Sunshine starting line

Chapter 91
Just when Gao Xiaojuan and Huang Yunshan were having trouble, Sheng Yang had already arrived at the hospital.

After re-registering, her number was quickly called.

After she handed over all the test results of Huanhuan to Director Deng, Director Deng looked at it carefully and said: "From the test results, she does not belong to ADHD, her intelligence is quite good, and she has no attention disorder. "

After hearing this, Sheng Yang asked, "But Huanhuan is really not concentrating. Shall we give her a trace element test? See if she is deficient in trace elements?"

Director Deng shook his head: "Personally, I don't think it's necessary, but if you want to test, you can. As far as the problem of inattention is concerned, I think it's better to do a lead test instead of a trace element test. See if there is lead poisoning. But based on my last observation of her, she does not have this problem."

Sheng Yang thought for a while, and frowned slightly: "But Director Deng, Huanhuan was really distracted in class a while ago, what's going on?"

After hearing this, Director Deng did not answer right away, but took out the questionnaire filled out by the school, read it once, and then raised his head: "From what her teacher filled out, she is only a bit concerned about attention. question."

"Yes." Sheng Yang said quickly, "I'm most worried about her attention problem, after all, it will affect her study."

After Sheng Yang said it, Director Deng didn't agree, as if he was thinking about something.

Sheng Yang asked again: "Director Deng, if Huanhuan is not ADHD, could it be other problems that cause her inattention?"

"It's possible." Director Deng nodded.

"Then what are the reasons that may cause the problem of inattention?" Sheng Yang asked quickly.

While thinking about it, Director Deng said: "For example, being addicted to electronic products for a long time. In other words, family disharmony and family quarrels may cause children to lose concentration. However, this already belongs to the psychological category."

Hearing this, Sheng Yang couldn't help but "thump" in her heart. At the same time, scenes kept reappearing in her mind: the big quarrel between her and Huang Jiaming not long ago; Nosebleed; and Huang Jiaming playing games with Huanhuan
Sheng Yang thought for a while and asked: "If the child witnesses the elders in the family quarreling, will it cause a great psychological impact? Will it be serious enough to affect her concentration?"

"Yes." Director Deng nodded and continued, "If there is a conflict in the family and she witnesses it, it will have a great impact on her psychology. Sometimes even if the child does not say it clearly, Or she didn’t admit it when you asked, but the influence also exists objectively.”

When Sheng Yang heard this, she already knew it in her heart, and she asked again: "Huanhuan also has a bad temper, is this born or acquired?"

"There are some of them." Director Deng said, "A part of a child's personality is hereditary, and a large part of it is acquired. For example, she has some problems that were not corrected when she was young. It will make her extremely rebellious, and she will confront her parents, elders, and even school teachers."

"I see, thank you Director Deng."

Director Deng then urged: "After you go back, find a way to correct some of her bad habits. You should also do related exercises when you are not concentrating. At the same time, find the root cause and prescribe the right medicine. If after a while, her problems will be solved. If it still doesn’t improve, or even gets worse, then you have to bring her in for a re-test and a re-diagnosis.”

"OK, thanks."

On the way home, Sheng Yang opened the car window, the wind was blowing her long hair, and she immediately felt much better.

During this period of time, even though she looked normal every day, the three words "ADHD" were always in her mind, like a rock that could never fall to the ground, pressing there with no weight or weight.As long as I think about it, I can't breathe.

Outside the car window, there is sunlight, but it is not brilliant.But it was this unglamorous light that illuminated her whole body.

There are no dark clouds in my heart, and the world is full of sunshine.

However, such a relaxed, comfortable and comfortable feeling did not stay for too long.

Soon, she fell into another trouble.Yes, she is troubled by Huanhuan's psychological problems.

Moreover, when she thought that these psychological problems were all caused by family education and some family conflicts, she couldn't help being a little angry.

In her view, some things could have been avoided.However, due to the negligence and carelessness of the family members, the problem occurred, and it became more and more serious.
When Sheng Yang returned home, before he could stand still, Huang Yunshan immediately asked, "What did the doctor say?"

Sheng Yang replied truthfully: "She is not ADHD, but she does have problems with concentration. And the doctor also said that this has a lot to do with our family."

Before Sheng Yang finished speaking, Huang Yunshan stood up suddenly, and asked with a surprised face: "How could it be related to our family?"

As soon as Huang Yunshan finished speaking, Gao Xiaojuan walked out of the bedroom, echoing as she walked, "That's right, our family is such a good one, how could the problem of Huanhuan be caused by our family?"

Sheng Yang went on to say: "First, our family adopted a free-range model for Huanhuan when she was a child, which made her very casual and difficult to sit still. Over time, she had problems concentrating. Second, I recently During the quarrel with Huang Jiaming, Huang Jiaming threw all the books on the ground. Huanhuan was present at the time. This incident should have had a considerable impact on her. Third, during the Spring Festival, Huanhuan was exposed to too many electronic products, which made her addicted to various electronic products. games, so it’s hard to concentrate after returning to school.”

