to overcome. Even if it is really overcome, it will leave a shadow in my heart."

Qianhui listened, paused for half a second, and then echoed: "Indeed, I used to be a person who puts love first. When I met love, I would be very irrational and keep adding beauty filters to each other. Then the filter broke for a while. However, I still had the hope of changing the other person. Later I found that no matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t change it. I also suddenly understood that after a person has lived in this world for 30 or [-] years, his personality, habits, and lifestyle are almost the same. It has been fixed, and it is impossible to change without a major change. So, I gave up. Therefore, if a woman wants to find a suitable partner, she should not just rely on her feelings, but fall in love with his strengths. Don't think about turning him into what you like after marriage, but find someone you really admire from the very beginning."

Listening to Qianhui's words, the voice felt like she had spoken in her heart.

Once upon a time, she also hoped to change Huang Jiaming through her own efforts.Or, she is still like this now.But in fact?Not only could it not be changed, but it also caused a lot of contradictions.When a woman is looking for a partner when she is young, she really needs to keep her eyes open and not follow her feelings.

To love someone, you have to fall in love with his strengths and characteristics, the part of him that is highly compatible with yourself, not the feeling of love.

Sheng Yang took a sip of the jujube tea, and suddenly remembered his life on the university campus.At that time, everyone was carefree and only wanted to find a good job and a good husband after marriage.But I don't want to, there is no fixed and unified standard for "good job" or "good husband".So, after falling in love, working, and getting married, there are still constant troubles and conflicts.As a result, the heart full of longing began to stir in the dissatisfaction of reality.But too many people told her: a woman, it doesn't matter who she marries.No matter who you marry, there will be a lot of pain and unwillingness, even anger.

(End of this chapter)