Unlimited supplies: Bringing space to the supermarket to keep the right minister

Chapter 329 The Mystery of Life Experience
As for the excuse of leaving home for several years, Su Jingchen had already thought of it.

After hearing Su Jingchen's excuse, Yu Xiaolian felt that Su Jingchen was really trying his best.

Because Su Jingchen planned to lie to his father, saying that his old illness had relapsed, and it was getting worse day by day, that he might die soon. In order to survive, he planned to go to the Western Regions to find a bell doctor who was good at asthma.

The ancient bell doctor Yu Xiaolian knew it. Ling doctor was a folk doctor who wandered around the rivers and lakes.

In ancient times, there were some doctors, when they went out to see a doctor, they often carried a medicine box and hand-operated string bells, and ran for years in the streets and alleys to help those sick patients. When people heard the sound of the bell, they knew it was The doctor came, so he was called Doctor Ling.

Or in modern times, Ling doctors practiced medicine without a license, but in ancient times it was the opposite. Some doctors with superb medical skills would not be content with one side, they would choose to travel around alone, whether you say he is for fame, yes Whether it is hanging pots to help the world, in short, the masters are among the people.

Apart from the reason for the long trip, Su Jingchen lied about the benefit of the recurrence of the old disease, and there is another one.

That is to let Su Dafu know that his son is a sick child, and it would be good if Yu Xiaolian didn't despise his son. How could he still have the face to pick and choose and despise him?
In the following period of time, Su Jingchen also used actions to verify that his approach was correct.

Ever since Su Jingchen started to cough a few times from time to time, Su Dafu panicked.

Originally, he wanted to delay the engagement of Su Jingchen and Yu Xiaolian, but now he will not delay it.

Not only did he not procrastinate, he also quickly prepared the betrothal gift, drew up the marriage letter and gift list, and personally took the matchmaker to Yu's house to propose marriage for his son Su Jingchen.

Even though Yu Changhe was unwilling, he couldn't hold back his daughter's willingness, so he had to accept the gift from Su Dafu, and exchanged marriage certificates with Su Dafu, as well as the birthdays of the two children.

Yu Changhe let Su Dafu know that it is best to set the engagement at the end of summer, and let him choose later when he chooses a date.

Su Dafu was afraid that the Yu family would find out that his son was a sick child and resign, so he chose the tenth day of the fifth lunar month regardless of Yu Changhe's opinion.

After Yu Changhe found out, he was very angry.

Who is engaged in May?May is a poisonous month, it can be said that everything is inappropriate.

Yu Changhe unceremoniously asked someone to pass the news to Su Dafu, telling him that it would not work in May, or it would be the end of April, or the beginning of June.

Su Dafu was eager to move forward, so he happily changed the date of engagement to the end of April.

And before Yu Changhe objected, he had already sent out invitations and advertised them widely.

Yu Xiaolian was also taken aback when she knew that she would be engaged in more than [-] days.

On the contrary, Su Jingchen was very calm, everything was within his expectation.

Recently, Su Jingchen has been very adept at pretending to be sick, often in front of Su Dafu, his face would turn pale from panting.

Su Dafu was so frightened that he was afraid that his son would die so young, and he could rely on this son for the rest of his life's prosperity and wealth.

Seeing that Su Jingchen was getting weaker day by day, Su Dafu sighed sadly. This child was born weak, and it probably has a lot to do with Zheng's drowning in the cold water pool.

It's just that, seeing that the child's health has improved in the past two years, why did he relapse again?
While Zhang Luo was engaged to Su Jingchen, Su Dafu also secretly invited many famous doctors in Los Angeles for Su Jingchen, but those doctors were helpless, and suggested that they should seek help from the doctor Ling who specializes in asthma in the Western Regions.

Su Dafu immediately scolded those vain doctors.

Who doesn't know that the air in the Western Regions is thin, with his son's physique of taking one step and panting for three steps, he couldn't possibly burp before seeing Doctor Ling.

No, it can't go on like this, Su Dafu hurried back to the study.

He just picked up the pen, and he hesitated again.

No, you can't let that person know the truth.

Su Dafu's heart was full of twists and turns, and finally he tried his best, threw the brush on the ground, and let out a long sigh.

This son was raised by him, it was his.

Since Mrs. Zheng didn't tell the truth to the child before he died, because he didn't want the child to have anything to do with that person again, let him take this secret into the coffin.

In a blink of an eye, it came to April [-]th, the day when Yu Xiaolian and Su Jingchen got engaged.

Yu Xiaolian can be regarded as having truly seen the ancient process of getting married.

There are six main procedures for marriage engagement, which are Nacai, Ask Name, Najib, Nazheng, Request Date, and Welcome.

During this period, three books will also be interspersed, namely the letter of engagement, the letter of ceremony, and the letter of welcome, which are used at different stages of engagement.

In the three books, the appointment letter is the engagement letter, which means that the man and the woman have made a marriage contract, and it will be used when Najib.

The book of rites is a list of gifts, which lists the number and quantity of the man's gifts, and is used when paying taxes.

The wedding letter is our modern marriage certificate, which is used when we greet each other in person.

The other six processes are like this, Nacai is to come to propose marriage.

In ancient times, most of the women stayed in the boudoir, and they did not leave the door without leaving the second door. The main reason was that the man took the initiative to inquire, and if there was a girl he liked, he would prepare a meeting ceremony and hire a matchmaker to come to propose marriage.

To ask for a name is to ask for a name.

In ancient times, the restrictions on women were relatively strict, and women were not allowed to show their faces, so men did not know the woman's name, and what's more, they asked the horoscope of the birth date, and compared the horoscope of the birth date to see if they matched each other, and no conflicts could be allowed.

For Najib, it is to send some small gifts to express the willingness to decide on the marriage. This link is usually decided after the man checks his birthday.

Accepting a levy is a dowry.

After the parents of both men and women agree, the man will send the bride price to the woman's family, expressing his determination to marry his daughter as his wife.

Please ask for a date, which is to ask for the date of marriage. Generally, the parents of the man calculate the auspicious day of the zodiac, and then seek the consent of the parents of the woman. After agreeing, they marry according to the date.

The last link is the personal welcome, which is the link of marrying the bride, which can be regarded as a formal marriage. This link can be said to be very grand, and etiquette should be paid attention to in all aspects.

Therefore, although it is an engagement, the date of marriage has already been set.

Because Su Dafu was afraid that the duck in his beak would fly away, the wedding was set for one year later, after Yu Xiaolian and Ji, they got married.

Regarding this date, everyone has no objection, because except for Su Dafu, everyone else knows that Yu Xiaolian and Su Jingchen plan to travel far away, and they may not come back within a few years, so no matter how close the wedding date is, it will be held. No, it's all empty talk.

After Yu Changhe knew that Su Jingchen planned to go to the Western Regions with Yu Xiaolian, he had already talked to Su Jingchen, and the Weng and son-in-law had made an agreement, which was a gentleman's agreement between the two of them.

The matter of getting married seems complicated, but it seems to have nothing to do with Yu Xiaolian. There is nothing that she needs to do by herself, and in terms of etiquette, the parties involved in the engagement don't even need to meet.

So, even though it was an engagement, Yu Xiaolian did what she was supposed to do. It was her father who made the engagement banquet for Zhang Luo.

It was her mother who checked the gift list.

(End of this chapter)