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The content of the chats between the young people started with the encounters with relatives during the Chinese New Year, and gradually extended to career aspects.

Feng Chen talked about a cousin who used to look down on him and was severely slapped in the face by him this time, and then Bai Xiaoling asked about Feng Chen's current job.

I was shocked to learn that he now opened a decoration company by himself, and immediately asked him how high the salary of the company's employees was, and whether there were any shortages, and said that he planned to go out to find a job after graduating from high school this summer.

Feng Chen couldn't help laughing: "Our company is all engaged in decoration, heavy work, you are a girl, how can you do it here?"

"Is there no such job as a clerk?" Bai Xiaoling asked.

Feng Chen pointed to Ruan Mengyao, and said, "The only clerk is her."

Yan Xin also helped him explain: "This company was only established last year. It is still a small company with a small scale. It doesn't need so many clerks, and it doesn't have the spare money to hire so many clerks."

This made Bai Xiaoling a little depressed.

But she just opened her mouth to ask, and if she couldn't find a job, she didn't lose anything to herself.

Then he said to Yan Xin: "You know a lot of people there, please help me to pay attention to whether there is a job suitable for me. If there is a good job, I don't even want my diploma, so I will drop out of school and go there."

Ruan Mengyao also joined this topic, talking about her graduation and working in an electronics factory. She worked more than ten hours a day, the salary was not high, and the food was poor.

Chatting and chatting, it was eleven o'clock, Feng Xi looked at the time, and asked Yan Xin with a smile: "It's already noon, shouldn't you prepare lunch for us guests?"

There is no need to be humble when you stay at home.

Among these few people, Feng Xi's cooking skills are undoubtedly the best.

She was silent for a long time, and she talked about this topic as soon as she opened her mouth, and her words were a little extreme. Yan Xin vaguely guessed what she was thinking, and also understood why she was unhappy.

"It's not extreme," Feng Xi said seriously, "they are all for money, and they also have to sacrifice their own bodies. It's nothing more than a long-term and a short-term, and the nature is the same. As long as there is a little bit of shame, it will Would not make such a choice, would you say?"

Bai Xiaoling suddenly laughed and said, "Alright then, I'll help you light the fire."

Her depression was not hidden, it was clearly expressed on her face and in the chat.

Don't take part-time work as a fun thing.

He just said: "You can't imagine working part-time too beautifully. It is not so easy to earn money. If it were so easy, your mother would not work so hard. When you come out to work, you have to lower your expectations, or you will be very disappointed. .”

——This is also the thinking of young people, who have not been hammered by reality very much, and want to live meaningfully.After accepting the long-term beating of reality, the pursuit of life is no longer to live meaningfully, but to survive.

For most people, at a certain age, being alive is the greatest meaning of life.

Feng Chen said with a smile: "It's okay if you don't work. You are so beautiful. If you stay at home for two years and find a rich man to marry, won't you be able to live a good life?"

This made Bai Xiaoling a little scared: "Is part-time job really so scary?"

He could only say with a guilty conscience: "Yes, so I said I can't do that."

"However, there are some women who are not financially capable, but have a good personality, are pretty, and can do housework, take care of children, and take care of the elderly. Don't you think such a woman is a good woman?" Bai Xiaoling felt a little uncomfortable. Convinced asked.

A strong woman like this is not so necessary in his life.

Yan Xin was taken aback by these words—if she really wanted to drop out of school and go to work, why wouldn't she be hunted down by her mother?
Hastily said: "Don't have such dangerous thoughts, how good it is to study, why drop out of school?"

In any case, high school students are better than junior high school students.

Bai Xiaoling glanced at Feng Xi enviously, and said, "If only I were as smart as Feng Xi, then I can get into a good university and don't have to worry about work."

Men have said that, so it means that they are not interested in Bai Xiaoling.

Her family's life is not easy now, mainly because she is still studying and needs a lot of expenses for a year.

Bai Xiaoling blushed, and secretly glanced at Yan Xin, thinking: "Isn't it?"

Yan Xin also looked at the time, said "ah", stood up from the chair, and said with a smile: "You should, you should, you can chat here, and I will cook."

If she stopped studying and helped her mother work, it wouldn't be so hard.

