Help!The icy grandpa has moved my heart

Chapter 489 The Boss and the Secretary 43
Every day, he picked her up by coincidence, had breakfast with her, and then cooperated again...

Qu Fulan was not someone who pretended to be stupid, but every time the excuses and reasons he gave were very appropriate, she couldn't bear to slump and refuse to make the relationship embarrassing.

We eat breakfast together on weekdays, and we can still use the word "coincidence" to fool us, but now they are all delivering breakfast at the door, so we can't make it clear.

It was only when she spoke that she was cut off.

"Lanlan, let's talk." Pei Ji'an interrupted her, otherwise if she was asked to continue, it would be those intact words again.

Even if he has a strong mental capacity, he can't stand her ruthless words again and again.

As soon as he finished speaking, he saw her hold the cup tightly, nervous and defensive, "What do you want to talk about?"

Pei Ji'an couldn't tell what it was like, this was not what he wanted to see.

"Are you already so guarded against me?" It wasn't what I wanted to say at first, but I couldn't help asking when I saw her appearance.

Qu Fulan was taken aback for a moment, then looked away with some guilt.

They used to be a relationship between superiors and subordinates, then a relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, and then a relationship between familiar strangers.

Either way, she is actually on the weak side.

Especially during that period of time... There would be palpitations in the midnight dream, and she didn't even want to think about it.

So she was not so much guarding against him as repelling him.

Rejecting any possibility that would bring her back to that day.

She knew that she should deny it, and she should not let the person know about her rejection. Anyone who is rejected will feel bad, and the person in front of her is still her partner, so she should build a good relationship. It is perfectly possible to maintain a friendly surface.

But she couldn't deny it, and at some point, she didn't want to force herself to do things that went against her heart.

To reject is to reject, and to be on guard is to be on guard. If you don't say it, it's already polite, and to deny it is hypocrisy.

Her silence had answered his question.

The man laughed at himself, "I'm sorry, those days made you unhappy."

Qu Fulan looked at him in surprise.

It should be surprising, because he has never apologized to her, even if there are any conflicts during the relationship, he always has his reasons.

Shocked by his apology, she remained silent.

Because she wasn't sure whether the content of his apology was what she thought. Although it sounded like that, she knew his character.

I'm used to domineering, how could I put myself in other people's shoes?
Pei Ji'an didn't mind either, and continued, "These days, I tried to integrate into your life, and then I personally understood what you once said."

The difference in living habits does make people uncomfortable. He has only slightly integrated into her life, and he feels the discomfort caused by various differences, not to mention the efforts she has made to integrate into his life.

What's more, she was still asked to blend in and was not understood. Even when she signaled her grievances to him, he failed to give relief in time.

With Pei Ji'an's personality, without the guidance of the general manager, he would not have learned so much personally, because he is used to thinking about everything with a business mindset, and he is used to dominating. In his eyes, love and work are of the same nature.

He felt that it was good for her to learn those things, and there was no harm in them, so he let her learn them, and then ignored her feelings.

Only after being enlightened by his friends did he realize that love is love and career is career, and they cannot be confused.

"I should communicate with you from time to time and listen to your inner voice instead of taking it for granted that it is good for you."

He ate breakfast at that breakfast shop for several days in a row. Although the business was very good, he always felt that it was not clean enough in terms of hygiene, so he ate it with the discomfort in his heart.

Then there were many problems, the quality of the meat was not fresh enough, the oil used was not good enough, the hygiene in the store was not good, the tables and stools were a bit slippery, and the floor felt a bit sticky.

In short, when he went to eat for the first time, Pei Ji'an was uncomfortable in various ways.

But when he saw her eating without changing her face, without caring about the environment, he followed suit.

Afterwards, people went to check the hygiene situation of the breakfast shop.

The result is actually qualified. The so-called meat quality is not fresh enough because the breakfast shop has to get up at three or four o'clock to make breakfast, so the meat is prepared the night before, and some meat is still left over from the butcher's sale for a day. , was bought back at a low price, and then refrigerated and used the next day.

Considering the cost, this is to maximize the benefits. Considering the freshness of the meat, it is naturally not fresh enough.

Ordinary people travel around to make a living, and don't have much time to worry about these things, so everyone eats with gusto, only young masters and ladies who grew up in rich families eat all kinds of exquisite food since childhood, once they eat something that is not fresh enough, Immediately noticed it.

This is the difference between him and her.

She was the one who paid first, and she was the first to notice the gap between the two, so she said the word "inappropriate".

He was a step too late, and only now did he fully understand the meaning of the word "inappropriate".

But it's not that "inappropriate" means you can't be together.

There are no two identical leaves in this world, and no one is perfectly matched with another without any problems.

They all understand and tolerate each other.

As the general manager of the club said, for things like feelings, either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west wind overwhelms the east wind. You can't always have the upper hand. Only by being the one being oppressed occasionally can you go far.

In the past, it was his negligence in words and deeds that caused the two to break up. Now, he hopes to make up for it.

After hearing what he said, Qu Fulan's eyes felt a little hot, not because she was touched, but because of the grievances she had suffered in the past, she was sealed in the ground, and now she finally sees the light of day.

Just like what some housewives say, it’s not that I can’t bear to be wronged, but that someone needs to know and understand my wronged, otherwise it’s just wronged.

Now that he finally understands her grievances, her efforts are not in vain.

"I'm glad you made it this far, but let's call it a day."

If he didn't do this, he wouldn't be able to appreciate her past suffering, nor would he understand what she said, so she was relieved.

But here is enough, there is no need to continue.

The facts are in front of them, they are still not suitable, so there is no need to waste everyone's time.

Because those existing problems will not disappear because of his understanding, class differences, and other ideological and cultural differences still exist.

Now it is because of this issue that they are in conflict, and another day they will be in conflict because of other issues, and it is difficult to integrate.

Pei Ji'an understood what she meant, but instead of being angry, she laughed, "Lanlan, where is the unyielding energy you had when you first joined the company? It's not your style to back down after a single failure. "

This is saying...

"Emotions are different from work, you can't judge by winning or losing." Qu Fulan said.

"I agree with your point of view, but the problems between us are very obvious. Let's try to solve those problems and try again. Otherwise, you may not be able to guarantee harmony and happiness when you associate with other men with similar conditions."

Is it contradictory to associate with a rich and wealthy family, but not to associate with an ordinary man?
Not necessarily.

(End of this chapter)