35 this year

Chapter 3 Yuhe's 35 Years Old

The takeaway hasn't come yet.Yu He looked at Sheng Min who was sitting listlessly on the bed bent over, she wondered if she should apologize to Sheng Min?Although it is true, it is too much to say that she is a parasite, right?But what about her, Sheng Min?Yuhe never talked about the child's problem in the small group of the three of them. They only knew that she had a cute, well-behaved and obedient son, but none of them knew that her child was born with problems. How did they know? What about?Hey... Who wouldn't know this?Anyone who looks at that photo can tell at a glance, right?She knows she can see it, but she really loves this child so much, she wants everyone to accept him, so she must accept him first, she must treat him like an ordinary child, and let her appear in the world of friends.If you love this child so much, why are you willing to leave him and travel alone these days?Because I am too suffocated, too tired, and have not had my own space for too long.

For this child, Yuhe gave up a high-paying job, a decent dress, and beautiful high heels. This time, only a small red LV patent leather satchel followed her out.But how did this child come to their home?But if you do a good job in the pregnancy test, maybe this kind of problem will not appear, but unfortunately not.When this child was just born, Yuhe was full of joy. Although he also noticed that his appearance was slightly different from other children, but children, aren't they all ugly when they are born, and when they grow up, they will be beautiful and cute.But as time went by, the child's appearance became more and more wrong, and the distance between the eyes was larger than that of ordinary children. Yuhe felt that something was wrong, so he took the child to have a checkup, because it was too obvious, and it was easy to diagnose it. syndrome.

Yuhe wanted to cry, but she grabbed her attending doctor and asked why this happened. The attending doctor was also panicked, yes, how could this happen? Chances are you can avoid it.Tang sieve?Yuhe knew, the problem was here, because she was busy with work, because her husband had a busy schedule, and because she was only in her early thirties, so after asking the doctor in detail and carefully reading the information on the Internet, she didn't do this check.

After the child was diagnosed, Yuhe complained. She complained that her husband was too busy with work and didn't even have time to accompany her for a pregnancy test. She complained about why her mother didn't retire early to take care of her during pregnancy. She complained about her mother-in-law who had nothing to do... ...Oh, forget it, she really doesn't want to mention this mother-in-law.During her pregnancy, she refused to accompany and take care of Yuhe on the grounds of inconvenience. Before giving birth, she rushed over from her hometown in the Northeast happily and crowded in their small house.What kind of character is the mother-in-law? Yuhe knows too well. He values ​​his son more than his life. He thinks that he has raised a capable and good son who can be a manager in a first-tier city. He was pregnant, even though she knew that Yuhe was thin, she didn't give Yuhe any good food, or she didn't rush her to eat first.Yuhe is the only daughter in the family. When she was not married, she was naturally delicate and could not bear any grievances, so she had a lot of complaints about her mother-in-law, but her husband who is good at being a man always comforted her, and it would be fine when the child was born. Which grandma doesn't love her grandson, she loves her house as much as she loves her, and when you want to nurse a child, grandma will naturally lean towards you.

It's a pity, it's a pity that everyone felt something was wrong after the child was born, and the mother-in-law was also natural. After the diagnosis, the mother-in-law intensified and pushed all the blame to Yuhe. Yuhe even saw her in the community group and told her to be careful. Other old ladies said that they should never find a daughter-in-law with a bad temper, because the children born to such a woman will also have problems.

Yu He was so angry that his hands trembled, and he typed this matter one by one in the small group chat with Xu Hong and Sheng Min, but he typed and deleted, deleted and typed, and finally Yu He concealed the problem between the child and the child's grandma.For the two of them, Yuhe has always been the happy full-time wife, with a cute baby and an obedient husband. She only complains in the group when she occasionally finds out that the child’s grandmother is not good. At such times, Xu Hong usually agrees. Yuhe knew that she didn't understand the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, hadn't she eaten pork and seen pigs running away? In general, it destroys her personality as a modern strong woman.And Sheng Min became emotional. Sheng Min was full of hostility towards all the people called "mother-in-laws". Min seemed much more harmonious.