"I originally thought that after the college entrance examination, I would be free and go out to work. But after what you said, the part-time job is so hard, and I don't want to go out. Or I just stay at home and help my mother sell tofu never mind."

It doesn't matter whether you think so or not, it is a kind of rejection to say such a thing on such an occasion.

Feng Xi asked Yan Xin again: "What do you think? Do you think highly of such a woman?"

"Of course a woman who can achieve financial independence." Yan Xin said.

It's just that she was too embarrassed to admit it, so she blushed and said, "I don't want to marry just to live a good life!"

Yan Xin said casually: "Don't you want to stay and have a meal together?"

"I think women who can achieve financial independence are more capable. I look down on women who only know how to depend on men." Yan Xin said.

If you look beautiful, you will feel better when you get along, and it will be pleasing to the eye.

How much money you want to make is not realistic, but you can get by.

A few people started to work, and the fires of the two stoves were ignited. Bai Xiaoling was in charge of lighting the fire, Feng Xi was in charge of cooking, and the other three did the work. They continued to chat while doing their work.

Feng Chen and Ruan Mengyao also stood up: "Let's do it together, so it's faster."

This is especially true for older generations.

Bai Xiaoling disagreed very much in her heart, but on this occasion, she had no way to refute. Once she refuted, it seemed that she became that shameless woman.

The gloom wasn't aimed at anyone, so no one was offended.

"If you think this kind of life is a terrible thing, then working part-time is so terrible." Yan Xin said.

She herself had such a meaning, and of course she couldn't accept such an evaluation.

Yan Xin wants to tell her that being admitted to university does not mean that life will be easy, and the test is still the same, but there will be more opportunities to choose, and the upper limit will be higher in the future.

"So it's better to study?" Bai Xiaoling said depressingly, "But my academic performance is not good. Even if I start studying hard now, it is impossible for me to be admitted to university."

Before Ai Lili, his criteria for choosing a spouse were similar to what Bai Xiaoling said—beautiful, good-tempered, able to do housework, take care of children, and take care of the elderly.

What she said made Yan Xin feel a little bit sympathetic.

Bai Xiaoling was embarrassed to keep it, so she stood up and said, "You guys are busy, I'm going back too."

It didn't take long before I cooked a few dishes. I also made a few pieces of tofu that Bai Xiaoling sent, fried fish and fried meat. I made five or six dishes of this and that. It was a hearty meal. lunch.

But he did not support Bai Xiaoling's idea, and said: "The high school diploma is still very important. If you don't have this diploma, you will have fewer opportunities to choose a job. Anyway, you will graduate in a few months, so there is no need to rush .”

Bai Xiaoling was told by them how difficult part-time job is, she became in a bad mood, and said depressedly:

Feng Xidao: "You cook by yourself, when will you wait? I'll help you."

A smile appeared on Feng Xi's face unconsciously.

Yan Xin was immediately depressed, thinking: "I don't need to say this! Are girls so rude nowadays? Don't even say a word of rejection?"

The reason for saying this is purely to let Feng Xi stop misunderstanding his relationship with Bai Xiaoling, and also to prevent Bai Xiaoling from having thoughts about herself, which is equivalent to telling Bai Xiaoling that you are not the one I like.

Cook together, but keep the kitchen buzzing.

He felt that Bai Xiaoling would have such an idea, mainly because she didn't want to study, and another point was that it was too easy to think about working part-time.

Feng Xi, who had been silent for a long time, finally spoke, and when she spoke, she agreed with Bai Xiaoling's words:

"Eh?" Bai Xiaoling was stunned for a moment, then said timidly, "It's also... Needless to say, it's so extreme, right? Marrying a rich man is not the same as prostitution, is it?"

He talked about some of the things he encountered when he was a security guard, such as working night shifts in cold weather, working overtime for [-] hours, encountering complaints and even abuse from the owner, etc., and then only a few hundred dollars a month. less.

Children of single-parent families are indeed not easy.

Bai Xiaoling asked suspiciously, "Why?"

After making a few dishes, Bai Xiaoling was also convinced by Feng Xi:
"You are really amazing, not only your academic performance is so good, but you are also so good at cooking."

Her mother was the only one working at home, so she was indeed too tired.

