35 this year

Chapter 14
Looking at the back of Sheng Min leaving, Huang Guanyang was indignant, and then asked, "So, my brother was played by others, right?" After speaking, Huang Guanyang turned back to look at Chang Qing, who was slumped on the sofa, and saw his sluggish look. Huang Guanyang patted him and said, "Okay, it's been more than ten years, so there's nothing wrong with it."

Then Huang Guanyang looked at Chang Qing's face carefully as if he didn't know him. Chang Qing came back to his senses and asked him, "What are you looking at?" Huang Guanyang asked, "You don't really like that girl, do you? Tell me, you'd better not, this kind of woman is not allowed to get in. Still the same sentence, can't you find a young girl?"

After thinking about it, Chang Qing wanted to say, "Then you have to explain it clearly to others."

"Are you able to explain it to her? Are you really talking to me like someone else? What else do you know besides her name? You don't know anything about her, and she knows you from the bottom up."

Chang Qing thinks so too, he and Xu Hong have only known each other for three days, including today is the third day, but they have dug up his past and past, but he doesn't know anything about Xu Hong.Chang Qing felt that he was still curious about the phone call last night and who that man was, which made Xu Hong lose his composure to such an extent.Thinking about it, Chang Qing thought of Wang Yihan, Yuhe's husband who introduced him to Xu Hong.

It was already noon when Chang Qing rushed back to the company, and Wang Yihan was taking a lunch break. Chang Qing called him into the conference room and asked him about Xu Hong.About Yan Feng, Wang Yihan didn't know anything, he only knew that the three sisters would occasionally say an "F", but because of some taboos, the frequency of appearing was really not high. Now that I think about it, is this taboo the same as Xu Hong's taboo?

After thinking about it for a while, Wang Yihan dialed Yuhe's phone number, and after making love with Yuhe, he successfully got Yan Feng's phone number.Wang Yihan gave Chang Qing Yan Feng's contact information, and Chang Qing raised it heartily.Do you want to fight, and in what name?If Xu Hong knew about it, would he be scolded?Xu Hong's swearing is extremely ugly, will it lead to deeper misunderstandings?
After thinking about it, curiosity overcame "fear", Chang Qing called Yan Feng after thanking Wang Yihan.

The other end of the phone refused to answer at first, but after Chang Qing called twice, he finally answered, and then impatiently asked who it was. After Chang Qing expressed his intention, the voice on the other end of the phone became vigilant.Yan Feng confirmed again, "Who are you?"

"Xu Hong's boyfriend."

After a moment of silence, Yan Feng said, "Impossible! It is impossible for Xu Hong to have a boyfriend."

"Why is it impossible?"

Yan Feng fell silent again. In all his investigations, Xu Hong was single from the beginning to the end. He even spied on her social channels. In the only channel where he could see Xu Hong's information, he quietly followed her. However, Xu Hong, a woman, is too sensitive. When she found that he was peeping, she immediately closed or blocked the entire channel until he could no longer see her recent situation through any channel.Xu Hong, he won't leave any retreat for himself.

"What did you ask Xu Hong for yesterday?" Yan Feng's silence caused Chang Qing to ask again, and Yan Feng believed that he might really be Xu Hong's boyfriend. After all, how would he know about their quarrel, except Sheng Min, the only ones who can know this kind of private information are those who are close to Xu Hong.

Yan Feng asked, "What did Xu Hong say about me?"

"She didn't mention you."

"Haha..." Yan Feng's wry smile came from the phone, and Yan Feng said, "As expected, I think I'm ashamed and disgusting, so I never admitted it from the beginning to the end."

"Have you... cheated?" Xu Hong's question reminded Chang Qing again yesterday. Chang Qing thought that Xu Hong could immediately respond to this answer, and he must have had a similar experience.

Yan Feng couldn't argue with his words, organized his words, and said, "It doesn't matter, I was indeed breaking up with my girlfriend at the time, and I met Xu Hong after I broke up." Yan Feng, still refused to let go My unbearableness is presented in front of a stranger. After breaking up, no? If it is true as he said, how could Xu Hong be chased by a woman and ask "We are together, what can you do?" That is Xu Hong The most humiliating experience, the humiliation was so humiliating that I wanted to wipe it away, and it took several years to break free from the humiliation.

Chang Qing asked, "And then?"

"Then...then Xu Hong misunderstood, and then left directly when he graduated, and we lost contact."

"Did you never contact me again?"

Yan Feng was silent again, and then said, "I contacted you a few years ago, and Xu Hong refused to forgive me." Yan Feng, a liar, why did he avoid talking about Xu Hong's eloquence? Hong developed well, thinking that Xu Hong wanted to cling to him, but it turned out that Xu Hong was saving face. After Xu Hong couldn't bear to expose his vanity, and after knowing that Xu Hong earned several times his, Yan Feng even raised the question Let Xu Hong buy electronic products for him, and even lie to hide the fact that he has had many girlfriends over the years.After being exposed by Xu Hong, he still didn't wake up. He even boasted about the experience of his ex-girlfriend spending money on him as a talking point to Xu Hong, and asked Xu Hong to support him according to his ex-girlfriends.

