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Liu Yue just took Yan Xin to the pregnancy and childbirth center where Gu Ru was located, and then left.

She is still a student and has her own things to do.

Do something and get paid. Now that the thing is done, of course you can leave.

Yan Xin chatted with Gu Ru for more than an hour at the pregnancy and childbirth center, and then Gu Ru's father drove Yan Xin to the manor their family had newly purchased.

The manor is dozens of kilometers away from the pregnancy and childbirth center, and it takes about an hour to drive.

Gu Ru bought the manor for 50 US dollars. The original owner lost a lot of money during the subprime mortgage crisis and had no choice but to sell the manor.

Two hectares sounds big, but the actual area is not that big, just thirty acres of land.

It was a no-brainer to make a fortune from farming on this little land. I bought it just for fun.

She mainly took a fancy to the house there, which was quite beautifully renovated and had a bit of an exotic feel.

——It’s a local style here, but in Gu Ru’s eyes, it’s naturally an exotic style.

And there are many houses.

The house is actually not that good, but it does look pretty at first glance.

Gu Ru's father placed Yan Xin in an independent house.

Not a room, but a separate house.

There are three such single-family houses in this manor, and there is also a larger villa, which is where Gu Ru's family of three lives.

In the United States, a country with a small population, this kind of country villa is not valuable and can be bought very cheaply.

Driving all the way here, Yan Xin saw many such manors.

The scenery along the way is indeed much more beautiful than the rural areas in China.

In comparison, China still lags far behind.

When they got there, Gu's father took Yan Xin around his manor and said to Yan Xin with a smile:
"Xiao Ru likes it here, and we also like it here. Maybe we will retire here in the future."

He also sighed: "I have been a city dweller all my life, but I never expected to end up being a farmer in a foreign country. Come to think of it, this fate is quite strange."

Yan Xin was a little curious: "The languages ​​here are different, can you get used to it?"

"It's not bad," Gu's father said, "Her mother and I have both read a little bit, have a little foundation in English, and can communicate with the people here in the simplest way. And we are just old, not stupid. , you can also learn the language, and if you stay here for a few years, you should be fine.”

"But if you want to farm land in China, you can also farm it on contracted land. Although there is no permanent property rights, people's lifespan is only so long. Isn't there a big difference?" Yan Xin asked.

He didn't quite approve of them living abroad.

In fact, it's not that he doesn't agree with them living abroad, this is none of his business.

He just wants his children to live at home rather than abroad.

He doesn't want his children to get into bad habits.

After all, in a few years, even smoking marijuana will be legal in this country, which would be too scary.

And he doesn't want his child to identify his own gender and end up with a weird gender.

He couldn't accept that kind of political correctness.

But he also knew one thing - he was not qualified to ask for anything.

No matter what decision someone made, he could only respect it.

He just wanted to persuade, hoping to convince the other party.

He also said: "Although this place is good, it is other people's place after all. You have no relatives here and you don't know anyone. I think it is not good to settle here. If it were me, I would definitely Wouldn’t it be better to live in your own country, where the language, customs and habits are the same, and where relatives and friends are also there?”

Father Gu looked a little sad when he heard what he said. Finally, he sighed and said with a wry smile:

"Xiao Yan, actually I understand all the things you said, but now you also know the situation in our family. Xiaoru is not married and has no boyfriend, and suddenly she gave birth to a child like this. How would this be in my hometown? We were raised by relatives and friends, so we don’t know what kind of gossip we will gossip about. It doesn’t matter how old we are, but the child can’t help those crazy words... It’s better to live in this foreign country, at least others won’t gossip. "

It was for this reason.

Yan Xin was silent.

He really had no shame to say anything more.

The one who cannot give the child a name is none other than him.

He said sarcastically: "It turns out that this is what uncle is worried about. It's because I am superficial."

Father Gu sighed: "If it weren't for this reason, who would want to stay in this foreign country?"

"However, you can also go to live in other cities in the country. Then can't you avoid being seen by acquaintances?" Yan Xin still couldn't hold it back and said, "Let the children grow up here, and their skin color will be different. When they study, There is also the possibility of being discriminated against.”

Father Gu shook his head and said:

"In the environment in our country, as long as a child has no father, he will inevitably be questioned and some unpleasant words will be said. It doesn't make much difference if he leaves an environment of acquaintances. And in China, how can he leave? It's better to Tell them that they have already gone abroad. Whether it is to make an overseas call or return to the country, the cost is much higher, so that they can get out of that environment. As for you saying that you will be discriminated against when you study in the future, wait until then, or find a Let your children study in a place with a good environment, and it won’t be too late to send them back to the country until then.”

Yan Xin didn't say anything more and just said: "That's not bad."

Later, this place became a mess, with all kinds of operations that exploded the three views.

But I have to say that it is still fine at this stage and is still a beacon to the world.

Most of the land in this manor is idle, and there is a pond with an area of ​​two to three thousand square meters in the middle, which is sparkling.

If this were a residential area in China, it would be called a lake.

There were several pieces of land beside the pond. Gu's father told Yan Xin that they had created this land and they were growing vegetables.

As a city dweller all my life, one of my dreams is to be able to eat vegetables grown by myself.

This dream has come true here.

The vegetable garden can be as large as they wish.

Of course, the three of them couldn't eat much.

The several vegetable plots that were created together did not add up to two points.

There's a reason for this - they bought the manor not long ago and haven't had time to run it yet.

The original owners also carefully decorated the manor, and they quite liked it.

No major changes have been made. The only change that can be considered a change is the creation of a vegetable garden next to the pond.

On the other side of the pond, a small pier was built with a small boat tied there.

Gu's father told Yan Xin that Gu Ru wanted to go boating, but because she had a big belly, she was blocked by their parents, so she never went there once.

