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Yan Xin will return to Yangcheng tomorrow, so he doesn't have so much time to deal with this matter slowly.

What Bai Xiaoling said in the morning also resonated with him deeply. For his father, he would be old in a few years, and he didn't have much time to grind, so he had to make a decision earlier.

This decision doesn't mean that we are going to get married soon, that would be too childish, no matter how anxious we are, we can't do that.

However, you need to decide whether to deal with it or not.

If you want to find a partner, you can try to get along, so that you have the opportunity to know whether the other party is suitable or not.

If you can't even make this determination, then forget it, there is no need to delay others.

So he asked the question directly.

This question stunned Dad Yan.

After a while, he said, "Why are you asking this?"

"I just want to know your opinion. Do you think it's necessary to get to know her mother?" Yan Xin said.

Dad Yan actually thought about this problem last night.

Finding a partner has the benefits of finding a partner, but it also has some troubles.

After Yan Xin persuaded him yesterday, he also felt that in the next few decades, living alone will be a bit difficult and there will be many miserable places.

Finding a partner seems to solve a lot of problems.

The original knot has been let go, and now the main entanglement is not sure whether the partner I can find is a person who will make my life more comfortable in the future, or a person who will make my life more disturbing.

Based on what he has seen and heard over the years, forming a family is a lot of trouble, and there are all kinds of wrangling.

There are such families in the village, and there are also in neighboring villages, but they are not as good as imagined.

Meeting a virtuous woman will indeed make life more comfortable in the future.

But this probability is not high.

Just like a woman wants to meet a good man, the probability is also not high.

In reality, most people are selfish, and the difference is the degree of selfishness.

Some even need some face, some don't want any face at all.

There are also many problems with the children of both parties.

Thinking that those troubles might befall him, Dad Yan didn't want to talk about it anymore.

However, when I think about being old and living alone in the countryside, I feel quite scared.

——Actually, it doesn’t have to be until he gets old, even now, sometimes he feels quite lonely.

However, asking him to go to the city to live with his son will make him feel that he is a useless person and a burden to his son. Thinking of such a life makes him feel even more frightened—in his mind, it is even worse than being alone. Life in the countryside is even more terrifying.

At least this village is a place he is familiar with, and the neighbors are also familiar with people, so he can support himself here.

Going to the city and thinking of the vehicles coming and going on the street made him feel a sense of fear.

The closed house in the concrete forest made him feel even more like a prison cell.

There is another fear in my heart - if I become a useless person, a person who can only rely on my son to support me, will my son still recognize him as his father?
Although his son behaves quite well and is very filial now, since he was a child, he has seen so many sons who are not filial to their parents and do not want to provide for the elderly, and he is really afraid in his heart.

He knows how humble and fearful some old people are in front of their sons and daughters-in-law when they get old.

Yan Xin has been able to earn a lot of money, but he is still working hard, exchanging his own labor for a little income, and one of his thoughts is that he hopes to have the ability to support himself, so that his life in old age will be more dignified .

Don't blame him for thinking too much. At this age, he has seen so many things and suffered so much. He thinks more than young people, and thinks more than those who have been living in happiness. Some are really not optimistic about the future.

The feeling is that any choice has its advantages and disadvantages.

Whether there are more benefits or more disadvantages, he didn't make a decision for a while.

If you meet a virtuous woman, you can save a lot of trouble.

But he doubts, can he have such good luck after a life of misery?

Yan Xin asked his opinion now, but he didn't know how to answer.

After a moment of silence, he said, "I want to think about it."

"Dad, you've been thinking about it for a few months," Yan Xin said with a wry smile, "They also have their own lives. If you don't have that awareness, they may have to find another one. Maybe after you think it over, decide Talked to her, and she has become someone else's family."

Father Yan said in a low voice: "That's nothing..."

It's not his woman, and she has never talked to him. Being someone else's woman will naturally not cause any ripples in his heart.

Yan Xin said: "Actually, I think Bai Xiaoling's mother is pretty good. She has similar experiences to yours. She is not a person who likes to cause trouble, and she is also diligent and thrifty in managing the house. If you can be with her and rely on each other, I am here You can rest assured outside."

