Reborn I just want to concentrate on studying

Chapter 250 Deng Wenxiao's Brother
After school the next day, Yi Yang came out of Teacher Shen Xiaoding's office, picked up the very old Nokia mobile phone, looked at the call records with his second uncle, and smiled.

Now he is a real school student.

At noon, Wang Sangning had already told him that she and Jiang Lili had built a bedroom together last night and all kinds of cleaning things, and they were waiting for him to officially move in.

After coming out of the office, I went back to the dormitory. At this time, Li Maoxin, Zhou Xiang and Wang Jie were all there. After seeing Yi Yang, Li Maoxin got up and said in surprise: "I heard from Zhou Xiang that you actually I'm going to go to school... I really didn't expect it!"

Wang Jie said, "I didn't expect that you still have relatives in Hanning City."

Zhou Xiang said with some embarrassment: "I'm sorry, after you told me about this in the morning, I told them when we had lunch together."

Already have lunch together?Yi Yang glanced at Zhou Xiang, with the kind eyes of an old father caring for a silly son, and nodded in relief.

Last night, Yi Yang forced Zhou to apologize to Li Maoxin. Of course, this scene was a little nasty. In short, both of them were flushed. The scene was like a confession, and Wang Jie's goosebumps stood up.

Men have a peculiar nature. After a fierce conflict over trivial matters, the two sides will probably have a cold war for a period of time, and the relationship will drop to a freezing point. But as long as one party sincerely apologizes, no matter what the cause of the conflict is, no matter how embarrassing the relationship during the cold war, the relationship will be reconciled. In the future, the relationship between the two parties will often go further.

Now the duo of Li Maoxin and Wang Jie has accepted Zhou Xiang, and this matter has come to a successful conclusion.

And this is just a starting point. Zhou Xiang has a low self-esteem in social aspects, but other than that, he is a person worth interacting with. Li Maoxin and Wang Jie also have a lot of small problems, and they are compatible with each other very well. , naturally compatible with Zhou Xiang, and even in the next two years or so, the relationship became better and better.

Yi Yang shook his head: "There's nothing to apologize for, it's not about my privacy, but I didn't tell you about it because it happened suddenly."

"Hey, the only brother in our dormitory who has good sleeping habits and doesn't snore or grind his teeth just left." Wang Jie sighed deeply.

"You still have the nerve to say this, you are the one who snores the loudest in our dormitory?!" Li Maoxin said dissatisfied.

"Fart, it's obviously you!"

"Nonsense, Zhou Xiang, tell me, who is it?"

"Uh...uh...maybe it's me..." Zhou Xiang smiled.

"Uh?"

"It depends on people's thoughts, when will you have this kind of awareness!"

"Damn, you still have the face to say that I..."

Seeing that they could get along smoothly, Yi Yang smiled like an old father again.

There was not much to pack, except that two quilts were packed in a big bag, and everything else was just a suitcase.

After the official farewell, Li Maoxin suddenly proposed: "Sleeping with the same pillow of the millennium, let's live in the same dormitory. If there is no millennium, there will be 500 years. Brothers, let's get together for a while?"

Wang Jie seconded the proposal.

Yi Yang thought for a while and said, "Okay, then let's go to the weekend."

Zhou wanted to see that it was inconvenient for Yi Yang to carry his things alone, so he took the initiative to help him get the suitcase, but Yi Yang was not polite about this, and the two walked out of the dormitory together.

Zhou wanted to say, "Thank you, Yi Yang."

"Thank you too many times."

"what……"

While walking, Zhou wanted to say: "Yi Yang, I really think you have a high EQ."

Yi Yang was slightly taken aback, and smiled: "You really are, you don't even know how to praise others..."

"Hey……"

After a pause, Yi Yang became serious and said, "But since you mentioned this..."

"What is EQ?" Yi Yang glanced at Zhou Xiang.

Zhou Xiang was slightly taken aback.

There is no absolute connection between EQ and IQ, but EQ must be related to cognitive ability.

Zhou Xiang is naturally not the first person to praise him for his high EQ. Even in the previous life when he was a poor person, someone said something similar, but he didn't take this matter to heart, and he never felt that he was EQ How tall.

But back to the question, is your emotional intelligence high?

Yi Yang recalled his previous life, whether it was the self who was a repairman, or the self who had read a lot of books and achieved excellent grades, it seemed that he did have a talent...to understand other people's emotions.

Simply put, it is the ability to capture the emotional state of the other party, and then analyze it a little bit to infer why the other party has such emotions, and finally predict what kind of interaction will affect the other party's ability to produce what kind of emotions.

Although this is a kind of talent, but if you think about it carefully, this ability is not static, and the previous life is much worse than this one.

And this is caused by the gap in cognitive ability.

