Mr. Xu, Mrs. Xu asked you for a divorce from the Civil Affairs Bureau

Chapter 186

Lin Chujian held the phone and stopped there.She didn't know why Wen Huaijin asked her this question, because it was a very inexplicable question normally.

Because who wouldn't be happy at home?
It was inexplicable for Wen Huaijin to ask this question. It was also inexplicable for him to know that she was unhappy at home. It was even more inexplicable for her to be as happy as he asked, but not really happy.

However, Lin Chujian didn't want to talk too much with Wen Huaijin about these things.Every time this happens, she always feels like a transparent machine. Wen Huaijin knows her well, even he knows that there is a screw buried under her heart.

She didn't want Wen Huaijin to know.

"Of course I'm happy at home." Lin Chujian said, as if to prove her happiness, Lin Chujian said: "My mother also cooked braised fish for me, which was very delicious. And she only gave me fish, she herself Eat leftovers. My mother is very kind to me, and I don’t have to do anything when I go home. She is afraid of hurting my hands when buying vegetables and won’t let me carry them..."

Lin Chujian paused and hesitated for a while as he spoke.She seemed to have an excuse, arguing with Wen Huaijin, but in the end she was discouraged and had no confidence.

The reason for this feeling was because Lin Chujian remembered that making her braised fish in brown sauce also happened between her and Wen Huaijin.

At her home, Wen Huaijin cooked braised fish for her twice, and it was delicious every time.But after Wen Huaijin cooked the fish, he would not stop eating the fish.He just eats normally like her, without emphasizing how special he is to her.He will eat anything, and he can guarantee her satisfaction.

But it doesn't seem to be the case with my mother.She will emphasize that she is mainly for herself and will not eat anything she likes, even if she says she can't finish it, she would rather leave it, and throw it in the trash can, she will not eat something she likes thing.And she will emphasize that she is not eating because of her.

Both have a bond with her.If Wen Huaijin's treatment of her can be considered love, it is the kind of drizzle and silent love that makes her feel nourished, free and at ease.

And a mother's love is like a strong sunlight.It has scorching heat, keeping her body from freezing.But at the same time, it's dazzling and leaves you nowhere to escape.

Wen Huaijin and her mother are alike but not alike.

Can you say that Wen Huaijin doesn't love her if he doesn't give her all the braised fish?cannot.She would have been able to eat without a single fish. If she couldn't eat it, she would end up throwing it into the trash can.

But my mother thinks that Wen Huaijin just doesn't love her.

Who is right and who is wrong?Or are they both right?

Lin Chujian's head started to turn again.

Since returning home an hour ago, her ability to think has also seemed to be locked in.Her mother's thinking affects her, so that she can only think under her mother's thinking, like an impenetrable wall.Blocked by this wall, she couldn't think about the thinking of the people outside the wall, let alone compare the thinking of her mother and the people outside the wall.

After Lin Chujian talked about how her mother treated her, she said she was silent.And what she described to him was enough for Wen Huaijin to analyze what her mother did.

Wen Huaijin didn't want to do this, but the psychiatrist couldn't stop himself from analyzing a person's behavior, which was engraved in his bones, especially when Lin Chujian was involved.

To him, Lin Chujian's description didn't sound like the normal behavior of a mother treating a child.Excessive maternal love, or excessive emphasis on maternal love, cannot be said to be better than ordinary maternal love.

It could be a form of mind control.

One reason is that Lin Chujian's mother had too high demands on her.The other is that Lin Chujian's mother imposes all her actions on Lin Chujian through excessive demands on herself on the surface.In this way, everything she did was because of Lin Chujian, including her love for her, including her accidentally hurting herself...

Under such control, children will form a living space pressure.In this kind of living space, she can only think through her mother's way of thinking, and thinks that everything about her mother is for her and is right.

And the idea that everything is for her is actually a kind of psychological kidnapping.This will make the child feel ashamed of the mother, for example, if it is not for her, the mother will have a better life, for example, if it is not for her, the mother can eat fish, for example, if it is not for her, the mother will not have to mention so many things by herself... It is to push the child into a dead corner. In this circle, the child goes from gratitude, to guilt, to being obedient and obedient. If this continues, the child will easily control the mother.

There are two reasons for the second situation.In the first aspect, the mother wants to control her because she loves her too much.In the second aspect, because the mother hated her, she packaged it with love, thereby controlling and destroying her...

Wen Huaijin didn't know what kind of situation Lin Chujian's mother belonged to, nor did she know if it was the second kind of situation, which one of the two aspects she belonged to.He lowered his head to listen to the silence on the phone, his lips were tightened when Lin Chujian described her mother's behavior to him.

After pursing his lips for a while, Wen Huaijin felt a kind of stiff numbness. He stood outside the cage, looking at Lin Chujian in the cage.He shouldn't open the cage for Lin Chujian, because he is not Lin Chujian's psychiatrist.But let him do nothing, and he can't do it.

"Is it a little uncomfortable..." Wen Huaijin asked.

Before he could finish his question, there was a chaotic and broken voice on the other end of the phone.

Hearing the voice over there, Wen Huaijin frowned, and just about to ask Lin Chujian, Lin Chujian said.

"Wait."

After Lin Chujian finished speaking, she walked out with the mobile phone on hand.

Lin Chujian went to the kitchen.

The sound just now came from the kitchen, and my mother was washing the dishes.After she ran to the kitchen, she saw the broken dinner plate on the ground, her mother squatting on the ground, and her hand stretched out to pick up the broken dinner plate
"Don't, don't touch it" Lin Chujian stopped with a startled voice.

However, amid Lin Chujian's screams, Lin Liping seemed to have lost her hearing. Her hand did not stop. She reached out and touched the broken dinner plate. The next second, her fingertips were crushed by the plate. The shards were cut and blood flowed on the white tiles.

Lin Liping's action was very fast.Lin Chujian didn't even have a chance to stop her. When she realized it, red blood and white tiles were pasted together in her line of sight. The red and white colors were intertwined and reflected in Lin Chujian's eyes superior.

Her pupils, accompanied by red and white reflections, shrank rapidly as if they had been drained of blood.With the constriction of the pupils, her heart burst open instantly, and Lin Chujian's whole body went numb, as if she had fallen into a pool of cold and fresh blood.

(End of this chapter)