Dad Yan nodded: "She is a good woman, but she has a bad life."

Suddenly he sighed.

This is thinking of myself.

His life is not good either.

"Why don't you think about it?" Yan Xin asked with a smile.

"Then what are you in a hurry for?" Dad Yan was a little embarrassed.

"Don't be in a hurry, other people might get there first." Yan Xin used Bai Xiaoling's words to scare him, and used them to scare his father, "Because they had to support Bai Xiaoling to study, others dared not talk to her. Now that Bai Xiaoling has graduated from high school, Without this burden, there will be a lot of people asking for it. You don’t know how many divorced men and unmarried old bachelors are here. As long as people like her are free of the burden, a lot of people will grab her. , If you think about it too late, it's none of your business."

Father Yan hesitated a little.

He didn't have any idea at first, but when Yan Xin said it, he felt that it was okay to start a family with Bai Xiaoling's mother. Over the years, he had never heard any bad rumors about that woman. A woman supports a family , is really excellent.

Now it is not easy for men to find a partner, but it is quite easy for women to find a partner.

Missing this woman, maybe he can never find a more suitable one.

——His world is small, mainly this village.

But in this village, when I think about it carefully, there seems to be only one suitable one.

Get in touch and learn about it, it seems to be okay.

But it's embarrassing to refuse so simply before, and now to agree.

Even in front of his son, he felt that it would be embarrassing to change his mouth like this.

Seeing his hesitation, Yan Xin smiled and said, "If you have no objections, I'll go to the matchmaker in the afternoon and ask her to talk about it for you?"

Dad Yan was very embarrassed: "Where is there such a thing as a son finding a matchmaker for a father?"

"There's no rule that says you can't do this." Yan Xin said.

Dad Yan didn't speak.

"Then I did that?" Yan Xin asked again.

Father Yan was a little embarrassed, waved his hand, and said impatiently, "You can do whatever you want."

"Okay, that's it." Yan Xin said.

If there is no objection, it means consent.

Although this does not mean success, it is at least a step in the direction of success.

——Without contact, it will never succeed.

Yan Xin also enjoyed the meal at noon.

Before eating, he deliberately took a few photos.

This is a table of meals prepared by myself, so I must take a photo to commemorate it.

If two people eat eight dishes, they will definitely not be able to finish them all, and put the rest in the refrigerator.

After eating, rest for half an hour.

Taking out his mobile phone, both Feng Xi and Ai Lili sent him messages.

Ai Lili had already arrived home, and she told him that her mother asked him why he didn't come with her for the holiday, and then told how she explained it.

Her mother wanted her to take him there the next weekend, and she asked Yan Xin if she could agree to this request.

Yan Xin was quite disgusted with her mother, but he couldn't refuse such a request - after his physical derailment, he felt very guilty towards Ai Lili and had a strong desire to make up for her.

So he readily agreed.

And the message Feng Xi sent him was to complain that her mother made her do the work as soon as she got home, let her do all the chicken and fish slaughtering, and she also did the cooking, and she had to dedicate two ears to listen to her mother's chatter nagging.

She expressed that she was very annoyed, and said that if she had known this before, she would not come back for the holidays, so she would just stay in the county.

She also said that she originally wanted to go to Yan Xin in the afternoon, and then her mother arranged for her to weed in the cotton field in the afternoon, which made her extremely depressed.

Yan Xin comforted her while chatting with Ai Lili.

He felt much more relaxed—Feng Xi couldn't come in the afternoon, so he didn't have to worry about his phone being checked, and he could chat with Ai Lili in peace.

However, the chat with these two girls didn't last long, because he still had something to do in the afternoon.

After half an hour, I ended the chat and went to my own business.

That is to go to matchmaker Wang who came over to talk about matching Bai Xiaoling's mother and father last year, and ask her to restart the project.

He didn't go empty-handed either, but brought a pair of wine.

Matchmaker Wang's family lives in another group, and it's only two or three miles away.

When Yan Xin passed by, Matchmaker Wang was very surprised and didn't know what his purpose was.

