Reborn since 2005

Chapter 445 The Problem of Having a Child
The reception banquet was a bit embarrassing, but that embarrassment was within the range that everyone could bear.

The main reason is that Liang Wei and Chen Li had no communication during the whole process, as if the other party did not exist.

It would be a little better if the other party really didn't exist.

The problem is that they know each other's existence, and sometimes they will secretly watch each other's reaction, and occasionally they will collide with each other's eyes.

This makes it even more embarrassing.

Others have also discovered this situation, but they can only pretend not to see it.

During this process, Chen Li seemed a little redundant, and no one spoke to him except Yan Xin.

Moreover, Yan Xin didn't have much time to talk to him.

After all, this is for Liang Wei's mother and son to clean up the dust, and Liang Wei and Chen Li have that kind of awkward relationship.

If you communicate too much with Chen Li, it will appear that Liang Wei is not taken seriously, and you will inevitably feel unhappy.

Then Chen Li can only feel wronged.

——In fact, the reason why Chen Li was neglected in this way was because they regarded Chen Li as one of their own, the one who could be wronged.

Chen Li ate sullenly.

Everyone else was talking and laughing, at least on the surface, they looked very happy, including Liang Wei.

After the meal, Ai Lili suggested that Liang Wei pick up the baby and everyone take a group photo to witness today.

Now this banquet after returning to China is for the mother and son to clean up the dust, and it can also be regarded as the child's full moon wine.

Liang Wei was in the United States before, and she couldn't put up the full moon wine if she wanted to, so she could only make it today.

Liang Wei did not object, and accepted the proposal with a smile.

The photo was taken by the waiter, and Ai Lili even brought a digital camera.

All are in.

Under everyone's intentional or unintentional promotion, Liang Wei and Chen Li, who were holding their children, stood in the middle and became the C players.

In the beginning, there was still a space between the two people, but under the squeeze of the people next to them, the space was squeezed out, and the two people were next to each other.

On Liang Wei's side was Xiao Yuan, and then Xiao Yin.

On Chen Li's side was Yan Xin, and then Ai Lili.

Liang Wei didn't go to see Chen Li, but hugged the child and looked at the camera with a smile.

The child's head was leaning against Chen Li's side.

The expression on Chen Li's face was a little awkward, but when the waiter raised the camera, he still squeezed out a smiling face, but it was a little unnatural.

The rest of the people all had happy smiles on their faces, and when taking pictures, a few of them stretched out their scissors hands - this is a popular way to take pictures now.

Although it will feel awkward to watch it after a while, at least there is a little bit of happy atmosphere, which is better than standing there motionless.

Under the same angle, the waiter took a few pictures, and then ended the shooting and handed the camera back to Ai Lili.

Ai Lili took the camera and looked through the photos with Liang Wei, and she was sure they could be used, so she thanked the waiter.

The smile on Chen Li's face in the photo looks too fake.

But they all knew that under such circumstances, it was impossible for Chen Li to have a natural smile.

The picture of the children and their parents together is already very good. This is already the best picture they can create.

It's not good to ask for anything else.

After that, Ai Lili took a few more pictures of the child with the camera, and also took a few pictures of Liang Wei holding the child.

Blinking his eyes, he said, "Why don't we all take a photo with our children in our arms, so that when the children look at the photos in the future, they can think of the love from their uncles and aunts."

Madoka first agreed: "Okay, okay, I'll come first!"

Then he came in front of Liang Wei, and asked her clumsily how to hold the baby.

Liang Wei glanced at Chen Li secretly, but she did not refuse the proposal, and taught Xiaoyuan how to hold the baby seriously to be safe.

Ellie took pictures with her camera.

Then there is Xiao Yin.

Then Ai Lili gave the camera to Yan Xin and asked Yan Xin to help take pictures.

Then Yan Xin, holding the child.

After filming him, he hesitated for a moment and said to Chen Li:
"Chen Li, come take a picture too."

Chen Li pursed his lips, and glanced at Liang Wei secretly. Seeing that she was studying a painting on the wall, he hesitated for a moment, walked up to Yan Xin, and said with some embarrassment:

"I didn't hold a child, how should I report it?"

Liang Wei didn't even look at him at this time, but her eyes were inexplicably wet when she heard what he said.

——According to calculations, this is his own child, and it is the first time he has been embraced by his father.

She wanted to turn her head to see what a picture it was, but she held back.

You can see what the photo looks like later.

Looking back now, nothing may have happened, and it never will.

I heard Yan Xin and Ai Lili teach Chen Li how to hold the baby, I heard Ai Lili make Chen Li smile more naturally, hold the baby higher, and the sound of pressing the shutter, making Chen Li change his posture .

One after another, she couldn't remember whether it was a dozen or dozens of pictures.

All I know is that when Chen Li was photographed, more photographs were taken.

Finally, after the photo was taken, Ai Lili took the child from Chen Li and returned it to Liang Wei, saying:
"These photos will be sent to you at that time. If you see which ones are suitable, you can print them out, or you can keep them as souvenirs. Put them in the memory card, which may not last for a long time."