But he went up and rowed the boat, and it capsized.

When he said this, he still had a smile on his face.

It seems that there is a little regret about going to live in a foreign country, but it is not entirely regrettable, and it can still bring them some happiness.

That's pretty good too.Father Gu took Yan Xin around the manor for more than an hour. It was almost dark, so he returned home and cooked to entertain the guest.

Yan Xin didn't want to let his elders serve him, so he followed into the kitchen and cooked two dishes to show off his cooking skills.

Father Gu looked at it and marveled: "I didn't expect you, Xiao Yan, to be so good at cooking. There are too few young people like you today who can both pursue a career and cook in the kitchen."

Yan Xin was a little embarrassed: "Actually, I didn't know how to cook before, but then I got together with my girlfriend and learned from her, and I slowly learned a little bit."

Father Gu said, "Your girlfriend is also pretty cool."

Then he sighed again: "My daughter is not that good. She is in her 30s and can only cook a few simple dishes. When we get old, we don't know what she will do."

After finishing speaking, he smiled bitterly: "Actually, her mother and I are already old, so we can't wait until we are old..."

Yan Xin smiled and said: "Uncle, don't worry. In modern society, as long as you have money, everything can be easily solved. It doesn't matter if you don't know how to cook, just ask someone who can cook to do it for you. Sister Ru earns so much now With money, you can live well no matter which country you are in, don’t worry about it.”

"I hope..." Father Gu said.

She glanced at him again and said, "If she could find someone like you..."

After a pause, he changed his words: "A person half as good as you..."

Then he paused and changed his words again: "As long as you can find a man..."

Changing one's words again and again represents a lowering of psychological expectations.

This is also the helplessness of an old father.

What can you do if you encounter a daughter like this?

When I first wanted to pursue my dream, I lost my temper and stopped contacting my parents for 10 years, so I could make my own way outside.

Later, a reconciliation was reached, but he refused to get married until his death, and said that he liked women.

This is so disappointing.

At that time, both of them felt that the whole sky was gray.

I am not worried that I will have no one to rely on when I grow old, but I am worried that my daughter will be helpless when she gets old.

Fortunately, her daughter found her conscience and finally agreed to have a child.

The result came like this. I was not married, and I didn't even have a boyfriend. Suddenly one day I came over to tell them the good news - I was pregnant!

They really didn't feel much joy at that time.

There is even a sense of suffocation - why is this daughter so frightening?
Later I accepted it.

Having a child out of wedlock is just not a good-looking couple, but after all, they still have a child.

When they are gone in the future, this daughter will still have a relative and a companion in the world, so she will not be so lonely.

It can be regarded as a little comfort to their hearts and they are no longer so desperate.

Later, their daughter proposed to come to the United States to give birth to a child and obtain an American household registration for the child. They agreed without any hesitation.

The main reason is that I feel so embarrassed staying in China that I don’t have the face to face my relatives and friends.

If possible, I wish I could live abroad for the rest of my life.

The child was born and the birth problem was solved, but they still had worries in their hearts.

After all, it will take a long time for the child to grow up, and they may not be able to accompany their daughter for that long.

There is a transition period in the middle. Who will take care of their daughter during that time?
It would be best if you find a companion.

When I see Yan Xin, I can't help but think, how great would it be if this young man were his son-in-law?

But, he has a girlfriend.

Asked her age, she was more than ten years younger than his daughter.

Moreover, he is his daughter's boss and is much richer than his daughter.

The girlfriend she found is also richer than her daughter, and she is also a sophomore.

How could someone abandon such an excellent and young girlfriend to find a woman who is more than ten years older than him?
It's impossible even if you think about it.

The more I think Yan Xin, a young man, is outstanding, the more uncomfortable I feel when I think of my daughter.

Come to think of it, my own daughter is not so lucky.

I don't even dare to hope to find such an outstanding man, I can just find an ordinary man.

However, she happened to be born with such a daughter, with such a strange character, that even this simplest hope became a luxury.

As an old father, I am really helpless.

Yan Xin felt the old man's helplessness. He didn't dare to say anything for fear of arousing the old man's sadness, so he could only say something else to distract him.

Ask about life here, the customs and customs here, etc.

Two people had a dinner together.

After eating, Gu's father sent Yan Xin to the accommodation arranged for him, and then drove to the pregnancy and childbirth center, where he wanted to replace his wife who was accompanying his daughter and let her rest.

When Yan Xin woke up the next morning, it was Gu's mother who was cooking breakfast at home.

When the two of them were having breakfast together, Gu's mother asked about Yan Xin and Gu Ru's relationship. Yan Xin didn't know what Gu Ru said, so he could only deal with it cautiously, for fear of being exposed accidentally. Come.

Gu's mother also asked about him and his girlfriend, and he answered carefully, feeling very stressed.

Although Father Gu also asked about some things, he didn't ask in such detail and could just deal with it casually.

This mother was so attentive that he felt almost overwhelmed.

Fortunately, nothing was asked in the end.

As Gu's mother talked, she also talked about how her daughter had given birth and had yet to find a partner. She also asked Yan Xin if there was anyone suitable around him who could introduce him to her.

To this, Yan Xin could only answer cautiously and would pay attention to it in the future.

After breakfast, he went to the pregnancy and childbirth center with Gu's mother.

He stayed here with Gu Ru throughout the day.

The two talked and took a walk, looking like a couple.

Gu Ru's parents watched the two of them together from a distance, with particularly complicated emotions.

I feel like these two people are so perfect together, and the scene is beautiful.

But I know that if one has a girlfriend and the other doesn't like men, they can't be together after all.

It felt quite painful. (End of chapter)