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Chapter 98 Love "Psychological Counseling"

During this time, Sheng Yang was still worrying about Huanhuan's attention.

Whenever she has time, she will find time to talk to Liu Zixuan, Huanhuan's class teacher, and ask about Huanhuan's performance in class.

Liu Zixuan told her that Huanhuan's recent performance is better than that at the beginning of school, but there are still times when her mind wanders.

Sheng Yang was thinking about how to reverse this situation as much as possible. After much deliberation, she decided to formally apologize to Huanhuan for the quarrel with Huang Jiaming last time.

That night, while comforting Huanhuan to sleep, she asked softly, "Huanhuan, did your father and mother quarrel last time, did it scare you?"

When Huanhuan heard this question, her expression was obviously stunned for a moment, as if she was remembering, but also as if she wanted to nod.

After about half a second, Huanhuan shook her head: "No, I wasn't scared."

Even though Huanhuan said so, Sheng Yang could still see the clue from her somewhat complicated expression.

Although Huanhuan is still young, she also knows how to protect face.In her cognition, "scared", "scared" and "nervous" are all bad, and they are all words that can prove her timidity and lack of bravery.

Realizing this, Sheng Yang smiled and said, "It's nothing, it's normal for Huanhuan to be scared. That time, Mom was also scared."

After Sheng Yang finished speaking, Huanhuan moved her lips, as if she wanted to say something.But in the end, he didn't say a word, and pursed his lips.

Seeing this, Sheng Yang said, "Also, it's wrong to beat someone up and quarrel. Especially when arguing in front of your own children, it's even more wrong. In this case, it will not only affect your mood, but also affect your children's emotions." Mood. So, mom is wrong, mom apologizes to you, and will never quarrel again, okay?"

Huanhuan seemed a little disbelieving, and turned to look at Shengyang with a half-believing expression on his face.

Sheng Yang understands: Huanhuan really hopes that what she said is true.But I also feel that this is unlikely.

Sheng Yang thought for a while, and then asked: "Huanhuan, did mother say anything before, when she didn't do it?"

Huanhuan thought about it seriously, and after thinking for a long time, she shook her head: "No."

"That's right, mom never lied to you before, and she didn't break her promise. This time, mom won't break her promise." Sheng Yang's tone became more and more serious, "What mom said, I will definitely do."

Huanhuan continued to stare at Sheng Yang with half-believing eyes for a while, then nodded: "En."

While gently stroking Huanhuan's back, Sheng Yang said, "Mom promises not to quarrel again, and tell grandpa and grandma not to quarrel again, okay?"

"Okay." Huanhuan answered quickly this time.

Sheng Yang paused, and then said: "Huanhuan, did you know that when I was a child, my mother would lose her mind when she was in class."

"Really?" Huanhuan opened her eyes wide with curiosity, "Then what did my mother think when she was distracted in class when she was a child?"

Sheng Yang thought for a while, and then said: "Mom was hungry when she was a child, and she would want to eat delicious food. She would miss the braised pork, boiled pork slices, and bean curd made by your grandma. Anyway, there are so many of them. Every time I think of Gotta drool."

Huanhuan also swallowed her saliva: "Is the braised pork delicious?"

"Well, it's delicious." Sheng Yang said, "It's soft and waxy, it melts in your mouth, and the taste is super good. When grandma is free, ask her to cook braised pork for you, okay?"

"Okay." The curiosity on Huanhuan's face is gradually turning into anticipation.

Sheng Yang hugged Huanhuan into his arms, and then asked, "Huanhuan, what do you think about when you're distracted in class?"

Huanhuan thought for a while before answering: "Sometimes I'm hungry, and I want to eat something delicious. Sometimes, I think about fairy tales, and sometimes I want to play games."

When Huanhuan said this, she smiled shyly.Yes, shy, Sheng Yang saw Huanhuan shy for the first time, and found it very interesting.