Thinking of her mother-in-law, Yuhe once again thought of her mother-in-law's remarks just now, which was suffocating.Her mother-in-law can persuade her to have another one regardless of time or occasion, the reason is that this child is useless, and the second one can take care of this one.Every time at this time, Yuhe's brows would meet, and her usually gentle face would become displeased. Yuhe would show her glib side again, leaving her mother-in-law speechless.Yuhe only needs to say a few words to do it. She said, "What is abolished? Is the child a game on your son's mobile phone? If you can't play it, change the number. Is it just to take care of him? Is it fair? Is it fair to another child? Does your son have the ability to raise two children at once? Do you know how much his monthly living expenses will be? Can your son afford it? Do you have this ability?" The mother-in-law is most jealous of others saying that her son is incompetent, but that is the son she raised in rich clothes and fine food, how can a woman belittle him like this.The mother-in-law also sneered, "What's wrong with my son? No matter how incompetent my son is, he is more capable than your son!" The mother-in-law poked Yuhe's sore spot, and Yuhe poked her mother-in-law's weakness even more brazenly, "My son? It seems to have nothing to do with your son, this is heredity! This is the retribution of the ancestors who have done too many immoral things!" Speaking of retribution, the mother-in-law instantly became depressed, yes, maybe it is really retribution, it is all her fault The old man has done a lot of immoral things. He is still imitating a young man and running away with a half-old lady. If you run away, you should divorce your marriage. Don’t leave. He couldn't be a human being, so he ran to live with his son in the name of Yuhe giving birth to a child.But who knows, Yuhe, who was always gentle before marriage, is not an easy master. Because of this hard-won daughter-in-law, his son is partial to her, emphasizing that he and Yuhe are the masters of this family.

The old lady was so angry, she waited for her son to come back and explained the matter to her son with embellishments, and his son bluffed into the bedroom, as if he wanted to educate Yuhe, but Yuhe, who was so angry, didn't give him the opportunity to educate him at all.As soon as his son said a few words, Yuhe threw out a sentence, "I can live through it, but I can't live through it!" Divorce?Yu He knew that her husband would not be able to get a divorce, so could he find a woman with better conditions than her?cannot.

Yuhe's husband is far from being as capable as his mother imagined. Maybe there are small skills, but there are no big skills. After being promoted to manager for a few years, his position has not changed. He attributes this to his inability to drink. Cannot accompany the leader to attend important occasions.Yuhe's husband is allergic to alcohol. After drinking a cup, he was covered with eczema, granulated, red and swollen. Even if he didn't scare people to death, he would be disgusting. At first, the leader didn't believe the allergic rhetoric. After seeing it with his own eyes, he didn't cry anymore. Yuhe's husband has attended any social occasion.

The husband has complained to Yuhe many times, how can a man be promoted if he can't attend the wine table?How can a man show his face in front of the leader if he doesn't block the drink for the leader?Yuhe also wanted to comfort her husband with a few words, but Yuhe, who had worked and had good grades, also understood that the advantages of men in the workplace are mostly through such occasions to get close to the leader. This is a natural advantage and belongs to The "secret territory" among men.If you don't enter this territory, can you survive in the workplace? Yes, will your outstanding ability be reused?Yes, but how outstanding is it?There are too many people in the company, and there are too many people outside the company. In the same position, many people are staring at them. If it is not you, there will be others. The most indispensable thing in this world is people. Someone has talent, and someone has talent. There are people more talented than you. With just her husband's little talent, after the age of 30, he will become one of the crowd.If there is no progress in a few years, it may be like this for the rest of my life. If the 35-year-old crisis of human beings cannot be overcome, it may not be overcome for the rest of my life.Her husband is like a carp carrying all his belongings on his back. How easy is it to compete for the same carp gate with the carp who are as light as a swallow?Don't dare to jump easily, can't jump easily, if you don't jump, you can only be an ordinary fish.Yuhe, she hated her husband for being ordinary, but also hated her son for being extraordinary.

But, fortunately, in such a big fish pond, her husband is not the only ordinary fish, and her son is not the only unusual fish. As far as Yuhe knows, Xu Hong is also such a fish, A fish that is ordinary in the workplace but extraordinary in life.People like this are often the most difficult to live in. They can't get up and down, and they are stuck in the knots of life and workplace, and even their breathing is disguised.

(End of this chapter)