After being sent to the group show by rich parents, I exploded

Chapter 456 Love is Mutual

Feng Yasong also realized that his mind-wandering was too obvious, so he didn't speak harshly.

She stared at the screen, and while restarting the challenge, she tactfully tried: "I was thinking, is it not good for us to live together on the first day of our relationship?"

"I saw a lot of people on the Internet saying that couples living together can easily lead to a breakup, because the gap between ideal and reality is too great."

Before the words fell, the screen of the failure of the challenge popped up again on the TV screen.

But this time, it was Zhong Jingchen who accidentally made a mistake in the operation, which caused the character he manipulated to die on the spot.

He put down the game controller and turned to look at her seriously: "For example?"

Feng Yasong also put down the game controller, and said with a guilty face: "For example...every time I dated you before living together, I would dress up brightly, but if I stay together 24 hours a day, it is impossible for me to be together all the time. You've been so particular all the time, and soon you'll find that I don't wash my face or mop the floor at home every day, except for eating..."

Before the word 'sleep' could come out of her mouth, she heard a low laugh from a man caught off guard.

Chong Jingchen's tone was not to mention how puzzled he was: "Bright and bright? If I remember correctly, you didn't brush your teeth or wash your face not long ago, and came knocking on the door with disheveled clothes on your head."

"I've seen your casual appearance in private a long time ago, and I accept it all. Why do you feel that there is a big gap between ideal and reality?"

Feng Yasong: "..."

Obviously his tone and demeanor are all normal, but for some reason, she inexplicably heard the sarcasm in his words!
She faltered for a while, then smiled awkwardly and said, "Although, what I just said are just the most basic problems that will be encountered in the process of living together. If you talk about it more deeply, there will be two people Inconsistent aesthetics, inconsistent living habits, different ways of dealing with problems, and a series of problems that easily lead to conflicts."

"When we are not living together, we can put many personal issues in private and solve them according to our own will. When dating, we only need to focus on how to make the dating experience better for both parties, without distraction Some of these are not there."

"But after living together, we are tired of being together 24 hours a day. Everything we do must consider each other's feelings, not just for our own pleasure, but the habits we have formed cannot be changed overnight. , so I will still expose my shortcomings inadvertently and lower my impression points in the other party's heart."

"Once or twice, we may be able to tolerate each other's misbehavior with the blessing of the freshness at the beginning of the relationship."

"When the novelty wears off, we may not be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings unconditionally, and conflicts will also break out. We will easily wear out our feelings in quarrels, and finally the two hate each other. Going to the bad ending that none of us want to see, what do you think?"

Although these words sounded harsh and cruel, Zhong Jingchen had to admit that she was right.

"These are indeed some problems we have to face next." He looked at Feng Yasong with burning eyes, and said in a gentle tone: "But if we don't live together, don't these problems exist?"

Feng Yasong was taken aback by his rhetorical question, and before he had time to think about it, the other party had already given the answer: "No, these problems still exist, but the time to erupt will be later, maybe when we travel together and stay in a hotel together , or maybe it is because we think that the other party is very suitable for us in all aspects, and we enter into marriage with a yearning for future life."

"Since we have to face these problems sooner or later, why can't we face up to them and solve them proactively from the very beginning, but keep avoiding and procrastinating, and let them pay for this relationship on both sides. A lot of energy and time, just one step away from cultivating a positive result and then bursting out?"

Feng Yasong was taken aback by his rhetorical question, and said in his heart that I just wanted to find a reason so that you would let me go home willingly...

Who would have thought that he would think very seriously about every question she asked casually?

While ridiculing himself for being self-defeating, Feng Yasong felt extra at ease with his subconscious performance.

Because this just proves that he takes this relationship very seriously.

Driven by guilt, Feng Yasong corrected his attitude, and couldn't help but ask him: "In your opinion, what should we do to solve this problem and avoid a bad ending?"

Chong Jing Chen's crow-like eyelashes drooped, and after pondering for a long time, he raised his eyes to look at her and said, "I think the most important thing to maintain an intimate relationship is to communicate more."

"You don't have to hide your shortcomings in front of me, you don't have to deliberately flatter, just keep your most relaxed and comfortable state, and at the same time be honest with me, what do you like, what do you want, what do you hate, what my behavior makes you feel If you feel uncomfortable, you have to speak out bravely, and then I can adjust my behavior according to your wishes."

"Otherwise, if I don't figure out what I want for you and do something bad with good intentions, and you don't know that I do it out of good intentions, misunderstandings will arise."

Having said that, Zhong Jingchen bent his eyes, and said to her solemnly: "From the moment I decided to be with you, I really hope that we can have a good ending."

"So even if the world is unpredictable, I am willing to do my best for it. I hope you can cooperate with me, point out in time when I make a mistake, and urge me to correct it, instead of holding it in my heart and secretly deducting points for me. By the time I discovered the anomaly, all my efforts would have been useless. Is it possible?"

His dark and shiny eyes were shining brightly under the light, a bit more dazzling than the stars in the night sky, and his pleading tone was so gentle that his heart would soften into sweet cotton candy.

How could he be willing to reject his proposal that was good for both of them?
She nodded without hesitation and said, "Of course!"

"But I can't be the only one who stays comfortable and relaxed in front of you and is honest with you. You also have to be your truest self in front of me, and tell me frankly what you like and what you hate. If I mess with you If you are unhappy, you must bring it up in time and let me correct it. Instead of just wronging yourself just to please me. "

"Because love is mutual, and tolerance and understanding should also be mutual. I don't want to ride on your neck and live alone. I want both of us to live comfortably and happily with each other. ?"

(End of this chapter)