From the point of understanding the emotional state of others, whether it is the self in the previous life or the self in this life, they all have stronger acuity than ordinary people. Many people in life are numb, even if the friends around them are already sad, or just He has no way of judging whether it's a hypocritical pleasure. On this point, Yi Yang seems to have an innate intuition, that is, he can perceive the emotions of people around him and empathize with them.

But emotional intelligence is not limited to this, many people can also perceive other people's emotions, but more importantly, the ability to judge why others have such emotions, otherwise blindly pay attention to other people's emotions, instead of Became a flattering personality like Yi Xiaoqing...

This requires you to have stronger cognitive abilities.

For example, if you don’t recognize the pain of learning, even if you know your child is tired of learning, you still can’t understand why he is tired of learning and guide your child not to be tired of learning.

You don’t have to experience some things personally, but you must be able to recognize that thing from a higher perspective, so that you can think about the problem from the perspective of the other party, empathize with his experience, and come up with a proper way of interaction... This is Yi Yang understands EQ.

In this regard, his lack of reading in the previous life limited his eyesight, so even if he had the sensitivity to detect emotions, he could not cultivate a high emotional intelligence.

So...you still have to learn.

Of course, learning is not limited to books. For example, although his father did not study much, he entered the society early to do some big things. These processes are also learning and accumulating.

Walking to the school gate, Yi Yang said: "Emotional intelligence... To be honest, I don't know what emotional intelligence is, but I think, first of all, let's make yourself comfortable..."

Zhou Xiang was slightly taken aback: "Huh?"

Yi Yang smiled: "If you have any similar troubles, I can help you analyze it and send it here, thank you."

Zhou Xiang nodded: "Okay."

After Zhou Xiang left, Yi Yang waited at the school gate for a while, and a Beetle slowly stopped in front of him, with the window rolled down, and Jiang Lili said rather proudly: "Since I drove the Cruiser last time, now I'm driving it again." Little Beetle, I feel that the car is getting more and more handy, it’s like a car and a human, hehe..."

Yi Yang nodded casually, "Sister, please stop the car for a while."

"it is good……"

Then Yi Yang lowered his head to carry the luggage, but just as he turned around, he heard: "Boom!", he was taken aback, and quickly turned around, only to see the front bumper of the little beetle hit the trash can on the side of the road .

Yi Yang was speechless: "People... people and cars are one?"

Jiang Lili stared blankly at the front, pulling her hair painfully...

"hateful……"

……

Deng Zhou looked at his sister speechlessly, and said, "Usually, don't you like Mala Tang the most? Have you changed your taste now?"

Deng Wenxiao nodded: "I don't really like spicy food recently."

Deng Zhou silently looked at his younger sister who seemed to be worried, picked up a piece of potato chips, and said, "What sad things happened?"

"No la……"

"Has your studies declined recently?"

"No."

"Is that why Mom and Dad scolded you?"

"..."

"Also, your hairstyle has shocked me for a whole year. Didn't you vow not to cut your hair short? Why now..."

Deng Wenxiao blushed a little. At this time, her waist-length hair had been cut to shoulder length. Although it wasn't particularly short, it was quite different from her previous image.

She thought about what kind of reaction Yi Yang would have if he saw himself like this...

A little apprehensive, a little looking forward to it.

"No, brother, stop guessing." Deng Wenxiao said dissatisfied.

Deng Zhou sighed slightly, "I came back to issue a certificate that I can stay for three or four days. I originally said that I would take you to eat a few restaurants. You are in such a bad mood, I have no interest."

Deng Wenxiao shook her head: "Don't just talk about me, let's talk about you... Well, the matter of becoming a high-level athlete..."

Deng Zhou smiled slightly: "Don't worry, I won the first-level athlete last year. Going to Qingbei is not a big problem. This year is mainly to train new players. I just follow the team to ensure the bottom and get the top two."

"It's amazing, brother."

"Hehe, having said that, luckily I didn't listen to my father back then. I was in high school in Hanning City. With Hanning City's basketball level, let alone the top two in the country, it is difficult for the top eight."

"Although I don't understand this very well, our school has made great progress in the past two years. I heard that last year...it seemed to be in the top eight, right?"

"It's just luck. To be honest, I haven't even paid attention to your school. Last year, we abused you by more than 20 points! Is your school going to the regional competition again this year?" Deng Zhou said contemptuously.

Deng Wenxiao was a little unhappy, and said, "Hmph, I will definitely defeat you this year!"

Deng Zhou was a little surprised. He didn't expect his younger sister, who had never been interested in basketball, to defend his school so much. In the past, when he said that he had blown up the high school in Hanning City, she would just smile and say that her brother was great.

My sister has changed...

Deng Zhou was inexplicably sad.

(End of this chapter)