Wear Eighty with a Villa

Chapter 456 Feeding and Raising Well

After breakfast, Liang Zhenguo went to the yard to wash the bicycle while waiting for Su Shu.

As soon as the three children heard that the two were going to buy vegetables, they immediately went to take their children's bicycles.

Liang Zhiqiang came out on a children's bicycle with short legs, and said to Liang Zhenguo, "Dad, you don't have to go. It's our job to go shopping with mom. Don't compete with us."

"Yes~Yes~" One by one nodded.

When Su Shu came out after applying sunscreen, she saw the three children waiting for her.

"Today, my father and I are going to a farther place, so the three of you are waiting for us at home. If Grandpa Li arrives later, can you take good care of Grandpa Li for Mom and Dad? When we come back, you will help us wash the vegetables OK?"

Su Shu touched the heads of the three children, "I will go shopping with my mother on the rest day next week."

The three children listened to Su Shu very much, and they didn't lose their temper even after Su Shu said so.

In addition, Su Shu also arranged other tasks for them, so the three children agreed.

"Dad, you should ride slowly while driving mom, don't ride too fast." Liang Zhiqiang remembered what his mother had said to them before, and added, "You guys have to take it slow and be careful."

Liang Zhenguo nodded, and when he drove Su Shu out of Xiaohe Street, he couldn't help asking, "Is this kid Zhiqiang a little bit talkative?"

"Liang Zhenguo, Liang Zhenguo, you are right, you are lucky to have met me." Su Shu patted him on the back, "I kind of know why I let you raise the children by yourself, and the two children become more and more useless. "

"Where is Zhiqiang talking? He is concerned, understand? When the three of them ride bicycles to play, we will tell him like this. He knows that we care about him. Now that we are out, he cares about us in turn. , this is the emotion we projected on the child is responded to by the child."

"This is very good. Children know how their parents love them and how they should love their parents. This is also called precepts and deeds. The words and deeds of our adults are the role models for children. If adults are good, children will follow suit. If adults are not good, children We will not learn well."

Su Shu asked Liang Zhenguo, "Have you not noticed that the two children Zhichao and Zhiqiang have different personalities? Although they are twins, if you observe carefully, you can find that their personalities are different."

"Of the three children, Zhichao is the one who makes the decision. He has the responsibility and sense of responsibility of the big brother. Although Zhiqiang seems to be protected by his brother Zhichao all the time, he is very smart and he gives advice. That person, but this child is too dependent on his elder brother, he can think and give opinions, but he is used to waiting for his elder brother to make up his mind."

"So when they go to elementary school, I plan to separate Zhichao and Zhiqiang, not in the same class." Su Shu said, "We need to train Zhiqiang so that he can get rid of this dependence and learn to make up his own mind." Make a decision."

Liang Zhenguo's cycling speed gradually slowed down, and his thoughts were brought to the two children.

Thinking about it carefully, it was indeed as Su Shu said.

It's just that Su Shu didn't say these things, and he completely ignored them.

"What about Yi Yi?" Liang Zhenguo asked.

"One by one, this child used to be timid and cried a lot. She has been with Zhichao and the others for so long. Now she is much more courageous and doesn't like to cry anymore. But she has a big regret in her personality. I don't know if I can change it. Got her."

"You also know that after her parents left, she came to our house. Su Jianxing treated her very well, as if she loved her own daughter, but Su Jianxing was very busy with work and was not often at home. Only Zhang Fen and the old Su Shu were there to accompany her. "

"You know the characters of Zhang Fen and the original Su Shu. If the three of you are at home, life is good. Zhang Fen is not a bad person, and he will love you. That Su Shu is also a good cousin, because I am grateful to my uncle. My aunt loved her before, so she gave this love to Yi Yi."

"But when the Zhang family came, Zhang Fen and that Su Shu couldn't hold back the Zhang family, and the Zhang family didn't have any scruples about speaking, but they didn't feel that they couldn't say anything in front of the children. Hurting people, I often tell Zhang Fen not to raise Yiyi in front of Yiyi, saying that Yiyi is a waste of food."

"One by one is a sensitive and timid child again, and these words are hidden in his heart, so have you noticed that one by one is not self-willed to make a small temper?"

"When Zhichao and Zhiqiang were still fighting with us, they wanted to eat braised pork. Zhiqiang and Zhichao hugged me and swayed. The braised pork made by my mother is the most delicious in the world. I saw others buying them. They also want new toys that they don’t have, and they will take the initiative to ask me for an application.”

When Su Shu said this, Liang Zhenguo understood, "Yiyi never took the initiative to mention what she wanted, and she wanted it for Zhichao and Zhiqiang."

So it should be said that Yiyi never took the initiative to mention what she wanted and wanted to do for herself.

"To be obedient, not self-willed, and not to make adults unhappy, these are like engraved in her bones. She is framed in these rules that she has figured out by herself. She feels that only in this way can she not be hated. will be sent away."

Su Shu sighed, "I hope girls can live more freely, that's why I don't let Zhichao and Zhiqiang call her aunt. This call, adding an elder status to her, will make her more Give yourself a rule that as an elder, she must take good care of Zhichao Zhiqiang."

"Children, it's enough to be sensible at the age when you should be sensible." Su Shu never thought that a five-year-old child would be as mature and sensible as a 15-25-year-old.

Is that still a child?
As long as there are adults in the family who care about it, whose child didn't get fucked a little when he was five years old?

"If one day they come to me one by one to act like a baby and want something, then I can rest assured." Su Shu said.

"Raising children is really worrying." Liang Zhenguo was quite embarrassed. "At that time, I brought Zhichao and Zhiqiang with me. I thought that as long as I fed and clothed children and sent them to school, I was raising children."

Later, after watching Su Shu's method of raising children, Liang Zhenguo realized that there was so much knowledge about raising children.

Now I know that raising children still requires so much observation and thinking.

It is only now that I realize that it is easy to raise a child, but it turns out to be so hard to raise a good child.

"I don't know exactly how to raise a good child, but the detours I have gone through, the bitterness I have tasted, it is always right for children to avoid it." Su Shu thought, what she thought when she was a child should be the same All kids will think about it.

Satisfying her childhood should be satisfying the childhood of the three children in the family.

Liang Zhenguo stopped the car suddenly, put one foot on the ground, held the handlebar with one hand, turned around, put his other hand on one shoulder of Su Shu, and patted it lightly twice.

(End of this chapter)