Yo, grandpa is here
Chapter 157
"Sister, you are narrow-minded. Who stipulates that good people should be wimpy and let others bully them? My husband and I are just a pair of capable and good people."
With a playful smile, Qingqing gave high praise to herself and the man she picked.
"A good person who is not bullied" Liu Ling repeated her words.
"All along, the concept we have accepted is that we indulge all kinds of bad people, but are strict with good people. Bad people have done ten thousand bad things, and no one thinks it is wrong, but good people have a little flaw, and they have to be pointed out. "
So let some people mistakenly think that good people deserve to be bullied, and good people should appear as weak people.
The sudden appearance of good people like Qingqing and Buli, who are super capable and able to open "all locks" in the world, will make people unable to judge their quality and question their "goodness" enough.
"My husband-in-law is the head of the patriarch, so he led the whole clan to collect medicines. Outsiders seem to take it for granted. Our husband and wife took a commission, which made our motivation to do good things flawed."
Qingqing stated calmly.
She knew what Liu Ling's words meant just now, so she simply made it clear.
"It's not just outsiders who think so, even our clansmen thought so at the beginning. They felt that calling us ancestors would make our ancestors shine unconditionally. This is impossible."
"Why?"
"They enshrine us and ask us to provide help for no reason. This is a transaction. They provide labor, and we provide technology and ideas. This is also a transaction. It is a transaction, and it must be established on the basis that both parties feel equal. , We feel that we are losing money, so we don’t do it, is there a problem?”
"However, you are not afraid that the clansmen will think that you and your wife are too powerful - what are you laughing at?"
Liu Ling was baffled by Qing's laughter, but she had to admit that this cunning Mrs. Yu had a brilliant smile.
"I laughed at you for being cute. Fei Peng must have been with you for a long time. You both have the same expression when you are in doubt, poof."
Qingqing brought the topic back before others became angry.
"Since it's all a transaction, the principle of transaction must be followed. What kind of transaction can satisfy both parties? That is to maximize the profits of both parties. On a larger scale, the court and the people are transactions, friends are transactions, and husband and wife are also transactions. , it’s just what we trade, belief and sentimental value.”
When it comes to emotional value, you can't get around feelings. Feelings are the most difficult to value in the entire transaction process.
"You look at the problem too-directly." Liu Ling wanted to be indifferent, but for her sake, patriarch Yu even drank the male avoidance soup that few people drank.
But from the mouth of the patriarch's wife, marriage has become a kind of transaction?
"Let's just get straight to the point. We can see the essence of the problem only by peeling off the illusions that cover the surface of the problem. I can see that you are trapped by love."
Liu Ling froze again, she claimed to hide it very well, how did she see it?
"Today I'll just say something deep, anyway, sooner or later you and I will 'give deep words too'." Qingqing said regardless of the ugly face of others, "Emotions are the most difficult to value, so It is also one of the most difficult transactions in the world. It is hard to understand from the perspective of outsiders. Sometimes outsiders think you are losing money, but you are happy, which means you have gained emotional value.”
The "love brain" in the eyes of outsiders, but they enjoy it themselves, so it is difficult to judge whether the transaction is a loss.
"But if a relationship has already caused you a lot of pain, regardless of whether you have gained actual benefits or not, your emotional value has been seriously lost. Naturally, you will run as far as you can. People live for the purpose of separation. Parents and children Lovers will leave us, only you will accompany yourself for a long time, and if you are good to yourself, you are good to the world."
Qingqing had contact with Liu Ling a few times, and every time she saw her pretending to be indifferent, there was always a faint melancholy. This melancholy temperament made it easy for Qingqing to guess that this was a person with a story. Take advantage of today to enlighten me.
"The topic comes back to our relationship with our clansmen. At the beginning, some people in the village felt that we, as ancestors, should not make money or cooperate with us. But now, the whole village respects us beyond everything else. What they worship It’s not the identity of our ancestors, it’s because we’ve truly seen that with us, they will have a good life.”
This is the maximization of the benefits generated by the transaction. Qingqing and Buli have earned money and respect.