After hearing Yan Xin's explanation, he couldn't help laughing: "I've heard that a father finds a matchmaker to match his son. This is the first time I see a son find a matchmaker to match his father."

Yan Xin said with a smile: "My father is thin-skinned, and I am too embarrassed to speak about him in person, so only I, the son, will come."

Matchmaker Wang said with emotion: "No one else's children want to have a stepmother, but you took the initiative to find a stepmother for your father. You are really a filial child."

Yan Xin said: "Now the family is not so difficult. Seeing that my dad is still alone, I feel a little bit uncomfortable. I still hope that he can live better. Aunt Wang needs to help with this matter."

Forming a family does not necessarily require a matchmaker to make peace.

The main reason is that this matter was originally mentioned by Wang Matchmaker, but was rejected by Yan's father.

If you form a family with other people in the future, that's fine.

But if he formed a family with Bai Xiaoling's mother and bypassed the matchmaker, it would be very bad.

This nature is like a tenant finding a house he likes from an intermediary, but telling the intermediary that he is not interested, and then bypassing the intermediary to sign a contract with the landlord, which is very unkind.

If Matchmaker Wang finds out, there will definitely be trouble.

When a matchmaker facilitates a marriage, she wants to get benefits, not only money, but also various gifts, all of which are indispensable.

Yan Xin asked her to restart the project this time to avoid future troubles.

It was worth it for him to give up some of his belongings in exchange for peace.

He made a promise to Matchmaker Wang that if this matter was settled, he would give her a red envelope of 660 yuan and buy her a pair of leather shoes.

He also revealed to Matchmaker Wang that both sides had that intention, and he and Bai Xiaoling also supported it as children, saying that the difficulty of getting married was not too great.

This also made Wang Matchmaker very happy, thinking that this was just picking up money, so she readily agreed at that time.

After leaving Matchmaker Wang's house, Yan Xin went back to her own home.

His father was working in the field, and he also carried a hoe down to the field to accompany his father to weed the grass for an hour or two before returning home to prepare dinner.

Dinner is quite simple, just take two dishes left over from lunch and heat them up.

Continue to eat the rest tomorrow.

During dinner, Yan Xin told his father what he said to Matchmaker Wang in the afternoon.

Having reached this point, it's too late for Yan's father to repent - repenting will only make his son look bad.

Besides, he wasn't prepared to repent.

Then we can only accept it.

That night, when Yan Xin and Feng Xi were chatting, they mentioned this matter.

Feng Xi is from this village, such things must not be hidden from her.

Since he couldn't hide it, it would be better to say it earlier, so as to show the importance of Feng Xi in his mind.

Feng Xi didn't object to this matter, but just replied: "This is also very good. Bai Xiaoling's mother is a person who knows how to live. If she really wants to, it will not be a bad thing for your father."

Seeing Feng Xi's reply, Yan Xin was very happy: "I think so too, it's not easy for my dad to be alone all these years."

Feng Xi asked another question: "If this happens, wouldn't you and Bai Xiaoling become half-brothers and sisters?"

Yan Xin: "That's true."

Feng Xi became happy: "From then on, she will have to call me sister-in-law."

Yan Xin felt a little guilty - he hadn't made up his mind about who he would marry in the future.

But at this time, he can only reply: "It must."

According to the usual practice, while chatting with Feng Xi on QQ, Yan Xin was chatting with Ai Lili at the same time.

It's late at night, and it's even more impossible for Feng Xi to come to him to check his mobile phone, so he can chat boldly with confidence.

However, he was going to leave tomorrow morning, and he and Feng Xi were still going by car, so Yan Xin deleted the chat page between him and Ai Lili before going to bed.

One more thing he did before going to bed was to set the alarm clock at six o'clock.

The alarm clock rang, and he didn't delay in bed. He got up quickly, went to the toilet first, then washed his face and brushed his teeth, and then went to the kitchen to make breakfast.

At this time, his father had already gone out to collect the lobsters in the ground cage, so he could only make breakfast by himself.

It's quite simple. I just used the eel slices that I didn't finish eating yesterday to make a bowl of noodles - I don't know when his father will come back, and the noodles are not good after a long time, so he prepared his own breakfast.