After Sheng Yang said something, Huang Yunshan fell silent.

But Gao Xiaojuan quickly began to mutter: "I'll just say, Huanhuan is doing well, why can't she listen to the class? It turned out that it was caused by your quarrel."

When she said this, she turned her eyes to Shengyang again, with a cautious reproach in her tone: "Shengyang, I didn't blame you. You have to change your temper. It's fine if you quarrel with Huang Jiaming, he is an adult People, good psychological quality. But you also have to think about Huanhuan, look at the one who tormented her. I guess since the quarrel between you guys, Huanhuan can't sleep well!"

When Gao Xiaojuan was talking, Sheng Yang looked at her without a moment, without saying a word.

Originally, she really wanted to talk about the conflict between Gao Xiaojuan and Huang Yunshan, and what Huang Yunshan did.But when she thought about her husband's family's problems, she shouldn't always intervene, so she didn't say anything.She thought that Gao Xiaojuan would have thought of it even if she didn't say it.But judging from the current situation, Gao Xiaojuan not only didn't think about it, but also started to blame her!
Sheng Yang paused, suppressed the dissatisfaction in his heart, and then slowly said: "The time with Huang Jiaming, I didn't have much with him. This incident is over, and it will never happen again. But there are two other points that we have to pay attention to.”

"What are the other two points?" Gao Xiaojuan asked, staring straight at Sheng Yang during the question.

At this moment, Sheng Yang looked at Gao Xiaojuan, angry, funny, and helpless!

Dare she say so much just now, Gao Xiaojuan only remembers the conflict between her and Huang Jiaming?

However, Sheng Yang quickly adjusted his emotions, and said patiently: "The doctor suggested that we should correct Huanhuan immediately when we see something wrong in the future. The doctor also asked us to supervise Huanhuan and not let her She was exposed to video games, which caused her to be cranky and also lead to a loss of concentration."

Yes, this time she no longer makes subjective expressions, but uses herself as the doctor's "microphone".

Sure enough, Gao Xiaojuan quickly became serious when she came like this: "Then what problems in Huanhuan need to be corrected?"

Sheng Yang thought for a while and replied: "For example, the problem of Huanhuan's inability to sit still can be corrected. The reason why she is like this, on the one hand, is related to the fact that no matter what she did when she was young, someone would always interrupt her."

Before Sheng Yang finished speaking, Gao Xiaojuan quickly interrupted her: "Where did we interrupt her?"

Sheng Yang paused, and then continued with what he just said: "For example, when Huanhuan was playing games alone when she was young, we always went to touch her, hug her, or kiss her, which would make her lose her concentration. .”

"We're like this, isn't it because we love her?" Gao Xiaojuan asked quickly.

Sheng Yang smiled, and continued to say patiently: "It is indeed love. Our original intention is love. But it is also the first time we are parents, and the first time we are elders."

"That's not true. You are the first time to be a parent, but I am not." Gao Xiaojuan interrupted Sheng Yang again, "When Jiaming was young, how well I took care of him!"

After Gao Xiaojuan finished speaking, Sheng Yang stared at her for a long time.The more she watched, the more she felt that Gao Xiaojuan hated her, especially when she thought of Gao Xiaojuan's deliberate plan to exchange Lele back, she wanted to get mad instantly.

Gao Xiaojuan felt a little uncomfortable being stared at by her, so she raised her hand to touch her wool roll: "Shengyang, what are you looking at? Is there a flower on my face?"

Sheng Yang adjusted his emotions about to collapse, and asked calmly: "Grandma, can you let me finish my sentence? I asked for leave today and went to the hospital to ask the doctor about the results. Now I'm coming back to convey, why do you Can't you just listen to what I have to say?"

"All right, all right," Gao Xiaojuan quickly touched her wool roll, and said, "Say it, talk it, keep talking."

Sheng Yang paused for a moment before continuing: "It is precisely because Huanhuan grew up in our multi-person family, and when she was young, we didn't formulate a unified parenting plan, which led to the appearance of her in the process of her growth. There are many problems. Of course, these problems are not big problems, so we have neglected them and paid no attention to them, let alone thinking that these small problems will affect Huanhuan's growth. In short, now that the doctor has brought it up, we will try our best to correct it. At that time, I will make a form to record and evaluate Huanhuan's performance on weekdays, count the scores every week, and summarize monthly. If she performs well, she can be rewarded appropriately. If she does not perform well, she will be deducted. points, and corresponding punishments shall be made.”

After listening, Gao Xiaojuan was silent for a while, and then said: "Okay, you can discuss it with Jiaming."

That night, after Sheng Yang and Huang Jiaming discussed about Huanhuan's situation, they formulated Huanhuan's study plan and assessment form together.After it was done, I showed it to Huanhuan.Although Huanhuan was a little surprised, she also put forward some suggestions for modification.The three sat together and "studied" for more than an hour before they finally settled on the contents of the two tables.

Sheng Yang discovered again: Although Huang Jiaming's personality is twisted and he is not very motivated, he still cares about children's education.

(End of this chapter)