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Xiuxiu smiled and said: "Sister Shufen, I just happen to have something to do right now, why don't we walk along the beach together?"

Many men in the military area are straight men, and it is easy to ignore the feelings of their wives. Over time, the wives are also prone to psychological problems.

Xiuxiu guessed that Zhang Shufen must have lost her temper with Zhang Weidong.

So Xiuxiu planned to accompany Zhang Shufen for a walk on the beach to relieve her mood.

She knows very well that most women are emotional animals, and their emotions come and go quickly. If you have a good girlfriend to accompany you to relax, you will get better soon.

"This……"

Zhang Shufen looked at Xiuxiu, hesitating.

Originally, she didn't want to associate with Xiuxiu and Xiuxiu's friends, but she always felt that they were "doing nothing".

But after thinking about it, people who "do not work properly" live happier lives than her, so why can't they have more contacts with them?

So, Zhang Shufen made up her mind and said, "Thank you, sister Xiuxiu, you are really kind."

Zhang Shufen saw that Xiuxiu looked young and dressed fashionable, and thought that Xiuxiu was younger than herself.

Unexpectedly, after chatting, Zhang Shufen found out that she was one year younger than Xiuxiu!
Xiuxiu smiled and said, "Now I have to call you Sister Shufen!"

Zhang Shufen felt very emotional, and sighed: "Sister Xiuxiu, you are obviously one year older than me, but you look much younger than me."

Zhang Shufen suddenly felt very regretful. At her age, she should have dressed up like Xiuxiu and the others, wearing beautiful clothes and making three or five friends.

But she happened to hang around Zhang Weidong every day, in order to save Zhang Weidong money and save food and expenses, an old dress was torn, patched, patched, patched, patched, only twenty-five years old, Dress like an old lady.

Compared with Xiuxiu, her life is not what a woman should live!

She has paid so much for the family, Zhang Weidong still doesn't know how to be grateful...

The more Zhang Shufen thought about it, the more wronged she felt!

So Zhang Shufen told the story of her quarreling with Zhang Weidong, her efforts at home not being recognized by Zhang Weidong, and leaving home in a fit of anger.

Xiuxiu smiled and said: "Shufen, you have been a full-time wife at home for too long. You are still so young and can do many things. You should have your own world, and it shouldn't all revolve around Zhang Weidong."

Zhang Shufen always felt that something was wrong, but she was not educated, so no matter how she thought about it, she couldn't figure it out, and she didn't know what was wrong.

Now hearing what Xiuxiu said, Zhang Shufen instantly understood, and nodded vigorously: "Yes, yes! Sister Xiuxiu, you are right, I just don't have my own world!"

Now after Xiuxiu's dialing, Zhang Shufen instantly figured out what was wrong - there was only Zhang Weidong in her world, and there was nothing else!
That's why Zhang Weidong's every move, every expression, every word will have an earthquake-like impact on her world!

Xiuxiu went on to say: "Shufen, you can't stay at home every day, you should come out more to meet new friends and new opportunities, so as to enrich and enrich your world. Only in this way, you will not be nervous about Zhang Weidong all the time."

Zhang Shufen listened to Xiuxiu's words quietly, and nodded in agreement.

In the past, she always felt that something was wrong, but now she understands everything.

Sure enough, it is better to be educated, Xiuxiu pointed out the problem to the point!
In the past, she was not willing to associate with Xiuxiu, but now she felt that she was really stupid at that time.

If it weren't for Xiuxiu's words, she would never understand what went wrong in her life!
People, sometimes it is really "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, just because I am in this mountain", and it takes an outsider to enlighten me before I suddenly realize it!

But soon Zhang Shufen's mood fell down again.

She sighed, and said unconfidently: "Sister Xiuxiu, I have no culture and no friends. I don't know anyone else on this island except Zhang Weidong."

Xiuxiu said: "I didn't have any friends when I first came to Ludao! People only need to open themselves and accept others, and they can find friends. If you close yourself at home every day and don't interact with others, how can you realize What about new friends? If you want to meet new friends, you must first open yourself."

"Open yourself..." Zhang Shufen repeated Xiuxiu's words thoughtfully.

Xiuxiu asked, "Do you want to work?"

Zhang Shufen nodded vigorously: "I think so. But I have no education, and I have no work experience..."

Xiuxiu found that Zhang Shufen was a person who lacked courage in her bones.

She is eager to change, but once she has a thought of changing, countless negative thoughts will immediately pop up to suppress the previous thought.

Xiuxiu encouraged Zhang Shufen and said: "Shufen, many of your ideas are only at the level of 'thinking', but you have never taken action. Opportunities are all made by trying. If you don't try, how will you know if you can do it? You have to let go of the thoughts of fear in your heart, overcome the fear, and take the first step.”

Encouraged by Xiuxiu, Zhang Shufen gradually gained courage.

Yes, many of her ideas have been stuck at the level of "thinking", and she has never really tried it!

Every time she quarrels with Zhang Weidong, she wants to find a job, support herself, and stop asking Zhang Weidong for money.

But this idea is just an idea.

When she calmed down, the fear of the unknown pulled her back, and she became the woman who circled around Zhang Weidong again.

With Xiuxiu's encouragement, Zhang Shufen plucked up her courage and said: "Sister Xiuxiu, you are right, I shouldn't stay at the level of ideas, I should have the courage to try."

Xiuxiu smiled and said: "That's right. By the way, I am planning to open a coconut production factory with a few friends, and we are currently recruiting workers. Would you like to come and try?"

Zhang Shufen's eyes widened, and she asked in disbelief: "Sister Xiuxiu, did you post the advertisement I saw on the poles in the Market Street?"

Xiuxiu laughed: "So you have seen it."

Zhang Shufen also smiled and nodded: "I wanted to try it, but I was afraid that I could not do it well, so I gave up the plan. Sister Xiuxiu, if you opened the coconut factory, I can try it." ?"

Hearing that the coconut factory was opened by Xiuxiu, Zhang Shufen suddenly gained courage.

So she summoned up the courage to ask Xiuxiu if she could join her coconut factory.

Zhang Shufen said sincerely: "Sister Xiuxiu, I know that I have no education and no work experience. I must not do well at the beginning. You can pay me less salary, but I will work hard! When I can do it well, you Give me a raise."

Xiuxiu blamed: "Here we go again. Shufen, I said, you should have more confidence in yourself. Why do you always feel that you can't do well?"

Zhang Shufen was very moved when she heard this, and said quickly: "Sister Xiuxiu, I will definitely work hard!"