After crossing the queen, relying on the mouth cannon to brush the copy of the palace fight

As for rebuilding it for the better, nine times out of ten it's just that you don't want King Jing to cause more trouble.

Thinking about what Jing Lanxi did in this way, the idea became clear at once. The springboard Jing Lanxi chose was King Jing, and she used the same method as Shen Tangyu, except that one used emotion and the other used skill. At the same time, it is likely that Jing Lanxi's behavior has touched what Shen Tangyu is worried about, and the key is King Jing.

Thinking about it this way, Shen Fuyu couldn't help but feel that they were pathetic, why bother, they were all capable women, but they had to get entangled with this kind of man on the way to start a career.

But I also think it’s funny, let’s not talk about these people’s efforts to do useless work. The most funny thing is King Jing, who moves wherever he needs, and he’s not as dedicated to his work. It has captivated so many women.

After all, Shen Moyu is more suitable for this pig brain.

"There seems to be one thing. It is said that King Jing is not normal recently." Xiaocui pursed her lips, thought for a while, and said, "I feel as if their identities have been reversed."

Just at this time, Qin Yuanhao fell on the ground with the windmill, and was about to change his face in an instant. The wet nurse hurried forward to coax her, but Shen Fuyu stretched out her hand to stop her. Qin Yuanhao burst into tears immediately after stopping her!
"Niang Niang..." The wet nurse looked anxious, not understanding why Shen Fuyu stopped her.

"I fell on the blanket this time, and it wasn't very heavy." Shen Fuyu could see clearly that although she fell, it hurt a little at most, and it wouldn't hurt her. Most of the children's cries were used to express themselves in alternative languages. needs, or conditioned reflexive behavior.

For example now.

Because he knew that if he cried, someone would come to coax him, so Qin Yuanhao would cry at this time.

In fact, it was nothing.

It doesn't even hurt.

Although the child is three years old to have the consciousness of you, me and him to understand and communicate with others, but he will still retain the habits before the age of three. Although Shen Fuyu beat Qin Yuanlin, it is not her own child after all. I really need to educate Shen Fuyu doesn't like beating her own child.

She won't let Qin Yuanhao develop bad habits. She cries now, but when she grows up and can talk, she will make trouble. It's easy to develop a self-respecting bear child. There are some truths even if Qin Yuanhao can't listen now. I don’t understand, but it is also necessary to make these habits, so that the awareness will be formed after the age of three, and it will be easy to reason, and the probability of crying and demanding bear children will be greatly reduced.

It happened that she came back at this time, and she had to correct what should be corrected, especially when she was learning to walk, it was very normal to fall, who didn't fall when learning to walk?

Doting too much on a child will only make the child act like a spoiled child to the adults, and will not want to walk when being hugged.

Qin Yuanhao cried for a while and saw that no one came to help him and hug him. The crying gradually subsided, and Shen Fuyu began to encourage him to stand up, kneeling on the ground to teach him to stand up, and luring him to pick up the toy that fell on the ground. When he was about to stand up, Shen Fuyu praised him for his hard work. In the end, the little child stood up holding the adult's hand, stopped crying and tears, and went to pick up the windmill bit by bit. stand up.

"It's great." Shen Fuyu said in a little secret, "Our Hao'er can get up without help, right? It's amazing!"

He didn't understand, but he nodded following Shen Fuyu's example, which made everyone laugh. Even the old mother who had brought up the child for many years couldn't help boasting: "It took a long time to comfort the eldest prince when he fell down. , the servants and maidservants were all at a loss, they never thought that the eldest prince would be obedient as soon as the empress came back, after all, the empress is the mother of the eldest prince, and the children are the most obedient to their mother, the empress is smart, so the eldest prince is naturally smart too!"

Just listen to such pleasant words, Shen Fuyu will not take it to heart, otherwise it will harm the child: "I don't think children can tell whether they are smart or not at this age, such words often There is no need to say more after that.”

"Before children are sensible, they will look at the attitude of adults. I am not blaming you for saying this, but I hope that those of you who take care of the eldest prince can understand this truth. Caring is messy. In your opinion, it may be just The servants take care of the master meticulously, but for a child, if you respond to every request, it will only become the capital for him to be spoiled and arrogant, because you know that you will coax him when he cries, so you will keep crying, no matter how you coax him, you can't coax him well, right? Because of pain and hunger, all he wants is to be coaxed."

After blowing on the windmill in Qin Yuanhao's hand, Shen Fuyu smiled, and Qin Yuanhao also smiled, imitating Shen Fuyu's way and also blowing on the windmill, but it was still not good enough, on the contrary, he spit out some saliva.

He wiped Qin Yuanhao's mouth casually, and Shen Fuyu blew on the blower again, letting Qin Yuanhao imitate, while explaining the knowledge of raising children to these nurses, analyzing the reasons and reasons, and giving examples of what should be done in various occasions. How to get along with children can make children develop good habits, but these advanced ideas make the nursing mothers a little uneasy.

"Your Majesty, the servants are terrified, I'm afraid this will offend His Royal Highness the First Prince."

If they want servants to treat the eldest prince like elders, those who in the past should not protect the eldest prince when they thought they had to take good care of him, in the eyes of outsiders, wouldn't that mean that servants are negligent and careless? ?
"It does look like an offense to outsiders." Shen Fuyu knew what they were thinking, but Qin Yuanhao was her adopted son, and he might not be able to return it to his biological mother, Princess Zhaoxi, in the short term. For a child, I don’t want him to grow crooked roots from the beginning, “But there is never a perfect way to raise a child. Compared with him occasionally bumping into something, I don’t want him to be infected with any bad habits. No matter what you say, don’t worry about it, there is a reason for me to let you do this.”

"There is no shortage of food and clothing in the palace. I think you can take good care of the eldest prince in these most basic aspects. Although I am the mother of the eldest prince, she may not be able to accompany this child all the time. When the child grows up, he must I will imitate the adults around me, if the words and deeds of the adults are wrong, it will definitely affect the children, if he does something wrong, just like what I did before, help him correct it, and encourage him when he does something right."

"Although you are servants, you will grow up with the First Prince. Since you are close people, I don't want anyone to bring the First Prince down."