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The next day, Yan Xin and Ai Lili got up early in the morning, and Ai Lili took Yan Xin for a morning run.

Ai Lili is more familiar with this area, and knows which places are suitable for morning running, and which places are seriously polluted and cannot be used for running.

The place where they live is already on the fringe of the city. Not too far away, they are in the countryside. There are patches of farmland, the air is relatively good, and cement roads have been built, which is suitable for running.

First I took a walk to that area, and then slowly trotted up.

It was almost eight o'clock before the two of them went back.

Ai Lili also took Yan Xin to make a detour, ran to a restaurant, and ordered a few breakfasts to take back.

Ai Jing can cook at home, but only for lunch and dinner, not breakfast. She can't get up so early.

Breakfast is eaten outside.

The breakfast in this restaurant is more to her liking, and the store is relatively clean, so she can rest assured that her breakfast is basically provided by this restaurant.

There are many types of breakfast served in this restaurant. Ai Lili ordered a few, spent more than 100 yuan, and took them back with Yan Xin.

This also made Yan Xin feel that the life of the rich is different, and a breakfast costs so much.

He lives in Yangcheng, and eating breakfast outside usually costs a few yuan, and at the most extravagant time, it is only a dozen yuan.

Back home with breakfast, Ai Lili called her mother to get up and eat at this time.

During the meal, Yan Xin told Ai Lili that she wanted to visit Fengxiang City, and asked her if she wanted to follow along.

Ai Lili hesitated for a moment, but still refused: "I don't want to go to that place for the time being, you can go alone."

Yan Xin has a good impression of this community, but Ai Lili doesn't think so.

For her, this neighborhood carries too many unpleasant memories. She worked there for a long time and was scolded by the owner every day, which made her doubt her life.

At this stage, she is not ready to go.

Yan Xin didn't force it, so he decided to go there alone in the morning to take a look.

If he didn't bring the beautiful Ai Lili there, the effect of this homecoming would be greatly reduced, but it was impossible for him to force Ai Lili to go there.

After breakfast, he drove his Mercedes-Benz to Fengxiang City.

Ai Lili really wanted to be with him, but now she really didn't want to go to Fengxiang City to face those faces she didn't like, so she could only stay at home.

After Yan Xin drove away, Ai Jing asked her: "Why didn't you follow him?"

"I don't want to go there. Many people scolded me there, and they scolded me badly. If I saw those people, if they didn't know that I had resigned, they might still scold me." Ai Lili said.

She knew that the owners scolded her not because of how badly she did, but because she was the assistant director of the management office, and she was the actual person in charge of the community property for a long time, and they scolded her for that position.

Knowing that she has resigned, there is a high probability that she will not scold her, and she will not dare to scold her.

But if those owners didn't know that she had resigned, they might yell at her when they saw her.

She is not a person who can scold back, there is no need to lose her good attitude.

And if you can't meet someone and explain that you have resigned, it seems like a crazy person.

Hearing what she said, Ai Jing felt a little bit sorry - because Ai Lili had never been willing to work in Fengxiang Property, and she forced her to go.

At that time, what she wanted was the company Fengxiang Property. If she could take this company into her hands, she could have a source of income for a year. Even if Cai Qixiang was gone, she could rely on it in the future.

Said: "If I knew you were bullied so much there, I shouldn't have let you go to work there."

Ai Lili glanced at her, a little surprised.

Surprisingly, this mother actually admitted her mistake, which was simply the first time in the world.

It made her feel that her status in this family had improved a bit.

Said: "That's nothing, it's all over anyway, it can be regarded as a tempering for me, it will help my growth, but I don't want to accept such a tempering in the future."

"Actually, women don't have to care about their careers so much. It's not that important whether they are tempered or not."

Ai Jing felt that this time should be used to teach her daughter a good lesson, and she presented her theory in a timely manner:

"It's a man's business to work hard. The most important thing for us women is to choose an excellent man and serve him well. His career will become your own career, which is much better than your own hard work outside. .”

Ellie was quite displeased by this.

She knew that her mother's words were not completely unreasonable. It was obviously much easier to marry a good man than to work hard on her own.

But isn't this becoming dependent on others' lives?
Although she also knows that Yan Xin got her job because she doesn't have the ability to become the general manager of Starlight Entertainment, but at least she can do this job well and live by her own efforts .