"Hey, buddy, I advise you to stay away from this kind of woman. Xu Hong, she has a mental cleanliness. I heard that her house is not very clean, so she is too demanding of men. I also heard that she didn't talk to men after college. Having had a boyfriend, and being alone for so many years, think about it, if you haven't been close to a man for many years, this woman might still be a virgin, how perverted is her psychology."

In an instant, Chang Qing chuckled, and then said, "Ah, no wonder she said you were disgusting, it turned out to be so disgusting, it's really disgusting." After saying that, Chang Qing hung up.Chang Qing is very convinced that in those things that Yan Feng did not say, he concealed his filthiness. He is also a man, and he understands how filthy this filth can be. The trivial matter of Mung Bean is a moral shame for women, especially for women like Xu Hong.As a man, Chang Qing has no illusions about the moral sense of some men.

Chang Qing thought about it all afternoon, and before leaving get off work, he tried to apply for Xu Hong's friend again. He wrote "Let's chat", but there was still no reply.Wang Yihan came over untimely, and then asked, "Do you still need help?" Chang Qing thought for a while, then shook his head and said, "No, thank you Madam for me." Chang Qing thought, as Xu Hong's friend, Sheng Min could say That kind of words, that reason Yuhe should also know, because of the relationship between husband and wife, Yuhe helped Wang Yihan time and time again, but the number of times was too many, and the women's friendship would also be in crisis.

Seeing that Chang Qing was listless, Wang Yihan said apologetically, "I'm sorry, I didn't know she was this kind of person." Now Wang Yihan even regrets being a matchmaker.

Chang Qing smiled and said, "No, thank you very much for letting me know her, I appreciate her very much."

Chang Qing used appreciation for Xu Hong's evaluation, and Wang Yihan almost said nothing, but he thought again, does this mean that Chang Qing likes Xu Hong very much?This love came out of nowhere.In just three days, Chang Qing gave her such a high evaluation. Does this mean that this matchmaker is doing a good job?Isn't his position a little more secure?
For his own position, for his own future, Wang Yihan chatted with Yuhe as soon as he got home.He said, "Let that Xu Hong be as good as he can, and accept it when you see it. There must be a limit to playing hard to get?" In Wang Yihan's mind, Xu Hong's various behaviors are just playing hard to get, and she has a lot of tricks to catch men. .

Yu He glanced at her husband, and then said softly, "She didn't play hard to get."

"She doesn't really think she's worthy of Chang Qing, does she?"

Yuhe didn't want to quarrel with her husband because of other people's affairs, but Wang Yihan has a problem, that is, he always belittles others, especially her friends, which makes Yuhe feel very uncomfortable.Yu He looked at the child and said, "Chang Qing is really just as you guessed, is your boss' younger brother?"

The husband was stunned and asked, "Did you know something?"

Yu He said, "No, it's just that Xu Hong said that he doesn't look like a rich man, at least not what you think."

"Oh, I get it." Wang Yihan felt that he understood, and then said, "She doesn't think he's acting like a rich person. She doesn't live in a luxury house and drive a luxury car, so she's not interested, right?"

There was a speechless expression on Yuhe's face. She felt that it was very difficult to communicate with Wang Yihan, and he always had to misinterpret other people's meanings.In fact, the incident in Changqing had already been sent to the small group of the three of them when Sheng Min left Huang Guanyang's office in the morning.

After Xu Hong knew that Sheng Min went to see Huang Guanyang and Chang Qing behind her back, he was still a little angry, but when he was angry, Sheng Min's husband came back, and when Sheng Min came back, the two quarreled because of a decision made by her husband , has been noisy until night.

Sheng Min's husband resigned, quietly and without warning, and the reason for his resignation was that he wanted to pursue his dream.

Sheng Min looked at her husband puzzled, and then said, "You will be 40 years old, what dream are you pursuing at this time?"

"Dreams have nothing to do with age."

"Then what about me, what should I do, what should our family do?" In this regard, Sheng Min is indeed selfish, but for her, there is no way to be selfish.All her living expenses in the past ten years have been entirely dependent on her husband and parents. Now her parents have no ability to support her, and all her support is only her husband. If he resigns at this time, what will she do?

The turmoil caused by this incident was expected by the husband, and the husband explained his arrangements to her one by one.He said, "I have saved a sum of money, and I will divide the money into two parts, one part for my own use, and one part for you and my parents' life."

"After all, you just want to take your parents over and let me take care of them."

"I've thought about it, if you are not willing to go back to your hometown, then you can only let my parents come here, so that we can sell the house in our hometown, so that we have more cash in our hands. You are fine at home, they come over I can also be your companion."