After breakfast, it was already six forty.

Feng Xi sent him a message: "Have you left yet? I have already set off."

The time was still 5 minutes ago.

It's farther from her place to the side of the road, so it's much earlier to start.

Yan Xin replied: "We are about to leave."

After replying to this message, he went out.

The door of the house was closed but not locked, and his father would not come too late, and there were people in the neighbors, so there was no need to lock the door.

He didn't even bring a bag, so he set off like this.

When I arrived at the canteen of the cripple's house, the shuttle bus to the county hadn't arrived yet.

But it didn't take long before the minibus drove over.

If you miss this train, you have to wait for it to drive to the county seat, then come back from the county seat, and then go to the county seat.

A miss is a matter of two or three hours.

So it has to be early.

After getting in the car, Yan Xin sent Feng Xi a message:
"I'm already in the car."

Feng Xi replied quickly: "I heard the car calling."

At this time, there were not many people in the car, and there were still some spare seats. Yan Xin chose a seat next to the aisle, and there was another empty seat inside, which he left for Feng Xi.

After driving for a while, I saw Feng Xi standing on the side of the road waiting for the bus.

After Feng Xi got into the car, when he saw him, he showed a smile on his face, walked towards him, and then sat in it very rudely, and the two sat side by side.

Some people in the car were surprised, but they just took a second look, and no one said anything.

The car started again, Feng Xi leaned against Yan Xin, and asked in a low voice:

"Did you miss me?"

There were other people in the car, Yan Xin was embarrassed to say it too ambiguously, but he couldn't deny it, so he could only reply her in a low voice:
"That is required."

Feng Xi smiled happily.

He said again: "For your evening car, it's tiring to wait in the city. Why don't you get off the car with me when you get to the county town, stay for half a day, and then start in the afternoon?"

There is a place that sells train tickets in the county. It is at Gongnong Bridge. Before Yan Xin went home, he bought a train ticket to Yangcheng. It was a sleeper at night. will be able to reach.

It takes more than an hour to go to the city by bus, and there is really no need to go so early.

Yan Xin knew that she wanted to spend more time with him, and he didn't reject staying with her for a while, so he nodded in agreement:
"I think so too."

So, when the car arrived at the county seat, the two of them got out of the car together, and then went directly to the house that was used as a dormitory.

——At this time, all the employees living in the dormitory have gone to work, and there will be no one in the dormitory.

It wasn't until four o'clock in the afternoon that Yan Xin got on the bus to the city and left the county.

In all fairness, he could also feel happy when he was with Feng Xi.

Seeing Feng Xi's happy appearance, he can also feel happy.

The only thing that makes him feel uncomfortable is that he has to worry about being checked by Feng Xi all the time.

That's what it's like to be a thief.

When he arrived at the dormitory, he took the opportunity to go to the toilet to check his phone, and saw that Ai Lili had sent him a message, saying that he had already left for Yangcheng, and asked him if he had left and when would he arrive?
Yan Xin replied: "The car at night will arrive tomorrow morning."

Then the chat page was deleted.

But before he put down his phone, he received another message from Ai Lili: "Okay, I got it, I'll wait for you to come back, husband."

Seeing this news, Yan Xin was so frightened that he didn't dare to reply, so he quickly deleted it.

Fortunately, Ai Lili didn't send any more messages after that.

During the period, Feng Xi also took his mobile phone to look at the photos and videos in his mobile phone, and also pretended to casually look at the message list on his QQ, but found nothing tricky.

Dangerous pass.

It wasn't until four o'clock in the afternoon that Yan Xin got on the bus to the city, and then Yan Xin replied to Ai Lili: "We will meet tomorrow morning, and I am very excited when I think of it."

Ellie: "Me too."

At this time, Yan Xin can finally chat with Ai Lili in peace.

At the same time, he was chatting with Feng Xi.

When I got on the train at night, the chat with the two girls continued, as long as there was a signal, I chatted until after ten o'clock in the evening.

However, after waking up the next morning, Yan Xin silently deleted the chat page with Feng Xi.

Now he doesn't have to worry about Feng Xi checking his phone, what he worries about is Ai Lili checking his phone.