Cross the ancient times with golden fingers to farm and raise cubs

Chapter 156

Now when Shen Qiuqiu thinks about her marriage, she feels uncomfortable all over.

Even if she has been doing psychological training for herself, she wants to do as the Romans do, but she still can't hypnotize herself to accept it, and even the more she does psychological training for herself, the more bored she feels and the worst mood.

Thinking about how she hadn't had a good relationship yet, but in this ancient times where men were superior to women, she still had to accept three wives and four concubines, she felt so desperate.

Looking at her mother's face, she suddenly became a little envious. Although her family was poor before, her mother never worried about her father having other women. Now that the family has money, her father still lives with her honestly. Nothing fancy.

Now that I am about to get married, can I be as lucky as my mother?

Can the married person live with himself in a down-to-earth way like his father?
Shen Qiuqiu, who has experienced the era of information explosion in her previous life, has both a yearning for love and an avoidance of love in her heart.

Because there are really very few men who can stick to one another, and the ones on the phone are often scumbags cheating, husbands cheating, etc., and there are always divorced young couples, middle-aged or even elderly people, or those who In a widowed marriage, the man is obviously still alive, but he doesn't even have a fake corpse as if he is dead. He stays outside all year round and ignores his family.

The old man asked his wife to take care of him, and he was happy outside by himself, and he would not go home, even if there was someone outside, he would not give a penny to the family. The daughter-in-law and children had to spend money, all depended on the daughter-in-law Earn it yourself.

Having seen such tragedies too many times, she only believes that there is love in this world, but love will not come to her.

Therefore, in her previous life, she was faintly a non-marriage advocate, but she was still young at that time, and although her family urged her, they were not so urgent.

Thinking of this, Shen Qiuqiu couldn't help but think of her parents in her previous life. Her parents didn't get along very well, not even as good as her parents in this life.

In her previous life, her father and mother had always lived with her grandparents. When they were old, they didn't care much about things, so they often went out for a walk. They came back to eat and sleep on time every day. They turned a blind eye to the work at home.

Because they know that there is a mother who is a free nanny at home.

As for Dad, he is busy going out to work every day. When he comes back from work, he sits on the sofa watching TV and swiping his mobile phone. He eats ready-made and uses ready-made ones.

And my mother seems to be used to this kind of life, swearing, but she has never done less work.

She grew up in such an environment. When she was a child, she didn't know whether this way of getting along was right, but she always felt that her mother was very hard.

Later, as she got older, she realized that this way of getting along with her was not correct, but she was powerless to change it. The only thing she could do was to do her best to help her mother do some work to lighten her burden.

Later, when the era of information explosion came, I realized that this way of getting along was originally called "raising a son", and this was also a common state of life at that time.

At the same time, she often brushes up on the sweet love process and the painful love process.

When it is sweet, it is really sweet, the kind that can make people tired to death, but when it is painful, it can really make people go crazy, and the heartache and tears will not stop.

After watching too much, I gradually don't want to fall in love, and just want to make money.

I always feel that love is very illusory. You can't grasp it, you can't touch it, but money is different. It can be touched and seen. You don't have to worry about it cheating and betraying yourself. As long as you have it It can be at ease.

Shen Qiuqiu sighed deeply, he is now in ancient times, let alone the orders of his parents, the words of the matchmaker are on his head, just the gossip caused by not getting married is not comparable to that in his previous life.

At that time, if you don’t get married and don’t want to listen to those gossips, you can change places, change jobs and start over, or don’t go back to your hometown, just deal with the pressure from your parents and relatives, even if you feel bored, you can Don't answer their calls, just come out of sight and out of mind.

But it doesn’t work here. Even if you change places, there will be no less rumors and gossips. You even have to accept marriage urging from the government. Hard pressure to get married.

hey~
In this ancient time, wanting human rights is really a difficult thing to achieve.

Mrs. Zhang called her daughter several times, but she didn't see any response from her, so she could only go to her side and push her shoulder: "Girl? Big girl?!"

Shen Qiuqiu swayed, and when she came back to her senses, she heard her mother's voice, and answered in doubt: "Ah?"

Mrs. Zhang touched her forehead and asked strangely: "What are you thinking? I've been calling you for a long time?"

Shen Qiuqiu shook his head and said nothing, but asked instead: "Mother, what did you ask me to do?"

Mrs. Zhang rolled her eyes at her daughter, pulled her arm to lift her up, sat down on her own, added a fire to the boiler and said, "You are already sitting here, what else can you do? Go out and look at you." Brother."

Shen Qiuqiu smiled embarrassedly, went out without saying anything.

Looking at her daughter's back, Mrs. Zhang knew that she was worrying about her marriage. It's not that she didn't know what her daughter was thinking, but in this world, all women have to marry, and everyone comes here like this. She If you don't get married, do you want to be an aunt?
Life is made by human beings. People become relatives without meeting each other. Whether it is good or bad depends on luck.

As long as the person she marries is not one of those bastards who like to beat up their wives, and they don't prostitute or gamble, they can live a good life.

Isn't that what people do all their lives?It will be over soon.

Mrs. Zhang shook her head, retracted her gaze, and continued cooking.

Shen Qiuqiu took a stool and sat in the yard, staring at his younger brother in a daze.

After thinking about it, she thought of Grandma Xiao. Ever since she wore it to the present, the most chic of all the people she has seen is Grandma Xiao.

With leisure and money, he doesn't have to serve his wife, and his son and daughter-in-law are also very filial.

Every time I see her, I can't help being envious, if only I could be like Grandma Xiao in my old age.

After eating, Shen Qiuqiu took her younger brother and planned to visit Grandma Xiao's house. For some reason, she just wanted to have a heart-to-heart talk with the wise Grandma Xiao.

She really thinks that Grandma Xiao belongs to the kind of person who is wise and foolish, because she has never seen or heard of it. Some people say that Grandma Xiao's family is not good.

As long as the villagers talk about Grandma Xiao, they will say that Grandma Xiao is lucky, her son is upbeat, and her family is harmonious...

It is said that Grandma Xiao's family has never had any major troubles.

But from Shen Qiuqiu's point of view, the source of all this lies in Grandma Xiao's attitude towards things. Grandma Xiao never cares much about family affairs, and she is extraordinarily measured when getting along with her son and daughter-in-law.

He never intervenes in the affairs of his son and daughter-in-law, and never crosses the line with his grandchildren.

In terms of propriety, Grandma Xiao really did it to the extreme.

(End of this chapter)