"Sister-in-law and I never care what outsiders look like to us. It doesn't matter whether we are ancestors, profiteers, good people or bad people. We only do what we think is right, and we are worthy of it."
Qingqing compared her heart and mouth, and then compared to Liu Ling.
"Sister, when you feel sad, think about it. It's not easy to live a lifetime. It's better to be nice to yourself than to be nice to anyone. You have to be worthy of your own place."
Buli was already looking this way, with a somewhat anxious expression on his face, he knew how good Qingqing's negotiating skills were, and he was afraid that Qingqing would fool the doctor and reveal the matter of him taking the contraceptive pill.
"When our shop opens, I'll come over to make tea and talk with you. Let's stop here today." Qingqing knew that she had already shocked them, so she didn't want to stay any longer. Liu Ling stopped her.
"Next time—don't call me younger sister. I'm a few months older than you. My single name is Ling." This name hasn't been used for a long time, and it's a little strange for her to say it.
"Then don't call me Mrs. Yu, I'm Chen Qingqing."
In this era when women don't deserve their own names and can only be called XX, two women with independent personalities have become friends in a trans-epochal sense.
"Why have you stayed for so long?" On the donkey cart, he asked obstinately.
"It's okay, it's rare to meet a confidant. Lingling is an interesting person. I like to be friends with such smart and interesting people. I like her."
I!No!happiness!joyous!Buli was screaming like a tsunami in his heart, he hated all people who occupied her thoughts, no matter male or female.
But his face remained calm, he even nodded, and echoed: "Liu Langzhong is indeed a very special person, but last time she—forget it, I can't say."
The air of green tea came rushing towards her face, and the tea talk and tea language were appetizing, successfully attracting Qingqing's attention.
"What's up with her?"
"She said last time that you were arrogant and coquettish. Of course, I refuted it sternly. I don't like these behaviors of talking about people behind the scenes, especially when she said that my wife—wife, you see, she has ulterior motives. Let's keep in touch in the future."
"Brother, is he talking bad about him behind his back?" Zhang Si sat on the scooter, either deliberately eavesdropping, or just happened to hear the "tea fragrance" conversation, and asked his brother shamelessly.
Buli looked back with a murderous look, the kid who rubbed against the car, where did he talk so much? !
With a playful smile, Qingqing gave high praise to herself and the man she picked.
"A good person who is not bullied" Liu Ling repeated her words.
"All along, the concept we have accepted is that we indulge all kinds of bad people, but are strict with good people. Bad people have done ten thousand bad things, and no one thinks it is wrong, but good people have a little flaw, and they have to be pointed out. "
So let some people mistakenly think that good people deserve to be bullied, and good people should appear as weak people.
The sudden appearance of good people like Qingqing and Buli, who are super capable and able to open "all locks" in the world, will make people unable to judge their quality and question their "goodness" enough.
"My husband-in-law is the head of the patriarch, so he led the whole clan to collect medicines. Outsiders seem to take it for granted. Our husband and wife took a commission, which made our motivation to do good things flawed."
Qingqing stated calmly.
She knew what Liu Ling's words meant just now, so she simply made it clear.
"It's not just outsiders who think so, even our clansmen thought so at the beginning. They felt that calling us ancestors would make our ancestors shine unconditionally. This is impossible."
"Why?"
"They enshrine us and ask us to provide help for no reason. This is a transaction. They provide labor, and we provide technology and ideas. This is also a transaction. It is a transaction, and it must be established on the basis that both parties feel equal. , We feel that we are losing money, so we don’t do it, is there a problem?”
"However, you are not afraid that the clansmen will think that you and your wife are too powerful - what are you laughing at?"
Liu Ling was baffled by Qing's laughter, but she had to admit that this cunning Mrs. Yu had a brilliant smile.
"I laughed at you for being cute. Fei Peng must have been with you for a long time. You both have the same expression when you are in doubt, poof."
Qingqing brought the topic back before others became angry.
"Since it's all a transaction, the principle of transaction must be followed. What kind of transaction can satisfy both parties? That is to maximize the profits of both parties. On a larger scale, the court and the people are transactions, friends are transactions, and husband and wife are also transactions. , it’s just what we trade, belief and sentimental value.”