Living off someone else, even if that person was the man she loved the most, made her feel uncomfortable and feel like a shameful parasite.

The education she received in school did not allow her to be so depraved.

She didn't want to argue with her mother, but she still expressed her attitude: "I think it's better for women to have their own careers."

"A woman's greatest career is a man."

Ai Jing insisted on her opinion and said,

"Don't be poisoned by the textbooks. Numerous facts have proved that men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men. This is a gender difference. We must admit this fact instead of following it. Go against it. If you don’t recognize this fact, you’ll have a bloodbath in the future.”

Ai Lili said: "I still want to give it a try. I think I can do something. Even if I can't achieve my own career, I can still help Yan Xin and relieve him of pressure."

She speaks softly, but her attitude is very firm. She still doesn't want to be a housewife who can only depend on men. She hopes to achieve certain achievements in her career.

Ai Jing sighed: "You, you seem to be more obedient than anyone else, but in fact you are stubborn, and you can't listen to anyone's words."

"That's not the case." Ai Lili could only defend in a low voice.

Ai Jing said: "You have your own ideas, and I won't argue with you, but you have to know that no matter how successful a woman is in her career, if she loses the favor of a man, she is also a failure."

Ai Lili thought to herself: "But I haven't seen you win the favor of a man."

As if knowing what she was thinking, Ai Jing said again: "I am unlucky. When I meet a man like your father, he has to rely on his wife's natal family to do business. It is impossible to divorce her, otherwise, I have already stepped on that yellow-faced woman to take the position, so I won't be as shameless as a mouse in the gutter now."

Depressedly said such a sentence, and then boasted:

"However, even with a yellow-faced woman with such a powerful family, your father still didn't abandon me. He would rather take the risk to maintain the current relationship with me than send some money to sever the relationship like the rest of his women. Becoming my long-term meal ticket is also my skill, something other fox spirits cannot learn."

Ai Lili thought to herself: "Even if you are the most powerful vixen, so what? It's not like you can't see the light, you can only live in secrets."

She disapproved of her mother's shameless attitude, and felt that it was a sign of lack of self-love.

But as a child, it's not good to denounce it directly, you can only say: "I'm not as good as you, Mom."

"You can learn this," Ai Jing said, "No one is born knowing those things, and I realized them step by step. If I hadn't learned these things and captured your father's heart, where would I be?" Will there be today? Our mother and daughter don’t know where we are suffering from poverty.”

Ai Lili thought to herself: "I'd rather be poor than live like that."

When I came up with this idea, I inexplicably thought of those people sleeping in the park that I saw in Huaxi Park yesterday, and thought to myself: "If I am so poor, would I be willing?"

Suddenly there is some confusion.

She couldn't understand such a poor life, and she didn't know how to live in such an environment.

Ai Jing said again: "Don't look down on those ways to please men. Even if you want to start a career, you still have to catch your man. Otherwise, there are so many temptations outside and you have no means at all. He will become someone else's man, and when he has a career, without a man, there will be nowhere to cry."

Ai Lili said: "Yan Xin is not that kind of person, he will not betray me."

Ai Jing sneered: "He is a man, and there is no man who does not cheat, unless the conditions do not allow. You see he is handsome, so rich, and so young. I don't know how many young and beautiful women will go to him in the future." He jumped on him, do you think he can resist that temptation?"

"He can resist it." Ellie said with certainty.

Ai Jing didn't know where her confidence came from, and said: "Even if he can resist now, what will happen in the future? People will always change, especially rich men. Now you are young and beautiful, he can put the whole I put my heart on you, but in a few years or ten years, you will not be so young, and you will not be so beautiful anymore. At that time, there will be countless young and beautiful women dangling in front of him, using various methods to seduce him. Are you sure he still puts his heart on you?"

Ai Lili was very confident at first, but she felt a little unconfident after what she said.

When facing Yan Xin, she has two low self-esteem points, one is her identity as an illegitimate daughter, and the other is that she is a few years older than Yan Xin.

She is still very young now, so the age gap doesn't really matter.

But in a few years, that will not be the case.

As the saying goes, a man has 41 flowers, and a woman has [-] tofu dregs.

A 40-year-old man is still very attractive. With the blessing of wealth and experience, he is even more attractive than a young man.

But a 40-year-old woman is already a twilight beauty.

What's more, when Yan Xin was 40 years old, she was already 45.

