She is cute and has a thousand layers of routines

How do you like someone?

For the original Chen Jiayu, he had already answered this question hundreds of times, and just as he was about to think about it, it was the same as any of the previous times, saying: "If you like someone, just look at her My heart beats faster, and I can't help but want to get closer to her." At that time, she subconsciously closed her mouth.

These words rolled over and over in his mind, and he suddenly realized that for the first time, he became uncertain.

Is this really the correct answer?

Indeed, before he saw Shen Nianchu, it was a glimpse of him and his heartbeat in his youth, and his longing for the perfect girl in his heart. At the beginning, even if he just looked at her from a distance and couldn't get close, he would turn to her. If you don't open your eyes, you will throb.

This should be considered like it.

But the feeling that Cai Jiayi gave him seemed to be different from that of Shen Nianchu.

In his heart, she is not as high and unreachable as Shen Nianchu, but she is beside him, as if she is within reach.

But not quite.

Her body was shrouded in a hazy, impenetrable mist, but Chen Jiayu didn't feel a sense of threat from her, but just felt curious, and couldn't help but want to get closer and explore.

And getting along with her is also comfortable and pleasant.

It seems that he doesn't need to be so good and powerful in front of her, even the most authentic and childish side can be presented naturally, just like a cat will only show its fragile belly in front of the most trusted person.His body is also very honest and healthy, and his heartbeat will speed up when he is ambiguous with her, and he will occasionally fantasize about the feeling of embracing her, and even make her the heroine of his indescribable dream.

This kind of mood, I should also like it.

So, what exactly is true love?
Or, there is more than one definition of liking, and it is even impossible to define accurately at all?
"Old Chen, why don't you speak?"

At this time, Hou Zifan asked.

"If you don't know whether you like Zhu Shu or not, it's useless to ask others." Chen Jiayu pondered for a while before saying.

"I..." Hou Zifan was speechless, and after a while, he said, "I don't know, I just think it's funny when she looks angry, so I can't help but want to tease her and see her get angry But if she really gets angry and keeps ignoring me, I feel weird and uncomfortable."

"Even I don't know why, alas."

Chen Jiayu said lightly: "Actually, one word can sum up your mentality."

Hou Zifan asked, "What word?"

"cheap."

Xia Yu swallowed the food in his mouth, and added: "Two words, you are cheap."

He Yan: "Three words, you are cheap."

"..."

Hou Zifan's face changed, and his lips moved back and forth for a long time. In the end, he still didn't refute, but just lowered his head and continued to eat.

But the speed has slowed down significantly, and it seems a little bit hard to swallow.

When he was about to finish eating, he asked again: "Did I really not do well when I played badminton today?"

Chen Jiayu said: "This is related to your purpose of playing badminton with her. Are you purely to win her, or to impress her?"

Hou Zifan: "I beat her, she sees that I'm good, won't she look at me with admiration?"

"..."

Chen Jiayu looked at Hou Zifan inexplicably, and couldn't help admiring his brain circuit.

In the end, I can only make an analogy: "For example, a friend plays a game with you. You are a novice, and he knows it, but instead of taking you to play, he doesn't teach you how to play, and deliberately beats you to death." Bi Zero. This is not enough, he even laughed at you in public, saying that you can’t beat him even if you practice for another 100 years, how do you feel?”

Hou Zifan suddenly became angry: "Damn, what kind of friend is this!"

As soon as the words fell, he seemed to understand something, scratched the back of his head, and said resentfully: "I understand a little bit when you say that."

It's because he didn't consider her self-esteem, alas, he still thinks he's doing pretty well.

……

The discussion about whether Hou Zifan likes Zhu Shu or not comes to an end.

But during the whole evening self-study, Chen Jiayu was thinking about another question.

Did he really like Shen Nianchu in the past, or did he like Cai Jiayi now?
If so, why are they different?

After the evening self-study ended, it was already 35:[-] when he and Cai Jiayi walked out of the school together.

At this time, the sky was completely dark, and the street lamps on both sides of the road were emitting a dim light. The shadows of the two fell on the ground were long and dark, but it was still obvious that one was a tall boy, and the other was a pretty girl. girls.

After walking for a while, the number of students around gradually decreased. Cai Jiayi turned her head to look at Chen Jiayu, her eyes slightly bent, and asked, "Are you worried? You haven't said anything since the evening."

"Oh... I was thinking about a question." Chen Jiayu replied.

She was a little curious: "What's the problem, can you tell me?"

"Yes." Chen Jiayu replied.

"I was thinking, what exactly does it mean to like someone? How do you define the word "like"?"

"If it's love at first sight, it's love after a long time, right?"

"Is it the vigorous heartbeat that counts as liking, or the companionship of gentle water?"

"If they both like it, what's the difference?"

Cai Jiayi tilted her head as she listened to his question, as if lost in thought.

After a while, she blinked her eyes and said softly, "Want to hear my thoughts?"

"Well, tell me."

"From a psychological point of view, human desires are divided into five levels, physiological, safety, social, respect and self-realization." She spoke slower than usual, and she should be sorting out her thoughts while talking, "and like , is also a kind of desire. Therefore, different likes can also correspond to these five levels.”

"The lowest level is the liking that is produced by physiology, such as sexual impulse, which is born of carnal desire, and it is also the most short-lived and unstable liking. Once the impulse disappears, it may cease to exist."

"The second is a sense of security. The so-called beautiful women love heroes, in fact, it means that girls tend to like strong men because he can bring her a sense of security. The same is true for boys, and they will prefer those opposite sexes with excellent conditions, such as Beautiful, dedicated, gentle, smart..."

Chen Jiayu pondered: "So, what does being social mean, a common language?"

"That's right." Cai Jiayi nodded, "The liking due to the same hobbies and aspirations will be rarer and more lasting than the former two."

"Is that so..."

"The next step is respect, when a person can make you feel respected, needed, and loved..." Under the streetlight, a gentle smile appeared on her little face, "Then, you don't like this person?"

Chen Jiayu raised her eyebrows: "No wonder green tea is so popular."

Cai Jiayi covered her mouth and laughed.

Chen Jiayu asked again: "What about the last one?"

"You have found the value and meaning of your own existence in the other party, and the other party is also the same... It's a pity that such liking is too little, too little."

Cai Jiayi looked at him with a smile and said softly.