"As a companion? I think it means to serve them, right? I'm your wife, not your nanny."

"What's wrong with my wife taking care of my parents?"

"I have no obligation to take care of them, it is you who should take care of them."

"Then I'm obliged to take care of you every month, right?"

"I am your wife, and every penny you earn is half of mine."

Listening to the quarrel between the two, Xu Hong felt that life was really incomprehensible. Sheng Min felt that it was the husband's responsibility to take care of his parents. The husband thought what was wrong with taking care of his parents as his wife. He still provided food and drink. Looking at her, and Sheng Min felt that as a husband and wife, the income is shared, what is yours and mine... Xu Hong lit a cigarette and felt a headache. She just didn't want to be involved in this endless and meaningless quarrel. Not married.

After the quarrel, Sheng Min's husband resorted to his trump card. He said, "What did you say you did to this family? You messed with your shitty cat and Weibo all day long. Just a few fans came back and forth, so many years. Have you ever made a penny? It’s okay if you don’t make money, you haven’t even had a child, and you just know to hide at home all day long, eating and waiting to die.”

Sheng Min looked at her husband with puzzled eyes, "Haven't even had a child? Didn't we agree on not having a child before we got married? Am I the only one who doesn't want it? Your parents pressure me about this every year and let it go , now you are using this matter to pressure me? I don't go to work because you don't let me go to work..."

"I won't let you go to work? It's because you don't want to look for it. You are lazy at home all day, do you look for a job? What are you going to do? I just follow your heart and say what you want Just come out."

In an instant, Sheng Min had nothing to say, Sheng Min knew that there was nothing good to say about quarrels, so she endured the quarrels before, because there was nothing good to say about the quarrels, and because they were all angry, of course what was bad was nothing to hear , But now, now the husband puts all the faults on her.If she doesn't look for a job, she can't find a job. If she doesn't have children, she makes her own opinions. If she doesn't take care of her in-laws alone, she doesn't respect the old and keep her filial piety...

Sheng Min couldn't stand such an accusation, so he rushed out the door.Hearing the sound of the door opening, looking at Sheng Min's husband standing in the living room, Xu Hong said, "I'll go and see." Then he took his bag and followed him out.

Sheng Min seemed to be in a walking race, walking on the sidewalk so fast that Xu Hong even had to run for a while to catch up with her, but Sheng Min still ignored her and just walked alone.After walking for more than ten minutes, Sheng Min felt that her body temperature had risen, and her sweat was about to drip, and she panted and asked, "Am I really wrong?" It also flowed out.

Xu Hong put his hand on her arm, rubbing it up and down, comforting her.Sheng Min asked again, "Xu Hong, tell me, am I wrong? He didn't let me go to work, he said he wouldn't have children after marriage, and I got married only after he said he wouldn't have children."

Xu Hong wants to say, a man can agree to any request and say anything when he wants it. Maybe he really doesn't want children, but the act of "giving birth" is a woman's behavior. When a woman disobeys him , all her inactions could be grounds for accusations, including his excuses.He can reverse his commitment at any time if he wants to, and it doesn't take much effort.

"He said that he has been supporting me for so many years, but he only gives me about [-] yuan for living expenses every month. Meals, clothes, utilities, and gas are all in the [-] miles. As you can see, I wear a piece of clothing. For many years, I have no good skin care products, no good bags, and I haven’t even been to a decent restaurant. I know you hate me, Xu Hong, because I have never paid for our meals together, it’s not that I don’t want to, I can’t, I don’t have it.” Sheng Min was wronged, she was once beautiful, she was also excellent, and she used to buy things without looking at the bills, but since she got married, she lost this right, and she began to count her life The cost of buying clothes, the cost of buying skin care products, she began to believe that the skin care products her husband said were just harvesting women’s IQ tax, and began to believe in the theory that buying clothes with good materials can last for many years, but look at her clothes. Well, it’s not good at all. I’ve worn a piece worth tens of dollars for several years, and I dare not order it in a restaurant.In fact, today she has been thinking about whether Huang Guanyang's company is really good. The reason why she thinks it is good is because she has never seen it before, and she has never been in this kind of company.All her information and judgments come from the Internet, from which distorted TV dramas with red flowers and willows, and what the real workplace is like, she has long forgotten that her judgment has no standard.

Looking at Sheng Min, Xu Hong patted her lightly and said, "I dislike you a little, but I envy you more. I envy your courage to pay for the life you choose. Not everyone can be so free and easy. I don’t want to wear the clothes I’ve worn for several years to meet friends, and not everyone can express that I can’t afford it as naturally as you do when they see that the price of something is beyond their ability. It’s too expensive, I Can't pay, you didn't feel embarrassed at all when you said this, I really envy this kind of frankness."

Honesty is a way of expression that Xu Hongnian didn't learn until 35. She couldn't be like Sheng Min, to be completely honest with someone, even if this person is her best friend, closest partner...

(End of this chapter)