famine queen

Jin Mang's brows frowned even deeper, "What did uncle and uncle say?"

Aunt Jin said: "What can I say? You can't let big men like them take care of my mother?"

After a pause, she said, "Your fourth uncle means to find a nursing home with good conditions."

Jin Mang frowned and said, "Even if the nursing home wants to send it, it can't send it now."

She knows that it is not easy to take care of Alzheimer's patients. It is okay in the early stage, but in the later stage, the family members really can't bear to take care of them.Moreover, at that time, ordinary families will not be able to be comprehensive, and the elderly will be lost if they are not careful.

Finding a nursing home with complete facilities and humanization will far outweigh the disadvantages for the elderly.

But the nursing home can't send it now, the old lady is still clear-headed now, and if she is sent, she will have to suffocate herself to death.

"That's what we mean, first find a nanny to take care of your grandma, install surveillance at home, and we'll come over from time to time to take a look. When there is really no other way, then send the old lady to a nursing home." Aunt Jin said.

Jin Mang thought it was quite reasonable, nodded and said, "Then do it this way."

"How do you calculate the cost?" Aunt Jin said a little uncomfortably: "We went to see whether the nursing home is good or not, mainly depends on three aspects: facilities, nursing staff and food. For nursing homes with good facilities and nursing staff alone, it takes about a year. 20 to 200, but if you add food and drink, it will cost 500 for two days of meals a month, and [-] more for one extra day in a month. If you want to maintain three meals a day, you will need [-] for a year Ten thousand. If you eat better, you can earn three to five million or even seven to eighty thousand a year."

After a pause, she said: "Your grandma's savings are around two million yuan, and the total of shares and rent is about 20 yuan a year. It's not worth the money."

If ordinary nursing homes are fine, expensive nursing homes will not be enough to live in for a year.

However, the mother-in-law has entrusted her granddaughter's blessing in recent years and lived three meals a day all year round.If you send her to an ordinary nursing home, let alone whether she can get used to it, Jin Mang might not be happy.

They don't care about the old lady's pension, but they shouldn't be allowed to pay for the extra expenses, right?
Jin Mang suddenly understood the cares of the auntie and the others, and said, "Arrange the best nursing home for grandma at that time. If her pension is not enough, I will make up for it."

Even for Jin Mang, 800 million a year is not a small expense.After all, most of the ingredients she sent to grandma in the past came from Luze, and they didn't need to spend money to buy them.

However, she plans to jump directly from level 800 to level [-] in this test. By that time, [-] million is estimated to be a few days' income.

As for the caresses of the auntie and the others... Jin Mang also felt that there was nothing wrong with it.

In fact, she also thought about whether she could take grandma to Zhongjing, but she gave up after thinking about it for a while. Let alone whether grandma is willing or not, she is also busy when she goes to Zhongjing. When the time comes, she will either ask a nanny to come back to take care of grandma or send grandma to a nursing home.On the contrary, if she stays here in Nancheng, grandma can still have her children and grandchildren visiting her from time to time.

Although the uncle and the others have their own little thoughts, they are not bad people. With them, grandma can live a better life.

And... the memory of dementia will continue to go backwards. The first thing grandma will forget is the great-grandchildren, and then these grandchildren.

So, she is definitely not the best person to take care of grandma.

Knowing that grandma and daughter-in-law are not getting along well, and worried that they will not take good care of grandma before she goes to the nursing home, Jin Mang said: "I will send the food from grandma's side regularly, but I will send an extra serving. The share is for the hard work of those who take care of grandma."

Hearing this, Aunt Jin's eyes lit up.

Even if you don't eat that food yourself, you can still sell it for a good price.

"Let's talk about the details on grandma's birthday." Jin Mang said, "I will arrange things well before I go to Zhongjing."

"You're going to Zhongjing!?" Aunt Jin was shocked.

It took Jin Mang a lot of effort to explain clearly that he went to Zhongjing because of a job transfer, which was arranged before, and not because of grandma's situation.

She left today after having dinner with her grandma. The old lady was obviously in a good mood, and she was always cheerful during the meal.

According to the original plan, Jin Mang went to grandma's the next day.

Fortunately, the old lady is very healthy and has no problems at all.But the old lady twisted her waist while dancing in the square yesterday, and now she is lying on the sofa and asking her little daughter to put a plaster on her.

"Mom, you are really, I told you earlier, you are old, don't dance with the square dance. This is not the first time, how many times have you twisted your waist?" Aunt Jin scolded while posting .

Grandma Jin said slowly: "I broke a bone when I walked last time, so I can't stop walking from now on, can I?"

"You!" Aunt Jin was very angry.

Jin Mang put a box of mangoes and seafood that he brought on the coffee table, frowned and said, "Grandma, let me hire you a nanny."

Before hearing this, Grandma Jin always refused without thinking, but today she hesitated.

There is a play!

Jin Mang and Aunt Jin looked at each other, their eyes lit up.

"Mom, just listen to Mangmang. We can rest assured that someone will take care of you." Aunt Jin said.

Jin Mang also nodded, "Yes, I'm going to Zhongjing soon, grandma, if you don't hire a nanny, I'll have to worry about you all day long."

Different from Grandma Jin, although Uncle Jin and the others don't live under the same roof with her, they are all close to each other, and they can just call out for anything.Grandma Jin really lives alone, so she might not be able to make a phone call in time for something to happen.

"Are you going to Zhongjing?" Grandma Jin's eyes widened.

Jin Mang nodded and briefly explained.

"Then hire a nanny." Grandma Jin said.

Jin Mang told grandma that grandma had been diagnosed with Alzheimer's, but she was not surprised.

"I've heard about it a long time ago." She sighed and said, "Your grandma is such a strong person, but she ended up with this kind of problem."

Grandma Jin quickly changed the subject again, "By the way, when will you bring your boyfriend back for me to see?"

Jin Mang was startled, and said helplessly, "We have already broken up."

"Did he bully you?" Grandma Jin's eyes immediately stood up.

In her mind, the breakup must be due to that person's fault, and she must have bullied her granddaughter.

"No." Jin Mang sighed, "We just don't agree with each other." She briefly explained the situation.

Once she heard that she was not bullied, Grandma Jin immediately felt relieved.

As long as my granddaughter doesn't suffer, that's fine. As for the others... Her granddaughter's conditions are so good, and there are many good men waiting behind, so it's a pity to break up.

When Grandma Jin went back to lie down in the room, Auntie sat beside her and chatted with her.

"Mangmang... Auntie wants to ask you something..." She hesitated and said.