By that time, she already had wrinkles on her face, while Yan Xin was in full bloom.

It's hard to say whether he can keep Yan Xin's heart.

I just thought so in my heart, but didn't admit defeat, and said: "Yan Xin is not such a superficial person, he doesn't just look at the appearance, and our relationship is there, so it is not so easy to be corroded."

Ai Jing said: "Well, even if what you said is true, he can always treat you well, but if you have more ways to please him, will it make him treat you better? The higher-ups should put in more effort to keep their youth and beauty longer, will he feel better when he sees you more beautiful?"

Ai Lili couldn't help but nod at these words: "This is true."

"So, you have to learn too." Ai Jing said.

Ai Jing had never discussed such a topic with her daughter before, because the blind dates she arranged for her daughter were all unsuccessful, learning the art of slaying dragons, if there is no dragon to slay in the world, it would be a waste of effort.

More importantly, I have never been with a man before, and I can't understand many things after talking about them, and I can't teach them.

You have to have the experience of living with men to understand what she said.

Later, Ai Lili found a man by herself, but he seemed to be a poor man. She was angry in her heart, and naturally she would not say these things.

Behind him, the little boy actually cheered up, and his net worth exceeded [-] million.

But there is such a big conflict between mother and daughter, and the daughter never leaves home all the year round. She wants to pass on her own experience, but she doesn't have such an opportunity.

Now that she has managed to catch such an opportunity, she will naturally not let it go. She wants to pass on the skills she has learned all her life to her daughter, so as to ensure the prosperity of the mother and daughter in the future.

Ai Lili was already shaken by what she said. She was a little worried that she would end up in a miserable end after she got old and frail, and she also wanted to learn something to win over a man.

Just as her mother said, even if Yan Xin won't change his mind in the future, it would be good if he could have a better attitude towards himself and a deeper emotion.

Also helps to improve well-being.

All morning, Ai Jing and Ai Lili talked about how to win a man's heart.

Ai Lili actually disagrees with some of her views.

For example, Ai Jing insists that men are all philandering carrots, and the so-called money will turn bad, but only having money can have the capital to turn bad.

Those who have no money, did not take actions that are philandering, but they are also philandering in their hearts.

Ai Lili seriously disapproved of this point, and gave an example to illustrate that there are actually beautiful women around Yan Xin, even big stars like Gu Ru who have attended the Spring Festival Gala, but he was not moved.

However, under the large number of examples Ai Jing cited, she gradually wavered again.

She still believes that Yan Xin doesn't care about her now, but she is not sure whether Yan Xin will become a man who cares about her in the future.

What Ai Jing taught her was not how to be Yan Xin's only woman. Based on her understanding of men, especially rich men, she felt that it was impossible.

Forcing something like that will only make things worse.

What Ai Jing taught her was how to be a big woman.

She said to Ellie:

"It's normal for a man to be bothered, but it's abnormal if he doesn't. It must be something wrong with his body."

"Occasionally, it's not a big deal. As long as he still puts his heart on you and admits that you are his wife, that's fine. It's him who is tired of tossing around with other women, and you have nothing to do There is no need to worry about the loss."

"Of course, you still have to have an attitude. You have to express that you don't like this kind of thing. If you don't care about it at all, then the man will push his feet and bring a woman into the house, or even take your place. That's not good. gone."

"But you can't express it too intensely, you have to leave some room."

"Play stupid when it's time to play stupid. Few men will like a woman who is too smart."

"When a man lies to you, he is still a bit afraid of you, so you let him lie. If you don't even lie to him, it means that you are dispensable in his heart, and he doesn't care about your reaction anymore. That's the truth." the worst."

"It's unavoidable for men to socialize outside and mess with women, so just pretend you don't know."

"But if you raise a woman outside, the nature will be different, and that person may replace you."

"If you find such a sign, you have to kill it sooner."

"It's too late when you know it, and you can't pinch it out, so you can only learn to coexist with that woman, but don't force your man to choose one of the two. A capable man will not be persecuted."

"At this time, what you need to do is to make yourself better, compare yourself to the other person, and let the man think that you are the best one. Instead of making a big noise, that will only make the man leave you... "

After talking a lot, Ai Lili was dumbfounded, and felt that it would be too sad for the husband and wife to reach this point.

But at the same time, I feel that there seems to be a little truth.