However, Yan Xin still didn't want Feng Xi to have any misunderstandings about Bai Xiaoling's matter, so he took this opportunity to say:

"Of course I despise women like that."

If you have a good temper, there will be no big quarrels in the future.

Without a high school diploma, all you can get out is a junior high school diploma. In terms of job hunting, there are indeed fewer choices.

With such a statement, she finally joined the chat, talking and laughing.

The main purpose of saying this is to tell Bai Xiaoling that part-time work is really not an easy job, not only tired, but also humble.

She is depressed about her own future, her grades in school are not good, and now it sounds like it is quite difficult to work part-time, and she doesn't want to go out to work anymore.

They have already stood on the moral high ground, and it is not so easy for her to refute.

She didn't mean that because of Yan Xin's words, at most she had moved her mind towards Yan Xin, and now that she was killed, she wouldn't feel much regret.

I am very happy to be able to study in school now.

"Then what kind of woman do you admire?" Feng Xi asked.

In fact, he didn't think so. He really didn't attach much importance to the matter of financial independence—he already had a lot of money, and it didn't matter whether his partner had money or not.

As for being able to do housework, take care of children, and take care of the elderly, that is what he needs in his future life.

Feng Chen also talked about how he moved bricks on the construction site. He worked for more than ten hours a day, and he was tanned, and sometimes his skin faded from the sun.

Bai Xiaoling said depressedly: "The main reason is that it is not easy for me to see my mother supporting me to go to school alone. She is working very hard, and so is my life. The living expenses are less than half of that of the same dormitory, and my grades are not good. I really don’t know what’s the meaning of reading this book. Is it just for a high school diploma? Isn’t it worth it? I hope I can go out to work now, so that I can save a semester of tuition fees and I will be less affected Some suffering."

It's just that she has no position to refute, and what she said is a little guilty.

In front of Feng Chen, he couldn't ask any questions, so he could only keep his doubts in his heart.

The mood is quite complicated.

However, Bai Xiaoling's mood was not so beautiful.

Strictly speaking, Ai Lili is not a person with strong financial ability.

Yan Xin and Feng Xi in their previous lives were like this, they had exhausted all their efforts just to live.

Seeing the unhappy expression on Feng Xi's face, I don't quite understand why, because she has always been very happy when she came here a few times before.

Yan Xin thought of Feng Xi's fate in her previous life, and thought to herself: "What if she is so smart? If I hadn't changed her fate, she would still have a miserable life."

"You're right! We girls have to have a backbone. If we want to live a good life, we have to rely on our own efforts to fight for it, instead of marrying a rich man to live a good life-if we really want to do that, isn't it? Are you selling your body in exchange for happiness? Isn’t that the same as selling?”

After all, young people, even a scumbag, still have some dreams for the future.

Bai Xiaoling was really depressed when she heard what he said.

But after thinking about it, there is no need to say this.

With the help of several people, Bai Xiaoling's mood became better.

There is a feeling that the heroes see the same thing.

Anyway, she won't be able to get into university, and a high school diploma is not that important to her, at least not more important than a good job.

Even Feng Xi, who was hostile to her at the beginning, joined the team to comfort her after the police situation was lifted, and told her that when she was admitted to university and got a good job, she would also help her. Keep an eye out for suitable positions.

But when I think of being such a young girl, I will stay in the village making tofu and selling tofu, and I feel that such a life is too boring.

"It's not like that," Yan Xin said, "Of course such a woman can also be a good woman, but what Feng Xi asked just now is what kind of woman I admire. This is my personal standard. A woman who is financially independent, I think such a woman has a more healthy personality."

There are still some doubts in my heart: "Isn't it because she got angry at home these few days?"

Feng Xi didn't speak.

Ruan Mengyao couldn't help feeling: "You are so capable, I don't know which lucky person will marry you in the future."

Feng Xi glanced at Yan Xin secretly, blushing and said: "Sister-in-law, I'm still a student, isn't it too early for you to mention this to me?"

When she was peeking over, Yan Xin happened to be looking at her too, and then quickly looked away.

There are only three words in my mind: "Sin!"

Ruan Mengyao also noticed the direction of Feng Xi's gaze, her face was calm, but she was feeling emotional in her heart: "Siyao probably has no chance, it's a pity."