She is cute and has a thousand layers of routines

Chapter 33

"I once read a sentence in a book." Chen Jiayu said slowly, "Sometimes, good deeds will attract hatred just like evil deeds."

"What do you mean?" Hou Zifan was puzzled.

"This sentence comes from Machiavelli's "The Prince." Cai Jiayi looked at Chen Jiayu and said with a smile, "It means that if the method of helping others is inappropriate, it will hurt the self-esteem of the person being helped and cause the other person resentment."

Chen Jiayu glanced at her unexpectedly: "Cai Jiayi is right, that's why I don't agree with you guys doing this."

"But we want to help him, it's just out of kindness." Zhu Shu said unconvinced, "Besides, he set up a stall to sell things, and we go shopping, which is considered a fair deal. How could it hurt his self-esteem? Woolen cloth?"

"Yes, we are kind, He Yan should not be angry." Tian Tian said softly.

"Is it really a fair trade?"

Chen Jiayu raised his hand, pointed at the piece of plastic sheet in front of He Yan, and the assortment of gadgets on it, and raised his voice slightly, "Have you seen what he's selling? It's all Children's toys, light sticks, etc., do you think you really need these things? Will he believe that you really need-"

Hou Zifan, Zhu Shu, and Tian Tian were all stunned in place.

The corners of Cai Jiayi's lips curved slightly.

"He Yan is not stupid, of course he can see that you don't really need those things, it's just out of pity and sympathy for him that you spend money to buy these things that are useless to you. "

Chen Jiayu glanced at everyone, and said word by word, "So, for him, our actions are not so much help as compassion. It's even worse, in the name of help, in the name of kindness. In fact, it is the kindness with an unconscious sense of superiority like a superior, and our behavior has invisibly divided him from superior to inferior, which is unequal. We are out of good intentions, but he will receive grace burdened and pressured by pity."

"Do you think he is grateful to us, or is he more inferior?"

Chen Jiayu paused, and continued, "If helping someone is just to relieve the impulse induced by our own sympathy, without considering the other person's situation, we can't make the other person accept it willingly, and we can't help him." Improving the other person's situation is called self-righteousness and self-indulgence, and it is only us who help ourselves, not him."

Hou Zifan, Zhu Shu and Tian Tian frowned and remained silent for a while.

Chen Jiayu looked at them, did not continue talking, and waited patiently.

In his opinion, Hou Zifan and the others are just a group of seventeen or eighteen-year-old children, and it will take a certain amount of time to completely digest these words...

and many more!

Chen Jiayu's whole body shook suddenly.

Why did my mentality become so old-fashioned? Isn't he also a seventeen or eighteen-year-old child?

Even if it has been repeated a hundred times, it is still true!
Introspect, reflect on yourself.

After a while, Hou Zifan scratched his head, and said with an embarrassing face: "I heard from you, Old Chen, that it seems to be the same reason... If we want to help He Yan, we really have to consider his mood. If it backfires, it's our fault."

"Well, it's because we didn't think carefully, and we almost did something bad with good intentions." Zhu Shu also sighed, and said, "But, I really want to help him, why don't you think about it, is there any more? A good way?"

"I also want to help classmate He Yan. It's not easy for him." Cai Jiayi pursed her lips, stared at Chen Jiayu, and asked softly, "Chen Jiayu, what do you think should be done?"

"It's beneficial to people, not asking for favors. This is the correct way." Chen Jiayu replied lightly.

Beneficial to others, do not ask for kindness.

Hou Zifan and the others carefully considered these eight words in their hearts.

It seems to understand, but it seems not fully understood.

After a while, Cai Jiayi clapped her hands lightly and said with a smile, "I have an idea, why don't you listen to it?"

"Go ahead."

"Say it."

"..."

Cai Jiayi looked at a few children playing roller skating not far away, her eyes were squinted, "Let them help. How about it?"

Chen Jiayu smiled slightly.

Hou Zifan also reacted, and he said: "You mean, give them the money, and then let them go to He Yan to buy things instead of us?"

"Yes." Cai Jiayi nodded.

Zhu Shu and Tian Tian looked at each other, can this work?
Thinking about it again, it seems...it is indeed feasible.

Zhu Shu is a character who can do what he says, so he couldn't wait at this moment, turned around and ran towards the children at a fast pace. Everyone saw her pulling the children and talking a lot, then they proudly took the children with them. Here they come.

"I've already made an agreement with them to give them the money, and then they will go to He Yan to buy toys. They can buy as much as they can with the money, and all the toys they buy will belong to them."

In this way, several of them helped He Yan, and He Yan also sold things without the burden of being "merciful" and "benevolent", and the children also got their favorite toys.

Well, it's a triple win.

The money was collected, a total of 260 seven yuan, held by Cai Jiayi.

Just as Cai Jiayi was about to hand them over to those children, someone added another one hundred yuan to it.

"This is mine." Chen Jiayu said.

Cai Jiayi glanced at him, smiled and said, "Okay."

She squatted down, put the 360 ​​seven yuan in the hands of the older child with a solemn expression, and said earnestly: "Sister, please help me to buy toys at the stall over there. All the money I bought All the toys belong to you, but don’t fight over them, let’s play together. And don’t tell the brother who sells things that we gave you the money, remember?”

The child nodded vigorously: "Okay!"

Cai Jiayi patted his head and said with a smile, "Go."

Several children happily ran towards the square.

They ran to He Yan's stall, handed all the money to He Yan without counting it, and shouted scramblingly.

"Brother, I want this duckling!"

"I want to buy an electric plane and a duckling!"

"Brother, give me bubble water!"

"Ultraman!"

"Dump truck!"

"Water gun! Windmill!"

……

He Yan's face was flushed with excitement, and he frantically handed over the toy while stammering, "Kids, come one by one, don't worry...the water gun costs 15 yuan, and the dump truck costs [-] yuan...hey! Okay, don’t fall. Do you want a plane? The plane needs to be equipped with batteries. Come on, brother will teach you how to use it..."

(End of this chapter)