After five years of teaching support, Daming became an empire on which the sun never sets.

Chapter 43 Zhu Biao feels unprecedented ease

"Don't dare." The four of them stood neatly in a row and replied respectfully.Don't dare to have the slightest disobedience, like four docile sheep.Qin Yu even saw fear in their eyes.

It seems that the elder Huang's education for his sons is a little too strict!Qin Yu thought to himself.

They meet their father like a mouse meets a cat.

Shaked his head: Such family education is not advisable.

The father is too strong, it will bring huge psychological pressure to the children, and even become a psychological shadow for their whole life.

In history, Zhu Binglai was the happiest prince in all dynasties. His parents liked him, his ministers respected him, and his brothers respected him.However, it was because of the long-term fear of Zhu Yuanzhang that the pressure could not be released, which led to his untimely death.The pressure Zhu Yuanzhang brought him was invisible, and he never talked to him about relieving his pressure.

"Okay, your father is gone, don't be afraid, just relax." Seeing the back of Village Chief Huang leaving, Qin Yu said to the four students, "Don't be idle anymore, talk to everyone first. Let's work together."

Qin Yu came to Zhu Biao calmly, made charcoal with him, and gave full play to his affinity as a teacher.

Mr. Qin actually worked with the students himself?After Zhu Biao turned to look at Qin Yu, his heart moved. This young gentleman did not have the seriousness and rigidity of those teachers before, just like everyone's big friend.

It was just a small gesture that made Zhu Biao feel that he was very kind.

"This classmate, what's your name?" Qin Yu took the initiative to chat with him while doing his work.

"The student's name is Huang Biao." Zhu Biao stood up immediately and bowed to him as a student greeted the teacher.

"Student Huang Biao, you don't need to be so restrained in front of Teacher Qin." Qin Yu said, "I'm not a few years older than you. From now on, we are both teachers and students and friends. You can tell the teacher what you have in your heart."

A teacher and a friend?

Zhu Biao's heart trembled when he heard the words, and he was once again shocked by Qin Yu's unprecedented words.Zhu Di, Zhu Xi, and Zhu Chun, who were working next to them, also turned to look at Qin Yu when they heard it, and they were shocked.

In the past, Confucianism paid great attention to etiquette, and the etiquette between rulers, ministers, fathers and sons, teachers and students should not be surpassed in the slightest. In the Book of Rites, it is said that there are three fundamentals of ritual, the heaven and earth, and the foundation of nature.The ancestors are the foundation of the class.The ruler and teacher are the foundation of governance.

Several princes received traditional Confucian ideological education since childhood, and were familiar with the Four Books and Five Classics.They were also taught by the great Confucians of the world, so the concept of etiquette was deeply ingrained in their hearts.

But now Qin Yu actually said that they could be both teachers and students and friends, completely subverting their three views.

"This young Mr. Qin has never been seen for a long time!" the crowd thought, "He and Liu Bowen, Song Lian, and Gao Qi, three of the world's great Confucian scholars, are different from heaven and earth."

"It's better for students to be respectful than to obey orders." Zhu Biao remembered that Zhu Yuanzhang had told them just now that everything must be obeyed by Mr. Qin, so he respectfully said.

"Huang Biao, who is the eldest among your brothers, who is the second, and what are their names?" Qin Yu changed the subject when he saw that he was still so respectful and couldn't change in a short time.

"I'm the eldest." Zhu Biao replied, pointing to the brothers next to him, "He's the second, he's the third, he's the fourth..."

Qin Yu didn't pay much attention to the names of these big boys, and talked to them directly: "You brothers seem to be a little afraid of your father..."

The four princes looked at each other and did not dare to answer.

Zhu Biao's heart trembled when he heard the words, why was he afraid of Zhu Yuanzhang?It can be said that it is fear!Even many nights he woke up in nightmares, and it was his father who woke him up.

Zhu Yuanzhang loved Zhu Biao very much, and only regarded Zhu Biao and Queen Ma as a family.

Because of love, he must pass the throne to him, and hope that he will be a generation of Mingjun in the future.If the expectations are too high, the requirements will be very strict, and if Zhu Biao does a little less than he wants, Zhu Yuanzhang will hate that iron is not steel.

And Zhu Biao himself has always lived in the shadow of Zhu Yuanzhang.The father is too good, and he can't compare to his own.So he was worried every day that he would fail his father's expectations in the future.

Under the heavy pressure for a long time, he often had the idea of ​​suicide, and he wanted it for a hundred times.

Sometimes they don't even dare to commit suicide, because the "Book of Filial Piety" says: "Parents who are exposed to the body and skin do not dare to damage them. This is the beginning of filial piety."Not self-destructing the body is the most basic filial piety.

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By observing words and expressions, Qin Yu can basically confirm that they are very afraid of their father Huang Village Chief.And the real situation is likely to be more serious than I imagined.

"When I'm free, I will visit your house once, and ask Uncle Huang not to be so strict with you." Qin Yudao, "Too strict family education is not advisable, you are all rebellious children, the most taboo It’s the parents who put pressure on it. Cold violence is wrong, beating and scolding is even more wrong, we must release our natural instincts and provide reasonable guidance…”

Several people looked at each other after hearing it, and were pleasantly surprised: Mr. Qin has such a high status in the father's heart, maybe he will really listen to him!As sons, they also wanted to gain the fatherly love of Zhu Yuanzhang.

"This Mr. Qin is more like our confidant brother."

"Student Huang Biao." Qin Yu said again, "In Mr. Qin's opinion, there is no need for you to be so afraid of your father. Even if you fail to meet your father's expectations in some aspects, don't blame yourself, do your best, and ask your heart. It's okay to be ashamed. After all, everyone has their own different life paths, and parents can't arrange everything in advance for their children."

"Children are not tools for parents to achieve unfinished goals."

Just have a clear conscience! ?Everyone has their own path in life! ?When Zhu Biao heard this, his heart trembled violently: "I have been chasing in the footsteps of my father, but I can't keep up, and I have completely forgotten that I have my own life. I have always lived according to my father's wishes, trembling as if walking on thin ice. , has never lived for himself."

"My father is the founding monarch, how many other people in the world can compare? I don't need to look up to him. It is necessary for the founding monarch to fight decisively, and I don't need to fight the world and I don't need to fight like him. You need to be diligent in government and love the people and be a benevolent ruler in the future. It’s not wrong for the emperor to be ruthless with corrupt officials, and it’s not wrong for me to have the heart to raid their homes and exterminate their families!”

"I can't meet the requirements of the father, but I have worked hard, and I have a clear conscience!"

In an instant, the big stone that had been in Zhu Biao's heart for a long time fell to the ground.

He felt the whole body, unprecedented ease.

(End of this chapter)