Liang Wei nodded: "I see, thank you, thank you."

Ai Lili said with a smile: "We are all good friends, as it should be."

After coming out of the restaurant, Ai Lili also asked Liang Wei: "You just came here, is there anything else you need to buy? How about I take you to the mall, let's go to the mall to have a look. Buy what you need, otherwise you It’s too inconvenient for a person with a child.”

Liang Wei originally wanted to decline - it's embarrassing to bother others all the time.

But she really has some daily necessities to buy, and it is really inconvenient to bring a child alone, so she can only apologize again and accept her kindness.

Pushing the baby carriage, I got into Ellie's car.

It was still early to come out after eating, Yan Xin and Chen Li made up their minds, and instead of going home immediately, they went to the gym to exercise.

By the way, bring Xiaoyin and Xiaoyuan back to the community.

After Xiao Yin and Xiao Yuan got out of the car, Yan Xin said to Chen Li: "Why do you look a little unhappy today?"

Chen Li drove the car, gave him a blank look, and said, "Am I obliged to be happy?"

Yan Xin said with a smile: "I saw my son and took a photo with him, shouldn't I be happy?"

Chen Li corrected him: "That's his son, he's from the United States, legally speaking, he has nothing to do with me."

"But that is your own son, you know it in your heart." Yan Xin said.

Chen Li ignored him.

Yan Xin didn't say anything about it.

It can be seen that Chen Li doesn't want to talk about this now, and he doesn't need to talk too much. It would be boring to talk about all his friends.

I just asked, "Should I send you a set of the photos I took today?"

Chen Li opened his lips, wanting to say something, but held back.

After a while, he said, "Whatever you like, you can post as you like."

Yan Xin let out an "oh", and probably understood his attitude - posting photos is still acceptable.

If he can't accept it, he will directly say no.

Said: "When I export those photos, I will send you a set."

Chen Li let out a "hmm" and said nothing more.

After a short drive, they arrived at their gym.

I didn't do any exercise for too long. I exercised there for more than an hour, sweated profusely, and then went home.

In the car, Yan Xin called Ai Lili and asked her where she was now.

The answer he got was that he was still in the mall with Liang Wei, bought a lot of things, and asked Yan Xin if he could help deliver the things to Liang Wei's house after she went back.

Yan Xin glanced at Chen Li.

When he made this call, he turned on the speakerphone. Chen Li also heard the content of their conversation and knew what Yan Xin was thinking. Seeing him look over, Chen Li shook his head slightly.

Yan Xin knew that this guy meant that he would not go to help.

Very helpless.

But you can't force people to go, just say: "No problem, I will wait for you at the east gate."

When he arrived at Baijingyuan, he didn't go into the community, but went to the east gate and waited for Ai Lili to drive back.

It didn't take long before I saw the red Mazda Ai Lili was driving.

After beckoning, they got into the car, went to the basement together, and drove to the downstairs where Liang Wei lived.

This time I did buy a lot of things, basically some daily necessities.

Liang Wei didn't run out of those things in the United States, but it was impossible to bring them all back, and many of them could only be bought here.

There were a lot of things in the trunk, big and small, and with just these two women, they definitely wouldn't be able to carry them all in one trip.

With Yan Xin joining, it will be much easier.

Helping to send those things up, Liang Wei thanked them again and asked them to sit down.

But they all refused - it was already late, and there was no need to stay at other people's homes.

And it was inconvenient for a single mother with a few months old to entertain herself.

Go down the elevator to the garage, then drive the car away, drive it back downstairs, park it in the parking space you bought, and the two of them go upstairs again.

Ai Lili said to Yan Xin: "I asked Liang Wei about giving birth in the United States, and it was not easy. Not to mention spending so much money, there are also many difficulties in a foreign country. I think she and When I said those things, my eye circles were red, and I thought there were many unknown sufferings."

"Why are you asking this?" Yan Xin was very curious, "You don't always think about going to the United States to have a baby, do you?"

"I'm not going, how hopeless is it to give birth alone in a foreign country?" Ai Lili said.

She told Yan Xin: "The main reason is that Sister Ru is always talking like that. She wants to be a test-tube baby and go to the United States to have a baby. I will help her inquire about it. It sounds too scary. I think it's better to forget it. Advise her."

"There's no need to persuade you," Yan Xin said, "You know Sister Ru, she doesn't want to fall in love or get married, but she's at that age again, and she wants to have a child of her own. There are a lot of inconveniences, so I have to go abroad to give birth. Liang Wei thinks it is difficult, but it is not necessarily difficult for Sister Ru, because Sister Ru has more money and can buy better services, and even let her It's different when the family is with her."

Although Ai Lili doesn't think so, but thinking about it, Gu Ru is already in her 30s, and now she doesn't want to fall in love. After a few years of delay, she has become an elderly woman.

It is not easy to be a single mother in China now. Without a marriage certificate, even being a test-tube baby is very troublesome.

There is really no better way to have a child.

I can only shake my head: "Well, I won't persuade her anymore, just tell her what I know, and it's up to her to decide whether to go or not."

