Crazy

Chapter 278 Thoughtful, Ideal State

"This sister, Brother Ding's situation is very different from yours. He pinned all his hopes on his studies, and he is the hope of the whole family. His pressure and despair can be imagined. And his He is very introverted. When this happened, he didn't want to talk to anyone, and maybe he didn't have someone to talk to... As a result, the problem was blocked by him, forming an endless loop, that is, he was alone. He suffered a lot there and finally couldn't hold it anymore... In fact, he should be understood and respected, Senior Brother Ding is a hero."

"Yes, I have read all your objections, but I still think so. Why, Senior Brother Ding lived out his own meaning, at least he followed his own heart. You said his departure was meaningless, I I also feel very sorry, he could have come out, but his cognition is too narrow, there is more than one way to go in this world, sisters!"

"You are all my old fans. You must know what I have always said. Lying flat is not really inaction, nor is it really snobbish when looking at money. It is the same sentence, there are thousands of roads and ten thousand roads, we must first Alive! Then here comes the problem, sister, the problem you face is not to live, but how to live. You said that you didn't like to continue your studies, but your parents thought it would be more promising and more honorable. You can't beat them,... You said that you would rather live in a small third- and fourth-tier city, rather than being dizzy like an ant in the first-tier city, not knowing what to do..."

"It's great, sister! I have to give you 1 likes. You have your own ideas. Even though you have been following your parents' wishes and plans for so many years, you still have your own set of life logic. You see , Now that you are in such a difficult situation, you don’t even blame your parents, you don’t blame your mentor, you just feel that you are not capable enough and haven’t done your best... Sister, you are already great, you are the best OK!"

"If you want to ask my opinion, then I will definitely support you! I support you to go to third- and fourth-tier cities to lie flat! Why? Because this is a choice you made after careful consideration, and you are fully capable of taking responsibility for your choice We are here to enjoy the morning breeze, eat every meal calmly, and sleep well every night... Even if most of us can't do these things, it doesn't It prevents a small number of us from living an ideal state."

"Since we were born, we have been told by our parents to run all the way, for fear of losing at the starting line. Then what is our end point? Isn't it a spacious and bright house, a warm and warm family, a decent and not tiring job... ...What kind of job is not being a screw, sisters, take a breath, let life return to its original colors, and accept that less than perfect self..."

"Of course, some people insist that there are more opportunities in big cities, and children's educational resources will be better in the future. This is for sure. But I just ask you, what is the most luxurious education? It is love and companionship. If we don't have enough If we give our child so much love and companionship, how can we talk about giving him the best?!"

"Dare to think, dare to do, work hard, this is the character given to us by the times. At the same time, we must do what we can, know how to weigh the pros and cons, and seek the balance between reality and ideals. Sometimes, taking a step back is not because we are cowardly, let alone Failure on behalf of us, it happens that we have seized happiness. As for higher and farther ideals, they must be realized by more capable people, so we don't have to worry, we are relieved, the world I won't turn around."

(End of this chapter)