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Chapter 378 Thoughts
Yan's words can be said to be a very straightforward reminder.

Yes, for such a big matter, the longer it is delayed, the more it will be spread, and the various speculations will become more intense.

In the end, any unreliable guesses can come out.

Zhao Cuilan hesitated for a moment: "Then if it is a lawsuit, what will happen?"

"Fining money, hitting the board, that's it." What Yan said was very pertinent: "The other thing is to reconcile and leave, and I will give you some compensation. But this also has disadvantages. If you do it like this, even if the matter becomes a big mess, you are fine." , children, how will you live in the future?"

Yan looked at Zhao Cuilan, and tried to persuade her: "You girl is too young. If you ask me, you really shouldn't make a fuss about this matter. What's the benefit if you make a big fuss?"

These words startled everyone, not only Zhao Cuilan, but also Zhang Sijiu and Zhenniang couldn't help looking at Yan Shi.

But Yan's was very calm, not uncomfortable at all, and continued to say: "If the He family doesn't make trouble, you won't be able to have children. Tell me, how will you live in the future?"

Zhao Cuilan thought about this for a while, she was a little distracted, and when she finally spoke, her tone was not very firm: "He Youguang and I will live like this. When we are 34 years old, we will adopt a child..."

"It's not your own, can it be the same as your own?" Yan said very bluntly: "As the saying goes, only those who crawl out of their own intestines can be close to themselves. You are also a mother now , You think about it for yourself, without October pregnancy, I gave you a half-old child, can you be intimate with him? Can you treat him as if you were your own?"

These words stopped Zhao Cuilan from asking.

Even Zhenniang became thoughtful.

As for Zhang Sijiu—she has never given birth to a child anyway, and the only experience of raising a child is Little Pumpkin, but that is not treating her as her own child, but raising her as her own little sister, maybe it is not the same...

Of course, Zhang Sijiu privately thought that he had no right to speak.After all, the mentality is completely different.

Nowadays, raising children is to prevent old age.

As a modern person, Zhang Sijiu feels that raising a child is not to prevent old age, but to experience that period of life, just to give himself one more relative who is connected by blood, and an extra period of intimacy that only belongs to children and parents.

The requirements are different, the mentality is naturally different, and the attitude towards children is of course also different.

But there is one thing that Zhang Sijiu will not deny: Whether it is love or family affection, as time goes by, they can be cultivated and multiplied.There are even some people who love boundlessly and don't care if the child is their own blood.However, the blood relationship and the things brought about by pregnancy in October cannot be erased or replaced.

Zhao Cuilan thought for a while, but there was still hesitation on her face.

Seeing her expression, Yan knew that she had listened to this matter, and immediately continued to speak slowly, still in that earnest tone: "The adoptive child, at worst, will be the second child of the He family. Your parents live next to you. How can you be suitable for that child? It’s not a last resort. Who would want to go this way? If you can give birth to yourself, it’s better to give birth to yourself. Let’s talk about selfishness. He Erlang’s child is the same as He Dalang. Those who are related by blood will definitely be the same in the future. But what about you? At that time, you were the only outsider in the family. "

"In case He Dalang left earlier, you are alone, guarding such a child. Do you think life can be comfortable? But if the child guarding is born by yourself, it will be different. It crawled from your belly. No matter what comes out, I will kiss you anyway. No matter what, I should support you and honor you." Yan's face was a little bit embarrassed: "How many times have I seen this? Adopted children, remember their parents, and they are still separated from themselves. That level."

"There are even those who lose their conscience, take the money, and go back to honor their biological parents."

"Of course, there are some good ones. But it depends on luck. If you are not lucky, it will be called not working every day, and the world will not work!" Yan shook his head and sighed: "If I want to say, it is still my own. Give birth to a good one."

Zhao Cuilan acquiesced to this.

Zhang Sijiu also felt that probably Zhao Cuilan's heart was really shaken a lot.

But, likewise, Yan's like this is actually a bit of a sneaky change of concept.

If it is Zhao Cuilan's choice to give birth to a child, then of course there is no problem.To give birth or not to give birth is Zhao Cuilan's own choice, and no one can be blamed in the future.Not to mention any grievances or not.

But what if... the He family made their own decisions?
What would it be in terms of modern law?It's rape!It's a fraudulent marriage!

But Zhang Sijiu didn't say this.

Because Zhao Cuilan didn't necessarily want to hear it.

Zhao Cuilan did not resist Yan's persuasion from the very beginning, which shows that Zhao Cuilan was wavered in the first place.

No matter how much I said, it would be in vain.

In this world, no matter what, there are many choices.Even in the face of crime, some people choose to calm down.

Zhang Sijiu doesn't judge.She felt that she did not represent justice, let alone be the embodiment of justice.Someone needs help, and there's nothing wrong with helping.But what if the other party doesn't need it?If you put it together, you are causing trouble to others.

Everyone's life is everyone's own choice.What path to take, who to spend your life with, and how to live this life are all your own choices.Especially adults.You should be more responsible for yourself.

Yan has continued to say: "Of course, the He family did not do the right thing. First of all, although he may not have told his parents about He Youguang's situation, it is not a fraudulent marriage, but he did not have sex with you after marriage. You can propose a divorce. You can persist for so many years, you are already a kind person. They chose to treat you like this, and they really failed you."

"However, this incident still happened. It makes you unable to pretend that nothing happened, and your face is also embarrassing." Yan looked at Zhao Cuilan lovingly: "They made you suffer a great grievance."

Zhao Cuilan burst into tears.

"As for this matter, we are all on your side. To put it bluntly, it is you who have been wronged. We are definitely willing to make decisions for you. The current attitude of the He family is also very simple. He Youguang means that he wants to spend time with you Forever. I asked him, and he said that he was also confused for a while. He listened to his mother's persuasion. When things happened, he also regretted it. Originally, he wanted to hide it from you for the rest of his life, but unexpectedly, it was revealed by Mrs. Liu. You have been wronged so much." Yan patted Zhao Cuilan on the back, like an elder comforting a younger generation.

"He said that his mother has agreed to separate the family. When the time comes, He Erlang and his wife will be allowed to move out, and they will not be allowed to come back except during the holidays. Even during the holidays, if you don't want to see them, they will not be allowed to come back to cause trouble for you. .”

"Of course, if you don't want to be at home, you and He Youguang can even move out alone with the children. Everything is up to you."

　See you tomorrow~
　　
　
(End of this chapter)