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Chapter 75 Defects or Features
After reading it, Huang Yunshan said, "I don't think this fits Huanhuan's situation either. 'Sit still' is not the same thing as 'sitting around on a stool'. Huanhuan can't sit for too long, but Not moving around on the stool."

Before Huang Yunshan finished speaking, Huang Jiaming said, "I agree too."

"That's fine, I'll modify this, and I'll write it down." The voice said while marking the questionnaire.

Maybe it was because of Sheng Yang's "compromise", Gao Xiaojuan continued: "Don't always think that your child is not good, and don't always be disappointed in her."

Before Sheng Yang could speak, Gao Xiaojuan started again, her eyes still fixed on the questionnaire: "Look, you have ticked off many of the papers, except for the 'stealing behavior' and 'not returning at night'. It's too much, and it has nothing to do with Huanhuan, you didn't tick it, and you can't wait to tick everything else."

"Didn't I fill it out objectively?" Sheng Yang asked, "Isn't it normal for me to reflect the truth?"

After Gao Xiaojuan listened, she didn't make a sound, but her face was obviously not good-looking.

Sheng Yang probably saw Gao Xiaojuan's psychology. She always thought that "ADHD" was a disease, so she was very worried, so she avoided it repeatedly.

Therefore, it is necessary for her to clarify the relevant issues.

Thinking of this, Sheng Yang explained: "Grandma, there is a problem I need to clarify with you. We must recognize a fact: ADHD is not a defect, but a feature. Children with ADHD are often more innovative And adventurous, flexible thinking. And they have ideas, courage, dare to continue to try and explore, and it is not impossible to achieve outstanding achievements in the future. It is just that lack of concentration may lead to poor grades. "

After hearing this, Gao Xiaojuan seemed relieved, but quickly raised her own question: "ADHD is usually in boys, and Huanhuan is in girls. How could it be ADHD?"

Sheng Yang continued to analyze: "It is true that children with ADHD are mainly boys, but they do not necessarily have no girls. It is just for the characteristic of 'hyperactivity' that boys tend to be more prominent and easier to be discovered. Girls, It's often hard to find."

Gao Xiaojuan listened, thought for a while, and turned her head to Shengyang: "I heard that many children with ADHD have high IQs. Is it true? I always think that Huanhuan has a high IQ, and is much smarter than ordinary children."

After hearing this, Sheng Yang felt a little coquettish and nonsensical, so he replied: "As for the high IQ of children with ADHD, this is not conclusive. ADHD has nothing to do with intelligence." Sheng Yang said, "Even if there are people with high IQs with ADHD, It’s also survivor bias.”

Gao Xiaojuan seemed to understand, but she was a little disappointed: "Then this ADHD doesn't have many advantages?"

Sheng Yang was helpless, and continued: "As I said just now, ADHD does not need to be regarded as a disease, and it is too panic. It also does not need to be regarded as an advantage. We treat it with a normal heart, and that's fine. Among ADHD, there are those who do nothing all their lives, and there are also those who do nothing. Great achievements have been made. For example, among the 45 presidents of the United States, 5 have had ADHD patients. Therefore, ADHD is not so terrible. The key is to develop their strengths and potentials and turn disadvantages into advantages. Now the children are still young , I don’t know how to adjust. So the more this is the case, the more parents should pay attention to it, help them correct it, give them help and support, instead of blindly flattering or avoiding it.”

Gao Xiaojuan finally calmed down.

Next, the family began to discuss the questionnaire and where adjustments were needed.

After half an hour, everything was done.

After the meeting adjourned, Sheng Yang began to do follow-up related work.

(End of this chapter)