Stunning Dragon Wife

Chapter 479 Exploring Life
Zhang Xiaoshan is not a fool.

Bai Shutong asked him to come to this kind of place in the middle of the night, and told her sad past, so there must be a reason.

Perhaps, she can give herself some reward.

And Bai Shutong's words are very sincere, if he conceals and deceives, he will feel sorry for others.

Over the years, Zhang Xiaoshan has summed up a truth, that is, the obvious answer, it is best not to lie, because when people ask you, they already have the answer in their minds.

"Ok."

Zhang Xiaoshan briefly brewed in his mind, sorted out his thoughts, and talked to Bai Shutong.

"Actually, the literal meaning of a love relationship can be seen, it is nothing more than love and sex."

"The simple ones can be divided into four types."

"The first type is loveless and sexless. This is the rarest type. It mostly happens to people who are forced to marry by their families. Although they become a couple in name, everyone goes their own way."

"The second type is love and sex. This is the most common type, so I don't need to go into details."

"The third type is sex without love. One party only pursues a moment of pleasure in bed for the benefit of money, status, etc., or for their own pleasure. They pat their butt and leave after the affair is the most free and easy."

"The fourth type is love without sex. Two people come together because of love, and then stick to the bottom line until a suitable opportunity later, when it happens."

"No matter what kind of relationship it is, two people need to reach a consensus. Once one party's cognition is wrong, the two parties will definitely break out into a big conflict, and they will fall apart."

"You and the man in your mouth are exactly this kind. You want the fourth kind, with love and no sex, but he wants to do the third kind of sexless thing with you under the guise of the second kind of love and sex." , so you will have conflicts."

"And the wish that you can't let go of these years should be that you are stuck in a kind of hesitation, whether you chose the fourth one at the beginning, and having love and sex can prevent you from separating."

Bai Shutong nodded again and again, a hint of excitement appeared on her sad face.

This is meeting a bosom friend.

"Yes, that's right. Then you say, is it possible for me and him to enter into a state of love and sex?"

Zhang Xiaoshan looked at Bai Shutong's expression, he was in a calm mood at this moment, so he dared to speak.

"With all due respect, it's impossible, because the premise of having sex and love is that both parties have reached an agreement. You can give him the love that is lacking for a person who has sex but not love, but he is unwilling to give you your love. The love that asexual people lack."

"The reason for your separation is actually not about sex at all. It's just his rhetoric. People are hypocritical. Do you know that when he is blocked by you in a hotel and his face is humiliated, he will naturally say something. Da, in fact, he didn’t necessarily take it to heart when he said it himself, but you didn’t clearly distinguish the difference between reasons and excuses, so you took it seriously.”

"Wow."

Bai Shutong was stunned for a long time, as if he was savoring Zhang Xiaoshan's words, and then nodded in agreement.

"You are so eloquent, I think you should not be a doctor, but a psychologist."

Zhang Xiaoshan laughed.

"Doctors and psychologists have the same goal of saving people. The former saves the human body, while the latter saves the soul."

"It's easy to deal with problems with the body. If you drink the medicine, you can get rid of the disease. But self-will is too complicated, and it's difficult to save it."

Bai Shutong nodded approvingly.

When Bai Shutong saw Zhang Xiaoshan for the first time, she felt that Zhang Xiaoshan was powerful in combat and must be an arrogant warrior. But after going to Bailong Village, she found that Zhang Xiaoshan was actually very thoughtful, especially shameless. After interviewing Wu Xiaoru, she had a good opinion of Zhang Xiaoshan A feeling of sympathy and sympathy for each other, her affection for Zhang Xiaoshan doubled at this time.

He is so philosophical and willing to be honest with himself.

Maybe the man I need right now is just like Zhang Xiaoshan.

"Then let me ask you, do you feel bad if you didn't marry Wu Xiaoru?"

Zhang Xiaoshan froze for a moment.

"What did Wu Xiaoru tell you today?"

"Hehe, I'm the one asking you questions now, it's not your turn to ask me." Bai Shutong said with a smile.

"Ok."

Zhang Xiaoshan looked a little lonely.

"I can only say that I can accept that I didn't marry Wu Xiaoru, but what I can't accept is that 20cai didn't marry Wu Xiaoru."

"Ah, what's the difference between the two?"

"of course."

"There are nine out of ten unsatisfactory things in life. It is normal to have shortcomings, but because of money, it shows my incompetence and Wu Xiaoru's reality. It was also at this time that I realized that feelings can really be used. money to measure."

"Then do you hate Wu Xiaoru?"

"Of course I hate it. It was she who ruined my initial longing for marriage, but I hate it so much that it wasn't her who didn't marry me. She told me about her thoughts. She wanted to rely on men to live a better life. Everyone has their own way. Aspiration, I can't force it, in fact, if she talks to me frankly and breaks up peacefully, I can completely accept it, after all, everyone has the right to choose the life they want."

"My resentment towards her comes from the fact that she doesn't really want to marry me, but she still forces my sister-in-law to use her innocence as collateral to borrow usury. This is not as simple as a simple betrayal. It is to destroy my life. Life."

"However, I don't hate it so much now."

"Ah for what?"

Bai Shutong was puzzled at first, and then asked curiously.

"You still love her, don't you?"

(End of this chapter)