Yan Xin said: "If she wants to go, she can ask Liang Wei herself."

Ai Lili said: "I'm afraid she won't ask. You have to know that the relationship between her and Liang Wei is not very good. In this matter, she is also on Chen Li's side, and she seems to have some opinions on Liang Wei. .”

Yan Xin also knew this.

Then he said with a smile: "Well, if she wants to know anything, you can ask Liang Wei, after all, Liang Wei has really been there."

Ai Lili pouted, feeling as if she had become a middleman.

But there is no way, who called Gu Ru is also a friend?
Since she was a child, she didn't have many friends, so every friend is very cherished.

For the sake of her friend, she can be said to have broken her heart.

When she went shopping with Liang Wei, she basically talked about the matter of Liang Wei giving birth in the United States alone, which made her quite emotional.

At the same time, I also have some dissatisfaction with Chen Li - if Chen Li is a responsible man who takes the initiative to take responsibility and marries Liang Wei, Liang Wei will not have to go abroad to have a baby, and can have a baby in China openly. take care of.

Not so bleak.

Then there was some luck—fortunately, her man was not an irresponsible man like Chen Li, and she didn't need to go to a foreign country thousands of miles away to give birth alone.

In this world, not every woman will be so lucky, and not every woman will be able to meet such a responsible man as Yan Xin.

Thinking of this, she felt very happy and satisfied, and felt that God was so kind to her.

Although the previous twenty years had been very unfortunate, but in the end she was sent the best man in the world.

Listening to Liang Wei's story really gave her a feeling of reminiscing bitterness and sweetness.

In the pain of others, I feel my own happiness.

That night, she was also very gentle and obedient to Yan Xin.

She even said, "Husband, let's have a baby too."

Saying such a sentence suddenly made Yan Xin stunned for a moment, not knowing what state he was in again.

But in this case, he can only agree to:
"Okay, we're going to have a baby."

—Maybe it's just for fun?

After a few efforts, I asked again: "Do you like boys or girls?"

"It doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl...it's fine if it's your child..." Ellie replied.

At the end when they were resting, Ai Lili recovered and asked Yan Xin seriously:
"Husband, do you think boys or girls are better?"

Yan Xin's heart trembled: "She doesn't really want to have a baby with me, does she?"

Answer: "It's all right, I'm not patriarchal, I think each has its own advantages."

She smiled again and said, "The best way is to have two children, one son and one daughter."

"But only one can be born..." Ai Lili said depressingly.

She was a little worried: "If there is only one child, if you give birth to a girl, you will not be able to carry on the family line of your Yan family, will you be angry?"

Yan Xin was both funny and sad.

Turning around and hugging her, he said, "No, I don't have any obsession with passing on the family line. It's the same for boys and girls. As long as it's our child, treat it well. You don't have to worry about it."

Ai Lili said: "But I have seen a lot of quarrels and even divorces because of this issue."

She has lived in Xiaorong Town for a long time, and she has indeed seen many such things.

It’s okay for a girl, and some people pay a high price to have a second girl, and some people get divorced because of this.

She herself was not sure whether Yan Xin would do this.

Because in her conception when she was a child, carrying on the family line seemed to be a very important thing.

Now that Yan Xin has a net worth of hundreds of millions, he may feel uncomfortable if he does not have a son to inherit it.

I haven't asked such a question before, mainly because I feel that Yan Xin has not yet reached the age of marriage, and the matter of having a child is even more distant from me.

Now that this is mentioned, I can't help but ask.

There is still some apprehension in my heart-who can guarantee that I will be able to conceive a son?

What if it was a daughter?
Yan Xin comforted her: "You don't have to worry about this at all. I'm not that kind of old feudalism, and my dad doesn't think that way either. Both son and daughter can accept it."

"Maybe you'll change your mind by then..." Ai Lili said in a low voice.

"No, I don't have that idea at all." Yan Xin assured her.

He really didn't have that idea.

He can make such a guarantee.

What he can't guarantee is whether he will marry Ai Lili in the future.

Feng Xi and Ai Lili, which one to choose, he still can't make up his mind.

Ideas are always changing.

Seeing that Ai Lili was still a little worried, she said:

"Let's just say that I have that kind of feudal thinking, and there is nothing to worry about. It's not that we don't have money. The first child is a daughter. At worst, the second child will follow Liang Wei's example and go abroad to give birth to someone with a foreign nationality. There are stars. Is that how it is done? Then it is not against the policy. Not to mention the second child, there is no problem with the third child and the fourth child.”

He knew that the policy would change in the future, and Ai Lili didn't need to worry about this at all.

It's just that there is no way to explain this thing clearly, so I can only find such a reason to make her feel at ease.

He had no such intentions himself.

Ai Lili said "ah": "Am I going to go abroad to have a baby too?"

"I'm talking about the contingency," Yan Xin said, "and, even if you go abroad to give birth, you don't have to worry, I will definitely be with you, and you won't be alone."

"That's right." Ellie said.

That said, she was happy.

Finally let go of a big stone in my heart.

It's not a good solution, but it's better than nothing.

(End of this chapter)