"My mother used to think about some funny things when she was a child, but if she always thinks about these things in class, her grades will drop." Sheng Yang said while observing the changes in Huanhuan's expression, "Later, grandma told me that if you find yourself distracted Just pinch yourself, let yourself feel the pain, and you will get Shen'er back."

"Really?" Huanhuan smiled and pinched Sheng Yang's arm lightly, "Is that so?"

"Yes." Sheng Yang nodded, "It can be a little heavier, so that you can feel the pain."

"Is that so?" Huanhuan increased her strength a little more, her eyes were constantly observing the changes in Sheng Yang's expression, looking sly and cute.

"Yes, just this strength is fine." Sheng Yang said with a smile, "Huanhuan can also pinch herself like this to see if it hurts."

Huanhuan withdrew her hand, pinched her little arm hesitantly, then nodded while giggling: "Oh, it hurts, it hurts."

"Okay, in the future, if Huanhuan is distracted in class, I will try to pinch myself like this, okay?"

"it is good."

Immediately afterwards, Sheng Yang began to help Huanhuan with "psychological counseling". This set of psychological counseling was invented by Sheng Yang himself: while gently stroking Huanhuan's back, he fantasized about some tenderness, tranquility and beauty with Huanhuan. Scenes that are completely relaxing at the same time, and then she puts those scenes into words.

This way, you can feel maximum relaxation and tranquility, and you will soon fall asleep.

Sleep is as important to adults as it is to children.When a child maintains a good sleep, he will be full of energy in class the next day, and the phenomenon of distraction will be greatly reduced.

Moreover, through such "psychological counseling", not only can each other have a higher quality of sleep, but also invisibly strengthen the relationship with the child.After all, it is good for any child to experience maternal love to a greater extent and perceive the power of maternal love.

After Sheng Yang apologized to Huanhuan, she found Huang Jiaming and told him about it.

After hearing this, Huang Jiaming smiled and said, "That's pretty good!"

Sheng Yang paused for a moment, then asked: "What about you, do you have any ideas?"

Huang Jiaming was stunned for a moment: "What do I think?"

Sheng Yang replied: "I think you should also apologize to Huanhuan, a formal apology. And promise her that you will never quarrel in the future, and similar things will never happen again."

Before Sheng Yang finished speaking, Huang Jiaming immediately asked, "Then what if we quarrel again?"

"Then can't you control it?" Sheng Yang asked, "For the sake of the child, control your temper, what can't you do?"

After Huang Jiaming listened, he looked at Sheng Yang for a long time, and then asked: "I can control it, how about you? Can you?"

Sheng Yang was choked suddenly, and it took him a long time to calm down: "Why can't I? If I can't, will I tell you like this?"

"But, every quarrel is started by you." Huang Jiaming said.

Sheng Yang didn't speak immediately, but thought about it seriously.

Indeed, she was the one who started it every time.But every time it was because Huang Jiaming was playing games, if Huang Jiaming wasn't playing games, how could she have quarreled?

However, she also understands: Huang Jiaming's own question, she has raised countless times.If he wanted to change, he would have done so long ago.

But even so, Sheng Yang couldn't help but mention it again.Only this time, it was calm.

She said to Huang Jiaming: "Jiaming, for the sake of Huanhuan, can you play less games? I'm not asking you to quit directly, but to try to play less, which is not good for the child. The doctor also said last time, Electronic products are not good for children! Children learn by example. Parents play games and mobile phones, but they don’t let them play. They will be psychologically unbalanced, and because of the imbalance, they will not listen to their parents, and even fight against them. Yes. When Huanhuan is distracted in class, she also thinks about video games. This shows that playing games has already had a bad influence on her."

After Huang Jiaming listened, he didn't make a sound.

Sheng Yang was somewhat surprised by his performance this time.

In Sheng Yang's impression, this was the first time that Huang Jiaming didn't fall out with her because of the "game".

(End of this chapter)