When it comes to emotional value, you can't get around feelings. Feelings are the most difficult to value in the entire transaction process.
"You look at the problem too-directly." Liu Ling wanted to be indifferent, but for her sake, patriarch Yu even drank the male avoidance soup that few people drank.
But from the mouth of the patriarch's wife, marriage has become a kind of transaction?
"Let's just get straight to the point. We can see the essence of the problem only by peeling off the illusions that cover the surface of the problem. I can see that you are trapped by love."
Liu Ling froze again, she claimed to hide it very well, how did she see it?
"Today I'll just say something deep, anyway, sooner or later you and I will 'give deep words too'." Qingqing said regardless of the ugly face of others, "Emotions are the most difficult to value, so It is also one of the most difficult transactions in the world. It is hard to understand from the perspective of outsiders. Sometimes outsiders think you are losing money, but you are happy, which means you have gained emotional value.”
The "love brain" in the eyes of outsiders, but they enjoy it themselves, so it is difficult to judge whether the transaction is a loss.
"But if a relationship has already caused you a lot of pain, regardless of whether you have gained actual benefits or not, your emotional value has been seriously lost. Naturally, you will run as far as you can. People live for the purpose of separation. Parents and children Lovers will leave us, only you will accompany yourself for a long time, and if you are good to yourself, you are good to the world."
Qingqing had contact with Liu Ling a few times, and every time she saw her pretending to be indifferent, there was always a faint melancholy. This melancholy temperament made it easy for Qingqing to guess that this was a person with a story. Take advantage of today to enlighten me.
"The topic comes back to our relationship with our clansmen. At the beginning, some people in the village felt that we, as ancestors, should not make money or cooperate with us. But now, the whole village respects us beyond everything else. What they worship It’s not the identity of our ancestors, it’s because we’ve truly seen that with us, they will have a good life.”
This is the maximization of the benefits generated by the transaction. Qingqing and Buli have earned money and respect.
"Sister-in-law and I never care what outsiders look like to us. It doesn't matter whether we are ancestors, profiteers, good people or bad people. We only do what we think is right, and we are worthy of it."
Qingqing compared her heart and mouth, and then compared to Liu Ling.
"Sister, when you feel sad, think about it. It's not easy to live a lifetime. It's better to be nice to yourself than to be nice to anyone. You have to be worthy of your own place."
Buli was already looking this way, with a somewhat anxious expression on his face, he knew how good Qingqing's negotiating skills were, and he was afraid that Qingqing would fool the doctor and reveal the matter of him taking the contraceptive pill.
"When our shop opens, I'll come over to make tea and talk with you. Let's stop here today." Qingqing knew that she had already shocked them, so she didn't want to stay any longer. Liu Ling stopped her.
"Next time—don't call me younger sister. I'm a few months older than you. My single name is Ling." This name hasn't been used for a long time, and it's a little strange for her to say it.
"Then don't call me Mrs. Yu, I'm Chen Qingqing."
In this era when women don't deserve their own names and can only be called XX, two women with independent personalities have become friends in a trans-epochal sense.
"Why have you stayed for so long?" On the donkey cart, he asked obstinately.
"It's okay, it's rare to meet a confidant. Lingling is an interesting person. I like to be friends with such smart and interesting people. I like her."
I!No!happiness!joyous!Buli was screaming like a tsunami in his heart, he hated all people who occupied her thoughts, no matter male or female.
But his face remained calm, he even nodded, and echoed: "Liu Langzhong is indeed a very special person, but last time she—forget it, I can't say."
The air of green tea came rushing towards her face, and the tea talk and tea language were appetizing, successfully attracting Qingqing's attention.
"What's up with her?"
"She said last time that you were arrogant and coquettish. Of course, I refuted it sternly. I don't like these behaviors of talking about people behind the scenes, especially when she said that my wife—wife, you see, she has ulterior motives. Let's keep in touch in the future."
"Brother, is he talking bad about him behind his back?" Zhang Si sat on the scooter, either deliberately eavesdropping, or just happened to hear the "tea fragrance" conversation, and asked his brother shamelessly.
Buli looked back with a murderous look, the kid who rubbed against the car, where did he talk so much? !
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