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Chapter 266 The Spirit of Ah Q
Gu Yan was about to close the door. Hearing Shen Yucheng's lonely tone, she immediately said, "Come on, let's go to the train station to see if there is a ticket to the capital."

"I've already asked, and there are only tickets for tomorrow night." Shen Yucheng closed the door with his hand and said, "I'll go there by car tomorrow morning. It's windy, let's go back to the house."

"It's too much to suffer by bus. It would be nice if we had our own car, and it would be better to drive there."

"It's not realistic to drive. When the second brother first started driving back and forth, he didn't come back alone."

Also, there is no navigation, and the expressway is not fully constructed. Even if there is a car, it is really not easy to drive there.

Gu Yan thought for a while and said, "I'll call Xiao Chuan and ask him if there is a bus to the capital. If there is, you can go there with a big car. It's not comfortable to take a bus."

Shen Yucheng did not refuse, he went to pack his clothes, while Gu Yan went to Grandma Jiang's house to call He Xiaochuan.

He Xiaochuan said that there will be a car passing by tomorrow, but they will leave at four o'clock tomorrow morning, and they must arrive in the capital before twelve o'clock noon.

Gu Yan hesitated, because it was too early after all, but Shen Yucheng agreed immediately, saying that the sooner the better.

After making an appointment for a time and place to meet, Gu Yan helped Shen Yucheng tidy up his things briefly, and then urged him to wash up and go to bed, but Shen Yucheng still couldn't rest, so he went to the department again to arrange work, substitute class time I also adjusted it, and it was almost twelve o'clock when I could really go to bed.

According to the time and place agreed with He Xiaochuan's driver, they were leaving at 03:30 in the morning, and they couldn't sleep for a few hours.

Gu Yan set the alarm clock, turned off the lights, and forced Shen Yucheng to sleep with her eyes closed. How could Shen Yucheng be able to sleep?

Seeing that he couldn't sleep, Gu Yan comforted him, "The old man is old and his immunity is weak, and illness is inevitable. Don't worry too much. The weather is getting warmer, and Grandma Jiang will bring her back when she feels better."

"I may have to stay for a few more days this time, and bring grandma back then."

Gu Yan said softly, "The main thing is to focus on grandma's body. If her body is not good, don't toss about it, lest she can't bear it."

"No!" Shen Yucheng said stubbornly, "We must let her come back."

Knowing Shen Yucheng for so long, it was the first time Gu Yan saw him so stubborn, she was taken aback, "What's wrong, did something happen?"

After a long time, Shen Yucheng said, "Uncle was very angry when I called today, and blamed me for not telling him about my grandma's illness and hospitalization last year." In fact, Shen Yucheng was not feeling well today, "He said I was too selfish, said I One person dominates grandma, saying that grandma is so old and still takes care of me, and that grandma can't stay in the capital because of me."

This kind of accusation, let alone Shen Yucheng, even Gu Yan felt very uncomfortable hearing it, but at this time, she couldn't add fuel to the fire. She hugged Shen Yucheng distressedly, and said, "I guess your uncle didn't mean it. Yes, don't be impulsive after the past, think more about grandma."

The moonlight came in through the window, only slightly bright, so Gu Yan couldn't see the sadness in Shen Yucheng's eyes, "They don't understand that when people get old, they don't want to go anywhere, they just want to live on the original one-acre land .”

Gu Yan patted Shen Yucheng on the back, "As human beings, we can't be independent from the world, and many things have to be endured. It's not enough to just endure, we have to learn how to let go. Does Ah Q know that he has a method? It's called the "Spiritual Victory Method", which means that he will eliminate negative emotions in the fastest time. We have to learn from his spirit and expend negative emotions as soon as possible. You are a doctor and should know better than anyone else that negative emotions accumulate in the body Too much is not a good thing.”

This is the fact that Gu Yan can only see clearly after experiencing a lot of suffering.

When you are old enough to get married, say it's time for you to get married.

If you are married and have no children, it is time for you to have a child.

She gave birth to a girl, and said why she didn't give birth to a boy.

After giving birth to a boy, he said that one was too few and that two should be born.

The old man helped you take care of the children, saying that you should take care of your own children and not bother the old man.

The elderly don't help with the children, and they say they look down on the elderly, and the children are not allowed to look at them.

Live with the elderly, saying that you are greedy for the pension and property of the elderly.

Do not live with the elderly, saying that you are not filial and do not support the elderly.

The old man is sick, they say how to take care of him so late.

When the old man passes away, if they don't cry at the funeral, they will say, why is this child so impersonal.
It’s fine for outsiders to say whatever they want. The most annoying thing is “family members”, “relatives” and “friends”. They act unscrupulously under the banner of looking after you, making it impossible for you to refute!
No matter what you do, they can find what you did "wrong"!
Therefore, you must have the spirit of Ah Q, learn to resolve yourself, and care too much about other people's opinions and opinions, then this day will not pass!
Gu Yan sighed deeply, "The most difficult thing in this world is not to make a living, but to maintain various relationships between relatives and family members while working hard. It's fine if you tear your face, If it cannot be torn apart, one party has to back down, and someone has to be wronged."

Shen Yucheng was stunned, Gu Yan's words were too clear.

"So, you don't want to get married?"

Gu Yan was a little surprised and smiled, "Did you hear that? You're so smart."

Shen Yucheng buried her head deeply into Gu Yan's neck, "But I still think it's good for the two of us to be together. For example, like now, if I'm in a bad mood, you can comfort me."

"Hurry up and sleep for a while." Gu Yan said softly, "Go and talk to your uncle, tell him that you still have to respect grandma's wishes, and try not to quarrel."

The best partner is one who can stand side by side with you on the bow of the boat and sing about the scenery on both sides of the strait, and who can hold your hand tightly in the stormy sea, instead of adding fuel to the fire when you have something to do, lest the world will go wrong Not messy.

Shen Yucheng is very thankful that the person he loves is warm and rational!
At three o'clock in the morning, the alarm clock rang, and Gu Yan and Shen Yucheng woke up at the same time.

When Gu Yan was about to get up, Shen Yucheng held her down. Because he had slept for a short time, his voice was a little hoarse, "Don't get up, go to sleep."

Gu Yan still got up, "I'll cook a bowl of noodles for you, and I'll take you off on a motorcycle after eating, hurry up." "

"Don't be so troublesome."

"Eat something, and your body can handle it." Gu Yan joked while dressing, "Otherwise you won't have the energy to quarrel when you arrive."

Hearing Gu Yan's joke, Shen Yucheng's mood suddenly became lighter, "Okay, then do less."

Gu Yan only ordered a small handful of noodles, with two fried eggs on top, and Shen Yu ate it all. Gu Yan was right, he had to eat it, and it made me quarrel after eating it!
(End of this chapter)